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Topic: best match for Aries woman?
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 02, 2011 09:59 AM
I am an Aries girl and I have always wondered which sign exactly suits us the most.so please share your experiences , like what other signs have you had experiences with and what it was like.. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 675 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 10:27 AM
I've seen Aries/ Sagittarius couples work really well! IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1598 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 10:50 AM
The longest relationship I've been in was with a Gemini. But that quickly became a nighmare after a few months. I leaped in to that one with out really looking.I always have an instant spark with Aquarius. But I notice for me it's difficult to be on the same page with them. And I am starting to think, man what is it about Libras? They are the best to flirt with, best kissers, and they really pay attention to what you like...(even this one dude who was an *ssh*le from the start.) they will pay attention to your face expressions so they know what to do to get you hot. Scorpio...I useally don't get along with guys who have the sun here. Definetly attracted to them though. Cancers (or dude with lots of Cancer in chart) Not a good match for me. They are not independent enough. Pisces, just a friend Another Aries, pretty good. Leo, also good. Just try not to hurt their ego. Saggitarius, good friend (with benefits sometimes) I like to talk with these people. Taurus, I met one who was a player creep, not the tipical Taurus. And for the others, it's kind of hot that they don't need to say much. Virgo, even when there is an attraction, nothing much happens. Cappricorn. I'm attracted, they seem to have alot of energy, and work really hard. I dig that. They can be pretty crazy too, in a good way. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 940 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2011 11:05 AM
My soulmate is a Scorpio which everyone says isn't a good match for an Aries so I guess a lot of other placements and the rest of your chart is just as important as the sun signs. We're getting married in August and it's by far the best relationship I've ever had or could ever imagine having.I dated a Capricorn for 3 years. Nightmare relationship - very love/hate/love/hate. We were young, though, so that probably made it worse. Plus he slept with every other skinny girl with a pulse. I dated a Gemini for 2 years. It was alright but in the end he just ended up irritating me to no end. That was almost 20 years ago and every so often he'll pop up in a dream I have and he is ALWAYS being annoying in it and won't shut up. I was married to a Cancer for far too long. HUGE, massive mistake. He tried to turn me into June Cleaver, control me, keep me from having friends, was jealous and possessive. He expected the sun to rise and set with him and for me to find all my happiness and entertainment through him. In the mean time had double standards, went out to nightclubs all the time and slept with other women. IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2011 11:54 AM
Hi, im an Aries too, and personally i think that my next bf could be a cute Libra guy  Btw, the major loves in my life so far were both Scorpio suns (i have sun in the 8th, so not a big surprise) And although i still admire Scorpios, i experienced way too much power struggles with them... When i was young i was fascinated by Virgo men (my Asc and Moon sign), but i had to realize that im not really attracted to them sexually, they are rather for friendship. I cant imagine myself with any fire signs, at all, but thats because of my Virgo-Pisces placements. IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 2241 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2011 12:47 PM
Sun means very little in relationships, though I can say that Aries, Pisces and Taurus are excellent matches for Aries Suns. Why? Mercury and Venus always transit close to Sun, which means you will have 3 planets (Sun, Mercury and Venus) all within 60 degrees of each other.With people the same age, you have Pluto, Neptune, and Uranus all close, while Jupiter and Saturn should also be close together within a year or two. IP: Logged |
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posted May 02, 2011 01:06 PM
I'm quite Arian and find myself HIGHLY attracted to Leos, however our personalities don't seem to mesh well. It's frustrating because we always have a psychic connection and yet we don't really understand each other. Maybe it will ripen with age.I like Capricorns and even though they're not the most comforting people around, they're very consistent and that's attractive to me. I've grown closest with Cancers and we seem to understand each other's reasoning and moods well. They're extremely funny signs! I've never had a relationship with a Scorpio guy but both Scorpio friends I've had are VERY loyal and committed signs. One is my best friend and even though it's not stated very often, I know she'd kick anyone's ass who hurt me. It's nice knowing someone isn't afraid to have my back. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 940 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2011 01:09 PM
I quite like Leos, too. It's never progressed beyond friendship, though. Or at least I don't think it has... I only listed my serious relationships. I usually don't know the signs of past 'casual' relationships.  IP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 02, 2011 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl: Hi, im an Aries too, and personally i think that my next bf could be a cute Libra guy  Btw, the major loves in my life so far were both Scorpio suns (i have sun in the 8th, so not a big surprise) And although i still admire Scorpios, i experienced way too much power struggles with them... When i was young i was fascinated by Virgo men (my Asc and Moon sign), but i had to realize that im not really attracted to them sexually, they are rather for friendship. I cant imagine myself with any fire signs, at all, but thats because of my Virgo-Pisces placements.
wow i have sun in 8th house too and i have a virgo ascendant as well... but my moon is in taurus... whats your take on pisces in 7th house? i hate it...
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 02, 2011 02:15 PM
I have had a wonderful relationship with an aries, i still miss the fights, [we enjoy fights, don't we? ] and the sharing and kissing part was awesome. he was the most masculine man, challenging enough i have ever met. awesome time. then we had fights and i was too insecure in the relationship we broke up, then made up, then broke up and made up it happend like 3 times and after we lost the sparknext there was a taurus.. i killed my ego for him, trust me i did, and yet it turned out it wasn't worth it all, however, that relationship hurt me pretty bad and i never went into another relationship since after him [2yrs ago] there was a capricorn guy, we started out and it was good in the beginning but i just can't figure out what went wrong, all of sudden he went cold, i don't even know what ****** him i currently have an aquarius guy chasing me, but he's being too pushy and i hate being pushed...
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CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 480 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 03:18 PM
I'm Aries, and my attraction to Sagittarius is *insane!* Can't get enough of the Sag boys. Even if they're not Sag Sun, but have Sag Moon, I'm a goner. When their Sun or Moon is opposite my Gemini Venus, I'm hugely attracted, but it doesn't work out too well in the end.Right now, seeing another Sun Aries, and that has been the best. Just seems to mesh really good. There's kind of a natural, built-in understanding there of each others temper. Very comfortable. IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 1439 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 03:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by love being Aries: I have had a wonderful relationship with an aries, i still miss the fights, [we enjoy fights, don't we? ] and the sharing and kissing part was awesome. he was the most masculine man, challenging enough i have ever met. awesome time. then we had fights and i was too insecure in the relationship we broke up, then made up, then broke up and made up it happend like 3 times and after we lost the sparknext there was a taurus.. i killed my ego for him, trust me i did, and yet it turned out it wasn't worth it all, however, that relationship hurt me pretty bad and i never went into another relationship since after him [2yrs ago] there was a capricorn guy, we started out and it was good in the beginning but i just can't figure out what went wrong, all of sudden he went cold, i don't even know what ****** him i currently have an aquarius guy chasing me, but he's being too pushy and i hate being pushed...
Hahaha, I can relate to some of that. Aries - shortest relationship I ever had. They say Aries is the fastest, but this was too fast. It lasted one (1) day. LOL. Taurus - love of my life *sigh*. I have Sun in my 2nd house. I killed my ego for him too, but I can't say it wasn't worth it at all. I learned a lot from this relationship. Best chemistry ever, once in a lifetime type of thing, but it had nothing to do with our Sun signs. Aquarius - longest relationship so far. Almost married him. It was light and free, funny as hell, but he was too airy for me and couldn't put real effort into the relationship until it ended. Sagittarius - my first boyfriend. I don't even want to remember. It was a fiasco. I generally get along well with Saggies, I have a Sag Moon, but I prefer to be just friends. Capricorn - well, I'm falling for one, but as you said, he went cold out of the sudden and I have no clue what the hell happened. I have Cap Asc, I generally get where they're coming from, but this one is too messed up to understand. Honestly, I no longer care what Sun sign my next love will have, as long as it works out. IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2011 03:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by love being Aries: wow i have sun in 8th house too and i have a virgo ascendant as well... but my moon is in taurus...whats your take on pisces in 7th house? i hate it...
Thats cool!  Do you like your Virgo Asc? I find it hard to combine my Aries sun with my Virgo ASc... im either very shy or very aries, depending on the situation. As for the Pisces DC...well, until now i "only" had some soul-consuming, chatartic, platonic and painfully ended love experiences... im still waiting for my first "normal" relationship What i like about the Pisces DC though is that i do need someone who could accept me the way i am, with all my "strange" things and all. And i like the spiritual side of Pisces as well. IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 1439 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 03:29 PM
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3376 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 02, 2011 04:56 PM
For me - it's a particular Leo man... (but not just any Leo would do).It has to be the *right* Leo for you LOL PS. But I wouldn't rule out a Libra guy with his Moon conjunct yours! This was a long and nice relationship. Sagittarius is 'aight but we're more like buddies. We "hang out". With Pisces it's a highly sexual relationship. You know what they say about fire and water making steam!  With Taurus, you know you can depend on them and trust them - but in time you can get bored. If they have Aries in their chart, this can also work sexually - But for me, it doesn't match Pisces. IP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 03, 2011 01:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl: Thats cool!  Do you like your Virgo Asc? I find it hard to combine my Aries sun with my Virgo ASc... im either very shy or very aries, depending on the situation.As for the Pisces DC...well, until now i "only" had some soul-consuming, chatartic, platonic and painfully ended love experiences... im still waiting for my first "normal" relationship What i like about the Pisces DC though is that i do need someone who could accept me the way i am, with all my "strange" things and all. And i like the spiritual side of Pisces as well.
this is why i specifically picked up this house to chat about lol.. i have always had strange things, strange emotions regarding relationships. when i'm not in a relationship i want one, when m in one, i want out. This thing is horrible seriously
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insideintrovert Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 03, 2011 07:19 PM
LIKE! Right on the money here and I would bet on this match. Even though I'm not a gambling person.Keywords for BOTH signs - Freedom loving and independent. Not signs for the clingy, smothering or posssesive. quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: I've seen Aries/ Sagittarius couples work really well!
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carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 09:30 PM
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carl Knowflake Posts: 987 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 09:30 PM
sorry, double post.well, that was just a gut reaction. Just still...you know, about a certian aries girl. But she did say "need me time", to be fair to myself and my quick reaction.. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3376 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 03, 2011 10:23 PM
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 04, 2011 05:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by carl: sorry, double post.well, that was just a gut reaction. Just still...you know, about a certian aries girl. But she did say "need me time", to be fair to myself and my quick reaction..
i already posted in other thread, she is TOO independent but this is just her outer self, she just has to be defensive when she is ignoring you, she is just trying to protect herself [some Aries women have attachment phobia] so just accept her for what she is and she will never leave u, she is nothing if not loyal Good luck IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 430 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 04, 2011 05:44 AM
Hi,I think Aries girl, Sagittarius boy works really well - they are both full of fun and sillyness but not in a dreamer way. If the Aries girl can read up about Sagittarius enough to rein him in occasionally, and learn to work around his lack of tact, then it should work beautifully. Rachel ------------------ "Vision without Action is a daydream... Action without Vision is a nightmare." IP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 04, 2011 06:37 AM
i know a saggi guy and we are like good friends, just can't figure him out..seriously can't..he is either the shy kind or am too dumb LOLIP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 430 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 04, 2011 06:44 AM
Have you read Linda's "Love Signs" or "Relationship Signs"? If not, definitely grab yourself a copy they are each a brilliant read... If you have, perhaps it might be worth re-reading the Aries-Sag section, I found that one to be very interesting.Its quite possible he is just (proverbially) up in the sky, floating around having fun in life whereas you are on the ground wondering why he can't see you... If you can join him up there for a while, but then pop back down giving him his freedom you may well find that he follows you down, intrigued, wanting to be with you. I find the hardest thing with a Sagittarius is expecting them to come to you - they just don't. Not because you aren't worthy, but because they are just content in their own worlds, doing what they are doing. You need to enter their world, and subtely entice them back to yours. At least thats my take on it! Rachel ------------------ "Vision without Action is a daydream... Action without Vision is a nightmare." IP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 04, 2011 09:12 AM
i have a very very interesting story with this saggi guy LOL. m tempted to share. --he always calls me his best friend even though i'm not. we hardly ever talk, he always calls,not me, yet he claims m his bestie. --we actually spent very very little time together, like a month or so back in 2008. after that we have never met in person, only in touch on phone. --back in 2009, i did say somethings to him, about the fondness i have for him, and he clearly rejected me, yes he did. --we have a common Aries guy-friend. this Aries guy wrote some very intimate things on my Facebook which this saggi read. I confronted the Aries guy why he wrote all that in public, he said i was joking and all. this saggi guy had a very very weird reaction about this incident whenever i put the topic up. just yesterday i encountered him about his weird reactions over this.he said he was mad at Aries because of what he said. i asked are you mad at him because he offended your friend in public? he said no, but because of this possessiveness i feel as a friend... now that was something that got me off guard, may be its too far-fetched, but who is possessive about a girl he met in 2008 and talks to on phone like once in a month? i'm just looking forward to further twists when i put this topic with him next time... IP: Logged | |