posted January 19, 2012 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by electricmind:
what's your sun sign? rising sign(cancer?)? are you having any pluto transits?

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I was told my signs progressed when I was 13, I'm 22 now and progressively yes I do have a Cancer rising. Otherwise I'm a Gemini rising, Aries Sun, Taurus Moon, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini and Saturn, Uranus, Neptune all in Capricorn.

posted January 19, 2012 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Just a side note: You were born on the same day as one of my closest friends! She has all of the exact same personal planet placements as you do (I don't know her rising though). You're also the same age as her, so you have to be either born on the same day or a day or so afterwards.

Anyways, I think an absence of a certain sign's energy in your chart could cause an attraction to them/from them. Maybe you want from them what you don't have or vice versa? You could also look to see what cusp Scorpio is on in your chart, as well as the house Pluto resides in (which, for you, would most likely be the same because of your age) and how that relates to how your relationships with Scorpios/Plutonians play out.

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Haha, well cool! My birthday is April 7th, 1989.

posted January 20, 2012 01:28 AM            

Growing up I clashed with girls who had Scorpio Sun. We just did not get along.
But ever since my late teens/early adulthood. I have quite a few good female friends with Scorp Sun.
Maybe it's because I am more in touch with my Moon and Lilith sign (Scorp)

But still not so much with Scorp Sun guys. lol I've had some ugly clashes with guys with this Sun Sign in high school.
I swear, as far as I know, I've been hit on/done stuff with/dated/been in a relationship/etc with every zodiac sign except for Scorpio.
If anything as far as I know, just Pluto and Mars.

Yeh and I have Juno in Scorpio too. So I definitely find many Scorp heavy dudes attractive. Whether we don't get along, or it's some actor/rockstar/rapper I idolize and that I don't really know. lol

So with attracting guys of that Sun Sign. And being an Aries Sun w/ Gemini Rising I can second that it's pretty rare. Props!

posted January 20, 2012 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
interesting!
I also have Aries Sun and Gem Rising

Growing up I clashed with girls who had Scorpio Sun. We just did not get along.
But ever since my late teens/early adulthood. I have quite a few good female friends with Scorp Sun.
Maybe it's because I am more in touch with my Moon and Lilith sign (Scorp)

But still not so much with Scorp Sun guys. lol I've had some ugly clashes with guys with this Sun Sign in high school.
I swear, as far as I know, I've been hit on/done stuff with/dated/been in a relationship/etc with every zodiac sign except for Scorpio.
If anything as far as I know, just Pluto and Mars.

Yeh and I have Juno in Scorpio too. So I definitely find many Scorp heavy dudes attractive. Whether we don't get along, or it's some actor/rockstar/rapper I idolize and that I don't really know. lol

So with attracting guys of that Sun Sign. And being an Aries Sun w/ Gemini Rising I can second that it's pretty rare. Props!

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See, I instantly fall in love with Leos even though I can't stand them (I have Juno in Leo is why I brought that up.) Leo sun and moons are my weakness. I see right through Scorpios though so I'm not sure what everyone is talking about when they're talking about their "stinger" or them being scary.

I think for me to be very attracted to the Scorpio, they have to have at least 2 planets or placements in Scorpio. If they're just a sun Scorpio then I can take them or leave them (as in if I'm not actively trying to befriend them or get to know them.)

posted January 20, 2012 04:06 PM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
The majority of people I become intensely involved with whether through friendship or a relationship, have been Scorpios. I have Vertex in Scorpio and Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th house all by it's lonesome. It's hardly aspected, too. Having said that I'm sure it's silly I'm asking but I thought my Aries and Gemini and whatnot would scare them off.

To rephrase my question: why are they so interested in me?! How could someone so light and breezy fascinate a Scorpio? It sure as hell isn't because I'm complex...

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having a stellium in cappi in 7th house is rather problematic. having mars in 12th quincunx pluto is not great either. Have you ever attracted physical violence??

Mars Quincunx Pluto
“You suffer by having a picture of just what needs to be done and how it is to be accomplished. This can cause you to be controlling and argumentative. When you feel the weight of the responsibilities that you have taken on or when you feel lonely and isolated, then, you are ripe for personal growth. Your desire, manner of expression, and the way you use energy will have to be changed - to be less compulsive, less forceful, so you are able to achieve greater accomplishment and more personal happiness.” http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/q...retations.html

Mars= actions, Pluto is about control, depth, subversive things. So maybe sometimes you act (mars) too forcefully for a given situation perhaps? Have you ever had feedback from someone that your actions were bit OTT for a situation?? Next look at the signs, then houses and then aspects. These will either help or hinder the situation. this aspect could potentially attract violence....or you 'could' attract threatening situations? This aspect needs to be doing something physical the riskier the better, like sports, martial arts, mountain climbing or bungee jumping.
http://www.celestialperspective.com/library/marspluto-aspectswhat-determines-theyre
mars/Pluto aspects by Donna Cunningham

Sometimes these quincunxs (aka Inconjuncts 150’) are obvious and recognised in personality, other times it can take a lot of self examination to identify with the planets energies and of course they (like all aspects) don't operate 100% of the time, they are simply a facet of your personality. Some say they cause health issues that are unresolved, underlying, dormant waiting to be triggered.... some say you stay at one end, to the detriment of the other, OR end up see-sawing between the two until you learn balance, integration of two unlikely pairings.

Next look at the signs, then houses and then aspects. Now the *others aspects* from these quincunxs/Yods as they can act like escape routes, that can help or hinder the expressions. A chart with lots of Yods (Finger of God) will always be *searching* for the divine answers to the meaning of life, to find synthesis

What tends to happen with quincunxs is that with progessions and transits will create temporary Yods aka 'Finger of god' configurations. Like with common TSquares, they create a temp Grand Square...

If you stay with wholesign your exalted moon becomes impotent...

having scorpio rule 5th and posited in 5th explains why you attract scorpio traits in romance...

posted January 20, 2012 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:

To rephrase my question: why are they so interested in me?! How could someone so light and breezy fascinate a Scorpio? It sure as hell isn't because I'm complex...

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It actually seems kind of simple to me. Scorpios are intense, and they do need a break from all of that intensity now and then. Friends who are "light and breezy" as you put it, allow them to have an outlet to relax a little. That and individuals like that often seem perplexing. There seems to be such a care-free attitude on the surface, and to a scorpio there just HAS to be something underneath that, and it can be fascinating to try and understand.

posted January 21, 2012 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:

In Equal house your Pluto and vertex ARE 5th house, not 6th in whole sign like YOU posted....

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posted January 21, 2012 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
It actually seems kind of simple to me. Scorpios are intense, and they do need a break from all of that intensity now and then. Friends who are "light and breezy" as you put it, allow them to have an outlet to relax a little. That and individuals like that often seem perplexing. There seems to be such a care-free attitude on the surface, and to a scorpio there just HAS to be something underneath that, and it can be fascinating to try and understand.

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Good point. It's hard for me as an Aries to understand how someone doesn't just make themselves relax... but the other day I was thinking about how a Scorpio must feel raw all the time. Like they're so touchy because it's like walking around with a flesh wound all day. I'm not sure how I came to that conclusion, it just popped in my head and made sense. I was also trying to understand why I attract so MANY. I attract them more than I do Aries, Sagittarius', or (my favorite) Leos.

posted January 21, 2012 05:49 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Good point. It's hard for me as an Aries to understand how someone doesn't just make themselves relax... but the other day I was thinking about how a Scorpio must feel raw all the time. Like they're so touchy because it's like walking around with a flesh wound all day. I'm not sure how I came to that conclusion, it just popped in my head and made sense. I was also trying to understand why I attract so MANY. I attract them more than I do Aries, Sagittarius', or (my favorite) Leos.

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If I met you in person I could tease it out of you within 5 minutes easily.

What I can gather and simply say is a believe it is a combination of two things. 1. you need others around you who have this energy to help balance yourself out and dig deeper. Although you are still struggling to develop a proper filter so you can discriminate out people who are toxic. The second is that you put off a demeanor that (as I said before) is interesting to other scorpios. What I bet it is part of is you likely put up some sort of wall that is seen as a challenge or something to break through. That's like flies to honey for a scorpio.

posted January 21, 2012 12:20 PM            

Now, you also have Saturn sextile Pluto and trine the Moon. A lot of people don't seem to 'count' sextiles since they are easy aspects, but I can tell you, I have several very strong sextiles in my own natal chart and they DO factor in. Having Saturn sextile Pluto means that you have something to teach Scorpios and Scorpios have something to teach you...

Finally, you have an 8th house stellium, and even though it is outer planets, it is still a large presence in the 8th house.

I think that people don't realize just having Pluto/8th house aspects can really attract Scorpios. They sense that you can see at least a little of what's underneath, and so they flock to you to find your depth and to find the connection to you. Sometimes having those Pluto/8th house aspects simply seems to draw them to you like a magnet.

Now... Being light and breezy probably helps. I've got a lot of fire in my chart, and so I tend to be very simple and straightforward with most things, but I attract so many Scorpios, just because I seem like one on the surface (Scorpio asc; Pluto contacts). Also because I can cut through their BS.

ALSO- I have found in my life, that I tend to attract groups of one particular sun sign for periods of time. So, when I was in college, I attracted Scorpios and Capricorns. When I moved to a new state I attracted Geminis. Currently I seem to be attracting Pisces into my life. I'm not sure what causes this- if it's a transit or progression... But whatever the case, it is usually a group of sun signs that causes me to learn something new or to grow. Maybe you're going through that right now with Scorpios. Who knows?

posted January 21, 2012 01:58 PM            

So, yeah, I would look to that Moon-Pluto opposition; the same one she has (but even tighter than yours). My Moon's conjunct Pluto and we have always been very compelled toward one another.

With Scorpio being on your 5th house cusp, you might find Scorpio types fun and entertaining. Not necessarily "life of the party" fun but invigorating and exciting. They inject life into you.

posted January 21, 2012 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
If I met you in person I could tease it out of you within 5 minutes easily.

What I can gather and simply say is a believe it is a combination of two things. 1. you need others around you who have this energy to help balance yourself out and dig deeper. Although you are still struggling to develop a proper filter so you can discriminate out people who are toxic. The second is that you put off a demeanor that (as I said before) is interesting to other scorpios. What I bet it is part of is you likely put up some sort of wall that is seen as a challenge or something to break through. That's like flies to honey for a scorpio.

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LOL you pride yourself on that x-ray vision, don't you?

Interesting. Did you somehow sense I was struggling to filter toxic people out, or does that line of thinking just go along with your balancing theory?

I have Moon opp. Pluto and even though I've been told it doesn't make a difference I believe differently. I think it's definitely given me a wall of sorts I didn't even realize was there.

posted January 21, 2012 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Aries is the masculine side of Mars, Scorpio is the feminine side. Yin likes Yang.

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posted January 21, 2012 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LOL you pride yourself on that x-ray vision, don't you?

Interesting. Did you somehow sense I was struggling to filter toxic people out, or does that line of thinking just go along with your balancing theory?

I have Moon opp. Pluto and even though I've been told it doesn't make a difference I believe differently. I think it's definitely given me a wall of sorts I didn't even realize was there.

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Hah, yeah I do. I wouldn't be me without it.

Kind of both really. I sensed it was a bit difficult for you, and it also made sense logically. When ever I x-ray something I combine it with what I sense and what is logical. It works, but I have a terrible time explaining how my methods work because of it though.

:-\ Moon opposite pluto is rough. Any moon-pluto aspect is really in my opinion. Yup that can and does give walls that the individual won't be aware of. A number of aspects can do that.

posted January 21, 2012 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How obvious! Never would have thought of that.

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I agree! One major thing I fail as it is simplicity and conciseness .

You really might be able to sum it up to that if it makes the most sense in your mind.

posted January 22, 2012 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Yes, hannaramma, you were born the same exact day as her! Maybe even a few hours before her, because I remember her telling me she was born in the afternoon (but she didn't give a specific time).

So, yeah, I would look to that Moon-Pluto opposition; the same one she has (but even tighter than yours). My Moon's conjunct Pluto and we have always been very compelled toward one another.

With Scorpio being on your 5th house cusp, you might find Scorpio types fun and entertaining. Not necessarily "life of the party" fun but invigorating and exciting. They inject life into you.

Having Scorpionic children is also a possibility; my father's Ascendant is in Cancer as well. I'm his only child and I know my intensity both rattles and interests him. I'm also rather domineering with him, I have to admit. Another thing is he's very obsessive about his hobbies and interests, more so than his actual work.

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Scorpio isn't on my 5th, it's on my 6th because I use whole signs. Sorry to disappoint, lol!

posted January 22, 2012 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by enchantress299:
First thing I see in your chart is that Pluto opposes your Moon (5 degree spread, but the Moon moves fast, so I'd count it). On an emotional level, might be easy for you to relate to Scorpios and for Scorpios to relate to you, so you might attract them in that way.

Now, you also have Saturn sextile Pluto and trine the Moon. A lot of people don't seem to 'count' sextiles since they are easy aspects, but I can tell you, I have several very strong sextiles in my own natal chart and they DO factor in. Having Saturn sextile Pluto means that you have something to teach Scorpios and Scorpios have something to teach you...

Finally, you have an 8th house stellium, and even though it is outer planets, it is still a large presence in the 8th house.

I think that people don't realize just having Pluto/8th house aspects can really attract Scorpios. They sense that you can see at least a little of what's underneath, and so they flock to you to find your depth and to find the connection to you. Sometimes having those Pluto/8th house aspects simply seems to draw them to you like a magnet.

Now... Being light and breezy probably helps. I've got a lot of fire in my chart, and so I tend to be very simple and straightforward with most things, but I attract so many Scorpios, just because I seem like one on the surface (Scorpio asc; Pluto contacts). Also because I can cut through their BS.

ALSO- I have found in my life, that I tend to attract groups of one particular sun sign for periods of time. So, when I was in college, I attracted Scorpios and Capricorns. When I moved to a new state I attracted Geminis. Currently I seem to be attracting Pisces into my life. I'm not sure what causes this- if it's a transit or progression... But whatever the case, it is usually a group of sun signs that causes me to learn something new or to grow. Maybe you're going through that right now with Scorpios. Who knows?

But yeah, I hope that helped, at least somewhat.

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Okay so many things I love about your (and everyone's) post!

First, why didn't I automatically catch the 8th house stellium would be related to Scorpios?! That's a 'Duh!' if I ever saw one. I suppose it didn't click because Pluto wasn't residing there, so what does Saturn, Uranus, Neptune have to do with Scorpios if they're not aspecting Pluto (except for Saturn...)

...Which brings me to my next question - Wouldn't Saturn sextile Pluto be a generational matter and therefore deemed not as affecting?

Finally - I hear you about attracting groups of signs. I was friends with all my fire sign friends when I was little, and then from about 13 - 20 I was friends with mostly earth signs and Cancers. 20-21 It was nearly all Scorpios. I just run into them and they stay in my life (now, how involved they are is a separate matter). Now that I'm 22 (not sure if there's any significance but I'm just mentioning) I find I'm attracting a lot of fire/air or air/fire combos. I've come across at least three Libra/Virgo/Fire sign combinations in the last month. Not sure what that means as far as my evolution goes since Libra comes BEFORE Scorpio. Does it mean I'm regressing?