posted November 23, 2010 04:15 PM            

I swear to God, it's straight out of some mystical romance with him, even when I think about it in my more calm, objective moments, being removed from the situation for a little over a year. We have been estranged since that period I just mentioned, but we've had the most chance meetings and everytime it's like we're seeing each other for the first time. We're both inclined to never be committed to other people, but it changes once we re-enter each others lives. It's truly bizarre, and I wouldn't be posting here if this wasn't something that really got under my skin - which it has, for the past 4 years, despite occupying myself with other people (we officially broke up in 2008 but were initially good friends in 2006).

posted November 23, 2010 06:57 PM            

There's a built in "break-up" aspect in the middle of all of this magical love. It's supposed to be there, but it's not supposed to be the brutal "heartbreak" type of break up, it's to make sure that you both go back to "normal" life and other families, etc. Then check in with each other.

The break up aspect is your Uranus conjunct his Saturn. It's like a cosmic alarm clock that tells you, "Ok, pass the information to each other, spend a few hours or days or weeks with each other, than have the discipline to walk away to get the job done separately." It's almost like life time spies or something, like an Angelina Jolie movie or something.

Don't be sad or angry when you leave each other because you'll come back together again when the universe says it's time. You probably won't have to wait that long either. I like this synastry, it's like what the Blues Brothers say, "We'll never get caught, we're on a mission from God."

posted November 23, 2010 07:50 PM            

For example, what if you are both captains of galaxy class ships in a Star Trek kind of manner. You wouldn't want to deprive him of this very specific life assignment and it's the same for you. But the one thing you both have in common is that you are truly "The Bad-A$$es of Space Exploration". He gathers information from the Beta-quadrant and you gather info from the Delta-quadrant. After several weeks or months or even years, you're both called back to Federation Space for special meetings of the Captains, but you both have missions to accomplish in your own way. You come together to exchange information about your Galaxy-Class ships, warp-speed variations, wormhole mappings and sitings and very important information on how to avoid The Borg, because "resistance is futile."

That's just an example, your adventures are probably more spiritual in nature, and maybe perhaps when you are both promoted to being Admirals in your 50's and forced to retire as Captains. But you'll both want to rebel and hijack 2 Galaxy Class ships again because adventure is in your blood...and you understand each other's needs, to be explorers, loners, rebels...Pee Wee Herman, if I may.

You may need to mature a little bit more to understand that you are a new generation and relationships are not exactly the same as when our parents were younger, even my own parents generation. I'm about 20 years older than you so my parents were married shortly before the sexual revolution, but divorced in 1980 because they were really so different.

posted November 24, 2010 07:36 PM              

It is a great relationship: you are so exciting to him; and he exemplifies some kind of image that you hold re: men and an image of your father to do with their very similar responses; ways of saying things; reacting; and humour.

It won't fit any established mold though - it is a unique entity; the relationship is like the love child of your two personalities. I see him as the feminine force and you are exhibiting the masculine energies - this is part of the confusion. He has taken a step back so that you shine - he doesn't want to quash the beautiful display of energy that you exude.

I would suggest living together - you will sort it out. You don't always give your masculine energy its head - at home you unleash your much protected and delicious to him - female energy and ways of going about your home space.