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Topic: best match for Aries woman?
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carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2012 03:26 PM
I still do not.Maybe that things just go faster, cut to the chase kind of thing. I don't want to waste my time. Repel? Nearly everything else? The ones I know are extremely petty and unforgiving of others flaws without being self aware themselves. Moon = aries, sun = scorpio. IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 03:33 PM
Not all of them like this ... my sun is in aries at 0.52 degrees ... I had the best relationship with a scorpio guy with cancer moon and ASC ... he died ...
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carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2012 03:42 PM
I am sorry to hear that.The one aries that did rip my heart apart was maybe 0.24 to .45 in Aries herself. I deeply loved her but she made loads of promises that she ended up reneging on at almost the snap of a finger, a trait I find to be prominant not just in her, but all aries. That is, saying lovely things that end up collapsing in due time for no real apparent (solid) reason. Though she seemed different in many ways from a typical aries. I think one of her close planets (venus or mercury or something) was in pisces and 1-2 others in taurus. But anyway, I think If I take a light hearted approach and NOT take ANY word(s) all too seriously, no matter how intensly powerful they are or what the situation is (even if gf), they can be bearable. that is my lesson to take away from it all. IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 03:54 PM
I hope your heart won't be ripped again IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2012 04:05 PM
Me too.Wonder if there is anything such thing as a (highly) evolved aries with some of the fast moving fun as well. IP: Logged |
Odette Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 04:39 PM
Do you personally love yourself?On LL of late you seemed very intent on finding a gf. If life closes doors for you, there might be a reason. Maybe you are not ready for a relationship. Overthetop ego is negative.. but being able to love yourself is important. So many people hate themselves and wonder why they don't attract love. ------------------ Cap Moon-Pisces Merc-Taurus Venus-Cap Mars conj Neptune-Pisces Jupiter. These are my placements. If you are a friend of mine then you probably know who I am. Please don't post it on LL. If you are unsure - you can email me on the email in my profile. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2012 05:03 PM
I don't love or hate (myself), I just am. I exist. Maybe if anything, I don't know where the passion is. I don't want a gf as much as just a companion though I guess I use "gf" a lot.IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 1439 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 05, 2012 05:40 PM
I don't know, Carl, did you ever think that maybe you are attracting these Aries women for a reason? I mean, we all attract a certain type of people, meant to teach us something about ourselves. We all have a "type" for a reason. Why do you think they keep appearing in your life? I'm sorry that you were disappointed, though honestly you have Ven conj Neptune - it is in YOU and you need to acknoledge it or the Universe will keep sending Aries women to disappoint you over and over again until you get it (whatever it is you're supposed to get lol). Seems like you need to practice a bit of what you pretend from them as well - self awareness.  Odette, Though you weren't addressing me, wanted to say that I needed to hear (again) that thing about self love and getting ready for (meaningful) relationships. Thank you for that!
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Odette Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 07:32 PM
quote: I don't love or hate (myself), I just am
Ok.... But - In general - Do you find the notion of *loving* oneself.. more abhorrent than the notion of *hating* oneself? OR -- Do you have something against the very idea of feeling *anything* FOR oneself? Does that seem like too much self-focus, from your perspective? Kind of like people should not even think about themselves *enough* to feel anything at all FOR themselves. If your answer to that is 'yes'... then - Would you go as far as to say that it makes you cringe? IP: Logged |
Odette Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 07:33 PM
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carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2012 01:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Does that seem like too much self-focus, from your perspective? Kind of like people should not even think about themselves *enough* to feel anything at all FOR themselves.
Yup, that makes sense, especially the second sentence. Just those two sentences however, nothing else.
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