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posted November 23, 2011 07:08 PM            

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Mars neptune can directly lead to sexual "teasing". I was just talking about this on tuxedo masks thread where he was being teased by a woman. I have had the conjunction in three different relationships, It can range from anywhere to ecstatic to extremely unsatisfying.

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posted November 23, 2011 07:18 PM            

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The sex, I mean can range from those extremes, lol sorry.

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posted November 23, 2011 07:33 PM            

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That's one of the aspects my mum and step dad have.. an exact Mars/Neptune conj. I have no idea how it plays out for them sexually nor do I want to ever find out LOLL
But as I said - they've been together for ages!

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posted November 23, 2011 11:41 PM            

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^ ooh I bet they have a juicy imaginative sex life Mars/Neptune = sexual fantasy, prob instigated by randy Mars.

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posted November 24, 2011 03:08 AM            

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Nice discussions here

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posted November 24, 2011 05:05 AM            

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Shudder!!!… I dislike everything about this thread.

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posted November 24, 2011 07:34 AM            

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Shudder!!!… I dislike everything about this thread.

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Don't read it then

I think the thing that gets me the most is the not knowing if it will or won't happen. I just wish I could know, but I just cannot have that conversation with him.
Thank you to those of you who have been kind enough to share your views, it's been a great insight.

Can one tell anything thing from our composite chart on the first page? What are your views? Is it likely to happen between us?

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posted November 24, 2011 09:10 AM            

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Journia,

I'm not promoting anything or condoning anything. Sounds like you have to do what you have to do. If you so believe that its in your interests to move forward, you have to make the necessary move aggressively. The circumstances are unique enough that it warrants unconventional moves. This thread is pointless. It will not help you get what you want.

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posted November 24, 2011 03:35 PM            

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Journia,

I'm not promoting anything or condoning anything. Sounds like you have to do what you have to do. If you so believe that its in your interests to move forward, you have to make the necessary move aggressively. The circumstances are unique enough that it warrants unconventional moves. This thread is pointless. It will not help you get what you want.

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Maybe it won't help me get what I want - yes you're right, but I find reading the comments is very therapeutic

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posted November 24, 2011 03:47 PM            

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I'm guessing hubby has placements in Aqua, Mars most likely... they have sex in their heads and it's fine for them.

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Yep Aqua Mars.

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posted November 24, 2011 03:53 PM            

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On paper,I would say Mars/Neptune is an innocent aspect. So much satisfaction via just fanatsizing; not just that,but gratification as well. No need for action. But,RL has disproved my theory,naturally

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posted November 24, 2011 05:23 PM            

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Yep Aqua Mars.

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Then stop nagging him and fug with his head
Webcams, texts, any virtual means of communication are more than welcome. Deny sex constantly - make a bet or something and make sure you are the one who wins. This is something a psychologist told me about male impotence (not the physical one), doing everything but not the actual deed usually does the trick. It can't hurt a low sex drive either. I know the focus is on Cappy at the moment, but improving your life with your partner in the meantime would be good for everyone. At least, that's what I think.

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posted November 24, 2011 05:44 PM            

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I'm guessing hubby has placements in Aqua, Mars most likely... they have sex in their heads and it's fine for them.

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Mars in Aqua here and I assure you the sex must be real or else. Hence, I suggest it's best to look at the complete chart. I, for instance, have a Taurus Moon and Scorpio Venus. My Aqua Mars squares both.
On the other hand, I don't suffer fools gladly; there must be a good mental connection for the sexual interest to peak (Aqua Mars and Sag sun).

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posted November 24, 2011 05:46 PM            

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Maybe it won't help me get what I want - yes you're right, but I find reading the comments is very therapeutic

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I agree with the comments about your synastry.
I hope you re-think the forward move with Cappie because it doesn't look like you can disengage safely and without long-term consequences. He's wise enough to know that and so he's hesitant.

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posted November 26, 2011 05:24 PM            

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Can anyone tell anything from the comp chart on page 1? please.....

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posted November 26, 2011 05:31 PM            

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Can anyone tell anything from the comp chart on page 1? please.....

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What stands out in the composite for me is the Venus - Pluto/Eros opposition, 12th and 6th houses. It's a passionate relationship but it looks like power struggles too. On the other hand, Neptune trines Venus, very romantic...

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posted November 26, 2011 05:41 PM            

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I don't want to judge you, and I'm not, but I just really want to say that all this is extremely unfair on your husbund. If you have problems with him, seek marriage counselling or get out of the marriage. I think he'd rather be divorced by you than know that you're cheating on him. Cheating on a person really damages them, I know bc it happened to me. It's been nearly a year and a half and I'm still not over all the pain. Do you really want to do this to him?
Please think about your husbund for a second and just let the man go.

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posted November 26, 2011 05:46 PM            

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I don't want to judge you, and I'm not, but I just really want to say that all this is extremely unfair on your husbund. If you have problems with him, seek marriage counselling or get out of the marriage. I think he'd rather be divorced by you than know that you're cheating on him. Cheating on a person really damages them, I know bc it happened to me. It's been nearly a year and a half and I'm still not over all the pain.
Please think about your husbund for a second and just let the man go.

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Mintgirl, you're starting to annoy me. I'm not asking for your advice on my marriage.If you don't want to anwser the questions I'm asking, then please do not waste your time or my time by writing. Thank you.

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posted November 26, 2011 05:48 PM            

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What stands out in the composite for me is the Venus - Pluto/Eros opposition, 12th and 6th houses. It's a passionate relationship but it looks like power struggles too. On the other hand, Neptune trines Venus, very romantic...

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Thanks for this. Can you tell from the chart if it will happen or not by any chance?

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posted November 26, 2011 06:21 PM            

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Thanks for this. Can you tell from the chart if it will happen or not by any chance?

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The energy is there (I mean in the charts, never mind in between you lol) so I'm thinking yes but it won't be easily forgotten if it happens. Everything screams for a prolonged affair in your synastry and composite.
For the actual realization of the charts, you need 1) free will, i.e. that they both want it with no apprehension, and 2) a trigger, usually a 'hot' transit over a personal planet of the most apprehensive person of the two.

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posted November 26, 2011 06:23 PM            

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Mars neptune is a lot of satisfaction via just fantisising, but do Not underestimate this combonation. It can be dark and powerful in its own way and yes the mars person will try to "encite" the neptune. But neptune can "bait" mars like a someone teasing a dangerous, hungry bear in winter, mars can become anywhere from amused to angry and extremely frustrated with neptune. Overall sinse this is kinda generational for me and I am always mars, I do not like the trickery and subterfuge of this combination, it is confusing and frustrating in the extreme.

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posted November 26, 2011 06:28 PM            

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For the actual realization of the charts, you need 1) free will, i.e. that they both want it with no apprehension, and 2) a trigger, usually a 'hot' transit over a personal planet of the most apprehensive person of the two.

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Anongrl, Cappy is the most apprehensive of the two what would be classed as a hot transit over a personal planet? would you be able to explain it to me or give me an example please? Thanks so much.

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Mars neptune is a lot of satisfaction via just fantisising, but do Not underestimate this combonation. It can be dark and powerful in its own way and yes the mars person will try to "encite" the neptune. But neptune can "bait" mars like a someone teasing a dangerous, hungry bear in winter, mars can become anywhere from amused to angry and extremely frustrated with neptune. Overall sinse this is kinda generational for me and I am always mars, I do not like the trickery and subterfuge of this combination, it is confusing and frustrating in the extreme.

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Interesting, thanks. Neptune's not teasing intentionally here, but, however, Mars is showing signs of becoming increasingly frustrated. :/

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posted November 26, 2011 06:38 PM            

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Yes many times it is not intentional, neptune is rarely, if ever intentionally mean in any way. But the frustration aspect of this combination is what is the most telling. I have never been in or known others with this combination that didnt express the frustration part on one or both parts of the equation.
For what its worth, I think this will probably end up happening between you two, it may start off great and decline to bad or start off bad and evolve to good.
With mars pluto tho, I would have to say that the fuc*ing would be steller.
You may be kidding yourself on the whole "one night of passion" front here to. This could develope to be much more. That does not neccesarily mean it will end well though.

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posted November 26, 2011 06:39 PM            

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Anongrl, Cappy is the most apprehensive of the two what would be classed as a hot transit over a personal planet? would you be able to explain it to me or give me an example please? Thanks so much.

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I was thinking along the lines of a Mars transit over his Venus or some such (anything that triggers his "sex" planets lol). To be more precise I would need to study his natal and right now I can hardly see under my nose (sleepy time here lol)...

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