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Topic: How would you describe Sun conjunct Venus men?
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samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 13, 2011 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: Do you know that this last one would cry sometimes when I tried to get more out of him re:motivation, etc? It's like Venus vs. Pluto I think in a chart like that, and yes it does make sense that one would rather identify with the Venus and disown the shadow. I have Venus conj a luminary (Moon), plus an angular and heavily aspected Pluto and I was a-ok with going deep, but not him. Maybe cos I have Pluto Ic and my strength is who I am at the core vs. Pluto at the Asc which is more for show as I've seen, it's more about portraying Pluto as an image. He called me strong all the time, powerful, etc. and maybe he was seeing that, the Ic vs. the Asc.
I understand your Pluto conjunct IC, but is it in H3 or H4? Mine is in H4 and I could tell you a few things about this configuration...
quote: Originally posted by abcd efg: Yes. This description fits the guy. I also thought, after reading a few descriptions on sites, that perhaps Sun conj Venus in Gemini would make the person sort of a flirt or superficial in relations when it comes to a close relation like say lover. I mean not the platonic ones. A kind who cannot stick to one in depth at 'a building a relationship or partnership level'? Could this interpretation be correct?
Yes, there may be commitment issues in the love relationship department with this conjunction in Gemini. Flirt is a key word for Venus in Gemini, even more with sun conjunct venus in Gemini. However, one and only aspect is not enough to state a native will not be able to stick to a relationship, and this person may be mature enough to live this conjunction in Gemini at deeper levels (Saturn integration).
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 14, 2011 02:49 AM
H4, 1 degree off from IC. Ex's (Sun conj Venus Aqua man) Pluto is H12, 1 degree off from ASC.IP: Logged |
samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 14, 2011 08:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: H4, 1 degree off from IC.
There is a book any people with a strong Pluto should have. I do not know if you have already read it, but it left on me a strong impression. I never read such a deep and powerful description of Pluto in H4 before. I am still pondering what I read. The author is Jeff Green and the book: “Pluto: The Evolutionary Journey of the Soul, volume 1”. The all book is about Pluto in natal houses and aspects, transits, solar return, progressions. It explains the strengths AND weaknesses of Pluto in IV. Be careful, it may takes a while for you to face it. Lol. I loved it because I want to know the truth about myself (the Pluto drive inside of me). If you happen to read it, tell me what you think. IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 14, 2011 10:00 AM
Thanks sam for your insight. Actually this guy has Saturn in 10th so 7th aspect to 4th house. Making things worse i guess. Plus Lilith conj Sun and Venus. lolIP: Logged |
cappy1277 unregistered
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posted July 14, 2011 10:40 AM
@sam- of course not always without problems. Maybe because my chart ruler is venus, it makes it a little bit easier...lol. plus I think I have mellowed out as I got older. We have some saturn & pluto ties that balance each other out.IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2011 03:11 AM
"If you happen to read it, tell me what you think." ---I acquired this one maybe 7 yrs ago, read it, and have had it tucked away with the others. So I may be due for a re-run here. I'll look at it again this wk.IP: Logged |
samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 15, 2011 05:14 AM
Another article about Sun-Venus conjunction and narcissism brought to us by Sand: http://skywriter.wordpress.com/2011/07/07/understanding-narcissism-new-insight s-into-ryan-oneal/ PS: thank you, ladies  IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 15, 2011 07:15 AM
oh noez! i think i have some ryan o'neal aspects too. taurus sun/ venus. squaring some leo.his is pluto. mine is moon. though his conjunction in taurus is really close. IP: Logged |
samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 15, 2011 08:20 AM
“You can’t help falling for them, and by the time you’ve gleaned their true colors, you’re hooked —and possibly hurt. Welcome to the contradictory universe of narcissism. »I love this quote because it is exactly what I felt with Sun-Venus men I met in real life. quote: Originally posted by sand: oh noez! i think i have some ryan o'neal aspects too. taurus sun/ venus. squaring some leo.his is pluto. mine is moon. though his conjunction in taurus is really close.
LOL. You may be a mild version of Ryan o’ Neal, then  You are such a sissy Taurus. I like that. Haha 
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 15, 2011 10:18 AM
lol ryan is a sissy too! he starred in love story. this might be more moon related coz it's titled emotional vampires but maybe it could apply. i do know everyone is at least 1 or 2 types of vampires. http://www.albernstein.com/id59.htm IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 15, 2011 10:46 AM
I only know one Venus-Sun man and that is my brother. He is a little snake charmer, that boy. He has all the girls falling for him...I think he needs that for his ego. The Sun probably looks to Venus to fulfill their needs..I don't know. Just a theory. Have to meet another person with this aspect yet, to have a more objective look on this.IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2011 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: this might be more moon related coz it's titled emotional vampires but maybe it could apply. i do know everyone is at least 1 or 2 types of vampires. http://www.albernstein.com/id59.htm
My Jupiter in Scorp got a real kick out of this link, Gratzi 
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2011 07:52 PM
Wow gotta put a quote in here from the above link quote: Think about it, who but a liar would expect to be doubted?
Never heard it put that way but it rings true.IP: Logged |
samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 07:11 AM
I do not know why, but now I spot Sun-Venus men 100 miles away, lol. If you want to see a Sun-Venus (-Mercury) conjunction man (with a Neptunian undertone, as the conjunction falls in Pisces, and Mercury which gives him this facial mobility and expressivity), look at this fanvid showing Jensen Ackles: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OX0xvikGL40&feature=email&email=comment_reply_received He worked with Jared Padalecki as a Winchester brother in the Supernatural Series which led to the “Wincest” concept (lol). TMO, too much candy kills candy, but he is such a good example of Sun conjunct Venus men (in Pisces) with all the ambiguity involved with this aspect. Btw, I have just read another thread talking about “Mr Big Stuff”, Chris Noth in Sex and the City. The linked given was this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BDYUal7Y8II As I was watching it, I told myself: “bingo! One more”, lol. And indeed, he has a Sun-Venus conjunction in Scorpio (with some stern and serious Saturn coloration as Saturn conjuncts sun and Venus). quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: I only know one Venus-Sun man and that is my brother. He is a little snake charmer, that boy. He has all the girls falling for him...I think he needs that for his ego. The Sun probably looks to Venus to fulfill their needs..I don't know. Just a theory. Have to meet another person with this aspect yet, to have a more objective look on this.
I agree with you, it is easier for the sun to fulfill its desires when Venus is sitting so close to it There is no distance between the two archetypes. Venus projects outwards Sun desires very easily and conversely, Love enhances Sun-ego.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69322 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 07:39 AM
VERY interesting Sam Thank you for those. I am feeling the Sun/Venus man. My darling Mert is one ,too. I saw his picture.He is gorgeous.His is in Sag so it is a different flavor.They are the typical male model types.Would you all agree  ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
samsaoule Knowflake Posts: 158 From: world Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 08:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: VERY interesting Sam Thank you for those. I am feeling the Sun/Venus man. My darling Mert is one ,too. I saw his picture.He is gorgeous.His is in Sag so it is a different flavor.They are the typical male model types.Would you all agree 
Thank you, Ami. Yes, in a way, they are Charming "Projection artists" to quote Cappy1277  I can see you like different flavours, like ice creams.  IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 11:06 AM
what about hitler? i know he's a sun/ venus in taurus from astrotheme. just not sure if they conjunct. and i'm no hitler fan or even into war memorabilia. they're the most boring thing on the planet to me.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69322 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 11:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: what about hitler? i know he's a sun/ venus in taurus from astrotheme. just not sure if they conjunct. and i'm no hitler fan or even into war memorabilia. they're the most boring thing on the planet to me.
Good.People in to that kind of stuff give me the Willies  IP: Logged |
cappy1277 unregistered
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posted July 18, 2011 11:35 AM
But think how Hitler "charmed" the masses into believing his ideologies. As sick as he was, people truly followed him & gave him the power to be the demon he was.My SO said one day to a group he admins on FB- "if I showed you everything in this world was bs, would you still follow me?" He ended up deleting it because it to him sounded narcissistic but the thought was still there. Almost like something Hitler would say IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69322 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 11:41 AM
For me,personally,Venus conj Sun men are too pretty. I don't mean this as an insult to anyone,of course. I think of classic "beautiful" men as in male models. They do not appeal to me, personally. Libra in a man does not appeal to me,in any placement, I don't think. i can feel it as one would taste curry in a soup  I LOVE it in male friends. My best friend is a male Libra Sun. However,I do not feel attracted to Libra energy. Can anyone relate?------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 12:05 PM
can't be sure but it looks far. i don't think war enthusiasts are strange. some might just be nostalgic for something they never experienced. or grew up with vets so tall tales of bravery got them into it. i come from lazy people so wars are such a hassle to my grandparents. male models today are very different. most of the james bonds were male model material during their time. i know george lazenby was at least. he did 1 bond fyi on her majesty's secret service for those that dunno him. those guys would be cast in dad roles now or be the dad in stock photographs when they sell picture frames. IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 12:53 PM
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:29 PM
sorry 4got 2 mention iz hitler's..IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:31 PM
conjunct or not?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69322 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 02:57 PM
If I would go on a date and the guy was too put together, that would be it.He would expect me to clean and iron to keep him that  ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |