posted April 17, 2011 03:19 PM            

Venus/Pluto,to answer your question, calls up your primal self.It brings it to the fore.
You may want to stay unruffled with every hair in place.
Venus/Pluto won't let you.
It uncovers you .
As you find him and us,you find YOU.

posted April 17, 2011 05:12 PM            

I have never been the pluto person.. always the venus person... I bet it would be different for me, if I was the pluto person..

Note to self: Stay away from early Cap/aries/cancer Venus

It's more of a natal aspect for me, and my internal self..

But as most of you know, when I felt that moon/pluto thing... (since Im higly pluto) I really felt it then.. It was overpowering and was felt deep inside my entire being..

posted April 18, 2011 08:06 PM            

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For me I have Venus/pluto with everyone in my age group

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posted April 18, 2011 08:18 PM            

With my generation whose Plutos all aspect my Venus, there's no big whoopie thing for me, I mean I never wanted for a partner while around them exclusively in school, but there weren't any strong venus/pluto themes in the relationship. If anything I thought they were easier to relate to cos we shared an outer planet in Sadge, which I don't share with those older or directly younger. Makes it soooo much easier.

posted April 18, 2011 10:02 PM            

I have this aspect with someone, and I can verify that it is an extremely intoxicating aspect. On the Pluto end, you just can't get enough of Venus.

PLUTO-VENUS ASPECTS IN THE SYNASTRY CHART
Venus/Pluto in dynamic aspect can generate a sort of obsessive/compulsive partnership, one where the relationship creates situations and circumstances that compel us to dive into ourselves and understand just why we're so obsessive about this other person. Sometimes we'll even wonder just why we're so attracted to the other, and not even have a sound logical explanation to give ourselves, aside from a sort of feeling of entering the event horizon of a massive black hole. And that black hole is playing such beautiful music, or so it sounds through the power of Venus's attractive principle, that we just cant help but get sucked in. There's a bit of karma to all this, of course, and Venus/Pluto pairings often indicate the destination is personal transformation. Sometimes it only really makes sense in hindsight, after Pluto's power has subsided (and that's not quickly, either), or we've transformed enough that we need to move on.

There can be issues of trust, jealousy, and honesty that make themselves loud and clear at times. It becomes hard, and at times near dangerous, to attempt to hide anything from the other or ourselves regarding the relationship. They either pick up on the half-truths by their intuition or use investigative means (covert or overt) to get to the bottom of things. Just as Pluto deals with investigations and revealing all that is hidden, so does the Venus/Pluto relationship function. Depth is a keyword in all it's meanings to these relationships, from psychological right down to the perversion of that word.

The soft aspects are more favorable, but the hard aspects can be much more rewarding if they are applied in positive manners. These Venus/Pluto relationships have the potential for deep transformations to take place, and for either or both parties to overcome difficult relationship issues. Pluto's influence purifies by exposing all that is maligned in anything it touches. As the relationship can take on some darker undercurrents, the natives get a chance to face parts of themselves they may not otherwise face without a Plutonian dose of compulsion. This can create tensions and highlight personal lackings, which can have a negative impact, but if both parties are open and honestly communicate the experience, and are mutually supportive, this can actually act to deepen the bond between the two in a major manner. It all depends how the natives handle the energy, whether they let it remain an damed up undercurrent where it becomes corrosive or if they actively engage the process. If one party in the relationship doesn't feel comfortable enough with the other to open up these repressed psychological patterns, which are hard enough to face in oneself let alone share them with another, the basis forms for the more corrosive expression of this energy. This is often how Venus/Pluto relationships end; one faces a Plutonian challenge of purification which is withheld from the other, which leads to an array of blockages and a notable change in the energy exchange between the individuals. Both parties feel it, things start seeming "off" and the decline begins. In relationships exhibiting Venus/Pluto energy as a primary factor, one should always remember nomatter how dark and difficult facing something is, it's better to get it off your chest than to let it fester. The fixed emotional (water) nature of Pluto makes this a serious danger. Sometimes this means revealing to your partner some things about your inner self you may rather keep hidden, but hey, that's a huge theme of Pluto: facing your darkness. By bringing these things up to the surface, the process of purification can begin in a non-corrosive manner; as the light shines upon the darkness it is transcended and resolved. In the same manner, it is important for both parties in a strong Venus/Pluto bond to avoid passing any form of judgment on the other, even if the other was to reveal a particularly distasteful part of themselves. It's important to promote acceptance and dissolution of personal guilt; guilt is the enemy of successful transcendence. One should remember their own dark side before passing judgment on anyone else; we've all got one, and the thought that any of us are angels is but a fallacy... And a dangerous one at that!

Plain and simple, the sexual potential in Venus/Pluto relationships is high; it serves as an intensive means of bonding and interpersonal connection on a soul level. Sex is more than something physical under these influences. Sex on a physical level is more of the Mars/Pluto domain, where it may be better described by the common four letter expletive, although that is sometimes what people enjoy more. All depends on the natal makeup. Regardless, Venus/Pluto serves to focus the sex act on the passive attractive ("togetherness") principle of Venus rather than the active aggressive ("alpha male") principle of Mars. This can work as a positive or negative thing depending on the desires of the people involved... But either way sexual attraction runs strong.

posted April 18, 2011 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:

I like Moon/Pluto too, love it actually.

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posted April 19, 2011 12:00 AM            

for me its way more intense the venus/pluto..

I actually do like the moon/pluto feelings, as long as you never break up.. LOL...

posted April 19, 2011 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
Why is that?

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posted April 19, 2011 12:26 AM            

I have had the easier aspects before, I felt it, but I wasnt afraid of it.. You dont fear loosing that person... You just figure that person will just always be there... Or ahhh he/she will be back, and you just sit back and wait.. lol

posted April 23, 2011 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
OO that moon pluto is extremely intense..

for me its way more intense the venus/pluto..

I actually do like the moon/pluto feelings, as long as you never break up.. LOL...

Its the breakup thats torture and extremely painful.

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posted April 25, 2011 02:05 AM            

It does not create feelings its self, it makes you really feel, what ever you REALLY feel... You have to face it and deal with it...

If one feels hate, that person will hate intensely with all their gut and soul. Then they will feel the power struggle side

posted May 18, 2011 12:35 PM            

for me, i need passion in my relationships. Some have been very very cold relationships and some have been unforgettable

I think pluto/venus is what you long for in a relationship but seem to miss due to some deep rooted insecurity or out of pure control and manipulation

It makes for destructive relationships that are very dark and mysterious and very unbalanced, with one side being the hot side and the other being the cold one

i've experienced both sides, never in between

but i know now that my relationships must be passionate, hot as hell's fire and feels just as consuming. otherwise, it is cold as ice, with one person being completley distant while the other one chases, like cat and mouse

and sex, completly different for me especially when im the one on fire, its a desire in relationships and can totally change the way you feel towards that person.

but yes, my relationships are either passionate and hot or just intense and cold as it becomes a power struggle

posted May 18, 2011 08:18 PM            

I must admit I am generally oblivious when other people feel this aspect to me. I have had some admittances of feelings and thoughts which were fairly descriptive. Few and far between myself I may become slightly obsessed with a girl, its like I just can't take my eyes away, I want to see them, hear them touch them just be with them. More often than not when I feel this way I notice they reciprocate although most of the time the time frame of interaction is extremely limited. Whether this is connected to a Venus/Pluto aspect, conjunction in my case, I don't know. All I know is that when I feel it it is a feeling I enjoy it makes me feel connected.

posted May 18, 2011 10:52 PM            

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All I know is that when I feel it, it is a feeling I enjoy it makes me feel connected.

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I understand that. I have the opposition. But I know what you mean. I like the feeling of deeply caring for someone in a mutually loving connection.

Love is never a game to me. It has to be mutual for us to experience it to the fullest. I'm either in or I'm out. If they are only in half-way or undecided, I cool down completely.

posted May 19, 2011 12:24 AM            

We have DW Venus/Pluto

and

We have Moon/Pluto (conjunct by sign)

Plus

Eros (me)/Psyche (him) conjunct by sign

And

A whole lot of Saturn stuff

posted May 20, 2011 02:16 AM            

As far as this aspect goes in synastry, I have mixed feelings on the validity of what most online sources say. If it is true that this connection is transforming, my personal opinion is that the orb would have to be really tight or exact to count, because Pluto is so slow moving....

A simplification: Pluto stays at XX degree for quite some time, so if your Venus is at that degree, you have this synastry aspect with everyone born in that time period. That doesn't mean you will feel this transforming, surrendering soul connection with ALL of them. For me, my Venus is a little bit ahead of my Pluto, so the Pluto group that my Venus is conjunct to is the group born about five months after me, and then again the summer of the year after that, because Pluto went into retrograde. The only thing I can really say about this is that I remarkably have very little personal relationships with people from these age groups. Perhaps my natal Venus being conjunct Pluto makes this aspect a bit of a blind spot for me? I'm not sure. And even though I certainly enjoy Venus in Taurus, I have never met someone whose Venus opposed my Pluto, even loosely.