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Topic: The most loving relationships of your life: Tight Composite Sun c. Venus and Mercury
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 29, 2011 02:19 AM
I've observed that a Sun, Mercury, Venus conjunction in the composite indicates the most loving relationship of your life. The only things that could seriously dampen it is outer planets afflicting it, especially uranus and saturn (except for pluto because pluto imo is good). Uranus is worse than saturn though, as saturn just means being too serious together and mutually critical, but uranus literally means that you will not be able to be committed to that person anymore and either outside circumstances or internal ones will cause a sudden breakup (true to the style of uranus.)I've checked my composite with the people in my life who I felt were the most loving and affectionate towards me and I towards them. I had this stellium with all of them, and also with all of my crushes except for one. I always wondered why I was able to become such good friends with my crushes. I just wanted to share that bit of information. I thought it was important for everyone to know that a Sun-Mercury-Venus stellium is probably the best sign of a close relationship, assuming there is also good synastry and saturn or uranus is neither conjunct nor in bad aspect to the stellium in the composite. Also, mars conjunct this stellium is also very favorable as it gives passion, and so is pluto and the moon. I read online that the best indication of soulmates is that all the planets are clustered together and conjunct each other in the composite. From my experience, that with there also being a sun-mercury-venus stellium in this cluster is really wonderful. It must be true because my best friend told me she thinks she found her soulmate in her boyfriend, and she knew from the first day they met and when I checked their composite they did indeed have that tight stellium and all planets clustered together. Also, I two other composites between best friends who think the other is awesome but never said anything about soulmates lol. They had MOST (not all) of their planets clustered together in the composite, but no Sun-mercury-venus stellium, in fact, those three planets were not conjunct at all. So it it's significant still if they are conjunct, but its awesome when there's a love stellium in there too. My other friend also swears her boyfriend is her soulmate and they also have a love stellium with most composite planets conjunct. UPDATE: Composite sun venus and mercury aspecting each other at all in the composite is interpreted as a love stellium, as I found thru an internet search. Composite sun semisquare, opposite, or semisextile venus yields the same exact interpretation in Google as composite sun conjunct venus. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 29, 2011 05:58 PM
Thanks for sharing this with us!!!! I checked out what you are saying. I have stellium sun, mercury and venus with my father who I am very close to and feel very looooved by. I have this stellium (sun, mercury, venus) aspect as well with my best friend that I met in High School who I stayed best friends with for 10 years and till this day I think of her, still care for and remember our friendship fondly. I have stellium sun, mars and pluto with a guy I was involved with when I was 19 and this is the type of relationship that reached the very depth of my soul, forever changed me and I will never forget him and vice versa and we still talk every now and then and he wants to get back 9 years later. I have stellium with husband but saturn is involved in this stellium and stellium is not as tight of an orb as the rest of examples mentioned in this entire paragraph and relationship will end before my first saturn return probably (I have juno square saturn and is advisable to wait after first saturn return to get married if you do and he has juno opposition saturn). The guy that I am into right now I have a synastry stellium as opposed to composite stellium, his vertex which falls under his 7th house conjuncts my venus, mars, and Karma and my union, vertex, venus, mars, eros, valentine, Karma and destinn fall under his 7th house. Although my venus and mars fall under his seventh house my venus and mars conjunct his 8th house. So there is definitely something to this. What are your thoughts on Grand Trines in composite charts? Best, Laura Amelia IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 583 From: US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 29, 2011 09:29 PM
Interesting! I can definitely attest to this for sure. I checked my relationship with my mother, one of my favorite high school teachers that changed my life, and my most recent relationship. All true. Funny, with the person I consider "the love of my life", we didn't have it. Our relationship is pretty outwardly stoic as well. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 29, 2011 09:34 PM
Thank you guys for sharing what you found with me.Could I have the birth data for you and the guy you consider the love of your life? That sounds very interesting! IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 583 From: US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 29, 2011 10:40 PM
Surely! There's nothing exceptional in our composite/synastry at ALL but the energy between us is like nothing I've ever experienced with another person, and I'm pretty social/date around a good deal. Me: May 16th 1990 3:08 pm Los Angeles, CA Him: November 2nd 1989 2:40 pm Los Angeles CA IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1048 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 29, 2011 11:59 PM
the 2 longest romantic relationships I have been involved with had Sun conj Venus trine Moon in the composite... in both relationships we were best friends for years before anything romantic happen. Sun conj Venus was less than a degree in orb for both of them... IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 12:22 AM
Laura, yes! I have also seen this stellium in the synastry of couples, but the astrologer said that it is more important when it shows up in the composite because the composite chart shows how two people ultimately feel about each other. A grand trine in the composite? Well, that should be nice, but it depends on the planets involved, but well, it definitely can't compare to the conjunction of planets in the composite. That's what shows true compatibility: conjunctions. Oh, I should also mention that sun opposite venus in the composite is interpreted the same way as Sun conjunct venus so if you have sun opposite venus conjunct mercury (whether mercury is conjunct the venus or the sun it doesnt matter) it is basically and almost identical energy, except that for some reason the people seem to have opposite but complimentary personalities. Like if one of you is shy, the other will be very outgoing and you'll feel this sense of differentness but the strong love and affection will still be there just like in the stellium. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 12:23 AM
JFK, i'll look at those tomorrow for sure IP: Logged |
lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 12:40 AM
We have sun conjunction with venus, mars and neptune but they are not very close. But the Sun makes an exact trine with moon. My favorite aspect in our composite is the passionate ASC opposition Pluto and my worse Saturn square moon
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 30, 2011 01:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Laura, yes! I have also seen this stellium in the synastry of couples, but the astrologer said that it is more important when it shows up in the composite because the composite chart shows how two people ultimately feel about each other. A grand trine in the composite? Well, that should be nice, but it depends on the planets involved, but well, it definitely can't compare to the conjunction of planets in the composite. That's what shows true compatibility: conjunctions. Oh, I should also mention that sun opposite venus in the composite is interpreted the same way as Sun conjunct venus so if you have sun opposite venus conjunct mercury (whether mercury is conjunct the venus or the sun it doesnt matter) it is basically and almost identical energy, except that for some reason the people seem to have opposite but complimentary personalities. Like if one of you is shy, the other will be very outgoing and you'll feel this sense of differentness but the strong love and affection will still be there just like in the stellium.
Hi runaroundscreaming, I have found that I tend to favor trines in synastry among personal planets and conjunctions in composite charts. Are trines better in synastry and conjunctions better in composite charts? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 01:56 AM
You've got it! That's exactly what the astrologer told me is best. Conjunctions are best in the composite and trines are best in synastry. Conjunctions can be TOO intense in synastry and not always favorable especially depending on the planets involved. But conjunctions in composite always means your energy as a couple is very unified...you feel very complete together, like you're heading in the exact same direction and like you become one.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 02:05 AM
Lunatic, well that doesn't sound bad at all . Your synastry probably shows more as to why you are drawn to each other as I usually expect pluto to be aspected to something in the composite if it's a deep relationship. But even though your stellium is not very tight it doesnt mater. The tighter the stellium the stronger the love lol, but to tell you the truth i'd have to see your synastry to understand what draws you two together. Sun trine moon makes you equals and bery sympathetic to each other, sun conjunct venus means you just plainly love each other even if you aggravate each other sometimes like we all do, and mars adding to it adds to the passion of course. Venus conjunct mars means there is a physical attraction and u will act as if you dated one another even if you are just friends of the same sex! Lol. And you're right. Moon square saturn is not good. It means each other's actions makes the other person very insecure that they are not loved at all by them. You can't count on each other for emotional support and sometimes do things that really leave each other feeling lonely and like you cant trust each other. It's a tough aspect, you feel very insecure and like that person is never there when they should be<3 But you can work through it with communication. Make sure not to get critical of each other and remind eavh other how much you care because once either person criticizes the other it can come crashing down ecause this aspect makes the person receiving the criticism like it is the most painful hurtful thing ever and like u dont love them bc of it. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 374 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 07:40 AM
leonardo di caprio and blake lively have all that in their composite hehe IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 08:07 AM
RunAroundScreaming-THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS! This information has been a huge blessing to me today. I did my composite with my husband, and we have venus and mercury conjuncting 4 degrees apart, with the Sun opposing Venus to the exact degree. We do have absolutely opposite personalities, but very complimentary. He is an outgoing people person (leo sun) and I am a reserved, very quiet person (aquarius sun). The best part though......... I did the composite for my husband and our soon-to-be-born baby.... and their composite knocked my socks off!!! They have sun, venus and mercury piled on top of eachother! With like 1 degree of difference, and a grand trine with all the rest of the planets in stelliums! Best composite chart I have ever seen! And their composite North Node conjuncts Saturn and Mars.. So, I think they were fated by the stars to be father and child. :) :) :) IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 08:10 AM
On a side note, my composite with the baby isn't so hot. LOL But I will be happy to see them with such a beautiful relationship, and hopefully we'll have another baby that will be "mine", so to speak. IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 08:18 AM
ok, maybe it's not a grand trine, but it's something that looks pretty perfect! I also really like the Pluto opposing the Sun and Venus. It gives me the impression they are going to be just devoted to each other and almost obsessed with their love for eachother, like the baby is going to be one of those people that talks so very lovingly of their father. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 1980 From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2011 08:49 AM
that is a Kite formation. it's beautiful. I have it in my Natal and also in the composite with my mother. through challenges and obstacles, the relationship and the individuals involved will evolve to fly high. Sun/Venus/Mercury thing, now that makes sense with my guy. our composite has a Stellium in Scorpio, with tight Sun/Venus and a little off Mercury. but in the same Stellium we also have Saturn and Neptune. we also have a really disastrous Synastry bombarded with squares (me Sagittarius Stellium, him Virgo Stellium). i wondered why, through all the struggles we stick together. it has been equally wonderful and miserable.
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lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Lunatic, well that doesn't sound bad at all . Your synastry probably shows more as to why you are drawn to each other as I usually expect pluto to be aspected to something in the composite if it's a deep relationship. But even though your stellium is not very tight it doesnt mater. The tighter the stellium the stronger the love lol, but to tell you the truth i'd have to see your synastry to understand what draws you two together. Sun trine moon makes you equals and bery sympathetic to each other, sun conjunct venus means you just plainly love each other even if you aggravate each other sometimes like we all do, and mars adding to it adds to the passion of course. Venus conjunct mars means there is a physical attraction and u will act as if you dated one another even if you are just friends of the same sex! Lol. And you're right. Moon square saturn is not good. It means each other's actions makes the other person very insecure that they are not loved at all by them. You can't count on each other for emotional support and sometimes do things that really leave each other feeling lonely and like you cant trust each other. It's a tough aspect, you feel very insecure and like that person is never there when they should be<3 But you can work through it with communication. Make sure not to get critical of each other and remind eavh other how much you care because once either person criticizes the other it can come crashing down ecause this aspect makes the person receiving the criticism like it is the most painful hurtful thing ever and like u dont love them bc of it.
Thank you for your insight Can you tell me from this synastry who do you think is more attracted generally? Just a guess! IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 10:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by lechien: that is a Kite formation. it's beautiful. I have it in my Natal and also in the composite with my mother. through challenges and obstacles, the relationship and the individuals involved will evolve to fly high. Sun/Venus/Mercury thing, now that makes sense with my guy. our composite has a Stellium in Scorpio, with tight Sun/Venus and a little off Mercury. but in the same Stellium we also have Saturn and Neptune. we also have a really disastrous Synastry bombarded with squares (me Sagittarius Stellium, him Virgo Stellium). i wondered why, through all the struggles we stick together. it has been equally wonderful and miserable.
It IS beautiful, isn't it, Lechien! I have all these wonderful images in mind of the baby scraping his knees and going to his daddy to get his booboos kissed, and mitch is already such a loving and devoted sort of character that he would just love the baby so very much and the child would feel so secure and inspired by his love. I am very excited. I had a serendipetous run in with a psychic/doula one day... very much by accident/fate, and she had some very nice insights about the baby, that the baby WANTS to be here, and specifically desires to be brought in to the world through my husband and I. She kept refering to the baby as a "he", and I have a feeling the baby is a boy, and everyone so far has told me they have the same inclination. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 1980 From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2011 03:08 PM
that's really lovely! IP: Logged |
Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 447 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 30, 2011 07:40 PM
"Another astrologer told me that the best indication of soulmates is that all the planets are clustered together and conjunct each other in the composite and that there also exists a tight sun-mercury-venus stellium in this cluster."ALL of the planets? What about the "generation(al?)" planets that are very slow? (for ex. almost all planets are in taurus, and neptune, pluto, uranus in scorpio? IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 30, 2011 08:21 PM
Since mercury and venus are never far away from the sun, these three planets conjuncting isn't sth to write home about lol.It would be more meaningful if say moon was conjunct venus (tight orb), or moon was conjunct IC. Or sth like that. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:12 PM
Or could it also be that you can hve really loving relationships with many people? as they say love makes the world go 'round. I'm glad it's not rare to have these 3 in a stellium. Ah, I've just had to get a full-time job. I'll try to answer your questions sometime this week. Glad you guys are enjoying this! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8150 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 30, 2011 09:16 PM
Wow, that IS a great composite! Hooray! The sun and venus opposite pluto makes it even better in my opinion, because it shows an even stronger connection. Your father and baby will have such a deep deep bond I cannot even describe. I am so happy for you!IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 31, 2011 02:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: You've got it! That's exactly what the astrologer told me is best. Conjunctions are best in the composite and trines are best in synastry. Conjunctions can be TOO intense in synastry and not always favorable especially depending on the planets involved. But conjunctions in composite always means your energy as a couple is very unified...you feel very complete together, like you're heading in the exact same direction and like you become one.
Hi runaroundscreaming, So the stellium I have with husband involves saturn. Three stelliums: Pluto-saturn-jupiter and saturn-mercury-mars and sun-mercury-mars. How bad is this? Is relationship doomed bc of Saturn? Or is Saturn giving the relationship staying power? The stellium I had with guy I met at 19 which was my first truly meaningful relationship with opposite sex (pluto-mars-sun), I also have a sun-mars-saturn stellium with him and a jupiter-mars-sun stellium. Sun-mercury-venus stellium I have with dad and old bestfriend, both non sexual relationships and every significant romantic relationship with opposite sex in my life has involved Saturn in the stelliums. I am not sure if Saturn in a stellium is a bad thing as a result and I am starting to think is a good sign of a lasting committed relationship. What do you think?
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