posted February 17, 2012 09:44 AM            

I did an article on Venus in Scorpio, in a man’s chart. The Fall position of a planet is a planet which does not like it’s home/placement. The home may be too big, too small, too hot or too cold. The planet kind of sticks out, like a sore thumb. As such, the Fall position will, always, bristle. Venus is the planet of love and beauty. Scorpio is the most sensual and passionate sign of the Zodiac. Quite simply, Scorpio is too sultry a sign for Venus. I discussed the male Scorpio Venus, so I will concentrate on the woman with Venus in Scorpio. I am not sure who suffers more from the Fall position of Venus, men or woman. My first thought would be woman, but I don’t think you can discriminate.

Across the board, all female Scorpio Venus seem to carry some sort of burden. Do they all admit it? Hardly. Scorpio is a very proud sign. Hence, we can hardly expect them to admit about feeling “oversexed”. However, in private moments, with those whom they trust, I think they will. At any rate, we all have planets in the Detriments and Falls. The planet is different for each person. Hence, each person must deal with one or more energies which do not work well.
The female with Venus in Scorpio may come across as a siren. This Venus may lead with her sexuality. In the same way, other Venus’ lead with what is predominant to them. I will give some examples. Venus in Gemini would lead with her intellect. Sag Venus would lead with her vivacity. Aquarius Venus would lead with her love for humanity. Leo Venus would lead with her glamor. Venus in Scorpio seems as if it tries too hard to be sexy. As such, she may scare men off. Then, wonder what happened. This Venus seems reluctant to take advice from a Venus who may be able to see what is happening, such as a Gemini Venus, with her cool head. The pride of the Scorpio Venus makes her not able to take advice, well. This may be her downfall.Open up, Sisters. Learn that you do not need to excel in all things, in order to be worth something.

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posted February 17, 2012 09:46 AM            

Thank you, Ashley, for the ear worm: Chris Isaak’s song “Wicked Games”. I will listen to the song a hundred times until I can’t stand it, anymore. This song speaks to Venus in Scorpio. Venus does not like Scorpio. Venus is a delicate planet of refined sensibilities. Smoldering Scorpio may do well in Mars. but it overwhelms Venus. Venus in Scorpio seems to plague it’s natives, male and female. Quite frankly, it makes them feel they are oversexed. This may sound like it should not be a complaint, but it seems to plague this Venus. Back to the song. This man seems like he does not have a strong enough Mars to deal with his sultry Venus. Mars is one’s drive. Mars shows how we will go after what we want. Venus shows what we love.If one’s Venus were in Scorpio and one had a non go -getter Mars, one’s frustrations would increase exponentially. This song feels like a Libra or Cancer Mars. Libra Mars over thinks. Cancer Mars gets frozen in fear and runs for the safety of it’s crab shell. For a Venus in Scorpio, one would do better with a Fire Moon such as Aries or Leo. Those would be go getter moons. The man in the song seems like he has a tender moon such as Cancer or Pisces; altogether an inauspicious trio.

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posted February 17, 2012 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
I am not sure I agree with you--simply because I don't feel being "oversexed" is a problem.

A lot of this does ring true to me, however. Because I really think Scorpio is such a heavy placement for Venus, I get frustrated a lot. With love, whether the love I am experiencing is "deep" enough, always having doubts and suspicions, etc. And I am always (ok . . . almost always) the initiator in the flirting/dating stage. it just never seems to work the other way around. And many men do call me intimidating . . . it is so weird because if they really got to know me on a deeper level, they would realize I am just a light-hearted, optimistic Sag.

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posted February 17, 2012 11:08 AM            

I think preoccupied with sex would be a better way to say it. Do you agree?

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posted February 17, 2012 12:48 PM              

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
I am not sure I agree with you--simply because I don't feel being "oversexed" is a problem.

A lot of this does ring true to me, however. Because I really think Scorpio is such a heavy placement for Venus, I get frustrated a lot. With love, whether the love I am experiencing is "deep" enough, always having doubts and suspicions, etc. And I am always (ok . . . almost always) the initiator in the flirting/dating stage. it just never seems to work the other way around. And many men do call me intimidating . . . it is so weird because if they really got to know me on a deeper level, they would realize I am just a light-hearted, optimistic Sag.

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let's not forget aries and tauarus are JOINT second place in highly sexed rankings.
Venus in scorpio is all about emotions, controlling, and being in control. When it commits, it can never let go, or finds it very very painful. Then it all depends on how venus is aspected as if conjunct/hard aspect to saturn will be very reticent to iniatate anything. conjunct/hard aspect to neptune over idealises and puts partner on a pedestal and wears rose tinted glasses. Conj/hard aspect to uranus wants excitement and to 'ring the changes' may even want a kinky sex....

Now mercury can only be upto one sign away from your sun sign, and venus can only be upto 2signs away from your sun sign.

So after taking into account, Asc, Sun and Moon (three most important things IN a chart) we then look to mercury and venus.

Venus in water is all emotions, but is it afflicted or has easy aspects. You shouldn't really talk about just a planet in a sign without talking about it's house position, being where there venus expresses and aspects being HOW venus will express itself...

posted February 17, 2012 01:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, inthemisosoup---That was a strong word. It may not have been the best choice of words, as well.

I think preoccupied with sex would be a better way to say it. Do you agree?

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posted February 17, 2012 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
let's not forget aries and tauarus are JOINT second place in highly sexed rankings.
Venus in scorpio is all about emotions, controlling, and being in control. When it commits, it can never let go, or finds it very very painful. Then it all depends on how venus is aspected as if conjunct/hard aspect to saturn will be very reticent to iniatate anything. conjunct/hard aspect to neptune over idealises and puts partner on a pedestal and wears rose tinted glasses. Conj/hard aspect to uranus wants excitement and to 'ring the changes' may even want a kinky sex....

Now mercury can only be upto one sign away from your sun sign, and venus can only be upto 2signs away from your sun sign.

So after taking into account, Asc, Sun and Moon (three most important things IN a chart) we then look to mercury and venus.

Venus in water is all emotions, but is it afflicted or has easy aspects. You shouldn't really talk about just a planet in a sign without talking about it's house position, being where there venus expresses and aspects being HOW venus will express itself...

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Well I have always had rather serious and heavy emotions when it comes to love and friendship. My Venus is well-aspected (trine Jupiter and Mars, sextile Neptune), but it also has a 1 degree conjunction with Pluto and it is in the 8th house. My Mercury is also in Scorpio, but in the 9th house. So I know all about what it means to have a Scorpion's approach to love. I think that makes what I am saying quite relevant here.

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posted February 17, 2012 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I think preoccupied with sex would be a better way to say it. Do you agree?

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not at all, more like 'always horny'

never intimidate men, if anything, they find my openness and comfort feeling toward sex very sexy...

posted February 17, 2012 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i've also seen perhaps the opposite where the venus in scorp is not sexual. i'd rather not ask why coz i grew up with this person lol..

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LOLOL Well, the person buried it, I think.

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posted February 17, 2012 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Wait!
Isn't Venus in it's fall in Virgo?
That is what I've read. Is that wrong?

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posted February 17, 2012 07:10 PM            

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I don't feel being "oversexed" is a problem.

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I agree. Especially when something has upset them emotionally. I don't know anyone who shuts down more. They completely *shut down* as though their body no longer exists. They stop having sex for years. Sometimes it can go on for a life time.

posted February 17, 2012 07:27 PM            

1. Anti-social! Scorpio is deep and emotional but not a social butterfly. Scorpio Venus does not like any kind of social superficiality. This is similar to Venus in aspect to Pluto.

2. Love of things traditionally considered ugly or taboo!
This is because Venus shows what we love and Scorpio does not love anything that is too cutsey or too flakey.

posted February 17, 2012 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:

1. Anti-social! Scorpio is deep and emotional but not a social butterfly. Scorpio Venus does not like any kind of social superficiality. This is similar to Venus in aspect to Pluto.

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not for me...

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2. Love of things traditionally considered ugly or taboo!
This is because Venus shows what we love and Scorpio does not love anything that is too cutsey or too flakey.

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agree

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3. No ability to be self-centered and take their own needs into consideration!
The Libra side of Venus is about compromise.. and the ability to have your needs *met* in a relationship whilst also meeting the needs of your partner.
The Taurus side of Venus is more self-centered.. Taurus being a personal sign stops at "having your needs met".
But either way Venus should be at least a *little* bit about *you*.
Venus in Scorpio people lose themselves in their lover and the people they care about. They completely neglect themselves. They can forget basic things when it comes to taking care of themselves (like eating!). They are much too focused on the emotional/spiritual world... Venus should be about pampering yourself (Libra/Taurus).
People with Scorpio Venus and Venus/Pluto aspects don't really know how to pamper themselves. It does not come naturally to them. [/B]

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not sure
libra venus and taurus venus are too shallow and self-centered, imo
and demanding and needy...

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posted February 17, 2012 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
not sure
libra venus and taurus venus are too shallow and self-centered, imo
and demanding and needy...

i like bubble baths, to explore, indulging myself in nice things...love being a queen but, def. not self-absorbed
and very compassionate
like giving benefit of the doubt
but not neglectful of myself...i mean, not eating?
i like looking good, if i dont take good care of myself, i wont look good

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posted February 17, 2012 10:00 PM            

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1S1novVVD3M

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