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Topic: Venus opposition Mars in Synastry - help please
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7038 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 07, 2012 01:31 PM
It's been working very well for me. I'm the Venus and my wife is Mars. Venus Opposite Mars. We've just had our happy 19th wedding anniversary. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 7512 From: Brooklyn, New York Registered: May 2012
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posted March 25, 2014 11:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by mir: Well, it has to be said (again) that this was the most erotic/lascivious experience of my whole life (in my 37th year). His Leo-venus opp. my Aqua-Mars but then there was also his Scorp-mars conjunct my Scorp-Moon... so! (yeayea.. my Moon/Mars square with his Venus/Mars square) Ok, maybe not the right 'timing' for a relationship but it changed my life for worse and better. For worse because I can't find it again and I only seem to attract the watered-down versions of it and for better as I wouldn't want to have missed it for ANYTHING in the world.. simply knowing that such an experience can exist with the chance to ever find it again...!? Because of the extreme high intensity prob. not very relationship-prone.. but I will not rest before I find another V-M square in these signs linked ofcourse with my Moon/Mars to kiss with.. And.. I did find one recently! But.. I've not kissed yet... so you'll have to wait for the result  Watch out what you wish for..?? 
Moon-Mars is WAY more intense!! lol..at least from my personal experience  ------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Baby Yaga <3 Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant TheirDad - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 209 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 25, 2014 06:36 PM
Venus opposite mars isn't usually attributed to a lack of timing but rather push/pull attraction which can be very powerful.My guess that timing could come mars square saturn natal or any hard venus uranus conenction. IP: Logged |
bonneysharon Knowflake Posts: 40 From: new york Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 30, 2014 02:51 PM
For me it was a combination of push pull and timing. I was the venus he was the mars, he would pursue and then back off and then i would pursue. And then he was in the mood and then i wasn't in the mood and then he was in the mood and then i wasn't. But there was definitely sexual chemistry. Also we are very competitive with each other. Its a very cat and mouse type of game.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4688 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted December 12, 2014 07:26 AM
Bump....I'm wondering about a chart I'm looking at...his Venus opposes her Mars. She did initiate by going up to him and started a conversation and let him know she wanted him to take her out. But after that he was the one perusing her. I'm wondering if this is because his scorp Mars falls on her NN? His Mars is semi-sextile her Venus, not that it makes a huge impact but I know it makes some impact. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2170 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 12, 2014 06:15 PM
^^ Thank you, Gabby.I was part of a heated discussion about this very aspect in your very situation. Your story confirms what Mir and I was saying - Mars initiates, but it is Venus who pursues the relationship. The assumption being that there will be a relationship and not a hookup/tryst/fling. Reasoning: Mars is action/impulse so he's expected to make the first move. Venus is love/romance/bonding, so she will put in the effort to make a relationship happen. True, everyone has relating needs, and every planet in a chart will be engaged in a synastry. However, in cases where Venus & Mars are emphasized- IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 47430 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2014 10:50 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |