posted January 16, 2012 12:45 PM            

I cant really get into it now... Just its
H E L L !!!!
Everything runs so deep....

Its very hard to get a grip on and handle...
Ill be back later to go into more detail

Here's what the astro inroactive says..

Moon Conjunct Pluto

The conjunction of composite Moon and Pluto means that your feelings will be extremely intense, and the relationship is not likely to be a casual one.

You will experience feelings you have never had before, but do not worry; they will not necessarily be bad feelings. The principal effect of this aspect is simply to intensify whatever feelings exist already.

This aspect can create an unnecessary degree of possessiveness in one or both of you. If you do not allow each other enough freedom of self-expression, the relationship may become too stifling.

It is possible that your feelings about this relationship will run so high that you will not be able to evaluate it or each other rationally. On the other hand, if there is a strong feeling of love between you, this aspect will make it a most intense and enduring kind of love.

Just be careful that you do not go to work on each other's feelings too much. You will need a little peace and quiet with each other, without the constant analysis that this aspect tends to provoke.

posted January 16, 2012 03:03 PM            

Its very hot and cold.. When its hot, its sooo hot, you cant stay away from each other, you feel addicted and consumed by the other person. This person is in your thoughts 24/7... You try to fight it,but its so much worse...

Then both start to feel, like OMG I cant take this anymore.. I cant breathe, I cant function... I have to get away from this person... You feel tortured and tormented... You start to feel like.. I cant handle deal with this any further...
You become cold, and distant with each other, not being able to look,talk or face that person..

Its just to much to bear right now...

Then when the coldness sets in, the pain and loss sets in... It hurts, again you fight it... But it hurts even more... The pain then consume you..
You will do anything to talk, see this person...

Then you talk and it gets sooo hottttt again, until your feeling consumed again..

It seems to be a never ending cycle...

I hate to love you
I love to hate you..

sighhhh..

posted January 17, 2012 03:10 AM            

I know we have affected each other permanently, some good, some bad but the aspect does bring its rewards like being very loyal to each other.

posted January 17, 2012 09:11 AM            

They fight a lot, love deeply with hate...hm..I won't say hate, it's more like "Have to" bonding inside.

She helped Her bf went through cancer recovering, He holds gratitude for her, she feels HEAVY responsibility for him. They can't have a baby due to her bf's health issue yet she loves children a lot.She told me her BF's illness and gratitude tied her deeply.

He said he wouldn't date any other girl if they break up. --when I hear about this, I said, oh~he loves you so much with loyalty! She yelled what!? I feel so heavy that he puts all his rest life on me!It would be thankful and free if he really finds some one else, so I won't feel guilty for dumping him.

posted August 10, 2012 07:17 PM            

Question, A lady I am smitten with and I have composite Moon conjunct Pluto, trine venus. Any insights? We have tons of other things going on, but this is what I am looking at. Any insights would be appreciated.

posted August 11, 2012 02:53 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Hi steve and welcome..

I'm still dealing with mine.... All I can say is it's very deep and very very hard to let go.. Plan on this person being around a long time..

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posted August 11, 2012 07:39 PM            

Either way the relationship will effect both peoples emotions..
There will be a fear of loosing this person..

posted August 15, 2012 03:13 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
i had it with a libra guy i have composite sun conjunct venus with and really good synastry too....it started off with a bang....but then it kinda died. i think i said something wrong. lol. he would comment on every fb status i made. oh well. i liked him a lot too. as a friend. but i really felt the depth there . We had DW venus-jupiter in synastry and lots of jupiter aspects, so we had a lot of fun too. So i cant say this means that the person will stick around or anything.

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Nevermind, he just asked me out LOL.
I guess that moon conjunct pluto in the composite really does mean strong feelings.

posted September 30, 2012 08:22 AM            

I was wondering if someone could help with interpretation of multiple Pluto conjunctions in synastry.

My moon, Saturn, Jupiter and Lilith all conjunct with his Pluto. However, the other way around my Pluto is trin with his Sun, Venus and Mars.

The composite shows pluto conjunct Uranus in 6th house and Composite Moon and Vertex fall in the 7th house.

There are more conjunctions but for now I just wanted to see if someone has experiences with those? Mainly: how is in control? I am the moon person and to be honest it is rather difficult for me - somehow we both love to be together but then again we dont contact each other for some time. When we then see each other again, it is again very nice and close.

It has been draining though and I am a little concerned whether or not I shall just leave this whole "relationship" as if we always withdraw from each other...

Can someone please advise? Is the above good or bad?

Thank you very much!

posted June 26, 2013 03:08 AM            

He writes:
How do you know when someone is your soulmate?

You really do just "know", it's something you can simply feel and know in your heart. I have been dating the most breathtaking woman in the world for quite some time now. When you no longer look for something in return, and do all that you can to ensure their happiness, that shows that you have a deep care for them. Recently I stumbled across this lovely song/poem, and I want to share it with you:

"Love is a funny thing.
You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only
in movies.

You expect her to
always say the right thing, and
always know exactly how you feel,
or exactly how to react to it.
You expect her to calm you down when you're yelling or to chase you
when you run away.

You expect so much that you feel entirely, and utterly defeated when something doesn't exactly match up to all your plans. But that's the thing.

Love isn't a plan. It doesn't have
a certain beginning and it
certainly has no end, or a visible
finish line to those deeply in it.

Love happens; it is so
incredibly messy. People around
you can't comprehend why you do
the things you do, or why you
fight so hard for something that
seems to cause you so much pain.

Because simply, they can't see.
They can't see the invisible ring
of insanity that surrounds you
when you're in love. It's
inconvenient and painful and
devastating at times, but we can't
live without it.

What you don't learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it.
How it isn't worth it until we are
complete and utter idiots about it.

Love isn't her calming you
down when you yell. It's her
yelling, just as loud, just as
hard, right back at you, right in
your face to wake you up and to
keep you grounded.

It isn't her or him bringing you roses
everyday or cute things that make
your relationship appear more
presentable. It's right after a long
fight, that drains the life and
bones right out of both of you, and
yet her or him showing up at your door the next morning anyway.

It's not her saying all the right things or knowing exactly how to handle you. So no, it's not her caressing your
hair and telling you everything is
going to be okay. It's her
standing there, admitting she's
just as scared as you are.

You have to remember that with love, you're not the only one involved.
You've unknowingly put your life,
your heart into the palm of
another's hands and saying,
here. Do what you will. Mash it
into a million pieces, mash it into meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you in the first place. Just as long as you
have it.

It makes reality invisible and it
erases all the lines that we
shouldn't cross. Because love
isn't about fencing ourselves in;
feeling safe, feeling sure about
the future.

It's about scaring the **** out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway.

Because all the fighting and all
the tears and all the uncertainty
is worth it. And it's a hell of a
lot better, than being 100% happy
without someone to show us that
there is a world of a difference
between feeling 'happy' and
feeling whole."

posted June 26, 2013 08:33 AM            

I thought it was great because you see a lot of people saying love is when someone is perfect for you.
It seems to be when you can't be without them even when they are far from perfect for you!

posted December 22, 2014 02:03 AM            

I've honestly never felt anything like this before. After we hung out we both agreed that it was an intense feeling, for me it felt like I had been drugged and just had constant thoughts of this person. He told me he couldn't stop thinking of me when we were apart as well.

I expressed my feelings towards him, he says he has issues and basically couldn't give anything to me. That being said he also said he had never felt this way before.

I haven't heard from him in a day now, it's completely doing my head in. I just can't even function right now. Before we reconnected I was such a strong, happy and independent woman, and now suddenly I am just so weak and blinded by love. It's crazy.