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Topic: I miss him :( -----Mutual Venus-Pluto aspects------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:08 AM
  
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amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 05:18 AM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:22 AM
I appreciate the effort, but I still can't tell anything from that. Lol.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:23 AM
By the way, good night. I'll be back tomorrow.IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted December 17, 2011 05:29 AM
I met once a time a man and that was the strange feelings ever. I thougt he was my twinsoul. I felt it was so strange energy around us. Im glad he not into me.His Pluto was in square to my venus
My Pluto sextile his venus My Pluto conj his BML His eros conj lust conj my psyche/DC/angel/asteroidl lilith I got big respect about Venus-Pluto DW synastry which seems to me be very special. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 06:04 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I appreciate the effort, but I still can't tell anything from that. Lol.
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Amelia's Sun in Rd's 12 house
Rd's Moon in Amelia's 3 house
Amelia's Moon in Rd's 6 house
Rd's Mercury in Amelia's 11 house
Amelia's Mercury in Rd's 12 house
Rd's Venus in Amelia's 11 house and
Amelia's Venus in Rd's 11 house
Rd's Mars in Amelia's 1 house
Amelia's Mars in Rd's 11 house
Rd's Jupiter in Amelia's 10 house
Amelia's Jupiter in Rd's 2 house
Rd's Saturn in Amelia's 10 house
Amelia's Saturn in Rd's 1 house
Rd's Uranus in Amelia's 12 house
Amelia's Uranus in Rd's 2 house
Rd's Neptune in Amelia's 1 house
Amelia's Neptune in Rd's 3 house
Rd's Pluto in Amelia's 11 house
Amelia's Pluto in Rd's 1 house
Rd's Sun sextile Amelia's Sun orb 2° 55'
Rd's Sun trine Amelia's Moon orb 3° 52'
Rd's Moon conjunct Amelia's Moon orb 4° 12'
Rd's Mercury conjunct Amelia's Saturn orb 3° 20'
Rd's Venus sextile Amelia's Venus orb 2° 5'
Rd's Venus sextile Amelia's Mars orb 3° 1'
Rd's Uranus sextile Amelia's Sun orb 2° 16'
Rd's Uranus trine Amelia's Moon orb 4° 31'
Rd's Neptune square Amelia's Mercury orb 4° 11'
Rd's Neptune trine Amelia's Mars orb 3° 23'
Rd's Moon square Amelia's Ascendant orb 3° 32' Sun Mutually Aspects Mars
Mars Mutually Aspects Pluto
Rd's Moon opposition Amelia's Mercury orb 0° 8'
Rd's Mars conjunct Amelia's Neptune orb 0° 3'
Rd's Sun square Amelia's Venus orb 1° 18'
Rd's Sun square Amelia's Mars orb 0° 22'
Rd's Mars square Amelia's Sun orb 1° 38'
Rd's Mars trine Amelia's Venus orb 2° 35'
Rd's Mars trine Amelia's Mars orb 1° 39'
Rd's Mars sextile Amelia's Pluto orb 1° 46'
Rd's Uranus square Amelia's Venus orb 1° 57'
Rd's Uranus square Amelia's Mars orb 1° 1'
Rd's Neptune square Amelia's Moon orb 0° 6'
Rd's Neptune trine Amelia's Venus orb 2° 27'
Rd's Pluto sextile Amelia's Venus orb 0° 53'
Rd's Pluto sextile Amelia's Mars orb 1° 49'
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 02:06 PM
ooh lots of squares, I can see why u liked him though, sun square venus, and mutual mars-pluto aspects (strong sexual attraction), plus venus trine mars doesn't hurt. venus square uranus=strong attractions and love at first sight but it makes the relationship unstable, attraction fluctuates. Also mutual sun-mars, strong sexual attractions, especially in a square. So was ur relationship mostly just sexual attraction? lol. Did you guys have like mental or verbal chemistry? The composite chart does show fun times though, but not that much...seems more like a lustful thing.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by popcorn:
I met once a time a man and that was the strange feelings ever. I thougt he was my twinsoul. I felt it was so strange energy around us. Im glad he not into me.His Pluto was in square to my venus
My Pluto sextile his venus My Pluto conj his BML His eros conj lust conj my psyche/DC/angel/asteroidl lilith I got big respect about Venus-Pluto DW synastry which seems to me be very special.
did you guys become friends at all? IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted December 17, 2011 03:42 PM
@ RunAroundScreaming...From what I am gather, this is a VERY deep, profound (and long-lasting) experience for you. But, the intensity of these feelings of what was aren't exactly making you happy and are in someways impacting your future expectations for love and partners. And I know the intensity of [multiple] double pluto-venus aspects, because I've experienced them before. I want to ask you a question, and please answer it as honestly and truthfully as possible (even if it sounds a little weird, and think about it a little): Do you want to feel this way and feel this longing for him? (before you judge me or think I am judging you, really ask yourself if you want to feel this way and think about it). I'll come back and reply when you respond! EDIT: ALSO--you said you rejected him in the worst way... Can I ask exactly what you did!? If you even feel bad about it, sounds serious. I missed that tidbit! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 17, 2011 03:53 PM
RAS,are you talking about a troublesome boy your family doesn't approve?IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:42 PM
I dunno ...I don't even want to talk about it. It's all very confusing and I don't want problems which always happens when I try to explain things with people chiming in their opinions. Of course I don't want to feel this way...I just cant let him go. My attitude towards myself has become self-destructive after we'll no longer see each other, of course i dont want to be destructive towards myself. That's a silly question to ask. And honestly, kind of hurtful. But it's okay, i understand why u might ask it. I've wondered the same things sometimes, if maybe people suffer or feel sad because they want to. But, I've come to realize that's never the case.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:49 PM
About the rejecting him part, I ignored him an entire night at a get together with friends because he would leave me hanging in text messages sometimes, and he looked like he was going to cry, sat apart from his friends looking depressed, tried several times to get me to talk to him without success, and even flirted with other girls when he saw I laughed at something my guy friend said. He won't admit that he's been hurt. But there are other things I've done to him, to which he reacted with a hurt facial expression as well. But he does deserve it though, he plays a lot of mind games. The relationship was very troubled. Part of the problem is he doesnt want to admit anything to me, almost as if I can't know how much i've hurt him, or how much i mean to him. He played a ton of mind games, though. What i did is nothing to the messed up things he did to me. Which i dont really want to talk about..long story.IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 04:52 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
ooh lots of squares, I can see why u liked him though, sun square venus, and mutual mars-pluto aspects (strong sexual attraction), plus venus trine mars doesn't hurt. venus square uranus=strong attractions and love at first sight but it makes the relationship unstable, attraction fluctuates. Also mutual sun-mars, strong sexual attractions, especially in a square. So was ur relationship mostly just sexual attraction? lol. Did you guys have like mental or verbal chemistry? The composite chart does show fun times though, but not that much...seems more like a lustful thing.
lol........emotionally we were very compatible and we are very connected on psychic level.....so the moon conjunct moon and tsquare in composite between venus/moon/neptune made the relationship feel very good emotionally, psychically and spiritually.
Also a bunch of his planets fall on my 12th cusp and 11th cups and vice versa so we are good friends, have fun together and even if we are in different countries have an extremely psychic connection with one another that has never failed. So no it wasn't just physical. We also have venus opposition moon if you check link. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 04:54 PM
and it wasn't a lustful thing it was more like an EROS thing! His Eros conjuncts my Eros and my Psyche conjuncts his uranus and Sun EXACT.IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 04:57 PM
also my vertex conjuncts his NN by one orb.It has to be a good chart for us to still have feelings for eachother after nine years in spite of all the things that have happened.
Is like you have an idea of how a chart should be like for it to be true love and if it doesn't fit you dont think that is real.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:59 PM
Well, you didn't give me the birthdates so my ability to see all that information was limited lol. It's okay, though.
Makes sense.
It's not that i have a preconceived notion of what a true love chart looks like. I just couldnt gather much from it. Like i said i work well with birth data, not so well with charts. sorry. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:02 PM
By the way, you were born in Havana, Cuba? So was i  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:04 PM
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And I know the intensity of [multiple] double pluto-venus aspects, because I've experienced them before.
Did they feel the same way about you? IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
By the way, you were born in Havana, Cuba? So was i
LOL that is soo cool! but actually my ex is cuban I am from the island next to it, dominican republic. But I did grow up in Maimi, packed with cubans, moved there when I was 10 and lived there for 16 years so I guess I have little bit of cuban in me . If I miss Miami is bc of all that latin energy and upbeatness and how social latins are.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 05:30 PM
OH, where do you live now? . I'm still in miami hehe, but i am only 22.By the way, i have a very special bond with a guy i cant go out with either cuz my family doesnt approve....ahem yes its a race thing, and we have sun square pluto and sun conjunct jupiter in the composite similar to yours, We also have moon square venus in synastry and composite, but that combined with sun square venus and venus trine mars and all your other aspects with this guy i can imagine feels uber magical. With this guy, it feels super enchanting for me...i love him so much! lol. Moon opp/square venus aspects are pretty great...i've felt them a few times before..and that with pluto and jupiter in the composite feels pretty amazing. <3<3<3
Still, i feel nobody can beat the passion me an this guy had, so much passion it was awkward between us, and i knew it would self-destruct at some point. Too much insecurity/lack of trust/jealousy/manipulation bc of the strong feelings.
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athenegoddess
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posted December 17, 2011 05:33 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
According to grupovenus.comVenus Mutually Aspects Pluto You will experience the heights and depths, love and hate, attraction and repulsion, agony and ecstasy in this relationship. A powerful, compelling fascination and irresistible sexual attraction draws the two of you together like magnets. You love each other with a depth of feeling that is surprising even to yourselves. The powerful charismatic power that you have over each other can be used to manipulate one another, and dominance, control, or jealousy easily become hot issues between you. Whether this is a brief passionate encounter or a lifelong attachment, you will change one another profoundly.
------------ I think about him every second of every day. I cry about him around every five days. He's the only guy I've ever felt hurt about possibly not seeing again, and the only guy I've cried about for that matter. He showed signs of feeling all that was described above for sure. But he says he's attracted to me but doesn't like me. I think it's that his family is racist towards whites (he said they were in a group convo but then denied when we were talking one on one) so he doesn't want to tell me he likes me bc then he might make me feel bad about why we couldnt be together. Could anybody share their experience with mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry? I think it also depenends on the sepcific synatry and composite though. Like we for example had the love stellium in the composite, and we had sun trine pluto, sun trine jupiter, moon conjunct jupiter, and moon trine venus and uranus in synastry. I feel that even if I never see or talk to him again, I will remember the moments we had for the rest of my life. And it is an understatement to say that he changed my life. After him I can't even look at a guy I crush on without thinking "But it wont be the same as with him."
Now I know what a real relationship feels like. What a soul-quenching, truly strong connection feels like, the kind of relationship the writer of The Notebook was trying to tell us about. And now my standards for connecting with ppl wont ever be the same. I feel more whole after all this because I know that that strong connection I seek really is out there. That person who gives you so much love your self-esteem feels brand new like a shiny new car. The part about how our feelings are so deep they surprise even ourselves is so true, as is true every other little thing it says down to the charismatic power part and the control and manipulative games. The sexual pull between us as well. Even other people would notice the sexual tension between us. God, I miss him so much. I hope I get over this soon. It's been 4 months so far since he started ignoring me because I rejected him in the worst way.
Was this a pleasant aspect? Nothing is worse than negative pluto aspects. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 06:53 PM
I hate venus square pluto by itself, but i guess this was fifferen because we had a very tight 0'27 orb venus sextile pluto as well as the square.So it felt very nice despite the bad pluto square venus stuff. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 17, 2011 07:01 PM
You need to move on and stop putting yourself through this awful level of self-pity. Someone doesn't want to be with you, why are you crying? Move on girl, this is kind of pathetic no offense. It's not like he died. he just does not want to be with you. I've met lots of guys that were attracted to me. Does not mean they wanted to be with me. Just because there is attraction doesn't mean both people are obligated to be with each other. Crying over this is kind of silly. He doesn't want to be with you. It's not the end of the world, you should move on and stop self-pity, you're worth a lot more, I bet he isn't even thinking about you I bet he's living his life - something you should do too Think about it this way, all this time you're crying in self pity when you could have probably been out there happy accepting what happened and possibly could have met someone really special who reciprocates your feelings. You were never with this guy, it was just attraction. Girl, pick yourself up, stop settling lmao.
yes I have met a guy I was Pluto, he was sexy as hell, we were both attracted to each other for some reason nothing jump started. He was probably the most delicious person I've ever met in my 18 years of living. Breathing was not an option around him lmfao. Nothin happened except increasing sexual tension. I didn't cry over it though, you snooze ya lose right? All I know is I'm happy to have met someone that could ignite such passion out of me something I thought never existed.
stop crying, okay? Life's too short!
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athenegoddess
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posted December 17, 2011 07:12 PM
Oh.. Venus square Pluto screams unrequited love.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 07:31 PM
Kay, lindisfarne. I didn't ask for your advice.IP: Logged |
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