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DepTaurus
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posted December 31, 2011 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I didn't like fighting, didn't want to hurt anyone, and found it easier to just avoid - disappear, if possible. (I'm not talking about people I'm close to, I'm talking about things like dropping out of school to get away from bullies, when I couldn't take any more.)

My dad laughed at me a little while ago, because I was so angry when I got on the treadmill, that I burned off more energy in the first five minutes, than I usually do that quickly. I was PO'd, and walking *fast*. No physical or artistic outlet, and I turn embarrassingly weepy and lately, self-destructive. Not good!


Oh teasel you have channeled the inner me everything you said is right on point as well with the not wanting to face up to people.the last sentence i can understand that i hate getting self-destructive about things.thank god my writing is my outlet whoo.

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posted December 31, 2011 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Mars in Pisces in the 8th house.I am not lazy whatsoever,but i am forgetfull.I tend to take on too much resposibility at one time,even others resposibilities,than i have too much to juggle and forget stuff or make mistakes,Errors with numbers are frequent,terrible at math etc.

I do daydream a good part of the day,and yes i dont go after things agressively for my own benifit.But if its for anothers benifit i will fight and pursue till the bitter end.I dont pursue what i personally want very harshly though,its more of a "for the greater good" work ethic.My wants take a backseat priority.Other peoples happiness is my goal,and what i thrive for,my family is the most important thing to me.

I dont like confrontation,but if i am driven to extreme anger,i will let it out.Takes a lot of anger to get me to say something.I let a lot of people "slide" with me..which some may call being a wimp,i just avoid fights with people as it doesn't solve anything in my eyes.I rather save my breath and let it go,than to fight about it.Though i wont let anyone make a fool of me.

cap sun,leo asc,aries moon,mars pisces,venus scorpio

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posted December 31, 2011 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE] For men, and I say this with complete speculation, I would assume that it's more difficult to integrate feminine energy into their chart, especially if it involves a masculine planet, because of societal expectations and pressures

Huh. This sounds familiar. I guess that makes sense.
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Well, think about it: If a girl acts more "masculine" as a child, she's called a "tomboy". Usually there's a 50/50 chance of people being either dismissive/antagonistic towards her or just not really caring too much. People often see it as a phase young girls go through.

Now, if a boy acts more "feminine" as a child... he's called a "sissy" or another horrible word that rhymes with tag. It's just not accepted whatsoever.

When it comes to gender and expectations, women actually have a lot more leeway and less pressure to be aggressive than men.

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Sure, I'll go with that.

Still wondering why that part sounds familiar but nvm.

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posted December 31, 2011 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Girls don't get it that easy either. Even nowadays, somebody that is a huge go getter, who is opinionated, outspoken and one who wants more than being a wife and mother gets thought of as a beech at times lol.
See all those terms for career women? They're not exactly nice adjectives and nouns are they?

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posted December 31, 2011 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Well, of course, we women don't get it easy either, but you just proved my point: if we want to be passive, it's perfectly fine! Which is much easier than being expected to be aggressive, in my opinion. I'd rather get slack for being "too much" than being "not enough" at all. Trying to give the guys some due credit, lol.

Of course, it's not the 1950s... Women are expected to work and pull their weight, even if we're supposed to be "charming" and "agreeable" along the way. I just think those old beliefs on "femininity" and "masculinity" are still holding on for dear life. They still linger...

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posted December 31, 2011 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah. Like if you're the bread winner for the household, and the guy isn't pulling their weight or has a job that earns less, people do look down on it. The guy would usually feel alot of pressure too.
There's still a role the man is expected to play, but that's life aye.

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posted January 01, 2012 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am dating a man with mars in pisces - he has venus/sun in aqua. i find that he is very lazy (has a masters but no desire to work at anything beyond p/t jobs), he is exceptionally artistic/creative and paints, draws, and writes as some hobbies. he is always on time and very highly organized (his rising is Virgo, so this might be why), and he is definitely passive in most situations, including romantic ones. i always have to make the first romantic move, i have to set-up a lot of our dates, and when other men hit on me he will notice, but will never speak up. in fact, just last night at a NYE party a guy was chatting me up and bugging me all night and my mars in pisces guy watched it all but never came over. after the party he says to me 'you handled yourself well with that guy.' a guy also grabbed at my arm recently and it was a male friend and not my bf who stepped in and stopped the situation. so, i have to take care of myself even when he is around. he is very romantic though with the gifts he buys and he treats me like a real princess - opening doors, giving me his jacket, complimenting my clothes and figure, offering to pay for things, and just generally treating me with a lot of respect. i think that is the feminine energy coming through. I rather like this placement (since I have a more dominant personality) but I can see how for many women it wouldn't give a 'manly' boyfriend.

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posted January 01, 2012 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow. I wasn't expecting so many replies. Thanks! So far, I've gathered that this placement doesn't make for a knight in shining armor. For those of you who have dated guys with this placement, did you find that he wasn't afraid to admit that he wanted children?

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did you find that he wasn't afraid to admit that he wanted children?

Nope not afraid

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posted January 01, 2012 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i am dating a man with mars in pisces - he has venus/sun in aqua. i find that he is very lazy (has a masters but no desire to work at anything beyond p/t jobs), he is exceptionally artistic/creative and paints, draws, and writes as some hobbies. he is always on time and very highly organized (his rising is Virgo, so this might be why), and he is definitely passive in most situations, including romantic ones. i always have to make the first romantic move, i have to set-up a lot of our dates, and when other men hit on me he will notice, but will never speak up. in fact, just last night at a NYE party a guy was chatting me up and bugging me all night and my mars in pisces guy watched it all but never came over. after the party he says to me 'you handled yourself well with that guy.' a guy also grabbed at my arm recently and it was a male friend and not my bf who stepped in and stopped the situation. so, i have to take care of myself even when he is around. he is very romantic though with the gifts he buys and he treats me like a real princess - opening doors, giving me his jacket, complimenting my clothes and figure, offering to pay for things, and just generally treating me with a lot of respect. i think that is the feminine energy coming through. I rather like this placement (since I have a more dominant personality) but I can see how for many women it wouldn't give a 'manly' boyfriend.

Urgh that sounds somewhat of a turn off. I like a respectful, loving and romantic guy...But I need them to have an edge. Somebody outspoken, who is not afraid to step in when needed and is protective and 'slightly' territorial is kinda sexy haha. I do want a guy who can made plans and make the first move. I don't really want to feel like I'm the man in the relationship.
I DO have an aries rising though, and sun conjunct mars (loosely, like 8 degrees). So I do want a masculine guy (who is also gentle and sweet at the same time).
Oh and is his venus conjuncting his sun within a orb of like less than 5 degrees? That might be why he's artistic.

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posted January 01, 2012 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluegreyeyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm mars in Pisces (12th) and venus in aqua (12th).

I would not at all be called disorganized or lazy. In fact, I'm highly (almost OCD quality) organized - esp w/technology. I have lists & schedules & agendas for everything. Keep all planers & calendars up to date. As for energy level, I do not watch TV at all unless it is football. I rarely attend movies. I'm not a "couch potato" in any sense of the word. I enjoy a nice 8 hours of sleep but not a napper, I'm actually a morning person. I NEED to feel productive everyday - whether running errands, going to work, going to gym, making phone calls, cleaning, etc. So those two don't stand for me at all.

As for my assertiveness... I'm somewhat outspoken with those closest to me. I think I like to be a mediator type and see both sides. I'm very "balanced" and equal opportunity with things and views. I'll let you have your opinion, even if I wholeheartedly disagree.

As for passive aggressive... I've grown out of that. What's funny is that I can call out other people being passive aggresive because I did it for so long. I do try to avoid conflict, and will keep secrets if necessary to avoid problems. I am a "people pleaser" and hate to disappoint people. I say "yes" to the most absurd requests. I try to multitask at work to the point that my manager has to tell me I need to reevaluate my workload.

I don't feel like I identify a ton w/my Mars?

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posted January 02, 2012 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was more organized when I was younger, but would still slip up - such as when I forgot about a project for English class, in high school, and tried to do it the night before it was due (it was awful, but I was depressed at the time and dropped out soon after), or the time I forgot I'd signed up for a test that would allow me to leave school early - I got the reminder, studied hard for ten days, woke up just before the alarm at 5am, did well, went home and slept for twelve hours.

I miss being more productive. Unless I'm happy, then the less productive I am, the less happy I am.

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posted January 05, 2012 02:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SensibleHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a mars in pisces, and i would have to say that i avoid conflict on most days, because i find it emotionally draining and petty. but if i feel emotionally treaded upon or unconsidered in any way on a SECOND chance, i become infuriated and hurl emotional digs. Its also in the sixth house though, so at work i can't stand laziness and picking up other people's slack. but all in all, not a good feeling. way too emotionally stressful.

I am not unfocused though, im sort of a day dreamer. but i can generally stay on task and consider "right on time", fifteen minutes late to anywhere. i rationalize other people's needs before mine, because i hate the feeling you get when someone shows up late, as if their time is more important than yours. i think mine is well aspected.

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posted January 05, 2012 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gutterlilly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mars in pisces 3rd house. wouldn't say i'm lazy...just slow to react if a joint effort is involved. I have Aries sun and If I'm not working alone I tend to work the "assist" role. Now, if urgency or immediate reaction is involved, I'm on it.
It's like I feel this is what I've been waiting for to get in gear. Never had complaints re: sex. I tend to like variety but have been with the same partner 20 years, He Libra sun, mars in scorp, really think that's what keeps us together. He's been locked out several times, I've told him to screw with someone else and I really couldn't care less, but I rarely tell him that I do love him though he's probably the closest I'll ever get to it. I would never expect anyone to be 100% faithfull. But He loves to hang around me and I need space. If something catches my attention or interest, my focus is literally consumed by it until I either understand it or get tired of it.

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posted January 06, 2012 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually see a lot of correlation between the Mars sign and the 1st house.They both seem to act interchangeably in the personality.

In the case of Mars in Pisces there seeems to be two sides that I have noticed. The wounded soul who has a strong predisposition towards addictions of all kinds(sex, drugs, alcohol etc).

And the Hero(worshipped by many, appeals to everyone, can do no wrong,can be anything and everything you want them to be etc.)

And the two archetypes often change faces....

My Aquarian friend has his Mars in Pisces and Asc in Capricorn.He is the first type(for now)

Now to the world, he seems very much in control, dignified, serious and stand-offish(Capricorn Asc) but he has been nursing a drinking and smoking addiction for years.

He insists that it is all "under control" and sure, he doesn't get all violent, agitated or aggressive when he drinks. In fact, he seems to just mellow out.

But I have also seen how he behaves when he hasn't had a drink or a smoke. Or if he hasn't the money to buy either one.

He can get very irritated and prickly(definately a sign that there is an addiction problem).

With Mars in Pisces there is an immersing of the self in whatever compulsion the individual has.

The immersion is to such an extent that the individual becomes "alive", "emotionaly vibrant" through that compulsion. This could be religion, education, drugs, alcohol, sex, pornography, thrill seeking, violent sport etc.

You have to remember that Mars in water is all about emotional energy. This is where the ego feeds itself, this is where its desires-usualy for an emotional fix- are made manifest.

Yes, Pisces Mars can appear like they have no energy, indolent or even downright apathetic. Others are prone to illness and a weak physical constitution(especially when their Asc is in Pisces too).

But I must say that Leo Mars takes the cake-as far as laziness is concerned. These folks are all talk no action. Or they will get someone else to do all the dirty work on their behalf(usually a Virgo/Cap Mars sadly).

Then there is the flip side of the coin: The "other" Mars in Pisces that is the HERO;

David Beckham has his Asc in laid back Taurus as well as Mars in Pisces. Both not necessarily agressive positions.

So, with that in mind, he has built his image around the "fantasy/hero" image that can do no wrong.

He is loved by the sporting public, loved by the women, loved by children who want to "bend it like beckham", loved by the gay community(which he has openly embraced), does charity work for many organizations, is a business guru(with both underwear contracts and cologne deals under his belt). The guy can do no wrong. He'll be anything and everything you want him to be....

Another one with a Mars in Pisces is WWE wrestler John Cena- who appeals to many a children's fantasy of the ultimate idol.

He has sold his image around being a patriot for his country by serving in the army, doing the right thing and "never giving up".

This "goody two shoes" image may have been done to death by many, but Mars in Pisces can put a twist on it as people easily project an ideal towards Neptune-ruled Pisces in Mars and so, its difficult to tell whether the individual is living the ideal or ARE that ideal.The fan responses/chants he gets when he is inside the ring is enormous.He is ADORED!(again the issues of fantasy/hero is played in this case).

Other people whom, I think, fit the whole Hero/Wounded victim persona are;

Vincent Van Gogh (wounded victim turned hero)

Marilyn Monroe(Hero turned wounded victim turned Hero)

Bono(Hero)

Tom Hanks(Hero)

Elizabeth Taylor(Hero/Wounded Victim interchanges)

Heath Ledger(Wounded victim turned Hero)

Cindy Crawford(hero)

Bob Dylan(Hero speaking on behalf of wounded victim)

Heidi Klum(Hero)

Tina Turner(wounded victim turned Hero)

Michelangelo(Hero/wounded victim)

"The Undertaker"(wounded victim turned Hero)

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posted January 06, 2012 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chironrising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mars in pisces...and I am a dream/art thief...careful what you say and do here...I will steal every word and make millions of it while you sit there wondering what happened..

just kididng dudes..and dudetes...I Am just a normal guy...looking to swim in your waters and drink your dust...looking to climb your oceans, and sink into your airs...

give me your loverbumps.

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posted October 22, 2015 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This thread seems a tad old, but I'll post anyway.. I just know one man with this placement.. And yes, while he wasn't aggressive, he did still find ways to be around me/talk to me. It's not the overt pursuing that other mars signs do. It's more of an enveloping. No matter where I was, he would just turn up there, out of the blue, but unobtrusively, as if he was already part of the surroundings. And would work his way into the conversations I was having with other people, lot of dreeamy eye contact. And, believe it or not, some blushing too. Something very touching about seeing a man blush. They really are very shy. Both of us getting red, redder.. Him more visibly so 'coz his skin is almost translucent.

These men take 'demonstrating an interest in your interests' to the next level. Basically, they clue in on what you like and *become* whatever they think you'd like them to be. And this whole process is so subtle you don't even know it's happening until you're well-nigh infatuated.

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posted October 22, 2015 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fickle as a pickle.

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Asc Gemini
Sun Scorpio 6th
Moon Pisces 10th
Mercury Scorpio 6th
Venus Scorpio 6th
Mars Sagittarius 7th
Jupiter Scorpio 6th
Saturn Aquarius 10th
Uranus Capricorn 8th
Neptune Capricorn 8th
Pluto Scorpio 6th

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posted October 22, 2015 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mother of...
I'm almost feeling like mars in Pisces needs it's own forum now.

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posted October 22, 2015 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted October 22, 2015 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Mother of...
I'm almost feeling like mars in Pisces needs it's own forum now.

😂

I have no problem with people asking questions, but this topic has been exhausted! lol

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posted October 22, 2015 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oops! Sorry folks, just happened to see all these topics and couldn't resist adding my reply. I honestly thought this one no-one would read..

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posted October 22, 2015 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oops! Sorry folks, just happened to see all these topics and couldn't resist adding my reply. I honestly thought this one no-one would read..

It's ok.

I make my remarks but it's not upsetting or anything.

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posted October 22, 2015 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Delilah:
Hi ladies and very few gentlemen. I have been fascinated by Mars in almost every sign of the zodiac except for Pisces. I don't know why, but it's like I've forgotten that Pisces even exists. So, can any of you describe your experiences with Mars in Pisces, whether it's natal or someone you dated (especially someone you've dated)?

My boyfriend and I both have Mars in Pisces.

Hmmmmm how to describe....?

We both express emotions/love physically. This makes more sense to both of us. I believe him when he says he loves me... but I FEEL he loves me more when he's um.. more physical.

It also means that if we fight, it diffuses fast because one or both of us is too sensitive and emotional about whatever we are fighting about. It doesn't mean we don't fight... just that, they last for all of like... ten minutes tops. I don't think I've ever successfully fought with him in person. I get fired up (or he does), one of us says "shhh let's not. Let's just go to sleep." we do. We wake up fine.

Maybe this placement is easiest when both people have it in the same sign? haha.

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