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Topic: Unrequited Love Synastries
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 04:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Moon conj Neptune-makes them read into every relationship like it's the one and then get disappointed? Fragile emotional constitution? Bllured emo-perception?
i think i even have that in-conjunct. that might actually be worse lol! but iv never had unrequited love. i don't fall fully for those not interested or i can't imagine anyone not being attracted to me eventually. (tho that might be unrealistic and untrue but it's the way my brain iz wired. ) IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 04:16 AM
but screw them! they're such a'holes! u never hear from them they're there one minute kinda not the next you have to take a number if you'd like to see em that first one i was speaking of was practically married it just goes on and on and on and on people accuse the neptune of keeping the other there by a thread LIES! it's the other one who keeps the neptune their for their sake life is meaningless to them without the neptune the neptune REMINDS them of something great it's only the neptune though that comes out and admits itIP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 04:18 AM
but then again, i'm the venus and moon to someone's neptune i can honestly say that meh, not so much into em. at first, maybe i would've been open to it but then i resulted to saying that i wanted to go because they were mostly interested in watching tv and they just let me go.not even a 'no, stay, i'll turn it off'.. whatever. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 04:19 AM
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 29, 2011 04:28 AM
^ Is he the Virgo Sun?IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 04:37 AM
quote: now, it's not awkward at all
pretty sure i... i dunno what to say. i'll post in another thread. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 04:41 AM
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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 04:42 AM
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tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 04:58 AM
i was gonna say that i see more of an annoying hook up there but i digress, lol.. and if i recall seeing the glimpse of mars squaring neptune, idk.. it just leaves the mars person feeling very 'wth' and whoever has the twelfth house for the mars, is totally blind to it IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 05:03 AM
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tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 05:22 AM
and slay he may, sweetheart! he has mars in your twelfth.. if you have venus square sun, eventually the games will annoy the living daylights out of him and he'll most likely result to just flat out wanting to hurt you, purposely, but alas, seems as if you've turned a blind eye... such is life for few.IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 29, 2011 05:27 AM
Hmm, it's a very interesting topic to me too!But i do wonder if sometimes the answer is not really in astrology, but in other circumstances... like in my case with a special someone, I think the biggest reason of our platonic (and unrequited love) was the age difference between us. He's 10 years older and it bothered him a lot from the moment we got know each other... Otherwise our synastry is very strong, maybe even too strong given that we're not together. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 29, 2011 05:28 AM
Gemini Sun Man is the one with unrequited love; chart from his pov. quote: John Hinckley was so obsessed with Jodie Foster's performance in Taxi Driver that he moved near her and slipped poems under her door. When that didn't work, Hinckley took a novel approach to win her heart - he attempted to assassinate President Ronald Reagan. One bullet hit, but Reagan survived and Foster, funnily enough, remained unimpressed.
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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 05:30 AM
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tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 05:41 AM
that's a late 1980's virgo, i see.. touche! what may indeed make u melt is that venus in cancer of his under rulership of the moon which is oh so exalted in taurus  i wouldn't say this gentleman here falls under the unrequited category because trust me, i don't think anyone can go through unrequited anything and then after be ok in their presence unless it's been YEARS and YEARS of working on getting over it! how else do u think such sweet poetry is inspired?  i think that when you see your synastry with someone, and you see that neptune, oh, you'll remember me.. and you'll know what you're in for! IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 05:46 AM
ooh!!! also, sun in conjunction with the person's sun/pltuo midpoint.... you'll never forget em!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i almost forgot to mention it, it's pretty much the same since pluto is trans-neptunianIP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 05:48 AM
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tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 05:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by blugrey: Yup, he's got that going on too. I instantly know when people have Cancer in them. Cancer is lovely! But his moon is Gemini!! heheBut yeah, this is from like 2 years ago and I don't see him much anymore, so it's not a big deal. Actually the previous synastry that I posted is my real unrequited love. :\ That one has been 6 years and counting now. But I've finally decided to move forward. yay!
nice! haha neptune's ahoy!!!! over it and not a moment too soon, well done! all while tr pluto touches that chiron hip hip hoorayyyyyyyyy
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waxlobster Knowflake Posts: 151 From: Birmingham Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 07:24 AM
TuxedoMask – I was noticing the exact same thing regards Neptune –aspects to the personal planets of the one besotted and more general aspects from the other party’s Neptune. Thanks folks this is a really interesting one to look into! Interestingly the chart Lonake has posted shows a Moon-Neptune conjunction in not so casual Scorpio and this conjunction is a ‘peregrine island’ – i.e. does not integrate with the rest of the chart and so would be far better focussed into creative pursuits that romantic obsession!! {Moon and Pluto ruling the Ascendant and MC no less!!!} Certainly the biog represents the more extreme sides of Scorpio! I can imagine the persona of this man and wanting to stay as far away as possible. Of course the Saturn square Venus, mutual reception from 5th to 7th Houses is intense in it’s own way also! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6129 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 08:01 AM
With good ol' Berlioz,I wanted to add,he has H12 ruler Venus in 7,and H7 ruler Saturn squares Venus; relationships undo him... Saturn Sq Venus alone can't be good when u face rejections.IP: Logged |
snarly Knowflake Posts: 313 From: Wales, UK Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 08:07 AM
Can I ask about Neptune Con. Neptune? This was from years ago, I always wondered, but could never get to the bottom of it - typical neptune, huh?! I have my nep in 12th house, and he had his moon and neptune conjunct mine. Don't know his tob, though.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59068 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 29, 2011 08:59 AM
Thank you Lonake for this. I am gonna come back and study itIP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 30, 2011 10:21 PM
snarly, the Nept conj is just generational so not too much of a big deal, BUT when you bring in his moon conj nept natally then you have one marker for a deep bond when it falls in your 12th.. . . Still looking for charts here  Research is takin' a bit of time, lol. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2011 11:17 PM
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tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 30, 2011 11:21 PM
i dunno, i think it's neptune the one that has the ability to create that aura and without it, the personal planets wouldn't be able to 'go there', and i think that in both cases it brings both individuals something that they really want.. neptune is pisces and pisces is water water brings everything to life IP: Logged |