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Topic: mars indicate what a woman find attractive venus what a man finds attractive
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Anglerfish
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posted March 26, 2011 02:11 AM
  
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Mars conjunct Neptune works for me -- I find Pisces men sexually attractive. I'm not projecting this aspect though - It's also a part of my personality - That's why we click in the first place.
I have Mars/Neptune too... I just like musicians... I have enough Pisces to deal with and wouldn't want any more unless was Venus and it came with an Aqua sun/merc. ------------------
He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you."- Friedrich Nietzsche. ASC 29 Scorpio...
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Anglerfish
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posted March 26, 2011 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Too me this statement is false. I have Mars in Capricorn and I never liked Capricorn men or ones with Capricorn traits. At least in my case I find myself attracted by the sign of my Venus which is Leo.
Sorry for the generalisations here.
Cap men are horrible to me and are usually socially or emotionally retarded (Well the air/fire venuses are) but I find them nice to look at. It's so bad... I'd like to see if Cap Sun/Venus or Cap Sun/Pisces Venus act like they have a soul since I've never met one. lol my Venus is in cap too cj Dejanira and Saturn...fail. I think that I'm too Cappy and I just compete with them or I'm just a sooky Pisces. ------------------
He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you."- Friedrich Nietzsche. ASC 29 Scorpio...
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Anglerfish
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posted March 26, 2011 02:53 AM
As for what I agree withBy sign (Cap)
"she is generally attracted to competent men"
Yep
"She is looking for a certain level of security, and is unimpressed with men who are drifters, irresponsible, or flighty. A stable, directed man with goals in life and a responsible, even serious, attitude to life is important to this woman."
Yep BUT
By house (3rd/Gem)
"intelligence ranks very high on her list of ideal qualities in a man."
Yep
"An athletic or tomboyish look, sometimes on the slim side, is often preferred"
Yep "Versatility, liveliness, and playfulness are qualities in men that these women find devastatingly attractive."
Yep "They're not especially impressed with what they might consider "less evolved" types of men who display more typical, or traditional, masculine traits."
If traditional man = beer swilling sports loving neanderthal bogan than MOST DEFINTELY YES. "Depressed or boring types won't do. These women want to be stimulated, and their brains are their biggest sexual organs. "
Yep I think Mars by house is just important as Mars by sign. ------------------
He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you."- Friedrich Nietzsche. ASC 29 Scorpio...
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Herz_Aus_Stein
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posted March 26, 2011 04:09 AM
some light reading for saturday: http://www.sexualastrology.com/ IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp
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posted March 26, 2011 05:14 AM
I have venus in aquarius and mars in pisces......they are losely conjunct....over the midheavan....strangely i and aquarius get along....most meaning nine out of fifteen of my friends are aquarius.....or sagitarius......strangely i have mercury conjunct uranus....but i find libras are the ones...and cancers who fall for me in a deeply romantic fashion...Personaly i have had three capricorn relationships and they have all ended bitterly.....strangely i have jupiter and sun there....so the relationship was me doing all the giving......i am attracted to all signs therrfore except capricorn...and since i am an intellectual type....i dont become attracted until after i know...what sign they are.....i like pisces.....aries....libra....oh but not scorpio so much....thank my stinging mouthed sister.... IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted March 26, 2011 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
What about transgendered people?Or bixexuals? The idea behind that theory is that women will identify more with their Moons and Venuses and therefore seek out their Mars and Sun, while Men are supposed to identify with Mars and Sun and seek out Moon/Venus. I'm a straight woman but I identify more with my Sun (Aqua) and Mars (Sag) than I do with my Venus (Pisces) and Moon (Libra).
Like me, born hermaphrodite/dual gendered. (surgically "fixed" to be female and overdosed with female hormones to bring on puberty at age 8 and stunt my height)
Genetically female, but psychologically tested as having male brain/thinking processes.
Also male muscularity and bone structure (broke son's shoulders and collar bones whilst giving birth, pelvic bones would not move as a females do and I grow facial hair.
I definitely have gender dysphoria despite having been pregnant over 26+times and given birth once, and having large bosum.
I prefer androgynous men of any size or shape,
from the muscular yet sensitive types like Vin Deisel (rumoured to be Intersex also as I am) all the way to fragile and elf/vampire/pale/very thin like men like David Bowie was when younger, or even thinner.
Gay men/bi men, and or straight men in touch with their feminine side.
Trouble with exclusively gay men, as my ex is; my physical needs as a female are denied to me. Fortunately my sexual nervous system/network is both male and female.
Gay men easily sense my maleness and all my life to date I have physically dated or had physical relationships with only gay and or bi men and or straight or bi women, and or other hermaphodites(Intersex) or TGs of any kind; transexuals, transvestites and so forth.
With women I prefer straight women, (yes they are attracted to me, Lesbians are not because my masculine brain they pick up on and are turned off by it)Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Aqua
So as a mostly physical female and mostly psychological male;
what do I go by?
Or are both female and male to be considered considered as being Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aqua in my case?
And what does a Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aqua of either gender look for going by astrology? Venus in Scorpio
Mercury in Scorpio
Saturn in Scorpio
Mars in Aqua
Moon in Aqua
Jupiter in Cancer
Urnanus in Cancer
Neptune in Libra
Pluto in Leo
Cap Asc.
True node in Capricorn
Chiron in Capricorn PS. sorry for reediting so many times.
I kept screwing up.
LOL!
edit to add:
So do I have it right? As female I look at:
Identify with:
Aqua moon
Venus in Scorpio And seek out:
Mars in Aqua
Scorpio sun
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As male I look at:
Identify with:
Mars in Aqua
Scorpio sun And seek out
Aqua moon
Venus in Scorpio I am confused LOL!
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snarly
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posted March 26, 2011 11:45 AM
As both my Mars and Venus are in Scorpio 12th H, would that indicate that I am attracted to dark horses (which I am), or that I keep my attractions to myself (which I do), or even that I might enjoy straight and bi relationships? It seems such an intense placement, and I very rarely end up with people I would consider 'my' type.IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted March 26, 2011 12:32 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Transgendered for their original sex, so if they were born a woman they would read for Venus, if they were born a man they would read for their Mars.
Bisexuals are more fluid, since their preference isn't set, but they should still read for their opposite, so Mars for Women and Venus for men.
Trouble with that is it is the psychological mindset/brain, not the body born with nor reassigned gender, nor one's sexual preference or orientation.
IS THEIR MIND/BRAIN, MALE OR FEMALE, OR A BLEND?
If they were born a woman yet had a male mind, and had a sex change; FTM, or simply identified as male, which is still considered/identifying as psychologically being FTM, just not physical;
then in such a person, even though physically born female;
the male mind rules in my opinion, whether they identify as gay, bi, or straight.
They had the sex change from female to male because they identify psychologically as male. said about FTM and look at it for MTF.Transgendered does not mean only sex changes.
It is an umbrella term that covers a number of trans labels.
It depends on I feel,
the psychological gender one identifies with
not one's sexual preferences and or orientation.
So the psychological "man trapped in a woman's body" (and identifies as being straight, bi or gay man)
who is with a gay or straight or bi man....will be taken as being a straight female or a fag hag.
Reverse what I just said and apply to the "woman trapped in a man's body"
LOL!
Gets quite confusing. So I see it as being start with the gender one psychological is, not physically is.
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amowls**
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posted March 26, 2011 02:45 PM
Gender is also mostly a social construct. On the Male/Female spectrum, I think my brain is structured more like a male's. If I were to fall on a line, it would be in the center, but slightly male.That said, I think it's a great folly to ignore certain "love" planets just because of your gender. If you only try to fulfill your Sun/Mars, your Moon/Venus will be neglected and you won't be happy. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 26, 2011 06:10 PM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
Trouble with that is it is the psychological mindset/brain, not the body born with nor reassigned gender, nor one's sexual preference or orientation.
IS THEIR MIND/BRAIN, MALE OR FEMALE, OR A BLEND?
If they were born a woman yet had a male mind, and had a sex change; FTM, or simply identified as male, which is still considered/identifying as psychologically being FTM, just not physical;
then in such a person, even though physically born female;
the male mind rules in my opinion, whether they identify as gay, bi, or straight.
They had the sex change from female to male because they identify psychologically as male. said about FTM and look at it for MTF.Transgendered does not mean only sex changes.
It is an umbrella term that covers a number of trans labels.
It depends on I feel,
the psychological gender one identifies with
not one's sexual preferences and or orientation.
So the psychological "man trapped in a woman's body" (and identifies as being straight, bi or gay man)
who is with a gay or straight or bi man....will be taken as being a straight female or a fag hag.
Reverse what I just said and apply to the "woman trapped in a man's body"
LOL!
Gets quite confusing. So I see it as being start with the gender one psychological is, not physically is.
Well we're all a blend. I took what you said into account, like a woman being born identifying with men, then having a sex change (or not if the funds aren't available) the pull would be to the Venus.
I was thinking of this thread again this morning, because I've attracted a certain number of women and have been attracted to them in turn, but I didn't care if they were male or female all I knew was that I liked their strong masculine energy. So in those instances I was thinking back: do they portray what would be closer to my Mars or is it closer to my Venus, and it's closer to my Mars, with a shade of Venus..except that maybe my case isn't the best to draw from astrologically since my Mars is conj Saturn and my Venus is in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Nightingale
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posted March 26, 2011 07:10 PM
I am a woman, but my Venus controls my attraction largely, though I've noticed hints of my Mars playing a role in my attraction to men. But I'd say Venus.------------------
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nordicsoul
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posted March 28, 2011 06:30 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars in Cancer---Strong but gentle Venus in Gem---good with words 
Amy, which one prevails in your case? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 28, 2011 06:39 AM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
I have Mars in Gemini.
I was never attracted to a Gemini. I had a thing for a Gemini-esque guy though. But usually I like the strong, quiet, brooding types.
edit: okay so looked at the description on cafeastrology...
"If a woman's Mars is in Gemini, intelligence ranks very high on her list of ideal qualities in a man. An athletic or tomboyish look, sometimes on the slim side, is often preferred. Wittiness is a huge turn-on for these women. Versatility, liveliness, and playfulness are qualities in men that these women find devastatingly attractive. They're not especially impressed with what they might consider "less evolved" types of men who display more typical, or traditional, masculine traits. Depressed or boring types won't do. These women want to be stimulated, and their brains are their biggest sexual organs. " This sounds mostly right. Intelligence, athletic build, wittiness? yup. But tomboyish look? Not really, I'm also really liking the ''less evolved'' types. So that's not right either. Where would I have to look to get more clues? Mars aspects`?
i believe so, as well as mars ruler as well as the houses from which mars receive aspects. if one of them is more related to romance (5 or 7)they may give you a clue IP: Logged |
kitkat18
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posted March 28, 2011 09:05 AM
My mars is in Scorpio and I have been with a Scorpio for the past 5 years, my longest relationship. I definitely need a strong emotional, passionate nature in my mate to be attracted--not attracted to flighty types at all!!! My partners venus is in Sag, and he loves athletic women, definitely a turn on. So in my situation that is correct!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 28, 2011 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Amy,which one prevails in your case?
The words ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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VenusDiSirius
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posted March 28, 2011 10:08 AM
For me,my Leo Sun works the best,noble,good man(my perfect man;I am still attracted to different types).
I wouldn't change things based on sexual orientation,gay men should look at their Venus/Moon.IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 28, 2011 10:17 AM
I wonder if in the case of people who are identified with their mars and the type they are attracted has other things that reinforce thatI have mars-venus in cancer. I have neptune in 7th, which add to my taste for men with layers and not simple man. Mars is also the the ruler of my 7th (with pluto) as my 7th is in scorpio. aries in the 12 house cusp and pluto in 5h. Butplutonian guys are not my type and has never been so. probably because I am the one expressing the intensity. Piscis sun/moon people fascinate me.
on the other hand, mars conjunct venus-sun-mercury and sextile jupiter (in 5H cusp)is in 2nd near the cusp of 3rd. I like acomplished men, but who dont take things too seriously and has a silly side,with lot of air/fire in their chart and not too much water. He must be intelligent.
"If a woman's Mars is in Cancer, she may prefer the "sensitive type" of man who is compassionate, sensitive, and protective. These women sometimes are attracted to temperamental sorts, finding moodiness in a man rather intriguing. They want men with "layers" (remember Shrek?). However, they are not into the type of "sensitive" men that Mars in Pisces women are most attracted to. In fact, they generally want men who are strong and traditionally masculine. Generally, these women prefer men who are physically strong or at least look that way--remember that they love to feel protected" In summary, my mars in cancer define well what mars in cancers feel attracted to, but i will add the other things mentioned (which houses mars rule, where mars is located)and aspects to mars from which house (those aspects coming from 5 or 7) should be more powerful in defining the attraction IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted March 28, 2011 11:23 AM
Well, I also checked out that website at some point, but really couldn't find any immediate correlations to what was said.I think overall, it still rings true then; no matter what your gender is, Sun, Moon, venus and Mars will play a big role in your attractions I , however , must say that I have noticed that I am drawn to "airy" types of guys for friendships i.e Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. My Mars is in Libra. I do tend to share a very close bond with people who have a similar venus sign i.e Scorpio, Pisces and Cancer. Usually things turn romantic and deep too. I have Venus in Scorpio
I do like the moon in Cancer people I meet, although not all. I've found that Scorpio is more tricky to get on with but Pisces and Taurus mooners are childs play.We have the best of times together. I have moon in Cancer.
I seem to gravitate strongly to Gemini, Aries, Aquarius and Sagittarians most. I don't know what is casing all that because with my Ascendant being in Taurus, I am supposed to have a lot of "earthy" people around me. I don't. I have sun in Sagittarius. I reckon any long-term prospects , as far as relationships are concerned, are with Gemini and Aries. The attraction is often basic, strong and mutual. Sun in Sag
Moon in Cancer
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Libra
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AscTaurus
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posted March 28, 2011 11:25 AM
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention; Mars in Air of any sign is definately a deal-maker, no matter how "classically incompatible" the signs are. There is far too much evidence to dismiss this, but the bond is usually friendly and platonic.IP: Logged | |
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