posted January 14, 2011 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by lindaGreg:
These things are certainly not suitable for faint-hearted. It requires a lot of courage, individuality (not worrying what others think)and most importantly commitment to get into this kind of an arrangement in addition to what I have already said previously.

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posted January 14, 2011 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Alia:
usually if the man is the older part is mostly socially accepted..
but if the woman is the older.. is looked at as a wrong thing

it depends from the level of maturity things in common etc

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posted January 14, 2011 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
age is just a number as long as you love each other

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posted January 14, 2011 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
No, it's not too big.
If your friends are concerned then that means that it makes them uncomfortable.

Too bad for them.

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posted January 14, 2011 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by BanxxManxx:
Depends. lets see. If the girl or boy was 14 and the man or woman was 42, I would be concerned. If it were 18 and 46 I would still be a little like, wuttt. If it were 30 and 58 then naw, I wouldn't see a problem.

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posted January 14, 2011 05:13 PM            

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted January 14, 2011 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Lei_Kuei:
If they are both emotional mature about the situation I dont see a problem

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posted January 14, 2011 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by letram:
don't worry lexx, the difference is open mind.

its not unusual for people to fear what they can't understand.

what banxmanx said, makes ASTROLOGICAL SENSE.

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posted January 14, 2011 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
I don't think age should be that important, it bothers some but not others.

Personally I don't think it makes a difference as long as you're on the same wavelength, it's more important your values are complimentary along with the sex drive.

I think it's really bad that even today it's still not as acceptable for women to date younger men. Afterall; so many men are childish anyway so why not at least get one that still has his looks and a little bit of enthusiasm left

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Personally I don't think it makes a difference as long as you're on the same wavelength, it's more important your values are complimentary along with the sex drive.

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I think it's really bad that even today it's still not as acceptable for women to date younger men. Afterall; so many men are childish anyway so why not at least get one that still has his looks and a little bit of enthusiasm left

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Of course there are always exceptions, but those are my takes on it.

posted January 14, 2011 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Glaucus:

What's your opinion about Mary Kay LeTourneau?
She married the boy that she went to jail for having an intimate relationship with after 7 years of being in jail for it. They have 2 children together. She had her 2nd when she was in prison.

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I had to go google because I couldn't remember if she was the one I was reading up on the other week, he was only 13 when things started and that is too young. I've got childen and I must admit I'd go beyond crazy if this happened with any of them...there just isn't anything mature going on at that age.

It's definitely a complicated case..even now. Have you looked at their charts?

She did have a lot of mental health issues and this must have contributed.

posted January 14, 2011 05:59 PM            

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Um... Self-aware? Isn't it just a tad bit sad if you're 45 years old, but you're 26 on the inside? Immaturity, if taken too far, isn't exactly something to be proud of. Yeah, I know, I know, you're only as young as you feel, 40 is the new 30, etc... Still, how about a 45 year old finding another 45 year old who both "feel" 26 on the inside? Why do you have to only go for a younger person in order to "feel" that age?

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posted January 14, 2011 06:03 PM            

I really like someone who is a lot younger than me but he's unavailable right now, I couldn't care if he was 32 or 52 I'd still be attracted to him...but he's 22. The synastry is heavily plutonian both ways, composite has sun, merc,venus, pluto conjunction.

posted January 14, 2011 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by AcousticGod:
Well, the weird thing about maturity is that it's subjective and prone to interpretation (and a person can be mature in one area, and not in another). I've seen plenty of people that are older that act in some way immature. It's really about compatibility and seeing eye to eye.

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posted January 14, 2011 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Lexx
Yes, the older guys can be really stuck sometimes, I met one last year and all he did was talk about how irrational his ex was, another guy I know has really negative views about women and I just can't cope with it. I have enough with mothering my children and find it offensive that I'm expected to be Mummy to a man too. I don't mind cooking if I'm doing it anyway for the kids but I struggle when there are expectations placed on me that I am unable to meet up to.

I really like someone who is a lot younger than me but he's unavailable right now, I couldn't care if he was 32 or 52 I'd still be attracted to him...but he's 22. The synastry is heavily plutonian both ways, composite has sun, merc,venus, pluto conjunction.

I have read that venus pluto aspects especially can indicate those people that are able to transcend societal norms in relationships...this plays out for me but I don't know about others.

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I wish you luck with your love interest or any in your future.{{{hugs}}}
Oh, how old are you?
I will understand if you would rather not say.

posted January 14, 2011 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Glaucus:

What's your opinion about Mary Kay LeTourneau?
She married the boy that she went to jail for having an intimate relationship with after 7 years of being in jail for it. They have 2 children together. She had her 2nd when she was in prison.

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BOTH MUST IN MY OPINION BE OVER 18!
NO EXCEPTIONS!

posted January 14, 2011 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Glaucus:
ummmm

I am 39 years old
I feel that I am much better off with women much younger than me

I look much younger than my age,and I even sound much younger than how I look

anybody that has seen me and heard me speak on videos knows exactly what I am talking about

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Hi Glaucus!

I have similar case to you, I look much younger than my 33 years old and I must carry my ID at all times!

I used to have speech problems when younger but I think it was a trauma, and kids make fun of others when they speek sh*t in public...

Well, soon as I started to become confident (and it was suddenly)I sound like a parrot never shush! lol I even do interperting for few years.

I don't know about you, but I have 5 Retro Planets, includind Mercury!!
That may point to being slower than others communicating.

For younger looks, I read that Juno on the progressed and natal Ascendant gives a young innocent looks,my progressed Juno retro has been in the 1stH for ages and now is exactly on my Asc. My Asc Ruler is Venus retro in Aries, so I think it helps making me look like a mischivious child even more.

I went to find on my chart where progressed Asteroid "Young"(#2165) is retro and it's on the 1stH in Sag ruled by Pluto. Neptune is in the 1st as well, Planet of ilusions huh?

Retro planets have their advantage as well. It may reverse the ageing process lol

I tried to find OLD Asteroid, but there's only Old Joe (#10515),funny, that progressed Old joe is on the Descendant opposite my progressed Juno. I was always keen on older men...

This is theory of course, but it made sense to me!

Ast. Young trines my Saturn and POF. Some member in this site told me that Saturn rules the bones, hair, nails,skin etc... all that remains after we die.

Try yours Glaucus and share what you came up with( I think on progressed chart makes more sense). Actually this would be good to start a new thread...

posted January 14, 2011 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
[b]Lexx

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I wish you luck with your love interest or any in your future.{{{hugs}}}
Oh, how old are you?
I will understand if you would rather not say.

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Thanks for the luck, there's a few transits coming up over the next couple of months that may help...the attraction got triggered when Jupiter and Uranus went into Aries last year, I had a feeling things may stall even then. I can't change how I feel about him, I'm not sat here hankering and lamenting but I can't shift the feelings and will just see what time brings. In many ways I'm just grateful to be able to have the attraction. It's made me ask myself a lot of questions that had not come up before.

He does look older, I'm 37 and look a tiny bit younger depending on the sleep I had the night before lol,

I think it's easy for people to judge but if you tend to follow your heart then there will be a time in life when this happens, how can it not if you're honest with yourself?

I just want some genuine love and not a distorted concept of duty. I want depth of feeling and I want to be with someone because no one else would do...I don't want to be with just anyone, I want to be affected by the person I love. I couldn't let something silly like age get in the way.

posted January 14, 2011 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by filly:
Hi Glaucus!

I have similar case to you, I look much younger than my 33 years old and I must carry my ID at all times!

I used to have speech problems when younger but I think it was a trauma, and kids make fun of others when they speek sh*t in public...

Well, soon as I started to become confident (and it was suddenly)I sound like a parrot never shush! lol I even do interperting for few years.

I don't know about you, but I have 5 Retro Planets, includind Mercury!!
That may point to being slower than others communicating.

For younger looks, I read that Juno on the progressed and natal Ascendant gives a young innocent looks,my progressed Juno retro has been in the 1stH for ages and now is exactly on my Asc. My Asc Ruler is Venus retro in Aries, so I think it helps making me look like a mischivious child even more.

I went to find on my chart where progressed Asteroid "Young"(#2165) is retro and it's on the 1stH in Sag ruled by Pluto. Neptune is in the 1st as well, Planet of ilusions huh?

Retro planets have their advantage as well. It may reverse the ageing process lol

I tried to find OLD Asteroid, but there's only Old Joe (#10515),funny, that progressed Old joe is on the Descendant opposite my progressed Juno. I was always keen on older men...

This is theory of course, but it made sense to me!

Ast. Young trines my Saturn and POF. Some member in this site told me that Saturn rules the bones, hair, nails,skin etc... all that remains after we die.

Try yours Glaucus and share what you came up with( I think on progressed chart makes more sense). Actually this would be good to start a new thread...

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my speech delays/problems connected to dyslexia and dyspraxia

speech delays/problems are early warning signs of dyslexia,dyspraxia,and autism

I am primarily a visual,picture thinker instead of a verbal,word thinker
Therefore, I didn't learn speech/language from exposure like most children. I had to be taught.
I also used to have auditory reversals that led to speech reversals/unintelligible speech.
I had both auditory therapy and speech therapy to correct a good part of those issues.

the main issue is that my right hemisphere is overly active,and so it interferes with what the left hemisphere is supposed to be doing

ultrasensitivity is also connected to it
if a person is extremely sensitive to his/her surroundings, then he/she can get easily overwhelmed by things that effect the physical senses ,and so it can effect the processing of information. Confusion and disorientation can result. That's how I am

the confusion and disorientation can also be connected to the picture,visual thinking because words isn't natural for the picture,visual thinker to process

I have Neptune in 3rd, Mercury parallel Neptune,and Mercury conjunct Sun/Neptune midpoint that could indicate my overall nonlinear,visual,picture thinking as well as an ultrasensitive nervous system

retrograde Saturn in Gemini, Mercury contraparallel Saturn may indicate delays in language/speech processing

I actually tend to talk rapidly, disorganized at times, nonlinear fashion and in a way that can be rambling and tangential.
It's not manic nor schizophrenic speech though which psychiatrists once thought it was
It's cluttering.

I tend to talk very softly, sometimes been told that I mumble

I believe that its a combination of having a strong Neptune influence and strong transneptunian influence that indicate my neurodivergence which also fits with Indigo,Crystal,lightworker,starseed stuff

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posted January 14, 2011 08:11 PM            

ATALA

Atala in 14'03 Virgo in 1st
conjunct/oppose Ascendant/Descendant in 13'27 Virgo/Pisces

Geocentric North Atala Node in 13'39 Taurus in 9th
trine Ascendant/Descendant in 13'27 Virgo/Pisces
square Ceres in 13'57 Leo in 11th

Geocentric South Atala Node in 9'34 Scorpio in 3rd
square Lunar Nodes in 10'30 Aquarius/Leo in 5th/11th

Heliocentric Atala Nodes in 10'51 Taurus/Scorpio in 9th/3rd
square Lunar Nodes in 10'30 Aquarius/Leo in 5th/11th

Right Ascension:
Atala in 19'14 Virgo
conjunct Haumea in 20'15 Virgo
sextile Venus in 19'22 Scorpio
quincunx Eris in 19'32 Aries R

YOUNG

Young in 28'54 Scorpio in 3rd
square Mars in 25'54 Aquarius in 6th

Geocentric North Young Node in 11'44 Aries in 8th
conjunct Eris in 12'14 Aries R in 8th
sextile/trine Midheaven/Imum Coeli in 11'14 Gemini/Sagittarius

Declination:
Iduna 8'08 South
parallel Moon 8'31 South

IDUNA

Iduna in 17'56 Scorpio in 3rd
conjunct chart ruler Mercury in 18'21 Scorpio in 3rd
square Makemake in 16'20 Leo in 12th

Geocentric South Iduna Node in 12'56 Aries in 8th
conjunct Eris in 12'15 Aries R in 8th

Right Ascension:
Iduna in 18'06 Scorpio
conjunct Venus in 19'22 Scorpio

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posted January 15, 2011 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Thanks for the luck, there's a few transits coming up over the next couple of months that may help...the attraction got triggered when Jupiter and Uranus went into Aries last year, I had a feeling things may stall even then. I can't change how I feel about him, I'm not sat here hankering and lamenting but I can't shift the feelings and will just see what time brings. In many ways I'm just grateful to be able to have the attraction. It's made me ask myself a lot of questions that had not come up before.

He does look older, I'm 37 and look a tiny bit younger depending on the sleep I had the night before lol,

I think it's easy for people to judge but if you tend to follow your heart then there will be a time in life when this happens, how can it not if you're honest with yourself?

I just want some genuine love and not a distorted concept of duty. I want depth of feeling and I want to be with someone because no one else would do...I don't want to be with just anyone, I want to be affected by the person I love. I couldn't let something silly like age get in the way.

I'll have to check out those asteroids, I've got neptune and juno in the first, both in sag but with a scorp asc,

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