posted November 08, 2011 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I've had alot of experience with scorpios (ppl I've dated, friends, family etc)

I find them alittle too broody and emotionally intense (not in a good way)
They're usually secretive, kinda manipulative and have tendency towards being emotionally and verbally abusive.

I'm mostly not that into the broodiness.
Having an air stellium, and have jupiter being my strongest planet by far in my natal, as well as being pretty strongly uranian, I need sb more carefree and happy.

And people say scorpio moons are loyal. Um...

I think you have to look at their whole chart.

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I think Venus in Scorpios are more loyal than moons. I'm usually very intimidated by Scorpio moons. Like, I don't bother lying to them. Even a little white lie. They know.
They're good arguers I think. But I'm good at stepping back and letting them lash out, feel stupid, and then waiting it out 'til they realize they're in the wrong. I mean, that's all you can do with them instead of reacting back - right?

posted November 08, 2011 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Scorpios like to play mind games. They are not direct for some reason they like to test you. Out of the water signs they win this award. They are insecure (who isn't?) but they want to know if they can trust you and want to understand you. This is what they do, the testing the questions although indirect yet direct.

I noticed that too they cant make their minds up wishy washy my friend is like this. I honestly think pisces placements are like this also libra.

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DRIVES.
ME.
INSANE.

the whole 'where do you wanna eat?" thing. OMG I don't have time for that. I just pick and if she doesn't like it, it's her own damn fault for not speaking up. I've seriously had to train her to stop being so passive and speak up for herself, it's ridiculous.

And I ask over and over again "Are you sure you want to go here? Are you SURE?" 'cause I don't want to get to the bar, club, movie whatever and then have her be Debbie Downer and it's the whole "I don't care, we can do whatever. I'm just trying to decide if this and this." I'm like that ... does not... answer my question... ONE BIT. It's like catering to a child even though the child is wiser about people than you are. It can be really trying and frustrating but I look at that as an opportunity to work on my patience and self-control.

posted November 09, 2011 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
PS. I just found out he has blocked me from seeing anything about him on Facebook. classy move. That effing c^#t. Haven't stopped crying. What the f--- did I do to him?.....I just can't.....

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posted November 09, 2011 03:09 PM            

But Scorpios with a lot of air sign or earth sign in their chart tend to be the kind who are easy-going and fun loving and let stuff go, the ones with fire-sign in their chart or water tend to air on the not so nice side.

In my experience, many of them tend to be passive-aggressive or play mind games. The evolved ones are very selfless and spend their time helping others, and helping them grow- it's an okay sign, but either I clash with them, or get along with them awesomely.

posted November 09, 2011 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
sweetheart, in his defense.. he told u from the get-go what it was that he was going to do to you.... ask yourself now what it is that u wanted to believe because u believed something other than what was said which is why i think u went through with it.

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He wanted to have a serious relationship. His own words. He sweared by it. I have known him for some time now and he is a strictly monogamous guy. I wasn't a fling, I was someone he always thought to be special. Inihtially I was the one who didn't think too highly of this whole thing.

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^ lol unfortunately, I doubt you'll be able to get that with any water sign guy or gem (or any guy with alot of water placements or gem placements =/
Best to stick with straight up signs lol.

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posted November 09, 2011 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Anjellyfish:
Well...Astrology is likely-hoods, and only says so much even if it's accurate, because there's also genetics, the environment they were raised in, chemicals in their brain. So I think labeling someone, judging or stereotyping a sign is pretty stupid. Like, I know Aries who are push-overs, and Leos who are very humanitarian and humble.

But Scorpios with a lot of air sign or earth sign in their chart tend to be the kind who are easy-going and fun loving and let stuff go, the ones with fire-sign in their chart or water tend to air on the not so nice side.

In my experience, many of them tend to be passive-aggressive or play mind games. The evolved ones are very selfless and spend their time helping others, and helping them grow- it's an okay sign, but either I clash with them, or get along with them awesomely.

So, it depends on the Scorpio. Especially if they have a lot of Scorpio in their chart, or not.

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posted November 09, 2011 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
He wanted to have a serious relationship. His own words. He sweared by it. I have known him for some time now and he is a strictly monogamous guy. I wasn't a fling, I was someone he always thought to be special. Inihtially I was the one who didn't think too highly of this whole thing.

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^ lol unfortunately, I doubt you'll be able to get that with any water sign guy or gem (or any guy with alot of water placements or gem placements =/
Best to stick with straight up signs lol.

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well, alright but i don't think you listened to everything that he said.. he told you (read back through your posts #4) that he was into things like that and that he was no good for you.. i saw your synastry with him and you both have that chiron aspect going on...

your pluto squares his moon and chiron and his conjunction makes a personal aspect to your sun...

there's gotta be a line, somewhere.. but he was totally honest.. yeah, he might've wanted a relationship but it doesn't change the fact that he said and he knows that he was going to hurt you.

posted November 09, 2011 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
well, alright but i don't think you listened to everything that he said.. he told you (read back through your posts #4) that he was into things like that and that he was no good for you.. i saw your synastry with him and you both have that chiron aspect going on...

your pluto squares his moon and chiron and his conjunction makes a personal aspect to your sun...

there's gotta be a line, somewhere.. but he was totally honest.. yeah, he might've wanted a relationship but it doesn't change the fact that he said and he knows that he was going to hurt you.

u said yourself that he told u so.

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posted November 10, 2011 03:02 PM            

And, what exactly is the best way to "open up" all that scorpio secretiveness? Is it to show him/her (gradually, over time) that you are more "accepting" of their ups and downs?

posted November 13, 2011 08:52 PM            

Few days ago the bipolar Scorp texted me saying he was going through a very rough time, perhaps his worst ever, he said he blocked me because my FB photos were making him melancholic and such, he apparently freaked out because of the distance. I said I didn't buy his BS.
He said he wasn't doing that.
Then he claimed I am never satisfied with his behavior, whether sweet or tough. I said "Huh?"

Tonight we started chatting again. He repeated how terrible he felt, worst time of his life, how confused he is with whatever there is between us yadda yadda.
BUT I noticed some strange behavior with a new sixteen year-old FB friend of his, called Effie.

To make a very long story short, I found out [and called him out on it of course] that he had been trying to get to meet her while lying to me that he had no intention whatsoever to do anything with her anyway [which I wasn't buying it].
Soooo, I decided to spoil it for him. I contacted her to inform her about his cr@p and past and present shenaningans, poor girl was completely unaware! She told me a few things and how she was really not interested in meeting him but he seemed cool in the beginning etc etc.

Aaaaaanyway, that made him furious! He went on to tell me not to interfere/that we're done/what can't I understand anyway etc.
I said "listen hon, I do know we're technically done but I warned you that if you ever decide you truly wanna move on with your life without me and start checking out other chicks, go ahead, do it. BUT you better tell me beforehand so I will know what to do with myself. That'd be the fair, civilized thing to do but noooooooo you thought f**king me up would be a better idea. There you go then".

I removed him from my contacts and so did he.

At the moment he's whining in his FB profile how he is "trapped in his own lie". whatever that might mean.

Man, I feel relieved... He wasn't that great in bed either [bitchy mode on].

PS. I feel like I've reverted back to my highschool years with all this "drama"..yuck.

posted November 13, 2011 09:07 PM            

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[Bumping this thread]

Few days ago the bipolar Scorp texted me saying he was going through a very rough time, perhaps his worst ever, he said he blocked me because my FB photos were making him melancholic and such, he apparently freaked out because of the distance. I said I didn't buy his BS.
He said he wasn't doing that.
Then he claimed I am never satisfied with his behavior, whether sweet or tough. I said "Huh?"

Tonight we started chatting again. He repeated how terrible he felt, worst time of his life, how confused he is with whatever there is between us yadda yadda.
BUT I noticed some strange behavior with a new sixteen year-old FB friend of his, called Effie.

To make a very long story short, I found out [and called him out on it of course] that he had been trying to get to meet her while lying to me that he had no intention whatsoever to do anything with her anyway [which I wasn't buying it].
Soooo, I decided to spoil it for him. I contacted her to inform her about his cr@p and past and present shenaningans, poor girl was completely unaware! She told me a few things and how she was really not interested in meeting him but he seemed cool in the beginning etc etc.

Aaaaaanyway, that made him furious! He went on to tell me not to interfere/that we're done/what can't I understand anyway etc.
I said "listen hon, I do know we're technically done but I warned you that if you ever decide you truly wanna move on with your life without me and start checking out other chicks, go ahead, do it. BUT you better tell me beforehand so I will know what to do with myself. That'd be the fair, civilized thing to do but noooooooo you thought f**king me up would be a better idea. There you go then".

I removed him from my contacts and so did he, but now I am pals with her while he is not. Hah!

At the moment he's whining in his FB profile how he is "trapped in his own lie". whatever that might mean.

Man, I feel relieved... He wasn't that great in bed either [bitchy mode on].

PS. I feel like I've reverted back to my highschool years with all this "drama"..yuck.

PS. right now I am seeing some things... I feel like he's telling her things because she's freaking out.. Damn boy.

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I'm glad you stood up for this whole damn mess. It's about time, no woman deserves such BS drama from any man..and if he was really a man he wouldn't even have time to even start all that drama!! He would be focusing his energy towards more meaningful things in life!!

As for that, I feel people always have the power to pull themselves out of their own mess, for example in his case. But perhaps it is easier for Scorpios to be stinging himself in the end, which is probably what he is doing. Perhaps he just needs to grow a pair and 'transform' out of this phase. Die and come back a live and brand new.

posted November 13, 2011 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
Well, he wouldn't even pick up the phone and talk to me these last days.
His words 2 week ago; he wanted to think about the two of us, he wanted to try and make things work out for us. I was in the dark. While I was waiting for him to sort his mind out, he was thinking of f**king an underage chick.
I've been through enough crazy, humiliating sh** so yeah, of course I would spoit this one.

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