posted October 16, 2018 10:50 PM            

i have a mars venus square in my chart (pic related), i also have venus on my ascendant as part of a kite too (unrelated to the square) with my moon, mercury, and uranus

i'm popular with both sexes, though relationships other than my longterm one (we're open kind of) tend to go poorly after a while... though even my longterm relationship is volatile (passionate though)

i'm fine with it

posted October 17, 2018 08:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think you could be on to something.

There are so many things that I can say about it.

* People who associate aggression/violence with love.

*People who love to be "possessed" or are themselves possessive

*People who are turned on by dramatic displays of affection and love

*People who have a very turbulent love relationship-due to their sensitivity in giving and receiving love.

*People who enjoy the chase and can be caught up in the adrenaline rush that goes with it.

*People who love the initial stages of love(infatuation). But get bored/restless as the relationship develops to maturity

*People who attract/attracted to "macho" types-both in females and males.

*People who see themselves as the "drivers" and initiators in the relationship. And don't like to be challenged

Its an aspect that can definitely create problems in close relationships.

From a distance,these people can exude attractiveness and/or sex appeal.Because they appear so passionate and "raw".

I have the Moon/Mars square and in many ways,I can touch base with this too.As Moon does plays a role in how one demonstrates and receives "love".

I am not an easy person to love. No ways :(

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a fair amount of what you listed describes my life

posted October 17, 2018 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Perhaps intriguing is better term for . I don't think they necessary have an easier time with the opposite sex ( at in regards to hetero relationships) even if they do attract many people. I think they tend to not stick within the confines of what someone defines as feminine or masculine and adopt both which intrigues some people but throws many off.

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this is also true

i'm androgynous, and prefer it that way

it's caused confusion for other people though i've noticed and i seem to attract people regardless of their sexuality which can end up causing weird tense situations ultimately or awkward ones if things end up happening

i have a lot going on with venus in my chart though aside from the mars square

it's conjunct my ascendant which also has south node on it, opposite my moon (which is trine mercury and uranus), and sextile mercury and uranus

so i have that kite with venus as the focal point and a mystic rectangle with venus as the focal point

mars is square venus has that and a very loose (for people who use up to 10 degrees, ive noticed results vary with that and it doesnt matter with vedic so i suppose its worth mentioning) mars/neptune conjunct, and mars also squares my moon with looser orbs

so they both have stuff going on aside from the square

unrelated: the chick who says it's about hating women, not at all i love women about half the time the other half is a matter of them expressing toxic traits that seem to be mostly related to them being women because i see them mostly expressed in women

flipside is that's no different than how i see guys

theres positive and negative mostly (individuals vary) gender specific traits either way

doesnt make a difference to me, ultimately everyone is flawed in their own unique ways and i cant really be bothered to care much about any of that on any level that registers as significant to me

if i love you i probably also hate you though, at least some of the time

and when i hate someone in that moment it's all i feel, but once im over it it's like it never happened for me

i just immediately dont care and i can be just as happy as i wouldve been had i never felt that at all