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Topic: Moon in Scorpio man
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polysigh Knowflake Posts: 180 From: Chicago, USA Registered: May 2011
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posted June 01, 2011 10:57 AM
Any insights on this placement?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39978 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 11:01 AM
Dark,very dark Can YOU go to dark places and still pull yourself back up? You would need that ability/corresponding part in your own chart I would see what Nessus/Deja aspects you had with him This would show if abuse would play out,I think------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 884 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2011 11:12 AM
I agree, dark places.....moody (sorry to any scorpio mooners out there, i only mean this in the negative way it can be used. My leo moon can also be demanding and selfish at times.)Sparkling IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5585 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 11:17 AM
Pisces has this.. He's very suspicious.. Always looking for hidden meanings, with everything I say. I dont see him as dark... Complex yes.. fixed yes... But dark... idk... He's more paranoid, and thinks there are hidden meanings.. IP: Logged |
polysigh Knowflake Posts: 180 From: Chicago, USA Registered: May 2011
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posted June 01, 2011 11:29 AM
Wow--Dark? In what way? I definitely like complexity. How to deal with the moodiness and the brooding?IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 01:24 PM
I think they just need a lot of their own space. Don't try to prod them into anything, but don't let them just walk all over you. If they are having one of their moments - just let them be. It will pass. If you guys are having issues - never let your emotions get out of hand. You gotta control yourself and approach it rationally. They don't mind if you have emotions - but they like to know you are strong enough to have some control over them. Be always honest with them, because they will figure out eventually. No point lying. Let yourself be vulnerable - but again, take control of your vulnerability. They need to know you can take care of yourself - that you don't need them, but you WANT them. I've never found Scorpio moons to be dark personally. Usually they have pretty outgoing personalities, they simply have a lot hidden behind that. Yeah, they can be moody too, but this usually passes too. IP: Logged |
etherealenlightenment Knowflake Posts: 494 From: far away... Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2011 01:51 PM
Dark? I guess it depends what you mean by that... My boyfriend has a Leo Sun and Scorpio Moon... He's finishing up his Saturn Return, so he's dealing with his issues now, but he does have a pretty self-destructive past involving self-loathing and substance abuse, which has finally caught up with him. I don't get it, personally. He's the most likable, lovable, charming, sweet, caring person you could ever hope to meet. EVERYONE loves him. I've always said that he's the most beautiful soul I have ever encountered, and I stand true to that... But somehow his inner demons just won't let him see how great he is. It's sad really-- he's the only one who doesn't like him! He just seems to see the world so differently... He sees all the negative and is constantly afraid that everyone's out to get him or that he's not worthy of happiness... I second what Lioness said about paranoia. He's definitely pretty paranoid and suspicious, and it takes him an EXTREMELY long time to trust people. He's not so much this way anymore because I've been with him for a while and he knows I'm honest and trust worthy but I think this is just a standard for how Scorp Moons are with everyone at the beginning... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39978 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 01:53 PM
Well, for me, I can only take Scorpio is low doses. I like Mars in Scorpio is an otherwise light chart. I like this in men and woman as I have several friends of both sexes with it. I do NOT like Scorpio moon. I feel I cannot go there is all. They have some place inside them I don't want to go. It is hard to describe. Perhaps,it is a loss of innocence, a place I have not traversed that I don't want to. Once you go certain places,you are changed ,forever. I don't want to touch more of Scorpio moons than I have already. The few I have touched have burned me in ways that I would prolly not have a Scorpio moon friend beyond a casual friend. It is a sense ,a feeling of something rather than something that can be described in literal words. That is why this may not make sense.------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Well, for me, I can only take Scorpio is low doses. I like Mars in Scorpio is an otherwise light chart. I like this in men and woman as I have several friends of both sexes with it. I do NOT like Scorpio moon. I feel I cannot go there is all. They have some place inside them I don't want to go. It is hard to describe. Perhaps,it is a loss of innocence, a place I have not traversed that I don't want to. Once you go certain places,you are changed ,forever. I don't want to touch more of Scorpio moons than I have already. The few I have touched have burned me in ways that I would prolly not have a Scorpio moon friend beyond a casual friend. It is a sense ,a feeling of something rather than something that can be described in literal words. That is why this may not make sense.
It's funny - I love and adore Scorpio Moon people. It's my favorite Scorpio placement, probably the one that I can handle easiest. But I seriously love them. They are interesting and make my little Sag moon flutter. It's my DESC in Scorpio, I'm sure, but that moon in my 7th is so ridiculously common in the guys I've liked. I cannot handle Scorpio Mars + Venus + even Sun sometimes. Definitely not Scorpio Mercury. But that Moon is just lovely. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2011 04:16 PM
Intense? Yes. Dark? Depends on the person. My close friend with this placement (Pisces Sun/Virgo Asc.) hates most dark or emo things...she considers them melodramatic, and therefore fake (see: Twilight). She loves or hates, not much inbetween...but she likes anything that lifts the mood. Her favorite type of music is techno, and she loooves Bollywood (especially pre-Millenia Bollywood). For me, this is one of the easiest moon placements to get along with. I always seem to have an easygoing relationship with them. Obviously my 8th house moon placement. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5585 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 04:40 PM
Maybe its my Pluto in H7 or Scorpio in H8.. But I like the depth of scoprio moon's.. I dont like the paranoia, and always having to reassure, Im not up to something.. But hey it is what it is... He's always looking for whats hidden with people.. Ive noticed that... He's looking to see what others cant.. But since he's fixed in that way, there's no convincing him no hidden agenda.. You cant "tell" him anything.. If I want to get something through to him.. I kind of have to go in through the back door, and let him figure it out... I have to use the "agenda" thing with him and let him figure it out... IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 05:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Maybe its my Pluto in H7 or Scorpio in H8.. But I like the depth of scoprio moon's.. I dont like the paranoia, and always having to reassure, Im not up to something.. But hey it is what it is... He's always looking for whats hidden with people.. Ive noticed that... He's looking to see what others cant.. But since he's fixed in that way, there's no convincing him no hidden agenda.. You cant "tell" him anything.. If I want to get something through to him.. I kind of have to go in through the back door, and let him figure it out... I have to use the "agenda" thing with him and let him figure it out...
That's funny, Lioness I have Pluto in the 7th too IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 07:00 PM
Hi Poly -It's more important what your own Moon sign is.. and what aspects your planets make to his Moon.. in terms of how you will get along and whether you'll perceive him to be dark. For instance, you may be darker than he is.. in which case he will seem tame. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 07:04 PM
quote: My boyfriend has a Leo Sun and Scorpio Moon
I've known a handful of men in my life with this combination. What you said about being depressed and unhappy with certain things - while everyone loves them.. is "true"-ish for the ones I know. The difference is I do not believe them - To be completely honest. I think sometimes it is utter BS -- and they just want more affirmation for their qualities. I mean they KNOW their own worth - Don't you worry about that. So they're full of.. poo poo... when they go on about this kind of thing. But it's all good because I'm happy to give affirmation and I love them anyhow.. I just don't pay attention - I ignore their little dramas.. One of these men is actually engaging in such behaviour as we speak.. and I am ignoring him right NOW (would you believe it? LOL) I think this is the Capricorn approach! ^ It's very productive. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 08:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Hi Poly -It's more important what your own Moon sign is.. and what aspects your planets make to his Moon.. in terms of how you will get along and whether you'll perceive him to be dark. For instance, you may be darker than he is.. in which case he will seem tame.
Hmm... my moon usually makes no aspect to their moon except for a possible inconjunction or a loose conjunction. Dunno. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39978 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 08:56 PM
Maybe Scorpio moon intimidates me cuz I have a Cancer moon. I am a sensitive crab at heart and Scorpio moons can be abrasive  ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo Knowflake Posts: 378 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted June 01, 2011 09:54 PM
I heard that Buddha was a Taurus Sun/Scorpio moon so Scorpio moon must have some good qualities  IP: Logged |
etherealenlightenment Knowflake Posts: 494 From: far away... Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2011 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by starcrossedleo: I heard that Buddha was a Taurus Sun/Scorpio moon so Scorpio moon must have some good qualities 
Ohhhhh they definitely do!! They are so focused, driven, multi-faceted, perceptive, and committed!... I find that many musicians have this placement as well. My boyfriend's one of them. So is Johnny Cash. And one thing I must say is that they truly are the most sensitive of signs. That's why they are often so prickly and abrasive on the outside-- they're just protecting that soft, gentle center.  IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 02, 2011 02:03 AM
"Dark? I guess it depends what you mean by that... My boyfriend has a Leo Sun and Scorpio Moon... He's finishing up his Saturn Return, so he's dealing with his issues now, but he does have a pretty self-destructive past involving self-loathing and substance abuse, which has finally caught up with him. I don't get it, personally. He's the most likable, lovable, charming, sweet, caring person you could ever hope to meet. EVERYONE loves him. I've always said that he's the most beautiful soul I have ever encountered, and I stand true to that... But somehow his inner demons just won't let him see how great he is. It's sad really-- he's the only one who doesn't like him! He just seems to see the world so differently... He sees all the negative and is constantly afraid that everyone's out to get him or that he's not worthy of happiness... I second what Lioness said about paranoia. He's definitely pretty paranoid and suspicious, and it takes him an EXTREMELY long time to trust people. He's not so much this way anymore because I've been with him for a while and he knows I'm honest and trust worthy but I think this is just a standard for how Scorp Moons are with everyone at the beginning..." I was going to say pretty much everything you said here. I also was thinking of a Leo sun, and Scorpio moon and when I first met him I thought he was a little arrogant because the way he spoke was so assured and careful that it felt very patronizing at a time when i was particularly vulnerable. But a couple years later I've got really know him and I really fell in love with him (not actually...) Same as your guy, he is the most caring sweetest soul/heart I've ever met and everybody loves him, he's so ernest in everything he does that even when he shoots off his mouth, he's just so loveable that there's nothing you can do but laugh. He's definitely paranoid and I noticed the trust issues as well but I made a ass of myself in front of him and was completly and thoroughly honest with him and he forgave/let it go in a way nobody has ever done to me before. It's very refreshing because I know that although he may have stored it away for further knowledge, he didn't change the way he treated me because of it. Needless to say, I'm a big fan 
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 01:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Maybe Scorpio moon intimidates me cuz I have a Cancer moon. I am a sensitive crab at heart and Scorpio moons can be abrasive 
I have a big stellium in Cancer and I gotta say negative to that too. They don't send me running and I'm super-sensitive to everyone's energy. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39978 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 02, 2011 01:33 PM
It is good we are not room mates ,Girlfriend. One of us would beat the other one to death with the curling iron  ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 01:43 PM
So because I disagree with you on the relationship between two signs (who just so happen to be TRINE by the way, so they wouldn't naturally be antagonistic), you're throwing another one of your vicious passive-aggressive jibes at me? Bravo. I'm almost insulted and amused at the same time that you thought a smilie would hide that from me. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39978 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 02, 2011 01:45 PM
I do things with humor, BM. Just take humor as humor ,nothing more  ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1293 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted June 02, 2011 02:20 PM
these things also apply to women with scorpio moon right?------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe IP: Logged |
Frozen Queen Knowflake Posts: 625 From: 11th Dimension Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 02, 2011 03:41 PM
From: http://scorpiomoon.tribe.net/ quote: MOON IN SCORPIO Scorpio is one of the most misunderstood signs in the zodiac. It's a sign that's reputation precedes it. When the sign inhabits the Moon in a person's chart, it is said to be in its fall. Moon in Scorpio people, therefore, have acquired a negative reputation in some astrology circles as tormented, destructive, and terribly dark people. While it is true that definite struggles come with this Moon sign, these people are also full of rich inner resources. The source of both pleasure and pain for Scorpio Moon people comes from their emotional intensity. Everything is felt at a high velocity. Scorpio Moons don't just experience happiness, sadness, or anger. They feel total ecstasy, anguish, and rage. The emotions are extreme and the instinctual side is very pronounced. Because of this, Scorpio Moons have learned to hide their feelings as a means of self-protection. Thus, they can be seething with intense passion but projecting a cool exterior to the outside world. Because of this, Scorpio Moons possess a definite aura of mystery. Scorpio Moons are not easy people to understand. However, they seem to understand others effortlessly. They possess tremendous insight and can intuitively discern people's weaknesses, strengths, and emotional states. They are natural born psychologists who understand, and are compulsively drawn to, the mysterious and darker side of life. Despite a tendency to be manipulative and secretive, Scorpio Moons are often very honest people, perhaps a little too honest for most. What others want to sweep under the rug, a Scorpio Moon is determined to confront. Their determination knows no limits and they are obsessive and sometimes ruthless in their pursuits. This type of extreme drive usually ensures their success in whatever they do and they are the ultimate survivors. Despite all of their toughness, though, they are highly sensitive and easily hurt. This is where the need for all those emotional barriers come in. Most people never see this side of a Scorpio Moon since they fear being too vulnerable. It's very difficult for them to trust others and to open up. This is why they are often so misunderstood and they struggle with chronic feelings of loneliness. They are very selective about who comes close to them. But those who do will benefit from the extraordinary passion, empathy, and loyalty of a Scorpio Moon.
------------------ Ask Me anything. Anything. I will contrive to bring you the answer. The whole universe will I use to do this. So be on the lookout. This book is far from My only tool. You may ask a question, then put this book down. But watch. Listen. The words to the next song you hear. The information in the next article you read. The story line of the next movie you watch. The chance utterance of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river, the next ocean, the next breeze that caresses your ear—all these devices are Mine; all these avenues are open to Me. I will speak to you if you will listen. I will come to you if you will invite Me. I will show you then that I have always been there. All ways. ♥ IP: Logged |