posted April 01, 2012 11:40 PM            

Not that I'm proud of it but, I did chase an Aquarian female online once like that.

I'm curious how he'll act next week I'm betting he'll do a complete 360 Degrees, that way you can see his "true colors" come out with time.

posted April 02, 2012 12:42 AM            

He's going to be really really hard to pin down and very changeable. Doubt he'll ever be the type that knows exactly what he wants and isn't always looking at the 'next best thing.'

posted April 02, 2012 01:48 AM            

Then I met a guy who said ******** to that n that love has no reasons.

I pondered. True, I've never end up falling in love with any guy who I was not interested in at first date. It's never lust but really more fancination at first date, leading to willingness to love.

posted April 02, 2012 06:18 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:

Come to think of it, I don't know that I've ever met a non-trusting Aqua; like Sagittarius, they seem to trust in the universe.

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posted April 02, 2012 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Wow all that gemini with a mutable pisces mars too??

He's going to be really really hard to pin down and very changeable. Doubt he'll ever be the type that knows exactly what he wants and isn't always looking at the 'next best thing.'

You taurus moon and aries placements need sb more assertive, decisive and grounded for sure.

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posted April 02, 2012 06:40 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol find an Aqua with Capricorn in their chart.

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posted April 02, 2012 07:04 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
They're not into you anymore?

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posted April 02, 2012 07:05 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Or,they find you boring!

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posted April 02, 2012 07:38 AM            

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"Fyi I'm not as talkative as I came off, but because your smart I could share everything I was keeping to myself"

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This is cryptic, I'm actually suprised he isn't a water Mercury hehe ... It could also mean that you and him are on the same page, that you understand each other? Honestly I have no clue.

posted April 02, 2012 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Haha isn't that the same difference?!

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posted April 02, 2012 09:32 AM            

Today is Monday, If he is a good gem and still interested. You will eventually get a text or call and he will yap on what happen during the weekend, no detail will be spared.

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Wow all that gemini with a mutable pisces mars too??

He's going to be really really hard to pin down and very changeable. Doubt he'll ever be the type that knows exactly what he wants and isn't always looking at the 'next best thing.

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I couldn't agree more with the earth influences I have, I should be a lot more grounded compared to the average gem and I still do a 360 degree turn on things time to time.

But, for me its more of a matter of chasing the next best thing, not the other way around.

posted April 02, 2012 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I'd say situations like yours are rare and the exception, not the rule. You love your wife deeply; that much, I do know. (Really wish that she was on here and into astrology because she sounds awesome). I've thought of you guys as simply being very blessed in a highly unusual way.

And fair point about people knowing each other and getting divorced, though of course there are a lot of complicated reasons why people get divorced. Marriage and love are HUGE risks to take and nothing really guarantees anything.

Me, I'm not an easily trusting person, and for me, something good or someone being sincere about love would be the last possibilities. All others would have to be disproved for me to really believe in them. As I've said, I tend to have the "guilty until proven innocent" mentality with a lot of people--not all, but a lot. Trust takes time for me, and feelings take time for me. I'm definitely 'on guard' and I don't want to invest emotionally in a friend and find out that the person wasn't worth it. I care about people whom I like, enjoy talking to them, enjoy spending time with them, like to do nice things for them: doing that for someone who is untrustworthy and just taking advantage of me is a waste of my time and resources, not to mention my heart. So, I have to be sure about people first, which, again, takes time for me.

I think too that I feel better about things taking their time because it gives me a chance to really analyze things and to get a good "read" on a person. I really feel like I get to know a person better after we've disagreed or after I've seen that person's faults. I need to know what the worst is that I could run into with someone, what a person's dark side is like. I need to be prepared. Those things tend not to come out right away; people initially want to impress someone, so they often put their best foot forward, and the flaws come out later.

Also, I do want to thank you and Aquaguy for giving a man's perspective on these things. We might not approach issues in the same way, but it's good to see things from the other side, and from decent people rather than what I've seen on other forums from really shady men.

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Platero,

I cherish the ability to have a intelligent, constructive conversation and I fully respect your viewpoints.

It would take quite a bit of effort on getting my wife here, but I'm working on it.

I fully recognize that my case is unique, although I wished that more men would hold themselves to higher thresholds of proper conduct. Its not just a case of a few rotten apples spoling the barrel, and I understand a woman's need to maintain her guard. Nonetheless, I wish it were not the case.

posted April 02, 2012 11:39 AM            

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It was the weekend, probably was distracted having to take care of other things.

Today is Monday, If he is a good gem and still interested. You will eventually get a text or call and he will yap on what happen during the weekend, no detail will be spared.

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posted April 02, 2012 12:30 PM            

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My neighbour's mother is a Gemini and when she's ****** off, she speaks to no one and everyone just fears her...lmfao (Taurus Mars conjunct Mercury).

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posted April 02, 2012 01:01 PM            

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Gemini Sun, Merc and Venus....oooooo. He seriously thinks about things before putting them out there. I have known someone with this combo for 9 years although his merc is on the cancer cusp. I Dont know about your guy but the one I know is verrry careful with what he expreses, if he says it he means it. People may not figure this about Geminis unless they know them very imtimatley that we take rejection very hard. We can alwways smile to cover up everything better than anyone but if someone doesnt show interest in the effort we've made out of our in truth very emotionally analysed desicions we will never look that way again. We need people who can see beyond the surface.

Following from this, I would say he is wont be looking back your way unless you make a dramatic next move. BUT just remember, this is only my opinion in trying to help you out, ultimiately go with your gut.

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posted April 02, 2012 01:41 PM            

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I knew another Gemini moon, and he lied a lot. They were harmless ridiculous lies, but nevertheless. He was also shy about his feelings and tried covering them up (but he had a Taurus Venus too) either way his feelings always came across as shallow. Not shallow in a bad way but like they didn't stick very long.

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Gemini Moons, I dont mesh well with them either. The Gemini moon placement along with the Gemini Rising placement are the only Gemini placements that I am not very fond of.I have to be on my ultimate guard when I see someone has Gemini Moon or Rising.The ones I have met are very calculating, a different lot imo from all other Gemini placements. A lot of my bad expereinces have been with Gemini mooners.

I am a Gemini Sun. I'm not saying they always seek shallow relationships, but two of the most shallow, selfish ppl I have met have these placements.They usally lack the integrity and dignity that Gemini Suns wear proudly. Their bad twin was def leading them. Hopefully maturity might encourage a change, but I personally have not been able to tolerate these people long enough to find out.

posted April 02, 2012 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I knew another Gemini moon, and he lied a lot. They were harmless ridiculous lies, but nevertheless. He was also shy about his feelings and tried covering them up (but he had a Taurus Venus too) either way his feelings always came across as shallow. Not shallow in a bad way but like they didn't stick very long.

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