posted August 29, 2011 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
HThese websites say these things about this aspect which I have felt are true, just lile I have felt everything else astrology websites say about aspects is true..

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posted August 30, 2011 05:19 AM            

aside from two of my very best childhood friends (one a boy, one a girl) PLUS my fave cousin - everyone else that i've had sun/venus conjunction in a composite with actually get on my nerves lol. we get along okay but i definatley do not love them lol not even sun/venus conjunction or trine in synastry has helped. sorry to object to the traditional interperatation.

my bff's and my cousin each hit my IC and sun/moon midpoint, aspects i feel are more responsible for the love i felt for them. the traditional sun/venus descriptions fits perfectly in their cases.

posted August 30, 2011 07:20 AM            

"Also because we interpret what we feel quite subjectively, we might not read a feeling for what it is and treat it with the misconception that it is something else (compassion versus love, for example)."

That was what I meant. To me love is always true, but sometimes what we may think of as love, may not be love. That`s all.
I rather talk about passionate, romantic, brotherly, passing, lasting, or whatever kind of love. That tells me more than just adding the adjective "true".

Every feeling is true. (our mind might not just recognize it for what it is).

posted August 30, 2011 07:28 AM            

I think they have some very passionate aspects with her Mars conjunct his DESC, square his Mars and opposite his Pluto.
But these also make for some fiery arguments I think.

The Martian theme also continues in the progressions.
His pr Moon conjuncts her pr Mars (2a)
his pr Mars quares her pr Mars (1,5 a)
her pr Mars squares his Sun exactly

Are they even still together?

And let`s not forget they are really young; I can`t really see them last at that point in their development, though the attraction might be quite strong.

There is such a strong emphasis on her Mars - so maybe she comes across to him as feisty and fiery, but over time she also could be seen as overbearing and overly demanding.
Or he really likes it.

posted August 30, 2011 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well, if you post your birth dates, I'll try to give you an answer.

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If you can see them, this is probably easier. Saves you having to draw them yourself

(if it doesn't work... : http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b356/ayaofthesorrows/horoscope%20charts/compandnatalsmeandmichael.gif )

posted August 30, 2011 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
This not only works for me but for my friends too. Do we all have a "thing" for sun-mercury-venus stelliums?

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Eh... I don't want to butt in to anything but... Yes, that does happen. You always subconsciously find and hold on to people who have a lot in common with you and you would be surprised at what your brain is capable of registering of another's personality without you even realizing.

It is no accident that friends tend to have so much in common. Having the same reaction to a certain composite aspect could very well be one of those things you all have in common. In that case, that certain reaction pattern is so much more likely to pop up more than once with both you and your friends, but a circle of friends is a very closed target group to do "statistical" experiments on. You'd have a better overall view if you put together a group of random strangers from all walks of life and look at the same thing there.

Anyway, moving on...

posted August 30, 2011 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Aya,

[b]"Also because we interpret what we feel quite subjectively, we might not read a feeling for what it is and treat it with the misconception that it is something else (compassion versus love, for example)."

That was what I meant. To me love is always true, but sometimes what we may think of as love, may not be love. That`s all.
I rather talk about passionate, romantic, brotherly, passing, lasting, or whatever kind of love. That tells me more than just adding the adjective "true".

Every feeling is true. (our mind might not just recognize it for what it is).

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Can't argue with that whether they are caused by outside forces or manipulation or mind-altering substances, the fact that you feel them does make them real by definition.

I do find it sad that a lot of people in the world fail to recognise their feelings for what they are. And, I suppose when I hear "true love", I think of "honest" love, a feeling which isn't mistaken for something else

Also, I agree that other adjectives say so much more about the type of feeling than "true". I suppose we can blame the media some way or another for indoctrinating the term "true love" into our brains?