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Topic: Venus conjunct North Node Synastry
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8141 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 02:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: little dissappointed. Venus-NN isn't as good of an aspect as I thought it would be
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5611 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 02:40 PM
^ Why? Lessons are necessary to develop your NN potential,and they come in two packages,good and bad.
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4423 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: What happened?
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: ^ Why? Lessons are necessary to develop your NN potential,and they come in two packages,good and bad.
Just from all the comments I've been reading about it. I also researched a few blogs about this aspect and it always seems one person ends up disliking the other. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8141 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 03:34 PM
Ouch.Well you know, nothing's set in stone! I think everyone's experience with a certain aspect will vary greatly. So, no need to be worried; life is so unpredictable anyway. Just take it as it comes IP: Logged |
SaggiMC unregistered
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posted March 16, 2012 06:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: I personally don't care for the draconic stuff if it's purely spiritual. That's only one dimension. I care about what affects my earthly existence!! Who cares what my Higher Self is up to or who the heck my "Twin Flame" is as indicated by Helio.....I just wanna plaster myself over my latest Geocentric crush and make sure he feels the same glorious lustful earthly 3D love <3.
nicely put
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SaggiMC unregistered
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posted March 16, 2012 06:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by hermetic: I am one of those who can attest to unrequited love, I was Venus he was NN, we had a really strong bond between us, I don't know if it was love from his side, but he certainly found me worth of spending 2 years in close friendship with me. That ended because I was just too much in love with him, and at that point he didn't want a relationship, I never found out was it because he didn't like me or some other reason. Even now, years later, I still can't talk properly when I bump into him somewhere. And he still seems very fond of my company. We just never made it past that point.
Nodes are about *Life Lessons* whether it's career, family, love relationships and in synastry its only ONE contact. for it to be successful you need much more than just this one aspect..... for longevity and binding-ness you need Saturn contacts, but they bind for good OR bad... you could also look at 'house overlays' to see how you effected each other. for example if your venus fell in his 12th he may not have felt your venus at all. All these thins are address in Basic forum http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html another aspect in synastry which I feel is not used enough are parallels. you can get the aspect grid for the syn biwheel when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL… problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done basic astrology forum, parallels in declination http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000675.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology…. I would also look at POF Basic astrology forum – Part of fortune (POF) http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000689.html also vertex and Juno are important Basic astrology forum, Vertex in synastry & natal http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000692.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 2569 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 16, 2012 06:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: I personally don't care for the draconic stuff if it's purely spiritual. That's only one dimension. I care about what affects my earthly existence!! Who cares what my Higher Self is up to or who the heck my "Twin Flame" is as indicated by Helio.....I just wanna plaster myself over my latest Geocentric crush and make sure he feels the same glorious lustful earthly 3D love <3.
Love it!
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starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 16, 2012 01:47 PM
I've had this aspect before. He was Venus, I was North Node.We didn't have any South Node connections. Also, our composite North Node was conjunct the composite Moon in the seventh house. Anyway, I lost interest in him very quickly. I also felt very uncomfortable with him, for some reason. I don't think I was "ready" for that kind of relationship (a "serious" one). In addition, my Chiron was conjunct his Venus, which can bring about strange reversals. I was also going through a hard Uranus transit, so that really explained it. I've read that without South Node connections, relationships with planets on the North Node in synastry are too "new" to occur in this lifetime. IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 1129 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 16, 2012 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy:
I've read that without South Node connections, relationships with planets on the North Node in synastry are too "new" to occur in this lifetime.
I have read the same thing, at a time when I was infatuated so much that I could barely breathe and my reaction was: "...but I want to be his wife in thiiis lifetime" (I was the NN). IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5611 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 16, 2012 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: I've read that without South Node connections, relationships with planets on the North Node in synastry are too "new" to occur in this lifetime.
Well,that's new... IP: Logged |
hermetic Newflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 01:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaggiMC: Nodes are about *Life Lessons* whether it's career, family, love relationships and in synastry its only ONE contact. for it to be successful you need much more than just this one aspect.....for longevity and binding-ness you need Saturn contacts, but they bind for good OR bad... you could also look at 'house overlays' to see how you effected each other. for example if your venus fell in his 12th he may not have felt your venus at all. All these thins are address in Basic forum http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html another aspect in synastry which I feel is not used enough are parallels. you can get the aspect grid for the syn biwheel when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the[b] *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL… problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done basic astrology forum, parallels in declination http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000675.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology…. I would also look at POF Basic astrology forum – Part of fortune (POF) http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000689.html also vertex and Juno are important Basic astrology forum, Vertex in synastry & natal http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000692.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….[/B]
Thanks for the reply, I know Nodal aspects are just one part of the whole synastry. I see many Saturn aspects in the grid, except most are hard aspects, is the Saturn person(whose Saturn is making all those aspects) the one who gets attached more and can't get over it? Or the other person whose personal planets (Venus, Merc, Mars) are receiving hard aspects from Saturn?
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 1718 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 01:19 PM
If Venus is conjunct the North Node and Saturn is conjunct the South Node.. Or any planets under 3 orb.It means they were together in a past life, and will be together in the next life. If there are only South Node conjunctions but Zero NN conjunctions it means this is their last lifetime together and it's time to say goodbye. And how it's so so hard to say goodbye. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4379 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: If Venus is conjunct the North Node and Saturn is conjunct the South Node.. Or any planets under 3 orb.It means they were together in a past life, and will be together in the next life. If there are only South Node conjunctions but Zero NN conjunctions it means this is their last lifetime together and it's time to say goodbye. And how it's so so hard to say goodbye.
what about NN oppositions? Does is it count? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 1718 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 01:22 PM
NN opposition is a planet conjunct the South Node.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4379 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 01:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: NN opposition is a planet conjunct the South Node.
cool thanks. IP: Logged |
Aeline Knowflake Posts: 1085 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 03:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by maira: The NN is the one in love; maybe it sees the Venus person as someone who loves perfectly, and NN feels that it's destiny to learn how to love like that.
Cannot agree. It's this Venus guy that is exactly conjunct my NN. He's so in love with me, he looks at me with those admiring eyes, but i do not notice him. No, I notice him though because he's so into me. But i don't return his feelings. Maybe i'm just too uncomfortable with my NN issues, because SN relationships are so better. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 1442 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 19, 2012 03:52 PM
For those who say that NN/Venus contacts were not positive or were one sided, were there other aspects in the chart that may have taken away from any positivity the aspect might have? For instance, wouldn't natal Saturn or Pluto or Uranus squaring the NN/Venus conjunct make the NN/Venus synastry hard to sustain? I am asking because in my chart, I have Sun and Venus (in 7th house) and ascendant squaring my NN, and so I have a very hard time relating to my NN as it seems to interfere with my personal expression (ascendant) and my love life (7th house planets). IP: Logged |
Aeline Knowflake Posts: 1085 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 04:54 PM
No, but my SN is seriously loaded. It has my Moon, Jupiter, Selena, Eros, Chiron, etc. nearly around it. So maybe that's the reason. I have notthing in Aqua, which is my NN sign, except for Vertex, though.IP: Logged |
ekf Knowflake Posts: 204 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 20, 2012 08:52 AM
I have this exact conjunction with a man I completely ADORE. I'm Venus and he's the north node. I mean like a cartoon kind of adore...he can say or do no wrong. But chances are we will never be together. We're amazing friends and he's a little in love with me too. We both know we can't be together but we make sure we stay connected and we would literally help each other out with anything the other needed. It's my first non platonic, non romantic, pure love relationship. Jan Spiller says of this contact that the Venus person just better accept that they're going to fall in love with the NN person and the more they accept this gift and spend time with the person the more they allow the NN person to exercise their NN destiny in the Venus person's life. Celeste Teal says this contact is the getting to know you phase for what will become a relationship probably in the next lifetime.IP: Logged |
Krystie Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 16, 2013 03:06 AM
This is so interesting... an ex of mine (NN) had this aspect with an ex girlfriend (Venus) of 7 years.. they seperated and when I met him my Mars conjunct his NN... after hearing we were together she sadly took her own life and I have since found that her Mars conjunct my NN and on the day she passed away Pluto was exactly conjunct her NN. Also her natal Saturn 4° Cancer formed a trine with my Pluto 4° Scorpio and my ex's Moon 4° Pisces... I don't know what to make of this but it all seems highly fated or some very karmic connections here. Things fell apart for us after this although we were together for 3 years... he is definitely a soul mate and we'll always be close no matter what, it was just so tragic the way it happened... IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1380 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 16, 2013 06:52 AM
Wow Krystie... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8141 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 16, 2013 07:00 AM
Krystie, I'm so sorry about what happened Very tragic, indeed. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1849 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 16, 2013 11:02 AM
My north node is in cancer and my boyfriends venus is in cancer. Wide orb.IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 312 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 17, 2013 03:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by ekf: ...the Venus person just better accept that they're going to fall in love with the NN person and the more they accept this gift and spend time with the person the more they allow the NN person to exercise their NN destiny in the Venus person's life.
lol with venus/nn i think any reciprocated feelings would be shared with an overriding sense of destiny and strong focus on the future. however, i think that any feelings of "destiny" and future love may be felt more on the NN persons end - if they even fancy the other person. venus could sense that vibe but it would be up to them as to whether to feed it or not (if they feel the same way). some people like that sort of connection however others may find it too intense and be scared off by it. i think that because of the intensity of the energy, it would be (if they are attracted) the node person that would be the one running around like a headless chicken..the planet person just goes on doing its thing whilst being either okay or uncomfortable with the craziness coming from the node person. my two cents IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4349 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 01, 2014 08:48 AM
*Bump* quote: Originally posted by iliketurtles: lolwith venus/nn i think any reciprocated feelings would be shared with an overriding sense of destiny and strong focus on the future. however, i think that any feelings of "destiny" and future love may be felt more on the NN persons end - if they even fancy the other person. venus could sense that vibe but it would be up to them as to whether to feed it or not (if they feel the same way). some people like that sort of connection however others may find it too intense and be scared off by it. i think that because of the intensity of the energy, it would be (if they are attracted) the node person that would be the one running around like a headless chicken..the planet person just goes on doing its thing whilst being either okay or uncomfortable with the craziness coming from the node person. my two cents
I'm having exactly this experience now. I am Venus - He is NN.. and that's how he is acting. IP: Logged |