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Topic: Mars/Neptune synastry
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Yrone Knowflake Posts: 395 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 22, 2011 04:43 AM
Aye Our Synastry is funny like that, because it actually tells you the story even if you haven't the slightest in depth inside in astrology, just by taking the planets according to their main "keywords"/mythical roles. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 3982 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 04:45 AM
The conjunction can also encourage/suggest role playing.  IP: Logged |
StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 436 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 01:52 PM
I hope Mars conjunct Neptune is not mislead action. But I can sort of see that. My Pisces friend and I have Mars conj. Nep. exact. We love the fantasy talk, the anticipation, the build-up. Although when is comes down to the real deal it does not always pan out. Our time together is much better when things are not planned and it "just happens." We also have Moon conjunct Neptune in Composite. Would that be deluded feelings about the relationship? Yikes!IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Your ♥ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 23, 2011 01:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: The conjunction can also encourage/suggest role playing. 

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MyLibraWorld Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 18, 2011 12:56 PM
I have a 12th house mars square a 3rd house neptune-talk about fantasies Neptune dissolves boundaries and blocks in order to let the soul flow, it dissolves anything that can blind the soul, even the ego.
For me, when i act on neptune, by repressing, my mars becomes stronger, more erotic. My dreams become extremely erotic and my sexual nature becomes more intense, like i can feel my sexuality more strongly. But ti takes awareness, and dissolving of the ego somewhat. If you act on mars and neptune's bad vibes, you can become a nympho, acholic, drug addict all over something simple. Neptune takes all that martian energy and seeks to make it more grand so to speak, to peek it. Repressing for a minute from sex can make you see what the passioanate side of mars is truly about I have a **** load of fantasies and perfer to be seduced as i think seduction is a part of sex and its nature. I love mystery and strictly go off vibes, not superficial things. I am attracted to and act on heat, not on the shallow things like looks.
npetune and mars takes alot of work if stressed. For me i had to go thru the bad phases first, through self denial, self inflicted pain, inner blindness, drinking and drugging, submission, and finally enlightment and inner truth. At first, i hated it i hated finding the readings and how they summed it up badly, but later on, i took a plunge within and learned that neptune deals with depth, pluto deals with the bottom line and neptune deals with the levels and intrevals of whatever it touches. It taught me the levels and interevals of my mars, with anger and how to channel it, self control and passion and how all of them work from the soul. if you look at the bad, neptune doesnt have any boundaries. so you go down and drive yourself further down by succumbing to the dark side of neptune, the repression and stae of denial. But neptune places no limit of ascending either, you can go up and keep rising above any limitation
what it does love is subtleness and mystery and i know i come off as mysterious to many people. some women go for that bad boy reckless **** , i tried that image myself. But some women like who i am, how i carry out my plans subtlely and show myself through vibrations, not a big show. If you cant feel it, then im not there lol i could go on and on about my mars/neptune outlook
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CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Your ♥ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 18, 2011 03:35 PM
So about SYNASTRY.....IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6396 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 18, 2011 05:01 PM
Welcome to the boards, MyLibraWorld.  IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6396 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 18, 2011 05:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by CrazyAquarian: So about SYNASTRY.....
So about manners. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Your ♥ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 18, 2011 08:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: So about manners.
nothing to do with astrology  IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 18, 2011 09:18 PM
MyLibraWorld - What sign do you have this aspect in? I've never been seriously addicted to anything. I mean I joke around that I'm addicted to astrology and chocolate and sex, but I'm actually not. A lot of people think it's nuts that I've never been drunk and that I barely ever drink coffee (which are two typical things most everyone is addicted to) My conjunction is in Capricorn - 2' orb.Crazy Aquarian --- When you have a personal planet in aspect to an outer planet - as you said - you won't feel it with everyone in your generation. But it's very likely that you will feel it with people in your generation who have an aspect between the same planets. I have the conjunction -- and my first love had the trine. (Taurus Mars trine Cap Neptune). You always feel it, when it is a double whammy. -------- In my chart I love this aspect. I think it's great from many perspectives... and as usual I disagree with the biased and pessimistic take of certain astrologers whose name I'd rather not even mention (to cut down publicity). However - I think everything has the possibility to turn ugly... and when Neptune aspects turn ugly - it's VERY ugly lol IP: Logged |
MyLibraWorld Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 20, 2011 09:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: MyLibraWorld - What sign do you have this aspect in? I've never been seriously addicted to anything. I mean I joke around that I'm addicted to astrology and chocolate and sex, but I'm actually not. A lot of people think it's nuts that I've never been drunk and that I barely ever drink coffee (which are two typical things most everyone is addicted to) My conjunction is in Capricorn - 2' orb.
mine is 4 degrees libra mars,5 degrees capricon neptune. ts pretty exact and its good that you took neptunes good route, i had to go thru hell(well chose to)to see the gift IP: Logged |
MyLibraWorld Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 20, 2011 09:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Welcome to the boards, MyLibraWorld. 
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Mystic Melody Moderator Posts: 704 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 09:10 AM
I have the Mars conjunct Neptune in a composite with a man I have been obsessed with for 3 years. It's all part of our rock n roll fantasy.... my Saturn is conjunct his Sun and in the comp Saturn is conjunct the moon which means we don't talk to each other face to face (well, rarely)... just in a subtle constant deep overwhelming way. It's the strangest thing I've ever experienced in my life. I don't know what I would do without these boards where I can see others describe the things I sense but cannot discuss with the average person. I wouldn't believe it myself, other than the fact that there is no denying it. *sighAnyone else? IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 2225 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 09, 2012 09:49 AM
Not sure if anyone's seen this, just in case: http://d.scribd.com/docs/1btqcdqf2mg7kjkq938i.pdf It's a PDF file, you'd have to DL it to see, but I'll post the info on Mars/Neptune to make it easier. Synastry Neptune and Mars Because Mars and Neptune are antithetical in nature, it might initially seem that strong cross-aspects between them are invariably problematic. Some descriptions of this pairing are downright sinister, implying that the Neptune person leads the Mars person into corrupt ways. But despite its bad press, this combination, creatively handled, may eventually prove more fulfilling for both people than, for example, Moon-Neptune, whose regressive pull may be claustrophobic in a sexual or parent-child relationship, or Venus-Neptune, whose extreme romanticism may not tolerate aging or ordinary human foibles. The tension and antipathy between Mars and Neptune can sometimes become destructive, leading to cruelty and victimization within a relationship. Equally, it may generate enormous excitement, energy and creative enthusiasm:;-provided there is some consciousness of the dynamic involved. Neptune perceives in Mars' strength and vigor the redeemer as hero or heroine-tough, potent, decisive, and capable of making things happen in the world. Even if Mars is placed in a gentle or non-aggressive sign, such as Cancer, Libra, or Pisces, and even if the Mars person feels anything but heroic, the Neptune person will still idealize Mars' courageous spirit albeit expressed in a sensitive and tactful fashion. Neptune looks to Mars as a kind of champion: the one who will fight one's battles, protect one's vulnerability, take on the world, and perhaps "take" oneself as well. The sexual attraction between Neptune and Mars may be very potent, but the fantasies are rather different from those between Neptune and Venus. Neptune longs to be dominated by the superior strength of Mars, although such feelings are often deeply embarrassing to acknowledge on a conscious level because of the vulnerability involved. A man whose Neptune is in close conjunction with a woman's Mars, and who is used to seeing himself as the sexual initiator, may find it disturbing and threatening to discover that he longs for a reversal of roles, and sometimes feels-and enjoys feeling- dependent and helpless beside her. Mars, in turn, tends to flourish in the role of champion and protector, and the Mars person may feel stronger, more potent and more fulfilled because there is a worthy cause to fight for. Mars will happily play the knight, and Neptune the damsel in distress; regardless of gender, this is the archetypal dynamic behind the aspect. Mars is St. George, or Perseus, or Jeanne d'Arc, full of clumsy but sincere compassion, ready to strike down the dragon and rescue the prince or princess from danger, imprisonment or the world's lack of understanding. Neptune can invoke a greater sense of power in Mars; Mars can invoke an awareness of fragility and other-worldliness in Neptune. So far, all is well; Neptune inspires Mars to greater vision, and Mars provides Neptune with a shield against misfortune. But because we so often find Neptune frightening and dangerous to the ego's need for control, the Neptune person may refuse to acknowledge his or her dependency, or may experience deep unconscious envy of Mars' toughness and sexual power. Secret fear, envy, and dependency may provoke Neptune to undermine Mars' initiative and self-confidence, in highly manipulative ways which frustrate the Mars person and fan anger and even violence. Mars cannot fight underwater and, when baited, prefers the efficacy of a simple punch or shouting match. Equally often, Neptune may become addicted to being led; and Mars may eventually become weary of always having to wear suits of armor while Neptune relaxes in yet another warm bath. The sexual charisma of Mars, as perceived by Neptune, may seem untrustworthy and dangerous, because the protector might, at any point, go off and protect or conquer someone else. In an effort to bind the Mars person, Neptune may try to obtain protection through failure, illness or victimization, or may unconsciously undermine Mars' potency through subtle forms of rejection and evasiveness which keep Mars feeling uncertain and confused. Neptune can thwart Mars' need for clear-cut action, asking Mars to make the decisions, and then sabotaging the results. Or Neptune may resort to sexual coyness and deceit, baffling Mars' cruder but more honest approach to sexual matters. Neptune is adept at producing a classic "Not tonight, but maybe tomorrow" script; Mars is refused, but never directly, and the eager knight is kept hoping and waiting, 'increasingly furious and frustrated, while Neptune plays virginal, tantalizing, or a peculiar combination of the two. Ongoing frustration may draw cruelty and violence from Mars, as bear-baiting will draw savagery from the bear. Behind this sad enactment is the Neptune person's deep fear of losing his or her champion, whose strength and sexual magnetism are so idealized, and without whom one might fall into the abyss. The less the Neptune individual is able to honestly express his or her own capacity for aggression and creative potency, the darker the undercurrents are likely to be. The highly charged exchange of these two planets in cross-aspect can generate not only enormous sexual pleasure and fulfillment, but also inspired creative vision in both individuals. Neptune's imagination can be directed and earthed by Mars, in lovemaking and in creative projects; and if this contact occurs between two people who work together, it can be a wonderfully productive and rewarding combination. It is perhaps most difficult between parent and child, particularly if the child is Neptune and the parent Mars; for the Oedipal dynamic may be colored by darker themes. The faintly sadomasochistic edge of Mars-Neptune may be harmless and even highly pleasurable between adults, but can be extremely destructive enacted within the family fabric. Neptune possesses the gift of subtle frustration, which can invoke violence in a violent Mars. Feelings of guilt and shame may exacerbate the confusion. Yet it is not inherently pathological to idealize one's parent or one's child--erotically or otherwise. Pathology enters when there is unconsciousness and a blind acting out of emotions. Mars-Neptune in synastry may reflect covert sexual manipulation, subtle cruelty, and the loss of respect for one's own and the other person's boundaries. Yet Mars-Neptune contacts between charts are not "dangerous" or "bad." To offer its best, Mars-Neptune requires a greater degree of self-awareness than many other synastry aspects. But the rewards are worth the effort.
------------------ "The snake which cannot cast its skin has to die. As well the minds which are prevented from changing their opinions; they cease to be mind." — Friedrich Nietzsche IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9168 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 10:19 AM
Alma, how interesting, I was just reading about Neptune/Saturn from that same link, yesterday! Thank you for posting.
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5934 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 11:25 AM
quote: Venus-Neptune, whose extreme romanticism may not tolerate aging or ordinary human foibles.
OT,but spot on! IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1068 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 09, 2012 05:27 PM
I have had this conjunction very closely with like 3 different men, I dont think romantic, thats more venus neptune. The sex can go from absolutely divine and ecstatic to the most miserable and unsatisfying you ever had, No joke. There can also be an element of abuse, one astrologer said it was an indicator of possible rape or "being taken advantage of under the influence." In one experience of mine this was Precisely true.IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1068 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 09, 2012 05:30 PM
There can be great deception and "misrepresentation of one persons true character" be very careful of who this person really is. This aspect can make their actions seem like something their not and can lead to much confusion and deciet.IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup Knowflake Posts: 459 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 09, 2012 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: I have had this conjunction very closely with like 3 different men, I dont think romantic, thats more venus neptune. The sex can go from absolutely divine and ecstatic to the most miserable and unsatisfying you ever had, No joke. There can also be an element of abuse, one astrologer said it was an indicator of possible rape or "being taken advantage of under the influence." In one experience of mine this was Precisely true.
Were you the Mars or Neptune in this instance. I'm very sorry that happened to you. The guy I'm talking to atm has his mars conjunct my neptune in cap. we don't have enough of a relationship for me to give you anything substantial, though. With my first love my Mars sextiled his Neptune, but I don't think this was a major theme in our relationship. It was also so long ago I can't remember enough specifics to pin down this aspect. IP: Logged |
Sorcha Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2012 06:41 PM
Does anyone have an interpretation for a Mars/Neptune quincunx? My experience with it (I think) was that being the Neptune and my former partner being the Mars (in Cancer) was that when things were good they were very, very good and when they were bad they were beyond confusing. Like we literally just couldn't seem to connect in the one way we needed to at that moment.I'm sure there were other planets affecting this but that utter confusion/foggy feeling of disconnect is what I generally apply to Neptune. That's what it felt like. Would this be something anyone could relate to? IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1068 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 09, 2012 06:45 PM
I was neptune in all three instances and the orbs of conjunction were very tight, all like within 1* so this aspect played out very strongly. Its not romantic(maybe in the beginning) its decietful and if there is a negative mars or pluto theam it can be very abusive and destructive and does not do well for fidelety or longevity.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5934 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 09:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: I have had this conjunction very closely with like 3 different men, I dont think romantic, thats more venus neptune. The sex can go from absolutely divine and ecstatic to the most miserable and unsatisfying you ever had, No joke. There can also be an element of abuse, one astrologer said it was an indicator of possible rape or "being taken advantage of under the influence." In one experience of mine this was Precisely true.
So sorry to hear this,scrappy. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody Moderator Posts: 704 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 10, 2012 12:24 AM
Wow, Alma, I cannot thank you enough! <3IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9672 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 10, 2012 12:33 AM
There is a TON of astro material on Scribd I've noticed, straight from their books (!)IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody Moderator Posts: 704 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 10, 2012 01:47 AM
Thanks to you too, Lonake! Because of your comment I opened the link and began reading. Excellent content. IP: Logged | |