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Topic: Unrequited Love Synastries
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CosmicKarma360
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posted July 30, 2011 11:25 PM
  
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Lonake
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posted July 30, 2011 11:59 PM
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
the Neptune person shows more interest towards the person with the Personal Planets? Is that right? Or is it the other way around? Neptune bewitches the individual, and so they don't clearly see the other person? Something along those lines? Thanks!
Along those lines, but I don't want to say anything concrete yet since the sample size is so small so if you want to add anything you can anonymize (sp?) the charts. But so far there's Neptune,Pluto,Saturn,Sun,Moon,Venus involvement either in natal or in synastry. Neptune can be where we bewitch or where we fall under someone's spell, Pluto is obsession and passion, Saturn creates obstacles, Sun and Moon major personal significators, and Venus the love object.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:02 AM
I'm looking at the natals too, not just the synastry alone.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
I'm looking at the natals too, not just the synastry alone.
found a post by a lady online.. she found a mate and got in touch with him while he was in prison.. once he got out, he flew her across the country to live with him and she said it's been the happiest most romantic relationship of her life. her natal neptune squared her natal venus and the partner and her had it as well in synastry forgot to mention that i think she said they've also been together for 22 years IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 12:13 AM
also, there's a chart of someone, person got partnered with someone and when they called it quits, they chose to remain friends and the ex then took off with about $15,000.00 worth of merchandise which he purchase with the venus sq. neptune person's credit card.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:13 AM
Sounds Neptunian all right. But that's OK there's someone for everyone.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:14 AM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
also, there's a chart of someone, person got partnered with someone and when they called it quits, they chose to remain friends and the ex then took off with about $15,000.00 worth of merchandise which he purchase with the venus sq. neptune person's credit card.
omg what a slap in the face. sad.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 12:16 AM
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omg what a slap in the face. sad.
i imagine it to be that the ex took what he felt was owed by whatever he shared with the other, so i dunno.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:18 AM
o god, i remember a story about a man and woman divorcing cos he cheated, he told her sell the mercedes and send me the check. she sold it for about 10 dollars and sent him the check, lol. marriage can be nasty!IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted July 31, 2011 12:20 AM
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tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 12:21 AM
WHOA!!!!!!!!!
that's intense! ..it's funny for tv i'm trying to find a way to post the chart without the birth time and don't know how i'd do it because there was another thread this may have been able to contribute to because the venus sq. credit card person, has also an uncomfortable moon. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:26 AM
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
If it'll help, I can post my natal. Or post a celebrity crush synastry. Don't know if those count or not.
But would you say you have a preponderance of unrequited loves compared to others in your estimation? If so then yes your chart would help. With the celeb, I wouldn't count it unless you 2 are or were on regular speaking terms and the interest wasn't returned but the love was still held by you for a long time.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:28 AM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
i'm trying to find a way to post the chart without the birth time
O yea do you have Microsoft? You can save the chart, crop it in the Paint program and use the eraser to white out the data that remains.IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted July 31, 2011 12:31 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]But would you say you have a preponderance of these compared to others in your estimation? If so then yes your chart would help. With the celeb, I wouldn't count it unless you 2 are or were on regular speaking terms and the interest wasn't returned but the love was still held by you for a long time
Oops. Guess I don't quite qualify. Or maybe I do. When I was younger, I did have some pretty strong unrequited feelings a few times, about 3 or 4 times? Haven't had anything like it in quite some time. As for the celeb thing, nah. Not people I'm in contact with, just your regular garden-variety celeb crushes. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 12:36 AM
No it's cool. I know there are synastries I'd love to see but of course I didn't care enough about astro then so that data is long gone  IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 12:55 AM
no tob
person also has history of porn addiction
history of incest
and sexual abuse
it involved the mother quote:
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Lonake
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posted July 31, 2011 01:32 AM
^ Just to clarify, this person has a history of unrequited loves?IP: Logged |
LanaofAugust
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posted August 01, 2011 06:14 AM
How would you interpret Sun square Neptune double whammy in synastry and composite Sun conjunct Venus... (plus composite Venus square Saturn)Mutual confusion? It's our chart, that of me and my man... IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 01, 2011 06:35 AM
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^ Just to clarify, this person has a history of unrequited loves?
you'd have to ask em but my guess would be 'yes' IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 03, 2011 06:23 AM
Maybe unrequited love also has something to do how the natals are reflected in the synastry or in each other`s natal.Sometimes it could also be that one`s Venus and Mars and ruler of 5th, 7th and 8th house are heavily aspected, but not the other way round. Oh and then of course we have Neptune to cloud everything.  IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted December 18, 2013 11:44 AM
wow...what a read!IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan
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posted April 22, 2014 06:34 PM
I think there really might be something to this Neptune thing...I had my Neptune squaring the Moon of a friend I had huge a crush on. It was unrequited.
His Neptune squared my Venus too, but I would consider that generational (he was the same age as me).
I have that aspect in my natal too. I'm on the inside, he's on the outside.
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Lavender CrystalSwan
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posted April 22, 2014 07:06 PM
Here's some more unrequited love synastries. In all of these cases it was unrequited on the guys' ends. They had fallen hard and were really obsessed.
We weren't even dating or involved romantically, it was strictly platonic on my end. When they found I didn't feel the same, neither of them took it well... they immediately ended our friendship and their attitudes did a complete 180° turn, going from sweet/caring to psychotic/full on rage and anger. :/ Pluto and Neptune were strong in almost all of the cases.
Guy #1:
(I'm on the inside)
Guy #2:
This guy even went as far as wanting us to live together and have kids. :/ I had only known him for a few months.
Guy #3:
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aquaguy91
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posted April 22, 2014 08:01 PM
Notice how all the people who are in that state are guys. Unrequited love is usually a guy thing.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 22, 2014 08:17 PM
I noticed that most of the charts.. their partners have their NN in the 12th house. The first chart, the guy's partner's Venus is in the 12th house.I always make it a point to check the 12th house conditions when I'm looking at charts for unrequited love. The 12th house, after all, is the house of self-sacrifice. My 12th house is activated by this guy's Venus in synastry. He's just a friend to me. IP: Logged |
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