posted May 03, 2012 03:48 AM            

i wonder how my scorp placements will react when things get more serious. i mean, im a scorp myself.
i love digging inside of people
but i dont want you to be digging inside of me at all.
i know we can be nutty.

i think it is scary, to open yourself so much and be all vulnerable to someone like that...
i know because i know myself and i know how much i can extract from someone and how i can use that to elevate or destroy someone, if i wanted to.

oh gods, im talking like a typical scorpio here: the depth, death, the mysteries...

posted May 03, 2012 04:17 AM            

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Hmm. Welllll I'm OK with vulnerable with Plutonian types, but not with someone who is going to read too much into my statements (when they're obv meant to be frivolous) since I do like playing around with words when it suits (Aqua Merc --sq Scorp Mars-- conj DSC, as H3 ruler, also Air Mars in the 3rd). It's really the sq that grates on me

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some folks do that to see how'll you react
it is like a test and youre prolly thinking:
let's get to the point, what do you really want to know? dont play with me.
annoying indeed.

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Did you say you 2 have Sun conj Mars? Those 2 together lend to some serious sexual attraction. As in, no joke. Stronger than Mars/Venus imo.

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no my sun has 23 degrees, so no mars-sun conjunction

now, bed activities are good...but what are the aspects that add the other nice components such as, affection, care, sentimentality?
which aspects are those?
the sexual/lust aspects seem to be sun-mars, venus-mars, venus-venus, mars-mars

maybe aspects in connection to the moon, jupiter and neptune are the 'love' aspects...
is that the case?

posted May 03, 2012 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
[B]Oh.....there are a few possibilities.
These jump out to me,
Sun/Moon/Venus on IC/DSC or in 4th/7th

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we're talking about synastry right?
so, when you say 4th or 7th house, are you saying person a's sun, moon or venus in person b's 4th or 7th house?

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Sun/Moon/Venus on IC/DSC

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does it mean person a has sun in scorpio and person b's IC is in scorpio or person a has sun in scorpio and person b's ic is in cancer, forming a trine.
which one?

im just trying to understand the format.

thanks a bunch

posted May 03, 2012 04:52 AM            

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He assumed that just because he was attracted to me with an intensity, that I felt the same

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posted May 03, 2012 04:55 AM            

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maybe aspects in connection to the moon, jupiter and neptune are the 'love' aspects...
is that the case?

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posted May 03, 2012 05:03 AM            

thanks a bunch!
astrology is fun

so, no moon aspects other than our moons being ruled by venus
and no venus-venus aspects either.

but this is what i was able to figure out based on looking at the chart and applying lonake's aspects

- my moon in taurus (16 degrees), he has 4th house and IC in taurus (9 deg). no conj (unless one decides for a wide orb)
- moon taurus trines his jup in cap
- jupiter in pisces squares his venus in gemini
- venus and sun in scorpio opposes his IC/4th house in taurus
- sun and venus in scorpio trines his DSC in cancer

there are not too many conjunctions
and, my chart doesnt make that many connections to his air placements, except for my mars in aqua.
important question

does this mean that the relationship would mean more to me?
as in, i would love more because he is hitting more of my placements? O_O

also his IC is conjunct to my AC, making his MC conjunct to my DC, if this means anything.

posted May 03, 2012 05:28 AM            

if you guys dont mind
what do these two aspects mean? i cant find anything on the ic. i understand the rest.

i know that the 4th house represents the home, which means that building a nesting environment would be compelling in the relationship but ive no idea about the ic, unless it is supposed to be the same as the 4th house.

- venus and sun in scorpio opposes his IC/4th house in taurus

- my moon in taurus (16 degrees), he has 4th house and IC in taurus (9 deg). no conj (unless one decides for a wide orb).

posted May 03, 2012 06:09 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Anything that opposes the ic conjuncts the mc ryt?

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i made a mistake in another post.

my sun conj my mercury and my venus conj. pluto.
but, unless you decide for a wide orb, not all my scorpio placements conjunct his MC.

his MC is in 9 degrees.
my sun and mercury are in 23 and 17 degrees, respectively, and my venus and pluto are in 7 degrees.

so, only my venus and pluto seem to conjunct his MC.
what does this mean Sand, do you know?
i dont see many people paying attention to IC, MC that much. it is always about the DC and the AC.

the pluto aspect sounds bad.

also, his saturn in scorpio (10 degrees) conjuncts my venus and pluto, and maybe, mercury (if one chooses a wide orb)

that saturn aspect sounds bad too.

sigh...
so his mars not only conjuncts my venus but also my pluto.....phew!

that pluto aspect to my venus sounds bad. i mean, i like pluto im very comfy with my own plutonic energy.

but, people always comment that pluto and saturn are harsh planets in synastry.

posted May 03, 2012 07:15 AM            

Talk about dominating. I've started noticing this ever since I got into astrology and pulled up his birth chart. We are talking everyday and he would say stuff like "oh, you should give me a msg before you go to work tomorrow morning..and I don't know if you're going out after work tomorrow...but I'll be home, just so you know."

I would say goodbye to him when we head to sleep and end the convo - "Ok, well, uhhh..I'll talk to you later then. Bye."
He'll be like "..Give me a proper goodbye."

But I've known him for a long time. He's very aggressive at times and comes off strong.

Typical of MIS? or just maybe the fact that he has his mars/pluto/merc in scorp, all in the first house?

posted May 03, 2012 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
he kept trying to READ TOO MUCH into everything I said, every movement I made. He assumed that just because he was attracted to me with an intensity, that I felt the same, and that everything I did was calculated with him in mind. [...] I'd rather have Mars/Pluto.

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I can relate to what you said as a Mars/Pluto person. It is sometimes difficult to understand how come the other person doesn't feel the intensity, the sparks, the madness lol, when it consumes me like nothing else... But I always had this fear of being ridiculous, so I wouldn't chase a person if the signals are not positive, I walk away (eventually) and usually they don't even know I had a crush on them. I don't like to put people in weird positions and I certainly don't want to put MYSELF in the position of being rejected.

posted May 03, 2012 09:14 AM            

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Oh brain, the things you do to me!!

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LMAO

chocogold - Post the synastry! It's too difficult to try to imagine how this might pan out based on just the particular aspects you listed.

Starry - I've met a guy with the Mars/Pluto conj in Scorpio ( no Merc in the mix). I've known several people with Venus/Mercury/Pluto conj in Scorpio, all Libra suns... and one with just Mercury/Pluto conj.
The only one who would say similar things to your guy - is the one with Mercury/Pluto. The Mars/Pluto guy is very very quiet.. although he can be physically aggressive, but he never verbalises anything. The Ven/Merc/Pluto people are as sweet as pie.. but the sweetness can at times be manipulative in nature.

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Typical of MIS?

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Having Mars conjunct Pluto and Mercury.. means that.. he will never be a typical example of MIS.
He has some shades of Gemini Mars in there, and the added oomph from Pluto.

posted May 03, 2012 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
According to this Venus is a good thing and Pluto myt not be so bad for plutonic careers.
http://skywriter.wordpress.com/2011/01/03/the-midheaven-in-synastry—mean ingful-career-connections/

He's an 84? Jupiter in cappy? Wat r u? U hit quite a few in my chart. I'm mars 22 Scorpio, Venus 6 Taurus, sun 16 Taurus. But oppositiony I guess..

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posted May 03, 2012 09:38 AM            

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and, my chart doesnt make that many connections to his air placements, except for my mars in aqua.
important question

does this mean that the relationship would mean more to me?
as in, i would love more because he is hitting more of my placements? O_O

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No. It does not mean the relationship will mean more to you, nor does it mean that you would love more.
However, what it does mean - is that the unaspected planet simply cannot connect. The main ones are.. his Mercury and his Pluto.
The fact that his Mercury is unaspected can mean that, as time goes on - you will find him too quiet, or non-communicative.. You might not like the way he thinks or you might not understand what he is getting at.
My parents had this.. My mum's Mercury is unaspected in the synastry and she felt as though my dad was never really understanding her and often critical.
This says nothing about -love- as such. I mean you are clearly STRONGLY attracted to each other and I do think you could both fall in love.
The Mercury issue - is something that would come to the surface, once the sexual attraction dies down a bit - maybe in a couple of years (if you are still together).
Because for now - in the initial stages, it's likely that you are both so attracted that nothing else matters.

About his unaspected Pluto - I think this means he has no real hold on you. You have a kind of power over him since your Pluto connects to his Mars. But his Pluto does nothing to your personal planets so he has no way of 'holding on' to you.
If you wanted to leave, he couldn't keep you hooked. I think he's the one in a more vulnerable position here, if that's what you were wondering. You could have him for breakfast.

posted May 03, 2012 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Starry - I've met a guy with the Mars/Pluto conj in Scorpio ( no Merc in the mix). I've known several people with Venus/Mercury/Pluto conj in Scorpio, all Libra suns... and one with just Mercury/Pluto conj.
The only one who would say similar things to your guy - is the one with Mercury/Pluto. The Mars/Pluto guy is very very quiet.. although he can be physically aggressive, but he never verbalises anything. The Ven/Merc/Pluto people are as sweet as pie.. but the sweetness can at times be manipulative in nature.

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Aww...I have venus/merc/pluto stellium in scorpio in my 1H...I guess I can be sweet........sweet poison that is.

Bwhahahahahahahah !!!

But this particular guy I know he can be very aggressive once he decides on what he wants..and there is no stopping him. I guess that's the MIS and pluto power. :P

His pluto conj my venus merc and pluto stellium super tight.

Also his mars conj my venus in scorp.