posted March 24, 2012 10:45 PM            

I found this info from... http://astrofix.net/2010/07/18/venus-synastry-12th-house/

Someone’s Venus falls in your 12th house

When someone’s Venus falls in your 12th house they arouse your imagination and fascination. They inspire romantic feelings and subconscious longings. They soothe your fears. They charm you. You feel attractive around them. Their presence encourages you to be cooperative and pleasant. They rouse the desire to be beautiful from the inside out. They inspire appreciation of the arts. They have a subtle harmonious effect on you.

This may be a secret relationship. You may be oblivious to the Venus person’s romantic feelings for you and discount their attractive qualities. They may have a secret crush on you. You could find it hard to express the connection in words. You ignore the person’s shortcomings. You don’t see them clearly. You let your guard down and get taken advantage of. You are so consumed with how seductive, attractive, alluring or charming they are that you don’t realize you are being manipulated. You suspect they are trying to buy you.

Venus people who have your best interests at heart will assuage the feelings of sadness, loneliness and fear within you. Venus people who do not have your best interests at heart can use their knowledge of your shortcomings to manipulate you.

Your Venus falls in someone’s 12th house

Love feels mystical in the 12th house person’s presence. You become selfless. You lose concern with your own personal happiness. The relationship is private and occurs away from prying eyes. You might feel that the 12th house person doesn’t want to be seen with you in public. Perhaps the 12th house person doesn’t want to acknowledge the relationship. This could be an unrequited love: you love the 12th house person, but they don’t return your affection. This could be a lonely love because you feel alone in the relationship. There may be a spiritual connection that other people don’t understand. It’s possible that you are an enabler. You unwittingly encourage the 12th house person’s bad habits. You are too accepting of the 12th house person’s self-sabotaging behavior. Because the 12th house person feels at ease around you, it is easy for you to take advantage of them. You use your knowledge of their fears and weaknesses for your own benefit.

Read more: http://astrofix.net/2010/07/18/venus-synastry-12th-house/#ixzz1q5oNJWFZ

posted March 24, 2012 11:56 PM            

Anyway, I have Cancer in the 12th so I will be sure to stay away from Cancer Venus people

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You let your guard down and get taken advantage of. You are so consumed with how seductive, attractive, alluring or charming they are that you don’t realize you are being manipulated. You suspect they are trying to buy you.

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Of course that last sentence doesn't fit, I don't know what the author meant...but I don't want any of this whatsoever.

Maybe it would be better if my Venus falls in their 12th?

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Love feels mystical in the 12th house person’s presence. You become selfless. You lose concern with your own personal happiness. The relationship is private and occurs away from prying eyes. You might feel that the 12th house person doesn’t want to be seen with you in public.

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posted March 25, 2012 12:11 AM            

I have Pluto and Saturn natally in the 12th.
He has Sun and Mars natally in the 12th.

My Venus falls in his 12th house while his pluto, saturn, and moon falls in mine.

I honestly don't mind the "intrusion" lol. I wanted to be close to him and be able to spill the beans. But I want that to be a mutual desire.

Also it's a bit lame that the venus person showers the other person with love and that person doesn't even care...lol

posted March 25, 2012 12:14 AM            

Venus in Partner’s Twelfth House
A gentle approach to the often difficult twelfth house. Mutual sympathy and understanding. Venus person makes house person feel better about themselves. Sympathetic and perhaps spiritual. If negative, may incline to self-indulgence. Good for a quiet, reclusive lifestyle. Also good for those who work with the sick or who care for others.

posted March 25, 2012 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Planet Queen:

But from my experience with 12th house overlays, the other person have to be really mature and comfortable with opening up to you or they will feel that your literally intruding into their secrets - 12th house.

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That makes a lot of sense. I've felt this way with people who are unobtrusive overall...that they are just coming too close.

And I get the vibe from certain people, that they think I am being nosey, even when I am ignoring them, because I can SENSE that they think I'm being nosey.

Maybe this factors into those mysterious "back off" energies. Hmmm.

posted March 25, 2012 12:16 AM            

Venus in a partner's twelfth house:

When your Venus is in your romantic partner’s twelfth house, it may all seem a bit mysterious to you. There is often something hidden about your relationship which you keep only to yourselves. When your relationship partner’s Venus is in your twelfth house, you will feel intrigued and fascinated by your partner, but at the same time insecure with your position. This may make you more introspective. You may find yourself in circumstances where you feel that you can only let go and let God deal with the situation.

posted March 25, 2012 01:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
I recently recovered from an unrequited love towards a person who had my Venus in his 12th. He also had his own Venus in his 12th. We both have Venus in Sag.

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posted March 25, 2012 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thankyou, no it's not. I had my chance when I was 21 and missed it. No 2nd chances, he's a Scorp.

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posted March 25, 2012 04:55 AM            

that would be more or less gemini rising for my venus in taurus and yes they do seem to keep our relationship/ friendship very hidden..

posted March 25, 2012 05:56 AM            

So, again, it can go both ways.. The house person isn't always the one who feels intruded upon.

It does seem that few people are actually ready for this configuration, because it does bring a bit of confusion and suspicion.

But it often has a Neptunian feel to it also, so it's either a very uncomfortable type of energy, one that makes you want to run and hide, or a very mysterious, inspiring and deep connection.

posted March 25, 2012 10:21 AM            

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posted March 25, 2012 10:42 AM            

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A former coworker had her Venus conjunct my 12th House Saturn. She became a former coworker because I got her fired for not letting me do my job.

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I had this with my ex and I was Venus on his 12th house Saturn.
He 'fired' me and to add the reason in mainly HIS (sound alike) words;

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You unwittingly encourage the 12th house person’s bad habits. You are too accepting of the 12th house person’s self-sabotaging behavior.

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I can't exactly deny that it's NOT the case. Maybe I was a bit afraid to lose him without his bad habits but/and on the other hand I couldn't deal with it at-ALL when we were too close. So I kept a distance which he couldn't appreciate as he expected me to be his 'savior' ... but my Aqua-Mars/NN (conjunct his Venus) couldn't deal with his dependence and literal addictions that became (at least openly) worse the longer we were together.
Lack of fighting spirit because of *ME* .. doesn't sound strange.

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