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Topic: The most loving relationships of your life: Tight Composite Sun c. Venus and Mercury
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 07:31 PM
  
true love redshift, sun square pluto and the love stellium never fails to touch your deepest deepest depths (as long as u have good synastry too, otherwise it will feel less deep)a close second is venus trine pluto and the love stellium, but that one seems to give a less sexual vibe and less of an intense vibe. Very loving, but i somehow prefer sun square pluto. Venus square pluto, which you have with him as well, is very intense as well, especially in regards to sexual attraction. An ideal composite for a relationship would be a tight love stellium, unafflicted, with composite sun square pluto, venus trine pluto, and moon square or opposition venus, but ive never even seen a composite chart with all of that. Ive experienced composite sun conjunct venus with sun square pluto many times but a tight love stellium with good synastry and sun square pluto only once. The feelings were so intense i felt like part of me had been ripped away when i didnt see him again, and love at first also definitely. I know what you mean <3
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 07:43 PM
The reason why i havent looked at any composites people have posted on this thread is because synastry is also important to take into account, even though the composite is ultimately important in my opinion. and so, i dont want to give an interpretation that may not be true. But to look at all of this takes time. If you haven't noticed yet there is a link in my signature for compatibility readings on ebay for just $3.50
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redshift
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posted August 03, 2012 09:13 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
true love redshift, sun square pluto and the love stellium never fails to touch your deepest deepest depths (as long as u have good synastry too, otherwise it will feel less deep)a close second is venus trine pluto and the love stellium, but that one seems to give a less sexual vibe and less of an intense vibe. Very loving, but i somehow prefer sun square pluto. Venus square pluto, which you have with him as well, is very intense as well, especially in regards to sexual attraction. An ideal composite for a relationship would be a tight love stellium, unafflicted, with composite sun square pluto, venus trine pluto, and moon square or opposition venus, but ive never even seen a composite chart with all of that. Ive experienced composite sun conjunct venus with sun square pluto many times but a tight love stellium with good synastry and sun square pluto only once. The feelings were so intense i felt like part of me had been ripped away when i didnt see him again, and love at first also definitely. I know what you mean <3
Sigh. It is intense alright. I wish that this composite was with my husband...My husband and I have much more comfortable and relaxing synastry, which is nice too. But phew, the aspects we are talking about here are really big, transforming, powerful things. It's really comforting though, to see the source of it. Thanks for starting this topic! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 09:55 PM
be glad uve experienced it at least, dear!  At least I was It was healing, ------------------
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LuckyLeo
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posted August 03, 2012 10:09 PM
This is so interesting... thanks for this information, RunAroundScreaming.However, I am confused by this: quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
An ideal composite for a relationship would be a tight love stellium, unafflicted, with composite sun square pluto, venus trine pluto, and moon square or opposition venus, but ive never even seen a composite chart with all of that.
Since a love stellium means that Venus will be conjunct to the Sun in the composite, how can one of those be trine to Pluto, while the other squares it? Wouldn't Sun and Venus have to share the same aspect to Pluto (i.e. both being square, or both being trine), or am I missing something here? Hope you will help me understand! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 10:28 PM
true lol. but it would be an awesome relationship/feeling if it were possible. haha  IP: Logged |
LuckyLeo
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posted August 03, 2012 10:37 PM
LOL! Ok, gotcha. Thanks for clearing that up. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 03, 2012 10:38 PM
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LOL! Ok, gotcha. Thanks for clearing that up.
No, thank you. for pointing it out IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted August 04, 2012 06:06 PM
This is a very long thread and I've read some of it but just wanted to add something.Composite Charts aspects:
Me&my son: Sun/Venus/Mercury Conjunt
Husband&our son: Sun/Venus/Mercury/North node conjunt
Me&my mom:Sun/Venus/mercury/Mars conjunt
Husband&His mom:Sun/Venus/north node conjunt
Me&Mother in law:Sun/Venus conjunt(wish we had better synastry though
motherinlaw&her mom:Sun/Venus conjunt
My brother&our mom:Sun/mercury/Venus/Mars conjunt This is a small group but interesting to me.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 04, 2012 06:50 PM
Wow, cay! how do you feel about all of these relationships? Except for your mother in law of course IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted August 04, 2012 08:57 PM
My husband and I would do anything that is in the best interest of our son. We always consider his needs and would choose the hardest path if it is in his best interest. I breastfeed, cloth diapered, feed him all organic and take an active part in teaching him as much as I can. He was born early and it took 3 weeks until I could get him to nurse exclusively. I can't express in words how much I love my son. And people always comment on what a good mother I am, I'm very gentle with him and give him a lot of love. I don't hit or raise my voice to him. Everything I do, I do for him.I see my mom as beautiful, nurturing and an example of what being feminine is. My Venus also conjuncts her Sun in synastry. After my dad passed Pluto finnished its transit over my moon a little while later. For some reason my view of her changed a little. I still feel all these things but I now see her faults as a person (which we all have) but I didn't see them before Pluto transited over my moon. My mother in law & I have some harsh aspects toward mercury in synastry. So, communication is hard but I still have love for her. In synastry, my Venus Squares her Neptune. I see her as beautiful and pleasant, even if there hasn't been good communication between us. Her Venus conjuncts my ascendant with 1/2 degree orb in synastry. My brother and mom have a good relationship. You can see the love between them. Is a composite Sun/Venus/&more something others can see between people? My friend and her boyfriend have it and they are very loving & giving to eachother. But their Sun/Venus composite conjunction falls in the 12th of their composite chart. RAS,can you see the this combo between people? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 04, 2012 09:49 PM
Definitely, the love stellium is definitely something you can see between two people. It's obvious that there's lots of understanding and affection between them and that they belong together. A lot of times they even look like alike and have the same fashion sense, especially when pluto is involved. Composite sun conjunct jupiter can also make people look alike and have similar expressions, it's similar to the love stellium but not nearly as dedicated and willing to be sacrificial for the other person. I did an internship this summer for kids with autism and my section had the toddlers years 2 to 4. the youngest one who was 2, i had a love stellium with with sun square pluto. There was also another toddler i had it with, she was four, but it was loose and no pluto and the synastry wasnt as good. Well, the 2 yr old came in on the first day crying nonstop all day and I just couldnt help but feel my heart break haha. I absolutely couldnt help trying to give him hugs and make him feel better somehow. We had a bond and it was obvious to other people definitely. And with the 4 yr old girl, she would always call out my name whatever she was doing when she saw me and try to get me to play with her. It was so cute. Definitely something other people noticed too, they would comment about how much she loved me lol. She wouldnt leave me alone, but i didnt mind at all. But yeah the love stellium is a beautiful thing You are soooo so lucky! I am jealous.The love stellium has convinced me that if im going to have a kid i will adopt one i have it with along with composite sun square pluto. I was willing to sacrifice so much for that two year old. The counselor who was with him during nap time would get frustrated with him jumping around when he should be sleeping, but I volunteered every time to take over and try to make him fall asleep, and i never gave up and it wasnt annoying or frustrating at all . I guess its because with the love stellium their feelings do come first. IP: Logged |
CAY_512
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posted August 05, 2012 11:49 AM
That's so sweet! Its so interesting that even babies & toddlers have their signs at work. I can see my sons signs now. One other thing, my sister doesn't have this aspect with my mom. I can see how my brother and my mom interact and its different than how she acts with my sister. I wounder if she notices a difference between how my brother and I are with our mom and her relationship with her. My sister is also disrespectful at times to her. She'll say things that I could never say to my mom. IP: Logged |
Taineberry
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posted August 05, 2012 11:56 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I've recently found out that Sun in minor aspect to Venus is interpreted the same as the conjunction, so technically, if there's a minor aspect in the composite between the sun and venus, and the sun or venus is also conjunct mercury, then it's a love stellium
Bingo for me RAS. My most loving relationship has a close Sun/Merc/Jup stellium all semisextile Venus (2 degrees) Sun is EXACTLY opposite moon (0 deg partile) ie. Sun ssx venus and moon inc Venus. Pluto and Uranus are closely conjunct (0.09deg). Pluto/Uranus is sextile sun, trine moon and square Venus. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 12:05 PM
CAY: I honestly feel this world would be a better place if everyone adopted kids they had great compatibility with. Because so many of us have traumas that have to do with feeling our parents didnt love us enough. Were you and your brother less rebellious as teens than your sister? What are some of the effects you feel having the love stellium with your mom has had on you and him?PS You must have some good karma!
TAINEBERRY: Thank you for telling me that! The jupiter conjunct sun and mercury is already awesome, adding venus to the mix makes it true love. You must've been one happy coupling Jupiter=happiness. Venus=love.
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CAY_512
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posted August 05, 2012 05:49 PM
I think it would be nice to have an astrologer work at an adoption agency who analyzed the parents charts with the kids. I saw a adopted child being interviewed on TV, he said he didn't feel like he fit in with the family. All I could think about was astrology. My brother and I never fight with our mom, even growing up. If my mom makes me upset which rarely happens, I just talk to her. I fought with my dad growing up (a lot, very rebellious with him) but not my mom. My sister fights with my mom even as an adult. Ill have to ask my sister how she sees the relationship between my brother & my mom and me & my mom. I see a big difference on how my siblings interact with my mom, I wonder what my sister sees. I've never asked her that. IP: Logged |
Sacrifice 8
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posted August 05, 2012 11:35 PM
I was incredibly attracted to someone in high school and even afterwards. In the composite chart, Sun, Venus, and Mercury were together in Leo!Strangely enough, nothing good happened to even let us come together. Eh, Leo is also in the 12th. We have nothing in Leo in our natal charts except Juno at the exact same degree (29'). Although everything looked perfect in the charts, there was probably something lacking. It's too unfortunate, since I spent years just trying to get to her. I have a hard time finding someone else...there has not been a spontaneous attraction to anyone else since. Time will tell. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 11:44 PM
aw, post birth data? I will try to see what's going on IP: Logged |
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posted August 06, 2012 11:32 AM
I thought Pluto squares in a composite were a bad thing? Or is it just Venus sq. Pluto? Astro.com sure doesn't make it sound wonderful...IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted November 03, 2012 05:17 PM
Would a stellium that includes Neptune be negative? To be specific, there is a tight conj of Mercury/Neptune/Venus trine Moon. The Sun is 5 degrees away from the stellium, not sure if the orb is too wide to be a conjunction. Pluto sextiles the stellium, but there is tension with a Moon/Saturn opposition at 5 degrees. Mars squares Pluto at an orb of 5 as well. What orb should one use to calculate aspects? Is 5 degrees to wide?
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Lazyscarecrow
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posted November 03, 2012 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I thought Pluto squares in a composite were a bad thing? Or is it just Venus sq. Pluto? Astro.com sure doesn't make it sound wonderful...
I think Robert Hand's composite descriptions are a bit doomtastic at times.
As long as you notice the warning signs and make necessary adjustments, I don't think a few squares will kill the relationship. I feel like a strong Uranus is the worst (according to Astro.com) to have in the composite, but I have seen it in the longest term relationship composites, especially Sun-Uranus. Pluto adds intensity. I feel like if you aren't comfortable with it, it can be threatening or suffocating. I personally don't think Pluto is what can tear a bond apart. It causes discomfort at worst. If it sets off Sun and Mars or something, maybe bickering and arguing about who's boss. Venus and Pluto sounds like a sexual connection in a relationship, or if not romantic, again intense feelings and maybe jealousy. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted November 03, 2012 05:56 PM
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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Would a stellium that includes Neptune be negative? To be specific, there is a tight conj of Mercury/Neptune/Venus trine Moon. The Sun is 5 degrees away from the stellium, not sure if the orb is too wide to be a conjunction. Pluto sextiles the stellium, but there is tension with a Moon/Saturn opposition at 5 degrees. Mars squares Pluto at an orb of 5 as well. What orb should one use to calculate aspects? Is 5 degrees to wide?
Thanks =)
No, Neptune sounds lovely especially so close in aspect to Mercury and Venus, it means your ideals in love, morals, and intellect are in sync with each other's. At worst, you two are too idealistic and can't view your morals and such from an objective view in case there needs to be a change. Moon is opposite Saturn, which is emotional misunderstandings and even coldness, but trine Mercury, Neptune, and Venus sort of alleviates Saturn weighing on the Moon. There are ways to work around your emotional differences. I feel 5 degrees is good. Some people consider that the maximum limit.
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Stawr
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posted November 03, 2012 08:06 PM
the special someone in my life has his venus trine my mercuryIP: Logged |
Hera
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posted November 03, 2012 08:59 PM
The guy that currently interests me is a Scorp.. comp Sun opp Venus conj NN  I don't think I ever had Venus conj NN before.. tight too.. and Sun opp NN..... rest is red but damn..IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl
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posted November 03, 2012 09:31 PM
Hello Astro friends! I think there is something exceptional in our composite/synastry. What I saw is Sun conjunct Venus conjunct Mercury.Please can somebody confirm the above. Thank U! If so, I will share further abt how our relationship goes ... Me:
December 26th 1970
3:46 pm Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Him:
November 21st 1968
12noon Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia IP: Logged |
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