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Topic: Don't judge - need help understanding this dude please!
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VenusDiSirius
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posted March 04, 2012 07:57 PM
  
Oh,nice,moralizing BS and then peace out...IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 04, 2012 07:58 PM
Ya whatever PfftIP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 04, 2012 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Oh,nice,moralizing BS and then peace out...
I didn't being immoral turns you on so much
Have fun with it IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 04, 2012 08:00 PM
Being immoral turns you on and being moral turns me on so pffft get a grip IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
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posted March 04, 2012 08:00 PM
I believe you said -whatever-
So,whatever away...!IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 04, 2012 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I believe you said -whatever-
So,whatever away...!
Ya it is whatever cheaters! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 04, 2012 08:04 PM
Ohh and 1 more thing! DISGUSTING! STANK and utterly deserves NO RESPECT! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted March 04, 2012 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Ohh and 1 more thing! DISGUSTING! STANK and utterly deserves NO RESPECT!
Quoting just in case you edit your post and moderator miss it.
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ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 04, 2012 08:08 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Quoting just in case you edit your post and moderator miss it.
I'm entitled to my opinion and don't need to hide or delete anything IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted March 04, 2012 08:10 PM
But you are not allowed.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 04, 2012 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
But you are not allowed.
Like I said...Whatever. CHEATING IS WRONG. IP: Logged |
Lava Flower
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posted March 04, 2012 09:16 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Hebrews 13:4Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Galatians 6:7-9
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Forr he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.
We all have different pathways to God  Don't judge, and you won't be judged is somewhere in the Bible too. Nothing is ever simple or black and white. I think everyone involved is or will suffer to a certain degree  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 04, 2012 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
We all have different pathways to God Don't judge, and you won't be judged is somewhere in the Bible too. Nothing is ever simple or black and white. I think everyone involved is or will suffer to a certain degree
I'm not judging just reminding the rest is up to them. I'm not casting stones for " he who has not sinned cast the first stone." I am a sinner for I am human so I have no right to judge. I always say "only god can judge me."
Tupac Shakur. But for someone to actually remind me of the right path, a path that's going to bring me blessings instead of drama I welcome the reminder open heartedly. Marriage is a sacred vow.
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Alma Sun
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From: The East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 04, 2012 10:08 PM
 Cheating is a sore spot for many.. so it's understandable if you get upset. But, please ariesdragon, refrain from name calling.
Play nice people, or no punch & pie at Quirky Cuisine.
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"The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off." — Robert Hand
"Cynicism, like gullibility, is a symptom of underdeveloped critical faculties." — Jamie Whyte IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 04, 2012 10:13 PM
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Originally posted by Alma Sun:
Cheating is a sore spot for many.. so it's understandable if you get upset. But, please ariesdragon, refrain from name calling.
Play nice people, or no punch & pie at [URL=http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-
bin/ubb/forumdisplay.cgi?action=topics&number=31&SUBMIT=Go]Quirky Cuisine[/URL].
Ok alma sun IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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posted March 04, 2012 10:54 PM
I don't judge you in the slightest and I hope you still feel like this is a safe space for you to talk in despite a few boughs of hostility from people. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted March 04, 2012 11:33 PM
I wish I could tell you all about transits, progressions, and solar arcs but alas, I'm not great with those.MVM is so often the voice of wisdom here. Very right with the Uranus/moon bit she wrote. This aspect is hot/cold because the intensity is hard to deal with on a day to day basis when you feel like you're losing your mind. So in enters the 'cold'. Initially I thought he had an STD and was putting the breaks on bc of that (still could be a possibility?) but seeing the synastry and composite it is definitely intense. Now what I'm thinking is the deal with your marriage. I'm not sure how you married someone with whom the sexual preferences where so different. I say that because of your own statements and my own feelings. This is something that is important to me as well and have difficulty being with someone who is not sexually on par with me. Anyway back to my original point...no matter where this 'affair' goes it still bring up the question of what to do with your marriage, because it's obviously not a fulfilling one. I want you to understand I'm not judging (I've often been the other woman, knowingly and unknowingly), I'm merely trying to point out the decisions you will have to face irregardless of the Cappy man. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 05, 2012 03:24 AM
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This **** is so much more powerful than me.
Jounia - There are people in long term relationships who fell in love when one or both of them were with someone else. As I was saying before - your synastry is extremely *solid* and loving - so I am not surprised you feel this way.
Your second marriage might be the one that lasts a life time.
50% of first marriages end in divorce. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
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posted March 05, 2012 07:21 AM
Thanks,Alma  IP: Logged |
mir
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posted March 05, 2012 09:17 AM
Well, we don't need God to FEEL that we can't respect cheaters. Let's be honest and stay close to ourselves; what vibe did we get when reading this thread?I'm just wondering if there's ANYONE who didn't get some sort of disgusting vibe here? Honestly, I alsmost can't imagine that but if there *IS*.. well, then it almost has to be astrologically related and I will blame my fixed chart and the aspects that cause such a strict moral. And that's also what I attract and want to attract. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 05, 2012 03:02 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Sure,head for astro.com,extended chart selection,and under type of chart you want choose: transit + progressions (combined) for your and his natal,and progressions for composite,(or you just post the composite and we can compare natal progressions to it ) and we'll figure out transitions on the way...Thank you so much, will do so in a moment. 
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Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 05, 2012 03:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
Nothing is ever simple or black and white. I think everyone involved is or will suffer to a certain degree
so sooooo true Lava Flower! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 05, 2012 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
I don't judge you in the slightest and I hope you still feel like this is a safe space for you to talk in despite a few boughs of hostility from people.
JFK - if this is aimed at me then thank you, it means a lot. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 05, 2012 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I wish I could tell you all about transits, progressions, and solar arcs but alas, I'm not great with those.MVM is so often the voice of wisdom here. Very right with the Uranus/moon bit she wrote. This aspect is hot/cold because the intensity is hard to deal with on a day to day basis when you feel like you're losing your mind. So in enters the 'cold'. Initially I thought he had an STD and was putting the breaks on bc of that (still could be a possibility?) but seeing the synastry and composite it is definitely intense. Now what I'm thinking is the deal with your marriage. I'm not sure how you married someone with whom the sexual preferences where so different. I say that because of your own statements and my own feelings. This is something that is important to me as well and have difficulty being with someone who is not sexually on par with me. Anyway back to my original point...no matter where this 'affair' goes it still bring up the question of what to do with your marriage, because it's obviously not a fulfilling one. I want you to understand I'm not judging (I've often been the other woman, knowingly and unknowingly), I'm merely trying to point out the decisions you will have to face irregardless of the Cappy man.
Hi, thanks for your post. No, the breaks are not on anymore - We are so in love with each other. The reason he didn't make a move is because he already had feelings for me and knew that he would fall for me and was scared that I would reject him.
With my husband and your question about us being seually different - this was never the case in the beginning. For the first 4 years of being together it was fantastic. I have no idea what happened. But it's so not even about sex anymore. I have found someone who makes me feel out of this world. This person is my soul mate, the man I have been looking for all my life and I am the same for him. The pain is huge but the happiness, joy and love that we give each other is out of this world. This is serious business, it's not some superficial crap, and we cannot understand why we have found each other what can only be described at this moment in time as 'too late'. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 05, 2012 03:17 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Jounia - There are people in long term relationships who fell in love when one or both of them were with someone else. As I was saying before - your synastry is extremely *solid* and loving - so I am not surprised you feel this way.
Your second marriage might be the one that lasts a life time.
50% of first marriages end in divorce.
BettyBoop, thank you. I never ever imagined this would ever happen to me. It's the most fcuked up thing ever.
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