posted November 26, 2011 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:

You may be kidding yourself on the whole "one night of passion" front here to. This could develope to be much more. That does not neccesarily mean it will end well though.

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Yeah. From the comments so far I'm starting to think about that (that I may be kidding myself with the one night stand only thought). Didn't really realise before......might have to re think this.

posted November 26, 2011 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I was thinking along the lines of a Mars transit over his Venus or some such (anything that triggers his "sex" planets lol). To be more precise I would need to study his natal and right now I can hardly see under my nose (sleepy time here lol)...

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sleepy time here too.... I know how you feel!
Well thanks Anongrl and please come back and study his chart tomorrow if you have time really appreciate it.

posted November 26, 2011 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Wow that double moon -uranus will be unstable tho, I wouldn't bet on this dark horse in the longrun...

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posted November 26, 2011 06:46 PM            

Not wanting to get a one night stand pregnant and ruining his marriage

Not wanting to bring hone an STD to his wife and ruining his marriage

And somewhere in the back of many men's minds is the boiling bunny scene from Fatal Attraction.

posted November 26, 2011 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Yea girl Im not a moralistic person at all and I have been thru this myself, so I say go for what u want, but be very careful because everything is not what it seems here and u could get a lot more than bargained for(HURT).

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posted November 26, 2011 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
With the double moon uranus there is a good chance of escaping, but im not sure it would not homewreck on one or both sides. Moon-uranus is the great homewrecker. U have to be careful. Let me have another look at synastry...

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posted November 26, 2011 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Ok looking at this synastry is not easy on here, lol. But what I can see, he is Very attracted to you and he wants a physical relationship, maybe even More than you do, lol. He does Not trust you as much as you think he does! He sees you as a little unfathomable. Unreachable. It entices him even more. I think this is one of his main problems. I think he truely loves the woman he is with now, But he is dissastisfied with her for some reason. Does he find her cold?? He feels responsible for her maybe, but it has lost its spark long ago? This affiar between the two of you is 100% possible, but it may hurt more than its worth...thats my take. If this is what u really want, then go for it. Maybe you should get a little more agressive? I see him giving in.

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posted November 27, 2011 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I'm thinking yes but it won't be easily forgotten if it happens. Everything screams for a prolonged affair in your synastry and composite.

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posted November 27, 2011 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
Anongrl, Is there a particular one of us that will not find it easily forgotten/who will feel it the most?

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Any contacts of the luminaries indicate a strong (long-term) bond potential. Add to the mix the Mars-Venus contacts (sexual tension), and you understand why this can't be a one-night stand.

For who feels it the most is a combination of things. Let me look at the charts again.

Yeah, his Pluto is on your Mars. Pluto is almost a synonymous to obsession in love relationships and when in close contact with a personal planet it ups the antenna of the sexual chemistry. But Mars is Mars and there is potential for power struggles.
Another indication of his being in trouble with you: both his 5th and 8th house planets are in contact with your personal planets. He has a 8th house Moon and a 5th house Sun. He seems familiar with affairs and if I didn't know he's married I would say he's a player. His reluctance is understood. Saturn in his first, he has learnt his lessons well. You are not his first "trouble", methinks. But he's in hot water judging by his personal planets in his love/sex houses all in contact with yours.

posted November 29, 2011 06:43 PM            

Watch out later in Dec when T Sun is conjunct his Mars in the 5th. His Mars sextiles your Pluto in your 8th and trines his own Saturn which sextiles your own Mars (again in your 8th) and is linked to his Venus... Saturn could put a damper but there's an involvement of the 5th and 8th houses... The 8th is sex but more serious and with complications (the 5th is the light-hearted and infatuated kind). You might not be able to resist him and you finally take initiative.

Because of the Saturn involvement, I would have preferred an involvement of his Moon in the 8th in Pisces. Right now the Sun is conj your Uranus which affects his Moon. When Sun conjuncts his Neptune in his 5th your Mars will be activated in your 8th. That's better for him since Neptune rules his Moon in the 8th. His Moon is his vulnerable side so please treat him well. There's just a lot of Mars (his and yours) involvement this month so I say perhaps things have good chances for escalating...

posted December 03, 2011 07:40 AM            

I do believe he has proved the astrologers right, he's not feeling casual enough about you to have a flippant fling. I'm glad he knows that before anything has happened.

The Mars-Saturn to Pluto synastry connection is a bit too responsible to be ignored.

posted December 03, 2011 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I've been checking this string because like any story you get to know; I want to know the next chapter.

I do believe he has proved the astrologers right, he's not feeling casual enough about you to have a flippant fling. I'm glad he knows that before anything has happened.

The Mars-Saturn to Pluto synastry connection is a bit too responsible to be ignored.

Is it time for you to admit you have more feelings for him that one night too?? I've never believed you're not falling for this guy...but I understand it's sooo frustrating when that happens and the life circumstances don't suit...

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Waxlobster, It's nice that you keep coming back to check my thread.
To be honest, I don't think I am falling for him. Obviously there are other factors which boost his sexual appeal to me like the fact his masculine but has a sweet, sensitive side, he makes me laugh, he's random and he's very intellegent. So, yeah, I guess he doesn't JUST appeal to me phsyically........ but falling for him, I don't think so? I mean, I know that it's not impossible.....but a previous poster mentioned that I wouldn't care much for him beyond sex? :/

posted December 04, 2011 04:08 AM            

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i predict a storm. If it's all so light and only sex and you are both in committed relationships, then you would not be on here and so intent on what it all means. I think he is a catalyst for change in your life regardless of whether it goes anywhere or not. Sure, your husband might be great but is he right for you? I am not being flippant even though I may sound it. I know that sometimes when certain needs are not being met in a relationship, sometimes we have one of those moments of someone coming into our life to backhand us emotionally. And even though you keep saying this is not happening and you are not involved , I am going by your actions here - you keep coming back to this and spending time on it and significant energy. This is not only about some sexual trifle. You can be attracted to others and not act on it. If you do, my feeling is probably something is missing in your relationship. I think this guy is making up for something you are lacking in your relationship and is making you think about it. Why say it's only one-sided and only him who is feeling it? That can't be the case because then you wouldn't be spending so much time on here asking. So if you're feeling yourself falling, either let yourself fall 100% and damn all consequences, or somehow stop it all because I can assure you this will get serious.

Someone was talking about Uranus and moon and I can assure you as someone with this aspect and who is engaged to a triple Aquarius with this aspect and square his Venus that it doesn't necessarily mean short-term....it means sudden flares of feeling. That means you think you have control of the situation and then one day you realize your feelings have completely taken over. Whether or not it lasts is not determined by Uranus. You have to look at saturn. And you also have to look at the whole pic , not to mention your progressions and solar arcs.

posted December 04, 2011 07:08 AM            

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Hello, I need help understanding one guy's thought process. All I ask is for you not to judge me or give any lectures, we're both adults and we know the score, what's at stake etc etc.

Ok so there is this Cappy guy at work. We're both already in serious relationships. From the day we met (5 months or so ago) it was apparent that there was serious sexual chemistry between us. I could tell he felt it, he could probably tell I felt it.
We flirted quite a lot, tension was building...we never ever exchanged any words to do with telling one another that we are attracted to each other, that we wanna sleep together etc but somehow we would end up talking about sex or taking it further, without actually saying those words, for example one time the conversation went something like, "Do you ever stay out the whole night? Would you be able to come up with an excuse at short notice" or stuff like "I need an assistant" "I'll help you" "no, if you were my assistant we'd never get any work done..." That kind of thing......
4 weeks ago we had a department dinner at a restaurant. There were lots of people around, it was really busy. He was really flirting, so I suggested we go for a walk. As soon as we got in the lift and the doors closed he GRABBED me and kissed me. It was intense. Even outside on the street we couldn't keep our hands off each other or stop kissing. When we finally did, before we went back inside, I said to him "I can't take the sexual tension between us anymore.... something more has to happen" I asked if he agreed, he said yes. I asked if we were on the same page, he said yes.

Since then, he makes any excuse to talk to me at work, he brings me up randomly in conversations with others - so much so that my other colleagues have even said that they can tell he really likes me/fancies me, his eyes light up when he sees me. He knows I'm very much interested in him, I make it very clear and I know he gets the signals (I'm trusting his Pisces moon and my Scorpio moon/Cancer sun's intuition ). He said he wants to take me for a drink, but hasn't set the date, he said he doesn't regret the kiss and that it was intended...

Whenever we get on to our 'taking-it-futher' conversations he says he's scared but when I ask of what? He just replies "Complications...." (but won't elaborate) or he'll say "Don't know...... I'm just scared...." I asked him what is going on in his head, he said I can't tell you that, I will never tell you...

BUT yet, he's so slow to make a move (I mean a proper move involving physical contact or at least steps towards that)! Nothing is happening. What is his problem????????? Please help me to understand him because I just cannot
I know he wants me (sorry if that sounds terrible!). What is he waiting for?? If you want to sleep with someone and they want to sleep with you, don't you just do it?? Oh, and he's not worried about the guilt of cheating (or so he says) because once when he said 'I'm scared, I'm afraid', I actually asked him if it was about guilt and he laughed and said no, not at all....

Sorry to rant on. Please help! I'll post his chart.

Thank you in advance

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