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Topic: Question about Leo suns & breakups
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Faith
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posted March 31, 2012 12:49 PM
  
When a Leo breaks up with someone, it seems like they always erase that person from their mind. Even if they were in love, they will tell the next guy/girl that they were never really in love.This has been my experience, does it match yours? My best friend just got broken up with by a Leo. I want to say, "there's hope, he might come back," but are Leos ever like that? Especially if THEY are the ones who broke it off?
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ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 01:00 PM
No they've thought about it long and hard for them to break up with someone and they are too "regal" in their mind to ever come back or let that person back in. (my experience)  IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted March 31, 2012 01:11 PM
Thanks, ariesdragon. I don't see Leos ever looking back, either. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 31, 2012 01:13 PM
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Thanks, ariesdragon. I don't see Leos ever looking back, either.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 31, 2012 01:24 PM
Faith,They're gone. It's over. No hope. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted March 31, 2012 01:35 PM
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Faith,They're gone. It's over. No hope.
LOL! Thanks for giving it to me straight. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted March 31, 2012 02:26 PM
Leo sun here. I agree with AriesDragon & YTA. Gone forever. IP: Logged |
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posted March 31, 2012 02:29 PM
Not in my experience. Mine turned obsessive. But he had Scorp rising......and wasn't quite right in the head anyway. I found out the hard way.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 31, 2012 03:31 PM
It all depends on why the break up....if it's something I've thought about and wanted and went to the person and broke it off..... Then there is no going back. I'm totally done and moved on..
Yeah I admit when I sit and think about out,i fiqure it wasnt love..just lust or confusion....
If I'm not mentally ready top let go of the person,i will go back and try.. But it wouldn't be the same and my guard would be on high alert....with the smallest little upset would porb cause me to walk away for good, cuz now breaking up is in my head...Now I would only go back if certain lines weren't crossed..... If it's betrayal...even mental...i would never forgive that..
All feelings would just be.gone.... I would have no interest in working it out. IP: Logged |
racole12
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posted March 31, 2012 03:50 PM
I have had 2 Leos come back to me (about 18 months after the situation ended) and proposed to me. Even though I declined, both of them are still in my life. But, I haven't seen either of them go back to other women in the 15-17 yrs I have known them. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 31, 2012 03:51 PM
just because someone doesnt show it doesnt mean they dont think about it, but i think leos would put up a front out of pride, i have a good friend who is a leo who acted like he didnt mind the breakup with his girlfriend of over 2 years but he would confide in me how hard he was taking it and how he missed her. I think fixed signs in general have a hard time letting go even they are too stubborn to admit it.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 31, 2012 04:14 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
just because someone doesnt show it doesnt mean they dont think about it, but i think leos would put up a front out of pride, i have a good friend who is a leo who acted like he didnt mind the breakup with his girlfriend of over 2 years but he would confide in me how hard he was taking it and how he missed her. I think fixed signs in general have a hard time letting go even they are too stubborn to admit it.
True.. I agree.. I can take breakups very hard.. I deal with it in private on my own.. Not really showing my hurt..
When I split with the ex husband. I spent 18 months in solitude and working through it..even though I had no desire, to go back.
It was very hard to walk away but it's what I had to do.
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RegardesPlatero
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posted March 31, 2012 04:20 PM
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Lioness
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posted March 31, 2012 04:34 PM
The solitude is probably my cancer, pisces placements.Only no one knew I was in solitude... I was just "busy" with other things. IP: Logged |
Anjellyfish
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posted March 31, 2012 06:01 PM
They're not a leo sun but they have leo moon and leo rising (Scorp sun, Scorp Mars) so the generalization probably fits them more.
Yeah, she did it all the time when she broke up with him. Saying she "stopped caring" "doesn't love him anymore but wishes him the best in life" or something to that extent, then get really prideful and act like she doesn't need him and say "it's no longer positive for her to be around him"...she would purposely delete his number but then text him out of the blue...try to block him out but cave in and want to meet up with him someplace to eat. Also, extremely obsessive about her ex and anyone else that she feels has "wronged" her and way to much pride about it. although her ex was a closeted gay and felt that it was unfair to string her along in a relationship when he only loved her as a friend, if it made sense.
Based on my experience, emotionally unstable people will say "I don't care about him/her anymore" but their actions say the polar opposite.
but I know plenty o' leo suns who still care about their ex's and talk to them still. I think it's more of a moon sign/mars sign thing.
Leo moons and Scorp moons as well as Scorp mars do it a lot though, my observations :P
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VenusDiSirius
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posted March 31, 2012 06:32 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
When a Leo breaks up with someone, it seems like they always erase that person from their mind. Even if they were in love, they will tell the next guy/girl that they were never really in love.This has been my experience, does it match yours? My best friend just got broken up with by a Leo. I want to say, "there's hope, he might come back," but are Leos ever like that? Especially if THEY are the ones who broke it off?
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ShyVirgo1979
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posted March 31, 2012 08:58 PM
I agree with what was said above. I know thru experience lol my ex leo dumped me and he pretty much just kinda dropped me for awhile. That was 3 yrs ago. We still talk tho. We've known each other for over 15 yrs so I wanted to keep the friendship. But yeah once they decide its over, that's it they done. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen
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posted April 01, 2012 04:33 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
When a Leo breaks up with someone, it seems like they always erase that person from their mind. Even if they were in love, they will tell the next guy/girl that they were never really in love.
I'm a Leo Sun and whenever someone has broken up with me, I tend to literally despise them. It is really an ego blow and the last person that really broke up with me was also a Leo Sun, however 6 months later he tried to contact me and I ignored him. But I really hate this person he appears in my dreams and almost haunts me, if only I could totally erase him from my memory...
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popcorn
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posted April 01, 2012 08:48 AM
Iam a exactly leo sun conj AC in an exactly parallel. Iam an drama queen and when the relationship are over its really over. I often becomes be good friends to all my ex but the feelings of love will never be back.My best friend are an old ex to me.. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted April 01, 2012 11:52 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
When a Leo breaks up with someone, it seems like they always erase that person from their mind. Even if they were in love, they will tell the next guy/girl that they were never really in love.This has been my experience, does it match yours?
I broke up with him mostly, but the feeling seemed mutual. Anyway, I did catch him telling some other girl that he never loved me. Actually he never even mentioned me in his past relationship history. Btw, he did that for another girl too. He didn't tell me about her until I got his password with his permission and found out myself. It wasn't like they were in a relationship, but we were talking about who we were once interested in as potentials and who we met up. So he should have mentioned her, but no he didn't. I've also read that leos want a faithful girl but they have a seperate clause that allows them to stray behind the girl's back. I think that is low down and not at all regal. Honestly, screw people like that. If they don't have enough dignity to mark a place in their lives for the person they "loved" then they aren't as regal as they would like to think. I'm so done with Leo tantrums. I found that leo man sooooooo manipulative and so selfish. Makes me never want to get mixed up with a leo again. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 01, 2012 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
When a Leo breaks up with someone, it seems like they always erase that person from their mind. Even if they were in love, they will tell the next guy/girl that they were never really in love.This has been my experience, does it match yours? My best friend just got broken up with by a Leo. I want to say, "there's hope, he might come back," but are Leos ever like that? Especially if THEY are the ones who broke it off?
I've seen a Leo sun come back, and I've seen a Leo sun not come back. In my experience the Leo suns always played the victim no matter who broke it off. My Leo sun ex put me on the back burner for weeks (usually you can tell when something is different in your relationship with a Leo...) and then lowered the boom. They have excellent timing (sarcasm), but he came back...because he never really left. He just wanted me to chase him. You know it's over with a Leo when they're not dramatic about it and are frank instead. Now, if YOU break up with the Leo... no, they probably won't come back. If they do come back in your life it will be to play a different role than the previous one. They don't ever play the same role twice unless there's a motivation for it. My friend ditched her friendship with this Leo guy who kind of lied a lot, let him know she was angry. The last time she saw him he was going to tell her something but she was too furious, so he just kind of hung his head and moped on out. Months later she realizes she overreacted and has wanted him back in her life since - but he won't. I think Leos stay hurt for a longer time than books/people claim, but they would never tell you such personal details after you shock them like that. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted April 01, 2012 02:47 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I've seen a Leo sun come back, and I've seen a Leo sun not come back. In my experience the Leo suns always played the victim no matter who broke it off. My Leo sun ex put me on the back burner for weeks (usually you can tell when something is different in your relationship with a Leo...) and then lowered the boom. They have excellent timing (sarcasm), but he came back...because he never really left. He just wanted me to chase him. You know it's over with a Leo when they're not dramatic about it and are frank instead. Now, if YOU break up with the Leo... no, they probably won't come back. If they do come back in your life it will be to play a different role than the previous one. They don't ever play the same role twice unless there's a motivation for it. My friend ditched her friendship with this Leo guy who kind of lied a lot, let him know she was angry. The last time she saw him he was going to tell her something but she was too furious, so he just kind of hung his head and moped on out. Months later she realizes she overreacted and has wanted him back in her life since - but he won't. I think Leos stay hurt for a longer time than books/people claim, but they would never tell you such personal details after you shock them like that.
I agree. They play victim with everything even if they are the instigator and not the victim. They will craft the story in such a way as to minimize their hand in the mess. Also, I know he mopes around and plays mind games worse than a scorpio. At least with a scorpio you kinda have them figured out. Here the leo keeps toying with you, hot and cold, until it seems they are done playing .It just seems soooo Idk like they are so full of themselves. He's come back a lot and tried to make me jealous when I stopped and made him jealous then I saw how ****** he'd be and that he still had feelings for me. It's so silly. I find them to be really immature and self absorbed. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 08, 2012 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I agree. They play victim with everything even if they are the instigator and not the victim. They will craft the story in such a way as to minimize their hand in the mess. Also, I know he mopes around and plays mind games worse than a scorpio. At least with a scorpio you kinda have them figured out. Here the leo keeps toying with you, hot and cold, until it seems they are done playing .It just seems soooo Idk like they are so full of themselves. He's come back a lot and tried to make me jealous when I stopped and made him jealous then I saw how ****** he'd be and that he still had feelings for me. It's so silly. I find them to be really immature and self absorbed.
yess all of this is so true omgg
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mintgirl123
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posted April 08, 2012 04:44 AM
I think it depends on the maturity level of the said Leo.
Some are dignified, mature and prideful, and even if they've been screwed over BAD by their ex, chooses to move on with head held high and doesn't act all 'woe is me'.Obv the emotionally immature ones will act pathetic. That's why you gotta aim higher and find the better quality Leo guys lol. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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posted April 21, 2012 12:23 AM
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