posted December 03, 2011 07:14 PM            

i'll just shut up now, and wait for when you have more time to get into it

posted December 04, 2011 12:22 AM            

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he has a stellium in my 6th house, venus exaclty on the cusp.
it's to early for me to know how that works out, so i was hoping some of you could share
he doesn't try to control my daily roughtines or anything, which is what i've read this placement does.

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Where Venus falls in the partner's chart is the area where love and support will show through. So he will be supportive and pleasant throughout your daily routines, probably trying to help. How he will help will depend on what sign his Venus is in. A possible downside is that if his Venus is afflicted (e.g. in detriment or receiving a hard aspect), he may actually mess things up for one of you despite his good intentions. (e.g. I had my Venus in a guy's 10th but since my Venus is in Scorpio and therefore not functioning as Venus should at her best, I actually was not helpful for his career due to my Scorpio-ness. As much as I wanted to help, I was more a hindrance due to my obsessive tendencies when infatuated.)

According to "The Astrology of Human Relationships" by Frances Sakoian & Louis A. Acker, Venus in a partner's 6th House probably indicates social friendships established through one's day job. And if Venus is afflicted, it could interfere with work. (This isn't the entire passage, there's a bit more but it's mainly elaboration.)

My partner's Sun was in my 6th and this seemed to make my daily routines center (Sun) around him. :/ Because we had strong Sun-Saturn contacts, I'm still sharing chores with him after the romantic aspect of the relationship broke....we got a dog (6th House rules small pets) while we were together, so after we broke up I'm still doing my share of the dog-walking, feeding, bathing, vet visits. 6th House stuff.

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Originally posted by defeat:
lmao, yeah, u know what, i do do that
*puts head down in shame*

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i have a stellium in his second house, i thought the control thing was more to make him do good, give him encouragement, be there for him in achiveing his 2ed house issues

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Originally posted by defeat:
although i did have one friend who was always up in my business in a 6th house way
and she had here sun there.....

i'll just shut up now, and wait for when you have more time to get into it

thx

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EDIT: The book I mentioned above doesn't say anything about anyone nosing into someone else's daily routines, but I looked through my personal collection of charts and discovered my Mom's Sun is in my sister's 6th House. And yeah, my mom is all over my sister's biz. She's actually like this towards our family but especially severe towards my sister - complaining about how my sister has too much free time after work and should do more, she bugs her about her clubbing and drinking, how she dresses...she just nags at her about her personal life in general. She doesn't do this as much to me, she doesn't seem to give a flip what I do. Her Sun is in my 5th.

posted December 04, 2011 01:45 AM            

the planets are venus, mars, pluto and mercury.

we're still in the begining stages, i keep expecting him to start nit picking, but he hasn't.maybe once things start getting more comfortable?

he has some afflictions in his chart,
ie.
venus ...square moon and mc
mars... square jupiter
pluto ...square moon and mc
mercury...squre moon and jupiter

i've never had any planets in someone's 6th house, so i really don't have any idea of what it feels like

oh and my stellium in his 2ed house is
neputne, uranus, moon, saturn

posted December 04, 2011 02:25 AM            

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we're still in the begining stages, i keep expecting him to start nit picking, but he hasn't.maybe once things start getting more comfortable?

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But that's his Sun in my 6th. If your guy's planets are different then you may not experience the pickiness that I did with my ex and my sister from my mom, because the Sun in someone's 6th is like an employer-employee relationship.

posted December 04, 2011 03:03 AM            

I think the 6th house gets a negative rep a lot of the time....I have my Venus Scorpio in my fiance's 6th but I can assure you the day to day does not revolve around him...don't get me wrong, I am very giving and caring, but I don't 'serve' someone like a maid and never have. I do have a 6th house Libra stellium and it makes me a caretaker in general so I am very careful not to fall into that rut. But in general, my Venus in his 6th has made living together almost too easy. We are both highly independent and individualistic but together in relationship we are so oddly domestic and love the day to day little 'traditions' which make us a couple. I like to think of this as Venus/6th in action. Plus of course IC/4th house coziness helps ...I'm not saying 6th house Venus stuff can't be negative, I am sure it can - but then it's got more to do with the people involved and how they handle stuff, etc.

posted December 05, 2011 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Leonine8:
Friends in your 6th might tell you random daily things like what they had for lunch, what book they're reading, or chit chat about things like nutrition or exercise. That's Mercury and pretty amusing once you realize that's why they're doing it. You notice it more.

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LOL, that's funny - I can see that happening. Listing off mindless, day to day stuff. Yeah, very 6th house. Kind of intimate in that 'I know you so well, I will tell you this meaningless and mindnumbing stuff' kind of way.