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Topic: Venus Square Saturn Synastry
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neptunicity
Knowflake Posts: 386
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 25, 2012 03:04 PM
  
I have venus square saturn in the composite, and also venus quincunx saturn. I think it's the same effect as in synastry, but a lot more final i guess, since composites are usually the outcome.IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
Knowflake Posts: 645
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 25, 2012 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
So, I found this to be pretty much the closest explanation of what this might be or feel like:Synastry Venus Square Saturn
Something keeps you away from being with each other or allowing love to develop.
Marriage, divorce, separation, children, relationship, busy career, unaccepted different culture or ethnic group, unaccepted different religion or sexual preference, greatly differing values, going to different schools or living a great distance (different countries) from each other are some reasons why the relationship will not thrive.
Untouchable…. she or he is so high “above” or “below” me.
Wanting the one who plays in the relationship, to work.
Wanting the one who works in the relationship, to play.
Feeling like a parent or a child.
Having your love bubble burst or alternatively, feeling a love burden.
Thinking one of you is not seeing the reality of the relationship.
Thinking one of you is not open to love in the relationship.
Getting the feeling that you could almost be together in-love but something always stops one or both of you.
Longevity of love: Over a long period of time, somehow running back into each other but not taking it all the way to something of substance.
Continuing to maintain the look and feel of a connection when no serious attempt will be made to make it physical.
Having a long distance relationship. Being always away from each other.
Having a sizable age difference i.e. 7-14 years — if not by chronology than by maturity or experience.
Testing each others patience in love.
in my expereince it is exactly like that IP: Logged |
coffee junkie
Newflake Posts: 6
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 16, 2012 07:14 PM
I have this aspect with a man I recently started dating (we had known each other longer though). He is 10 years older and when we met I had just separated from my husband and was completely emotionally destroyed.
From a certain time distance, I feel as if his love gave me the strength to move on, love more and love myself...all great challenges for me. I never felt anything like it before in my life - not from my parents, from my sister, any single friend of mine, any boyfriend. No one. Of course, this is not just about this aspect, just describing how things are for now.
Circumstances fit some other people's description so hope it's a useful post  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 5151
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted December 16, 2012 10:10 PM
Is it the same with Venus conjunct Saturn? I have the conjunction natal and in synastry.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 912
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 17, 2012 12:14 PM
Anyone have any experience with the sextile and trine between these two planets?------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted December 17, 2012 04:11 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Anyone have any experience with the sextile and trine between these two planets?
I do..his Saturn trines my Venus < 1° orb. Gives you the incentive to really work on your relationship for the better. Ex: oh you're mad? Ok...take your butt upstairs and we are going to talk about this until we figure it out. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 912
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 17, 2012 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I do..his Saturn trines my Venus < 1° orb. Gives you the incentive to really work on your relationship for the better. Ex: oh you're mad? Ok...take your butt upstairs and we are going to talk about this until we figure it out.
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Ex: oh you're mad? Ok...take your butt upstairs and we are going to talk about this until we figure it out.
Hahahahahahaha I looooove that example lolololol! IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted December 17, 2012 10:56 PM
Lol so true....I get told that all the time. Another example of what he said to me one time when I tried to break up with him a couple years ago..."I'm not going anywhere and neither are you so get over it. Whatever the problem is, we will work it out eventually - now go to bed." Lol....bossy Capricorn man IP: Logged |
Ellygirl7
Knowflake Posts: 188
From: Harbor City, California USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 17, 2013 03:50 PM
I have this aspect in synastry with someone very special to me. We've never been able to get together, the timing was never right, but have very deep running feelings for each other. We've been chasing each other since 2007. Never could connect, even after we had our own kids (not together), his two tours of duty, and even finding we were within walking distance of each other for a time.IP: Logged |
VirgoVault
Newflake Posts: 1
From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 03, 2013 09:59 PM
LOL... I went to go search for information on Venus Square Saturn, and found my blog post. haha!For anyone who is interested, this is the blog post the OP quoted: http://blog.virgovault.com/2011/0 2/12/synastry-natal-the-romeo-juliet-aspect-%E2%80%93-venus-square-saturn-in-love-%E2%80%93-problem-solution Part two (the solution) is here: http://blog.virgovault.com/2011/02/20/natal-synas try-astrology-the-solution-to-venus-square-saturn-in-love-%E2%80%93-part-two The quote about the Capricorn spouse saying: "I'm not going anywhere and neither are you so get over it. Whatever the problem is, we will work it out eventually - now go to bed." Lol....bossy Capricorn man " is the RIGHT approach, when in relationship... Saturn is ruled by Capricorn.
Venus by Taurus and Libra! Take the Taurean / Capricorn approach... Warm regards,
Abella IP: Logged |
Liliya
Knowflake Posts: 929
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 04, 2013 10:43 AM
What about Venus semi-square Saturn 2 degrees? Is it too wide for a semi-square?I have it with my bf. He is Venus. We did have some obstacles in the beginning, but month on, we were inseparable. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2284
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 04, 2013 11:13 AM
I have this with the guy I'm seeing…we've been having an "eye" on each other for 3 months now so it's not so long… but already a week after I met him he was already planning to travel for 2 months, so I didn't hear from him in that time other than some few letters… but when he came back we have been together everyday for 1 week, cause I was also traveling when he got home, and now I'm reading for exams so I can't see him again….lol, I hope this is the only effect we will get from this aspect, cause I'm really falling in love with this guy, even though our lifestyles are totally different!IP: Logged |
plutonian105
Newflake Posts: 15
From: CA
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted November 28, 2014 02:10 PM
What about Venus square Saturn (DW) is it even worth pursuing? I mean...there is also Pluto trine Venus (I'm pluto) and her Saturn also trines my Moon...what can you make of all this? IP: Logged |
plutonian105
Newflake Posts: 15
From: CA
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted November 28, 2014 02:23 PM
Oh, and she and I both have Sun square Saturn in our natal charts IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 28, 2014 04:14 PM
This aspect can be a real pain if you don't have any strong positive aspects to support it. My most difficult relationship in my life is with my father. He's a 1956 3rd Decan Capricorn and he has Saturn in Sagittarius. Mind you, this squares my Venus in Pisces. I'm generally a kind, humble and patient young man but this man takes my humility as weakness when really I am anything but weak. He tries to bully, manipulate, fool and entrap me every chance he gets with the guise that he only wants the best for me, but he wants me to depend on him when really he wants to control my life and bank account. (Not. Gonna. Happen.) I've seen his true colors and I'm familiar with it, but in a typical Mars in Scorpio fashion, he throws up a smokescreen to onlookers to give them the impression that he's doing all these nice things for me when really beneath the surface its just manipulation tactics to lure me into the false pretense of attempts to bond with me when really he just wants to dominate and control me. He treated my mother the same way and she divorced him after she learned of his "fake, underhanded ways". His Saturn is Opposed her Moon. But Saturn aspects can be a real pain if you're not careful to spot it in the people who are in your life.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 47006
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 28, 2014 05:52 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology. IP: Logged |
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