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posted December 24, 2010 08:52 PM            

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Have you experienced this conjunction? Which planet were you? Neptune is supposed to be the higher octave of Venus and is considered a benefic in this conjunction.

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Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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posted December 24, 2010 09:06 PM            

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Me the Venus, him the Neptune. I'm not sure if this aspect was the killer, but I'm leaning towards it. I thought he was the ideal man and I ignored red flags like crazy. Everyone else saw it but me. I now wonder what came over me to make me so intent on catching him and keeping him.

If I ever have another relationship, I'll be sure to watch out for this aspect. I might even run!

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posted December 24, 2010 09:15 PM            

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Platonic.

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posted December 24, 2010 09:28 PM            

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Thinking they are soooooo stunning.

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posted December 24, 2010 09:30 PM            

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I have my Venus oppose his Neptune(exact).I adore him.
Am I not seeing right?
I don't know cuz I am smitten so bad lol

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posted December 24, 2010 09:30 PM            

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posted December 24, 2010 11:39 PM            

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i had this with a guy...
i could tell him anything (i'm no actress, and he'd believe me 200%).
if i was like i really like you, he'd believe me.
i was forced to stay in that relationship (long story), but when ever he was upset or insecure, i'd say something totally bs and he'd buy it everytime.

i didn't mean to lie, or lead him on, just make him feel better, but i was really surpised at how easy it was.
inside i was really unhappy, and found him really selfish and uncaring, but i couldn't tell him that...

what bothered me as the neptune person, is that my goal wasn't too lie.....I'D PURPOSELY act badly, hoping he would catch me and see how ****** off/angry etc i was...but he never would....he'd just take the reasurance and forget about me

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posted December 24, 2010 11:44 PM            

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Only experienced it once (my Neptune) with a guy that I've had lots of strong synastry aspects with but he's a d*ck so.

I can't tell if the relationship was delusional or not. Maybe. I think we had too high expectations for each other.

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posted December 24, 2010 11:47 PM            

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I have alot of Neptune with Pisces.... It definitely makes me see him as MR. PERFECT... lol

The man can do no wrong, not that he doesnt frustrate me, because he does, but I just dont care and it doesnt bother me for long... lol

The Angels made him out of Lioness material and brought him to me... lol...

I got Neptune baddddddd... I know..

But at least its both ways....

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posted December 24, 2010 11:58 PM            

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I have my Venus conjunct his Neptune, as well as his Venus conjunct my Neptune...it's the best relationship of my life(can't speak for him..lol). Alot of Scorpio, his rising sign is Scorp as well. We have an awesome relationship, very loving, and spiritual...

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posted December 25, 2010 10:13 AM            

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posted December 25, 2010 10:20 AM            

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Dear Hmm
That is intriging.Who was the Venus and who was the Neptune

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posted December 25, 2010 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Dear Hmm
That is intriging.Who was the Venus and who was the Neptune

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i was the neptune...
lol but when i've been the venus, i needed his attention so bad, a smile was enough to convince me we were going to be together forever (we had other good aspects)...but yeah...
i don't like this aspect...unless it's on both sides...i'd almost perfer venus sq saturn....i feel it's the same...just with saturn at least you know where u stand.

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posted December 25, 2010 12:26 PM            

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OH LORD
*I* am the Venus

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posted December 25, 2010 12:31 PM            

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These experiences aren't very positive,are they...
But interesting is how people know what's problem and go with it and enjoy while they can.

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posted December 25, 2010 12:35 PM            

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Well,I am hoping that some OTHER aspects will balance my poor Venus out

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posted December 25, 2010 12:54 PM            

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I have this aspect with a Cap...I'm Neptune and he is the Venus. I do think he lies to me alot lol. But its ok. He deff knows I put him on a pedestal. This is the only time I've never been the Neptune, generally it plays out with Neptune Sun and Asc. Most of the ppl in my generation have Neptune in Cap, and my Sun and Asc are in the early degrees of Cancer...So I tend to get that in synastry. I will say that generally the best (for me) is negative Neptune both ways...or at least Neptune both ways, then its not so bad lol.

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posted December 25, 2010 01:08 PM            

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posted December 25, 2010 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]Well,I am hoping that some OTHER aspects will balance my poor Venus out

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idk. i think if it's too good to be true, it probably is
don't over estimate his feelings, promises, etc
TRY to stay grounded
if you do decide that fighting it is too much effort and decide to join him in his fantacy world just make sure u realize things are not as they seem.
it doesn't mean he doesn't like you at all, just that your perception is clouded a bit. [/B][/QUOTE]
i've noticed that a couple of the neptune ppl called the venus person jerks, etc....i think it's because they expect, ask for too much, so just try not to get carried away...
i've been on both ends of the stick,
being the venus, i know he can be like a drug to you, but these are just some things to watch out for.
and this isn't the only aspect you guys have, i'm sure you have things to even everything out!!!

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posted December 25, 2010 01:12 PM            

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OK---if you are the Neptune--- Do you put him on the pedestal?
I thought it was the OTHER way around.
Please,explain more from both sides ,if you could i.e.when you were the Venus and the Neptune.

Also, the Neptune(him) thinks *I* lie, not lie in the actual sense but am not trustworthy . grrrrrr lol

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posted December 25, 2010 01:14 PM            

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posted December 25, 2010 01:15 PM            

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sorry for all these replys i meant to edit, not quote..sorry

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posted December 25, 2010 03:17 PM            

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Well Ami...I've actually put them on a pedestal. I think for me (I have a natal Descendant Neptune aspect) Um its not so much that they can never do any wrong but I'll see the negative aspects and it won't matter. With the Cap he even says I see him as WAY much more nicer than he really is. And I think that the aspects manifest in different ways. I'd actually say the Neptune see's what they want to see because that is the nature of the planet. However I have seen it when people are the Venus or whatever and see things as an ideal. I tend to have Nep aspects with most of the guys in my generation and for instance my ex Aqua we had an Opposition with my Sun, Asc, and Mars. Plus an inconjunct with Mer (keep in mind his Mercury is in Pisces). Plus mine was Trine his Sun, Square his Moon, Quintile Mercury, and Trine his Mars.

There tends to be in these relationships where the guys think I'm the sweetest thing ever. Either way when the aspects are both ways may they be positive or negative they are soooo romantic and amazing.

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posted December 25, 2010 05:18 PM            

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I have venus oppose neptune in my natal. and if I am with any guy within a couple of years of me, yeah their neptune does it. it is hard, it is very easy for them to lie to you. In fact, if I didn' thave saturn in my first or pluto in my third..I wouldn't have ANY way of telling..even with those it is HARD if the other person has any strong neptune in their charts. If they dont have strong neptune it isnt as bad. yeah...this aspect can be harsh. know it for what it is..and it will help. I know it does help me with my artwork, but it also makes me an emo artist too..lol. dear god my poor friends.

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posted December 25, 2010 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well,I am hoping that some OTHER aspects will balance my poor Venus out

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man i really gotta learn to read the whole post carefully.
my examples were regarding venus sq neptune....sorry....
i don't know how the conjuction would play out. i think i had it once while i was venus and was all yup he's the one, he's perfect kinda thing....but i've never had it when i was neptune in a conjection senario.

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