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Topic: Mars-Saturn, ruthless?
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mir
Knowflake Posts: 2912
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posted April 05, 2013 09:44 PM
  
Thank you all and that was again worth reading anno-lucis. Despite the negativity. I'm still interested in more stories about a natal harsh Saturn/Mars connected in synastry. One of my own (a GREAT one!);
Mom had a Saturn/Mars square and T-squared dad's Moon/Venus conjunction. Great marriage, what else can I tell. It could be sex-related. But that's why more stories are welcome! Saturn/Mars will ofcourse play out most when connected to planets of the other. I'm looking at some famous couples... ow btw, I *ALSO* look in declinations - the Saturn/Mars parallel/contra-parallel and if that's in (contra-)parallel with planets of the other. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted April 06, 2013 05:36 AM
A man with a Mars/Saturn aspect will play it out differently than a woman.It'd be less problematic for the woman in relationships because Mars is the significator of masculinity, it does not stand for women's feminity (like Venus or the Moon). So, what could happen, is that the woman would attract a guy who plays out her Mars/Saturn for her. But I doubt the woman herself will show the Mars/Saturn conflict in her relationships, because it affects her drive and ambition moreso than her way of relating. Whereas Mars for a man is a crucial part of him, it's the significator of his masculinity, so he's tightly tied to it. That's why Saturn making a hard aspect to Mars in man's chart very often affects his self-esteem, and even his sexual expression (sometimes). It's very personal and tied to the ego. So you can imagine what happens when a guy who hasn't worked out his Mars/Saturn issues brings them into a relationship.. he may project his insecurities on the woman, and start to act mean or inconsiderate, sometimes even abusive.
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DeepBlue
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posted March 29, 2022 09:19 AM
Mars conjunct saturn in scorpio here. I can just say, it was a wild ride. When young my mars was often restricted, by accidents, sickness when I was literally isolated for also longer periods of time mostly in hospitals.
I was really good at sports, like any sport I started practicing I was good. But I had a problem with my spine and while growing up I had more and more problems because of this and was very frustrated. Still I didn't give up and perused for years my dancing career. Then at one point when the pain in my early 20's was already affecting the quality of my life, I was suddenly sent to an educational program for a specific moving sistem. Long story short, I later became a trainer in that sistem and completely corrected my spine, to the point where I now live pain free and honestly I phisically feel better and better with every year that passes.We NEVER give up (for the good or the bad). Until I breath I know anything is still possible, even if it seems impossible 😅
Yes, I can have a bad temper, especially when people don't meet my standards I can be quite intolerant, but I also learned over the years to be softer, however it's still better that I don't get triggered. But if threatened or attacked and I can't avoid the confrontation, then, I will most likely destroy my opponent psichologycally.
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problematique
Knowflake Posts: 77
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posted March 29, 2022 10:56 AM
i have a saturn/mars opposition at 4 degrees.
i'm not sure how this particular aspect influences me, but i do have a "coldness" in a sense of "so what".
so what if that happens or this? all options are on the table, as in everything's possible.
my moral compass depends on the situation i find myself in. for example, i fell in love with someone taken and i never really cared much for that man's girlfriend when it came to flirting with him casually.
when it comes to power, i don't care much for it. i don't care about status, i have a masters degree and i don't even use it. i just do something else which i could've done with no degree at all.
i don't care for putting people down, and i'm far from ruthless. actually, i wish i was ruthless. oftentimes, i even see myself as a coward. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: The Nether World
Registered: Mar 2021
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posted April 01, 2022 01:57 PM
I have Mars conjunct Saturn in Cancer. There are some parallels with DeepBlue. I was sick a lot in my childhood as well. I had asthma until I was around 14 years old and it really limited my ability to be physically active. I started martial arts in my 20s and found out I have great stamina. I struggled a bit at first but after some time I noticed big improvements and could easily keep up with the men. Now I’m back at the gym I notice how easy it is for me to improve my strength. I don’t think I’m ruthless but I do struggle with the expression of my anger. I suppress a lot and when I do get angry it’s all coming out. But it’s very easy for me to move on after that. I don’t hang on to my anger. IP: Logged | |
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