posted February 05, 2012 05:17 AM            

All input very much welcome.

posted February 05, 2012 07:33 AM            

When it comes to love, I turn that focus on the people I cherish. If they are hungry I have already made food, if they are sore I automatically know where to massage without being told, if they are anxious I have three suggestions of fun things we can go do (Sun in Sag lol). I have described Moon in Virgo as feeling like a monkey preening my loved ones. The most annoying aspect of my Moon (pared with my Sun) is I always want to fix stuff. If someone is sad, I feel it in my guts. Alarms go off "OMG sad, OMG sad, broken, broken, must fix!" and it makes other people's humanity a bit annoying on occasion. Fortunately I have learned that just because an alarm is going off, it doesn't mean the whole house is burning down. The desire to fix is a selfish one on those occasions and enduring the alarms can sometimes be a gesture that I am willing to share their pain with them (how Piscean).

I think Moon in Virgo is great. You can rely on us to actually listen, we are fantastic at fixing really crappy situations, we won't fall apart when the crap hits the fan, we are supportive if we like you, and have a unique sense of humor, we have the capacity to be smart, we are classy when we want to be, we love animals cause they view people in a similar way, and we will always smell like soap or something equally pleasant when things get sexy.

Bad stuff is: Our health and diet often determines our mood and some times visa versa, we can pick stuff apart and find a flaw in anything, we are more sturdy than squishy (though squish does occasionally happen), we are good at winning fights because we have spent years carefully becoming acquainted with all the tiny details of your personality, we can need personal space and alone time, we secretly expect that you have been paying as much attention to us as we have been paying to you, and we will turn you around and tell you to wash your neck if you come up in this bed smelling like a grand canyon donkey.

posted February 05, 2012 08:15 AM            

I wonder what u think about this:

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Moon in Virgo: He may well have had a mother who was intolerant of his dependency and yet convinced him he was incompetent to make it without her. As an adult, he continuously questions his worth and competency. He has to prove it compulsively to himself, to the women in his life, and to the world at large. He may become a workaholic, critical of himself for having any needs at all.
He only allows himself to “slack off” under one circumstance. That’s when he gets sick, which he can do fairly frequently as the years roll on, unless he learns to accept and meet his own needs. His dependency can come out in being demanding on the home front. He may fuss if the food isn’t just right, the house spotless, and all affairs conducted according to perfectionistic standards. He is especially critical of himself for having feelings. Any upsurge of unacceptable feelings or lacks may be covered up by overworking, picking at himself, or criticizing others. Security is a long to do list with almost everything crossed off by the end of the day.

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posted February 05, 2012 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Xiiro, thanks very much for this hilarious description of men with virgo moon.

I wonder what u think about this:
Link: http://sasstrology.com/2009/10/men%E2%80%99s-moon-signs-part-2-cancer-leo-and-virgo.ht ml

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I can see some definite truth in that, but I identify will each point at varying degrees. The assessment of mother is similar to my upbringing, but I don't feel it left me feeling incompetent. I determine competency based on productivity LOL. More humanly stated, I consider my self good at something if I show signs of being good at it. I also don't consider myself critical of having needs (though I could see it happening in negative situations). Generally I am a minimalist and can sometimes be found putting away all the stuff my Sag Sun tossed in the grocery cart, when I wasn't looking. I genuinely like fresh fruits and vegges and dislike processed or greasy food. So where a person may see deprivation, because my kitchen is filled with ingredients for making food, but no TV dinners, or because I own a computer, but no TV, I see it as enjoying simplicity. If I just ache for something, I won't hesitate to buy it (my Mars is in Leo and must be rewarded often).

As for slacking off, I have no regrets. I believe slacking off is one of the most important things a human can learn to do. I can be very dedicated to my work, but that Sag Sun knows when it is time to go to the beach. In fact, My Leo friend and I recently made plans to drive several hours away to lounge around all day at a spa. I make time for my self, because if I don't I will get depressed, and depression will make me sick (which results in being miserable while you slack off).

When I get demanding or fussy it is reactionary from years of feeling unappreciated. The demanding attitude arises when the other person is no longer emotionally available and the only exchange being made is one of necessity. Some Moon in Virgos may stick around while they slowly dive into the dark spiral of a loveless relationship, but I have too much self respect. Moon in Virgo is an observational Moon, so we often know how we are acting and have a perfectly reasonable excuse for doing it. When I see attitudes like this arise in me, I automatically work at resolving the problem. If it can't be resolved, I use all the money I made while working hard and move out LOL.

I was raised around some very stupid men, so my critical view of personal emotions is due to being afraid of letting machismo douche bags see me react emotionally to their idiocy. As I have matured, I have learned to feel myself tightening around emotions and make a point of nurturing those emotions when they arise. My larger emotional stoicism actually comes from having Mercury in Capricorn opposed Jupiter in Cancer Rx. When I find myself in emotional confrontation, my Jupiter explodes with emotion, but when it comes time to express those feelings, Spock rarely does the whole thing justice. Earth Moons just need time to understand and organize their feelings before made to address them. People who expect their earth Moon partners to emotionalize quickly have not taken the time to get to know their partner. Virgo is slow to process emotions because it needs to address each facet of the emotional situation in a particular way.

Feeling unacceptable does exist with my Virgo Moon, it is due to my upbringing. The thoughts which zip around one's head, and the actual reality of a thing are very different. I think Moon in Virgo can certainly result in the above description, if a few very unfortunate circumstances come together. Over all, A Virgo Moon is a guy who's personal space is devoted to refinement and making better. In a positive light, it is a space of deep care and nourished development. In a negative light it can be a space of surveillance and criticism.

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posted February 05, 2012 09:30 AM              

*Even if they don't say it outloud, they can be very low on self-confidence. This is why they can be kind of hesitant about getting involved with people because, unconsciously, they're always thinking "What's so special about me? Why would like me?" They need a lot of reassurance.

*Because of this, it's best not to criticize them. If you do, make sure they know it's constructive. Constructive criticism they don't mind. But if they feel you're on the offensive on any level, they get really, really hurt. They're very sensitive in this way, almost delicate.

*They can seem kind of aloof sometimes, especially to more emotionally effusive or expressive people. Situations that call for a lot of emotion or a show of affection can make them feel uncomfortable. But it doesn't mean they don't care about you.

*Health is usually a big issue for them. It's more likely that they're health freaks than clean freaks. I lived with one of my Virgo Moon friends for two years and he was a total pig around the house; very messy and sloppy. But, he was always in the gym and watching what he ate.

posted February 05, 2012 10:28 AM            

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Virgo is slow to process emotions because it needs to address each facet of the emotional situation in a particular way.

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posted February 05, 2012 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:

*You have to be observant yourself and really pay attention to the things they do for you. They have a way of showing their affection in certain moments and then pulling back and observing your reaction. If you fail to appreciate what they do, they might close up on you. But, if you give them clear signs that you appreciate them, they'll be more open. Still a little cool and distant at times, but more comfortable knowing that you care as well.

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posted February 05, 2012 03:46 PM            

Go for it

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Ps. Xiiro gave a wonderful description of Virgo Moons, I hope your guy is mature enough to display the very good traits associated with this Moon placement, and not only the bad ones!

posted February 05, 2012 05:13 PM              

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Xiiro, thanks very much for this hilarious description of men with virgo moon.

I wonder what u think about this:
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here is an excellent description http://www.cafeastrology.com/virgo_ascendantrisingsign.html

Moon in sign is ONLY third of the story, we need to see which house and how it's aspected will explain how it functions..

my first idea would be a *worrier* same as cancer, these two can worry for the rest of us. then they will have a 'thing about health and hygeine' bordering poss on bit OCD. Emotionally overanalyses things and churns them over and over. when upset may 'nit pick' at other faults and focus too much on little details, poss to the point of obssessions..

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I can't find anything about this moon placement in a man's chart. Would he be as critical as a Mars or Sun in Virgo? His Moon widely trines his Sun/Merc/Sat stellium in Cap.

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Again can we SEE the chart please??

posted February 05, 2012 05:37 PM              

she even offers lots of free stuff and downloads... http://www.donnasfreeastrology.info/
http://www.moonsigns.info/moon_signs/moon_in_virgo.php
http://www.alwaysastrology.com/virgo-moon.html
this seems to be one of the best i've read.

Moon in Virgo

"You enjoy helping others and you have an emotional need to feel useful. This is a good placement for those who enjoy crafts, as it fulfills your need to feel like you are doing something constructive while at the same time using your natural talent for attention to details. You may be health oriented also, but the Moon in Virgo can turn into hypochondria if the tendency to worry gets out of hand." http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/planetsinvirgo.htm

posted February 06, 2012 08:34 AM              

http://goddessoftheworld.blogspot.com/2011/12/moon-in-virgo-man-and-woman.html

posted February 06, 2012 01:08 PM            

I've read a lot about Virgo Moon people but this guy does not fit some of the general descriptions. Of course the details of his chart could modify the picture. Still, it's be nice to hear about how this Virgo Moon man is/behaves when in love.

posted February 06, 2012 01:13 PM            

Do you know what house his Moon is in?
And what aspects does it make?