posted June 01, 2011 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
I have a wide Venus/Mars square... 8 degrees. I also don't really consider my Venus/Mars to be squared because its so wide. I do make it a point to call out people on their sexism, but really, I also call out people on their racism as well. I think any human being can recognize the injustices women face on a day to day basis on this planet without having this particular aspect. I have great relationships with guys in general, I find it easier to relate to dudes at first than girls (girls intimidate me). Most of my friends are guys.

As far as magnetism, I think my Venus square Uranus plays a bigger role because that aspect is exact in my chart.

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posted May 14, 2013 06:23 PM            

I especially agree that the love life is somewhat chaotic and unsatisfactory for people with this placement.

posted May 14, 2013 07:08 PM            

Imagine the Venus/Mars square using Aries squaring Cancer. Now imagine someone elses Venus OR Mars in any of the other signs. Aries can conjunct one of them, Taurus can sextile one of them, Geminii can sextile one of them, Cancer can conjunct one, Leo can trine one, Virgo can sextile one, Libra will square/opposition, and continue around the entire zodiac. See what I mean? Of course, the degree of orb matters and obviously it won't always result in an aspect, but it accounts for why so many people would feel drawn to a Venus/Mars square individual.

Yes, it does make for awkwardness when young (or even when old if you've never worked to blend the energies. Yes, the attraction may also not last because of the "issues" that the person can have in learning how to handle that internal conflict. BUT it DOES account for why this placement it produces interest from others.

The opposition doesn't give quite as much because creating a semi-sextile/inconjunct just doesn't stir up others quite so much, so it doesn't hold quite the same appeal, but would produce more magnetism than then those whose Venus/Mars are conjunct, sextile or trine.

posted May 14, 2013 08:33 PM            

This person had like an exact square and they weren't attractive physically, not very interested in dating, and very standoffish/pessimistic.

posted May 14, 2013 09:09 PM            

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Originally posted by yaygirlthecat:
I knew one person with this aspect and they were definitely not at all popular with the opposite sex, lol.

This person had like an exact square and they weren't attractive physically, not very interested in dating, and very standoffish/pessimistic.

I guess that could be other aspects though!

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Attractiveness isn't necessarily the same as "good looking" and if someone is standoffish and isn't very interested in dating, they won't seem be "popular". That doesn't mean others aren't be drawn to them, even fascinated by them.

posted May 15, 2013 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Attractiveness isn't necessarily the same as "good looking" and if someone is standoffish and isn't very interested in dating, they won't seem be "popular". That doesn't mean others aren't be drawn to them, even fascinated by them.

I've been told I can seem pretty unapproachable. Most of the time I'm completely OBLIVIOUS to the interest of others because I'm not looking for a relationship. But I've lived long enough and gotten enough feedback from other people in my life to know that I do generate interest without any effort on my part. Women tend to be reassured that I won't try and steal their guy

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Well, I dated this person for quite awhile because we had some other great aspects but this person is almost 40 and I'm about the only date they ever had. Everyone thought I was crazy for dating them mostly because he was kind of a jerk and nerdy.

posted May 15, 2013 11:43 AM            

Thnx !
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Originally posted by mir:
I've mentioned this guy a hundred times here (my tantric libra/the best kisser ever etc.) and he also has a Venus(Leo)/Mars(Scorp) square natally (Square & conjunct his Uranus).
Is he magnetic?
Well to me he became magnetic after we kissed and after I discovered the highest degree of physical merging & intensity ever. I didn't know him that well before this happened and I do remember that I felt a repulsion when I first saw him, looked him in the eyes.. and thought/felt; not my type! It seemed something about his mouth (???) that I really didn't like..
So yes, things can terribly change after kissing..

My own fixed Mars/Moon square couldn't be more deeply involved in synastry than to his Venus/Mars square.. (our reversed nodes included).

And yes.. His Venus-sign (my Sun) and his Mars-sign (my Moon)...

As this all is soo obvious to me it's very difficult to look at rulers you know..

He (Libra) is - after a relationship for five years with someone of his own age - for almost three years now in a relationship with a Cancer-woman who's fifteen years older than him.

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posted July 24, 2013 04:41 PM            

I have this aspect and reading this thread, I think I am beggining to understand some things about myself! lol

I def do not have "daddy issues", and trust me, I know plenty of people that do..

I do definitely feel that I attract a lot of people/interest. I would definitely consider myself attractive..

To the person whom asked if this placement suggests being unfaithful-I've never cheated on someone in the 26 years I've been on this Earth..

I don't think that it comes from insecurities neccessarily, but I do seem to be very awkward with the opposite sex, and have been told that I can appear standoff-ish, and hard to approach, but that could also be due to my dreamy pisces sun (in the 8th)...

As far as attracting the wrong partners, or abusive partners-nailed it. That could also be due to heavy pluto in my natal as well.

posted July 24, 2013 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
As Mars is natural ruler of self, and Venus natural ruler of partner, it's easy to see how this can affect partnerships, but only when Libra or Aries rises, which cancels out a few options, so maybe you should look at something else as only one sixth is covered by this aspect.

Look at astrology from a house point of view, such as 1st is self and 7th is partner, as opposed to a planet point of view where Mars is self and Venus is partner.

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posted July 25, 2013 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
All you need is each element strong in your partner's chart and it's fine. For example mine are square in Air and Earth and I am just fine with men strong in those 2 elements. Get both needs met and you're done, piece of cake. KISS

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posted July 27, 2013 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
In any case.... No Venus Mars aspect can be a match for the Conjunction, these are defo the most alluring of all, would be strange to even compare

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My son has Venus conjunct Mars in Capricorn in the 11th house. In preschool as a 3-4yr old several small girls would be very pleased when he arrived. He always had guy friends too and the parents liked him as well. He seems to be oblivious of it all, and was devastated when he and his first important gf broke up - though she won't leave him be and be thought he would always love her.

posted July 27, 2013 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
In any case.... No Venus Mars aspect can be a match for the Conjunction, these are defo the most alluring of all, would be strange to even compare

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posted April 28, 2014 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
It's very hard for someone to get my interest/attention and SO easy for me to lose interest. Have you noticed the same thing?

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Wow is that really b/c of this aspect? Yeah I rarely ever meet people that I'm attracted to. It happens once a year and I'll end up in a relationship with them and then I'll end things because I lost interest. I always thought this was because of my Moon in Gemini in 7th house.

posted April 28, 2014 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I've noticed that most people I know with a Venus Mars square are very popular with the opposite sex.
It's like they have that vibe about them and people are always attracted to them.
Could it only be because of the Venus Mars square?
Or other elements?

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I have read that Venus sextile Mars gives people popular by opposite sex. It is true!

Venus square Mars gives people, they can't be alone. In that case they are always on the search.

Wl, Bobbie

posted April 28, 2014 10:12 AM            

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