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Topic: Moon Square Venus Paradox
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MagnumJoe
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From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 18, 2014 01:07 PM
  
Well, i rarely find both, however, i have NEVER been with a girl who hasn't both.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 18, 2014 01:19 PM
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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
Well, i rarely find both, however, i have NEVER been with a girl who hasn't both.
Good for you, Joe! I hope you do find what you're looking for! ------------------
~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 18, 2014 01:25 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
One day he announces me he got another girl pregnant (his ideal Moon image, perhaps). Initially he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, meaning he would move in with her but marry me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Isn't that the most hilarious thing you ever heard?!
OMG.... wtf...
Do you have my email..?
i don't really want all my dirty laundry to be all over the place IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 18, 2014 01:29 PM
I don't have it, Kero. ------------------
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Kerosene
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posted March 18, 2014 01:30 PM
yas I love that movie!IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted March 18, 2014 01:47 PM
Thanks, MagnumJoe  Very good point aslo on the modal connection. It is said that a guy with moon trine venus has an understanding to women, which makes him nice. I know i have this level of understanding, but i tend to be on the rougher teasing side. Like a bitter sweet attitude. Interesting. I guess Moon square Venus men also understand and love women since they have this connection, any Moon Venus contact helps in this respect. They probably have a "naughtier" approach, like their women a little bit "naughtier" and also arouse "naughtiness" in women  IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
Knowflake Posts: 446
From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 18, 2014 03:09 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Thanks, MagnumJoe Interesting. I guess Moon square Venus men also understand and love women since they have this connection, any Moon Venus contact helps in this respect. They probably have a "naughtier" approach, like their women a little bit "naughtier" and also arouse "naughtiness" in women
Red handed and Guilty as charged  I do like always to stimulate the dark side IP: Logged |
summerlite
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 04:38 PM
Want to solve it? Try dating someone who hits your Moon-Venus midpoint.
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Belba
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 18, 2014 06:02 PM
What about dating a guy whose Moon-Venus square (Gem-Pisces) makes a grand square with my Moon-Venus square (Sag-Virgo)?
Would that be a wise idea? Or would that just intensify the confusion of the natal square?I actually know one guy that has that, but I don't really know him well. Just hypothetically speaking - how would that aspect show itself? Probably in an aggrandized mutable fashion? IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
Knowflake Posts: 446
From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 18, 2014 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by Belba:
What about dating a guy whose Moon-Venus square (Gem-Pisces) makes a grand square with my Moon-Venus square (Sag-Virgo)?
Would that be a wise idea? Or would that just intensify the confusion of the natal square?I actually know one guy that has that, but I don't really know him well. Just hypothetically speaking - how would that aspect show itself? Probably in an aggrandized mutable fashion?
I think if you like feminine nitpicking, jealousy, possessiveness, gossip, and general negative feminine attitude, then go for it IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
Knowflake Posts: 446
From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 18, 2014 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
I don't have a square aspect but it squares by sign so I can see why this happens.Want to solve it? Try dating someone who hits your Moon-Venus midpoint.
Wanna know something weird? My moon-venus midpoint square my sun exactly! MP is 0.5 libra/aries, while my sun is same degree cap! This makes me a square person: i love sun square sun! I love early degrees of libra, aries, cancer and cap. I have soft spot for those. Especially libra. IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 19, 2014 01:35 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Like I said, I don't understand what you people go through. I don't understand what it's like to not be satisfied sexually and emotionally with the same partner. I do not understand why one person cannot satisfy both in your eyes. Talking strictly from the partner's point of view, because I've been there OFTEN, including with both my ex-fiancees (one had Gemini Moon and Sag Venus, the other Gemini Moon and Virgo Venus) and many other crushes, I feel downright offended and hurt that they think I am not enough for them. It gets me on a self-doubting down-spiral that, as a proud Fire woman, will not tolerate. Because I deserve to be enough for someone, as I am. And I will have nothing less. To give you an example from my personal life, my first fiancee probably saw me as Venus, but not Moon. We barely talked about kids (which I wanted very, very much) but we talked extensively about sex. We had a pretty insane attraction, too. One day he announces me he got another girl pregnant (his ideal Moon image, perhaps). Initially he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, meaning he would move in with her but marry me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Isn't that the most hilarious thing you ever heard?! I still think it was deeply insulting to be asked that and it left me bewildered and hurt on a very deep level. Because, silly me, I actually loved the jerk. I wished him safe riddance nonetheless. Put yourself in the other's shoes and imagine what would it be like to hear that she loves your company and you're a wonderful person but she isn't quite attracted to you or that she is attracted to you but thinks your personality sucks. How would it make you feel? Would you stay in such a relationship? Do you think it's fair to you?
Oh, Lord. I thought I was the only one *sigh*
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Dancing Maenad
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posted March 19, 2014 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
Oh, Lord. I thought I was the only one *sigh*
We should start a club!  ------------------
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dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 19, 2014 02:45 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
We should start a club!
YESS!! So we can share our pathetic stories!!  IP: Logged |
whaaat
Knowflake Posts: 644
From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 03:55 AM
I've got Moon opposite Venus :P It totally gives me this duality as in Agape vs Eros for I am like a fairy and fairies are very small so they can only experience one emotion at a time  IP: Logged |
whaaat
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From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 04:00 AM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
Would you mind explaining this a little further....perhaps in a new thread so it doesn't detour this one? My moon is opposite my venus and ascendant, and I've always felt I was doomed in terms of relationships due to everything explained in this threads about moon square venus, but it appears I missed something. yaaay for hope!
Seconded! More info please (if anyone still lurks here)
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12muddy
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posted June 22, 2014 04:19 AM
Hah I have the square. Solution is to find one person that satisfies both. Lover n partner roll up in one. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 1386
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 05:04 AM
I have the semisquare, my moon is in Virgo, my Venus in aqua. I need stability, but at the same time independence and freedom to breathe. It's difficult because my moon usually gravitates towards taurus's but then I find out they are trying to restrict and limit my aqua Venus needs and it annoys me. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 05:04 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Hah I have the square. Solution is to find one person that satisfies both. Lover n partner roll up in one.
You make it sound so easy. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 05:13 AM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Like I said, I don't understand what you people go through. I don't understand what it's like to not be satisfied sexually and emotionally with the same partner. I do not understand why one person cannot satisfy both in your eyes. Talking strictly from the partner's point of view, because I've been there OFTEN, including with both my ex-fiancees (one had Gemini Moon and Sag Venus, the other Gemini Moon and Virgo Venus) and many other crushes, I feel downright offended and hurt that they think I am not enough for them. It gets me on a self-doubting down-spiral that, as a proud Fire woman, will not tolerate. Because I deserve to be enough for someone, as I am. And I will have nothing less. To give you an example from my personal life, my first fiancee probably saw me as Venus, but not Moon. We barely talked about kids (which I wanted very, very much) but we talked extensively about sex. We had a pretty insane attraction, too. One day he announces me he got another girl pregnant (his ideal Moon image, perhaps). Initially he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, meaning he would move in with her but marry me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Isn't that the most hilarious thing you ever heard?! I still think it was deeply insulting to be asked that and it left me bewildered and hurt on a very deep level. Because, silly me, I actually loved the jerk. I wished him safe riddance nonetheless. Put yourself in the other's shoes and imagine what would it be like to hear that she loves your company and you're a wonderful person but she isn't quite attracted to you or that she is attracted to you but thinks your personality sucks. How would it make you feel? Would you stay in such a relationship? Do you think it's fair to you? As for the ways around it.. I am skeptical. I think this aspect will show it's ugly teeth sooner or later regardless of them. You may think they compensate and for the most part maybe they do. But you can't keep it nice and smooth forever, unless you're really faking it and it only takes one slip to have it all come to end. I've learned that the hard way.
Well even if you don't have the same problem it shouldn't be that hard to understand. We just have sh*tty luck when it comes to finding people who meet our physical and emotional needs. Like right now I have a female friend who I love to death, we always have a good time and can talk for hours. But i'm not attracted to her in a sexual way at all! But I wish I was! Damn I wish I was! Because I would wifey her up in a heartbeat.IP: Logged |
12muddy
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 05:35 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
You make it sound so easy.
Hehe it's not but ya know sometimes one gets lucky. Finding the "right" one was one part of the story. The other part was that I adjusted myself too, reconciled the needs of the moon n venus. IP: Logged |
TuxLuigi
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: France
Registered: May 2014
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posted June 22, 2014 10:12 AM
I have Moon square Venus, but to be honest, I've never had an emotional or sexual connection to another person (friend or lover), except for my current partner, who fulfills both my Pisces Moon's needs and my Gemini Venus' needs. I haven't had yet the problems that supposedly come with Moon square Venus.And beside, the ideas of having two different partners, or separating sexual and emotional needs, feels very wrong to me. I don't hate people who do like that sort of thing, but it's not my cup of tea at all. IP: Logged |
charlie
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 10:35 AM
This has been my predicament for 20 years bar 5 when I actually met someone who did it all for me. We evolved apart after 5 years together and I left, before I cheated...but ever since that ended things have not been the same. I have Moon opposite Venus. Doesn't help Venus being sq Uranus either...
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milone
Newflake Posts: 20
From: Belgrade, Serbia
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 28, 2014 08:13 PM
Hi ppl
I am so happy for running into this forum, because this subject has been occupying my mind for some time now, so I have question about that.
I had one significant relationship 3 years ago, but at that time he had to move on the other side of the world and I couldn't go, so we broke it off. After that I have been in one relationship (it was also serious one, we lived together and had plans..) but since I never get over that first one we broke up, and now I'm considering to restart relationship with him and move in that country where he is. He is also still in love with me, and everything seems great, BUT, he have his venus square his moon, and my venus is in opposition with my moon. We both have aquarius moon, his venus is in scorpio, and mine is in leo. So, here is link to our synastry chart http://www.astro.com/tmpd/ct37fileWnVwPr-u1345285834/astro_61gw_01_10_ja_s.4133.20643.gif ( mine chart is inside, his is around), and I would be really happy if somebody of you give me opinion about our compatibility. What do you think, should I go for it?
Thanks in advance
p.s. english is not my native language, so if I made some mistake, sorry IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted December 01, 2016 04:43 AM
i think i am allways single because i just cant decide if i want to be with someone,do i need that in my life,i ask myself? I know i desire it,but do i need it? All the stress to be with someone,to throw your heart infront of their feet so they could just one day kick it ,or you woul decide to retrive it from them because you are over it....And when i fall for someone hard,they seem like they dont notice me,like i do not exist,like i am transparent for them - we might be in the same room,but guys i really like would dismiss my existance,so id give up IP: Logged |
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