posted December 09, 2011 02:17 PM            

I've only been with two guys who had this placement.
I notice after being intimate with them, they become possessive of you and literally refuse to share you with anyone and have absolutely no problem telling you this. Infact anytime you're with them and you become intimate with them they'll have no problem repeating this to you. At first I thought it was a joke, going off of tone but my bf is repeating the same style an ex of mine did. I would think it was a joke but I find later it's no joke! And they also see no end to the relationship, in terms of how they perceive the relationship itsself especially after being intimate, it's like... the relationship is set in stone for them there is no "exiting" only time to progress and plan for the future "together".

This isn't a bad thing.. I thought "it's just sex" but for these two it's more like a hidden fee in some contract for them it's "alright! now you're the only one for me, I for you, there's absolutely no way I'm ending this relationship you and I are in this long-term" this is true for my ex and my current. I'm not saying it's a bad thing.. even though I am young I do like long term relationships but marriage is so not in my mind right now. Is this just a Saturn thing in Mars? Is it possible for em to not view becoming intimate with someone in the way I've described?

posted December 09, 2011 02:21 PM            

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posted December 09, 2011 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Caps value quality. They value their and another persons reputation.

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posted December 09, 2011 03:07 PM            

That is why as much as I was a h0rny toad when I was single, I didn't exactly jump into bed with every single girl that wanted to hit the sack.

Guys with such well developed emotional ties so quickly should not sleep with women who don't want to be committed or tied down. Period.

That's why I didn't f@ck every available puss - not to be crude. I'm hardly a good looking guy, but I had a ton of dates and certainly enough love interests.

If the guy is nevertheless h0rny and needs to get his loins satiated, then be prepared for emotional pain and sufferring.

Not that I did it that way ever, but I rather plunck down a wad of cash for a professional girl than throw my heart and soul to a girl who would dump my intense emotions in a garbage can.

posted December 09, 2011 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Im not sure if this is just a biological/psychological thing.

I've only been with two guys who had this placement.
I notice after being intimate with them, they become possessive of you and literally refuse to share you with anyone and have absolutely no problem telling you this. Infact anytime you're with them and you become intimate with them they'll have no problem repeating this to you. At first I thought it was a joke, going off of tone but my bf is repeating the same style an ex of mine did. I would think it was a joke but I find later it's no joke! And they also see no end to the relationship, in terms of how they perceive the relationship itsself especially after being intimate, it's like... the relationship is set in stone for them there is no "exiting" only time to progress and plan for the future "together".

This isn't a bad thing.. I thought "it's just sex" but for these two it's more like a hidden fee in some contract for them it's "alright! now you're the only one for me, I for you, there's absolutely no way I'm ending this relationship you and I are in this long-term" this is true for my ex and my current. I'm not saying it's a bad thing.. even though I am young I do like long term relationships but marriage is so not in my mind right now. Is this just a Saturn thing in Mars? Is it possible for em to not view becoming intimate with someone in the way I've described?

Would this effect change if they had Uranus conjunct their Mars? Since Uranus is a progressive planet..?

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posted December 09, 2011 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I can't speak for all the guys, but I will provide my input.

That is why as much as I was a h0rny toad when I was single, I didn't exactly jump into bed with every single girl that wanted to hit the sack.

Guys with such well developed emotional ties so quickly should not sleep with women who don't want to be committed or tied down. Period.

That's why I didn't f@ck every available puss - not to be crude. I'm hardly a good looking guy, but I had a ton of dates and certainly enough love interests.

If the guy is nevertheless h0rny and needs to get his loins satiated, then be prepared for emotional pain and sufferring.

Not that I did it that way ever, but I rather plunck down a wad of cash for a professional girl than throw my heart and soul to a girl who would dump my intense emotions in a garbage can.

Meanwhile, there are tons of guys and girls who wouldn't think twice of sleeping over, doing the do and then moving on the next day, or even the same day. That's not my thing, and I suspect the two guys you have been with are not that sort either.

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I hope you're not getting the impression that I'm easy. I'm not. I don't have sex outside of a relationship.

With my ex it was serious, we were together for a long time. With this guy I don't mind getting serious i love long term commitment relationships not interested in hook ups and flings. It's just something I noticed with Mars in cap. If they are with someone and after you've become sexually intimate with them + emotionally intimate once they trust you it's like you've secretly signed their contract of forevermess they don't want you to be with anyone but them. I'm not saying it's an issue, I think more guys should be like this - monogamous because guys my age hit it and quit it they tell me their stories of having sex and then ditching girls and thankgoodness ive stuck to being their friends and nothing else!

I was curious about it that's all. The contract - binding- it surprises me sometimes because I would think guys should take their time before they think a woman is "the one"'for them. turns out they do think, they think, have thought about it for a long time.

posted December 09, 2011 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
Hi, I'm glad you posted this - I have noticed exactly the same thing!

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posted December 09, 2011 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
I hope you're not getting the impression that I'm easy. I'm not. I don't have sex outside of a relationship.

With my ex it was serious, we were together for a long time. With this guy I don't mind getting serious i love long term commitment relationships not interested in hook ups and flings. It's just something I noticed with Mars in cap. If they are with someone and after you've become sexually intimate with them + emotionally intimate once they trust you it's like you've secretly signed their contract of forevermess they don't want you to be with anyone but them. I'm not saying it's an issue, I think more guys should be like this - monogamous because guys my age hit it and quit it they tell me their stories of having sex and then ditching girls and thankgoodness ive stuck to being their friends and nothing else!

I was curious about it that's all. The contract - binding- it surprises me sometimes because I would think guys should take their time before they think a woman is "the one"'for them. turns out they do think, they think, have thought about it for a long time.

I'm curious is a known possessive/passionate sign like Scorpio resembles Mars in Capricorn.

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Uh huh.

You are extremely correct.

I know I think hard and fast, and have everything mapped out and considered before I made the first move.

Its a misconception about monogamy too. I slept with a ton of girls when I was single, so I never said that I was a goody two shoes. But you can quickly tell if its about a roll in the hay or its about a relationship.

When I vest my emotions, I do it for a good reason. That is why I have told girls who expected to jump into bed a second time, just plain .. no, not interested. Of course, most guys would think I am weird. Get it on with the girl first and talk later, right? Not my style.

I also tried the "benefits" thing too. Not my style either. Got me bored very quickly. No emotions = no enjoyment. But that's just me.

Now for a twist. I'm not really that possessive. "I think that guy is cute." "Err.. you want to sleep with him? I know him.. let me speak to him" hahaha lol Just that I don't say, you sleep with him and I won't sleep with you anymore.

posted December 09, 2011 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
@Yours
also I say its just sex because I don't place sex as a priority I could live many years without it, my libido isn't high. it's a fun activity but I don't need it. Whereas these two I've experienced it's really "work" for them kind of. They take it seriously, want to work for it and once it's been achieved it's theirs no one elses = sorry but you are now off limits to everyone but moi kind of attitude!

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For me it isn't about libido. Yes, I'm just like every other guy, wanting to sow the oats and all that garbage. On the other hand, its a really really meaningful act for me and its the consummation of a relationship. So, it must mean the world to those two guys as well.

Whether they are posssessive or not, that's what they want, and that's who they are. You would either have to live with it, or just move on if that is not your thing.

posted December 09, 2011 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
For me it isn't about libido. Yes, I'm just like every other guy, wanting to sow the oats and all that garbage. On the other hand, its a really really meaningful act for me and its the consummation of a relationship. So, it must mean the world to those two guys as well.

Whether they are posssessive or not, that's what they want, and that's who they are. You would either have to live with it, or just move on if that is not your thing.

Of course I am now paired with libido personified.

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posted December 09, 2011 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I can vouch for this as well. The commitment thing, and the taking sex seriously.
The good part about it is that it makes me relax and enjoy the ride.
Of course it's only good news if you like the guy and don't want him only for one night.

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posted December 09, 2011 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Exactly how old were you when you got married?
I don't have a problem with their possessiveness especially if i like the person just something I noticed among other mars signs

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posted December 09, 2011 04:20 PM            

Exactly as mentioned. They value the emotional/spiritual much much more than the physical intimacy. Of course our sexual intimacy is there but he would much rather be emotionally close to me. To them it's like, Love Conquers All and is the MOST important!

posted December 09, 2011 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Do you have this placement?

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posted December 09, 2011 06:17 PM            

They would only not care if it was casual. It's not a sign thing lol, it's a human nature thing.

Like I'm not one to get attached with sex. BUT if I have sex with somebody I really care about, I would hope to god they don't move on and sleep with other people. It would hurt me. Just like it would hurt anyone with emotions invested lol.

posted December 09, 2011 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think most guys wouldn't wanna 'share' you if they were into you *enough* and had sex with you.

They would only not care if it was casual. It's not a sign thing lol, it's a human nature thing.

Like I'm not one to get attached with sex. BUT if I have sex with somebody I really care about, I would hope to god they don't move on and sleep with other people. It would hurt me. Just like it would hurt anyone with emotions invested lol.

I have venus in libra, mars in virgo. Aries rising with prominant uranus so can attach, but would rather just had sexy time with sb I really care about in a serious relationship.

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