posted April 04, 2012 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Wow. I was not expecting it to be that crazy... (!!)

I've dealt with venus square pluto before in well, first time i ever crushed hard on someone, but i dont think I was in love because i was able to easily forget about him. And the composite showed it wasnt true love. And second time was with a guy I would marry in a heart beat We have composite venus trine pluto, though. And the third time was when I really fell in love. It was
crazy. We had double wahmmy venus-pluto aspects and the love stellium in the composite. In synastry it was venus sextile pluto and venus square pluto, so at least we had a sextile on the second double whammy, haha. We also had great synastry apart from that. But, basically, I wanted to push him off a cliff and then rush
to the bottom to catch him. I wanted to hurt him so bad he cried and looked as tortured as i felt by him on the inside and then, save him with hugs and kisses and tell him I was sorry. I hate the way he made me act and feel. He toyed with my feelings and led me on, knowing that i liked him. I hurt him a lot, to the point where he looked like he was going to cry. We both played
games, but I think I treated him worse than he treated me. It was amazing, despite the nights of crying and the fact he had so much power over me. I would feel dizzy and faint and start shaking if he didn't reply to my text message. He always did, but I always feared he wouldn't anyway. That was life changing though, and it toally changed my outlook and values on life. I guess,
just like pluto always promises to do , hmm?

I don't treat relationships lightly anymore, or even other people's feelings lightly anymore, because I know better now

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posted April 04, 2012 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well, my suspicions about him pretty much turned out to be true. He saw me as a friend, so it's not like he couldnt care less about me, but he was leading me on and trying to use me. So my behavior was caused by him. So it's not the same case as with your scorpio girl where you were being true and she was just doubting you. But it's pretty similar anyway . That's a crazy story! lol. I heard scorpios were jealous, but man! lol

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posted April 04, 2012 01:46 AM            

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I was caught off guard In that relationship, I don't even let anybody in. Hopefully I'll be able to lighten up again and not have to watch my back. It feels like a ghost is haunting me, always there lurking in the shadows.

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Awww I'm sorry honey :/

Well, it's not her lurking in the shadows anymore, just be thankful for that at least haha....

I think I took such a positive experience from it all because we had the composite love stellium, and when that's there, you can always forgive that person and see the best in them. So, I don't hate him at all, and I just see it as hopefully he will learn why that was wrong in the future. Even if he was playing me, he was so sweet and loving about it, that I couldn't possibly hate him. Haha. I just love him what can I say And I wish him the best.

So maybe your composite with her was messed up. What does the composite look like?

posted April 04, 2012 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:

got this from teasel lol it's cuter than saying DP

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posted April 04, 2012 01:56 AM            

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Awww I'm sorry honey :/

Well, it's not her lurking in the shadows anymore, just be thankful for that at least haha....

I think I took such a positive experience from it all because we had the composite love stellium, and when that's there, you can always forgive that person and see the best in them. So, I don't hate him at all, and I just see it as hopefully he will learn why that was wrong in the future. Even if he was playing me, he was so sweet and loving about it, that I couldn't possibly hate him. Haha. I just love him what can I say And I wish him the best.

So maybe your composite with her was messed up. What does the composite look like?

And by the way, it was really hard to share my story, too, b/c it's embarrassing :X lol

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posted April 04, 2012 01:57 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
You know what? I bet we have the love stellium. I always have it with the people I'm like super extremely nice to on lindaland

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posted April 04, 2012 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Thank you for sharing with me, it was nice. I don't hate her at all, I'm more scared of her lmao your story is not embarrassing at all Ras, at least we shared some real stories today, something that was very deep to us. You're such a sweetheart Have a goodnight xo

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Awww you too :0) Good nighttt

Yeah, it's different on this forum..because ya'll know what Venus square pluto means, but no one in the real world does. You all know what pluto feels like, and how scorpios act...etc

So much less needs to be explained .

posted April 14, 2012 03:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
OMG just randomly checked the composite for me and a stalker girl that keeps obsessing over me and guess what.. Pluto trines Venus, although at a wide orb (6°) !

But, Pluto also conjuncts the Moon and they're both squared by Saturn.

I was looking for something that would point to her "obsession" with me, but didn't really find anything.. It's the weirdest thing. Her Mars does square my Pluto though.

And it's just really creepy..

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Post your birth datas so i can look at your composite

posted April 14, 2012 03:23 AM            

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i have this - venus trine pluto at 1 degree in the composite and we also have venus conjunct pluto at 2 degrees in synastry. not sure how to tell the difference though between how it would feel in the composite as opposed to synastry?? we're completely obsessed with each other though and have been from the first time we met (a year ago). by obsession i mean you're just constantly thinking of the person, wanting to be with them, wanting to talk to them 24/7, etc. it's a healthy obsession, at least for us. it was almost like we both knew we were going to be together the minute we met. it took 10 months to get together but we did it and WOW - venus and pluto are just so compelled to be together. we're around each other as much as possible without trying to look obsessed :-) as grown adults (he's 47, i'm 37) it's like being teenagers again

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How is this going????

posted April 14, 2012 11:48 AM            

There is a report of jealousy and manipulation, where hate is as strong as love, and SaggiMC actually called it a problematic aspect because my wife is supposed to be repulsed by me, until I did my own research and formed my own conclusion.

posted April 14, 2012 01:59 PM            

The conjunction would def be more dramatic, and possibly problematic. Dunno if it's necessarily ALWAYS problematic though.

posted April 14, 2012 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Actually, I looked again and that aspect isn't in the Composite. There isn't one in the Composite chart. I do have my Pluto Conjunct her Venus in the Synastry chart.

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Lol^^

I had composite venus conjunct pluto with a guy once. There was a lot of fascination there, but.. I dunno. It wasn't anything out of this world or anything. He was cute and we had chemistry, but I didn't like him enough to go out with him. There was a certain tension there I guess that I didn't like. I'd take composite venus trine pluto over venus conjunct pluto any day, it seems. Less tension.

posted June 26, 2012 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
bump..I still would like some stories about people's experience with composite venus trine pluto

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I had venus sextile pluto in composite and pluto quintile venus in synastry.

posted September 14, 2012 06:26 AM            

I have a composite Pluto in Sco trine Venus in Pis with my fiance

From the moment we met and he smiled at me, I was his. That sounds so corny, but I couldn't deny it if I tried (my venus is sextile his sun and my pluto square his venus in synastry.) We met at a mutual friend's house and spent that first night joined at the hip. He spent the night doing things he, and I quote, "doesn't do" to both be around me and impress me. I loved the attention and he gave it so willingly! We parted ways that night without each other's phone numbers or any other way to get in contact. He got my number from our mutual friend though and a week after we met our relationship started. There was no get to know each other first period or "should we date" or "do you want to" conversations. He was mine and I was his and that's all there was to it. He was dropping me off one night about three weeks after we met and when he hugged and kissed me he told me he loved me..It just sort of came out. He was mortified, but he couldn't have stopped himself from saying it

Being with me has DEFINITELY changed him and we can both honestly say for the better. My Pluto aspects ALL of his personal planets in synastry! Square his Sun, Merc & Venus and sextile his Moon. But his Pluto is conjunct mine so he has these aspects natally and is comfortable with the transformations being with me brings about in himself. I'm not sure I could ever be in love with somebody the way I am with him ever again if he were to no longer be..

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I love this placement and the pure unadulterated love that goes with it.

And as if this weren't enough on it's own, we also have our composite Moon in Cancer that completes our composite grand trine

posted September 14, 2012 07:22 AM            

and thank god for true love hehe.

posted September 14, 2012 09:09 AM            

So far he's the only guy I've ever been in love with. I hate to admit it and usually deny the whole thing. I have an easy time rationalizing my feelings and usually express them in a very repressed controlled manner. I don't crush that easily on guys, whether they be witty, handsome, charming.. I am often left unimpressed. But with him, it was rather different. The moment I met him, I just knew. But he was taken and is now a father. This whole situation of being enamoured with someone I can't have made me go through quite a ride of emotions and totally changed me.

At first, I had the gut feelings that he might feel something towards me and his behavior was pointing to this. There was just this connection and it was really overwhelming for me to just be around him, yet the rational part of me felt like he might be just willing to play around. So whenever I was around him it was a battle of will between my intuition and my rational thinking. When I came to the conclusion that he was just using me to valdiate his huge ego, I hated him and when I was going with my intuition, I was completely overwhelmed by the feelings I had for him. I don't think I've ever felt this passionately and with such intensity for anyone or anything other than him, maybe also because of the pent up frustration that comes with knowing /not knowing and not being able to just confront the situation. There was also a crazy physical attraction that haunted way after I didn't see him anymore.
Then we both moved to different towns and I guess that's where pluto rears its ugly head. I was literrally afraid of losing him, which is utterly stupid because I had never had him. I felt like I had been deprived of a part of me. I must admit astrology didn't really help there. I had become interested in it while I was trying to understand what was happening for me to feel this way. And I just focused on all the past life connections and soul bonds, which just made me hurt even more because I couldn't understand why I had to meet him only to be separated. I was rather obsessed back when I could see him daily and I got even more obsessed when I couldn't. Even until this day, though I tried so hard to simply shut the feelings, I still have him on my mind.

It is really tiring and emotionally draining in the end. It had a huge impact on my emotonal state and it made me face a lot of personal issues that I had never really confronted. As time passes by it does get easier to just move on (though the recent venus retrograde made me take some steps back in the process) but even so, it is a constant struggle against myself, where I sort of have to just accept that nothing can be done. It gets easier also because I recently realized he doesn't care as much as I do, and I am not one to make someone impotant if I am not at least a tiny bit cared for by them in return. So I try to convince mysef of this, to just let it go. I've been trying for 2 years now, and I have had moments where I just thought to myself that I simply will never love anyone as much as I loved him. And sometimes I do really wonder if I have just gotten better at being in denial or if I do feel nothing at all for him.

posted September 14, 2012 04:41 PM            

Venus Mutually Aspects Pluto

You will experience the heights and depths, love and hate, attraction and repulsion, agony and ecstasy in this relationship. A powerful, compelling fascination and irresistible sexual attraction draws the two of you together like magnets. You love each other with a depth of feeling that is surprising even to yourselves. The powerful charismatic power that you have over each other can be used to manipulate one another, and dominance, control, or jealousy easily become hot issues between you. Whether this is a brief passionate encounter or a lifelong attachment, you will change one another profoundly.

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Composite Venus Trine Pluto

The depth of love which you will be able to experience with one another will have a transformative, healing effect on both of you. Through your relationship, you'll realise the power of love to change lives and mend the broken places within you both. This certainly is part of the purpose of your being together. Even if other aspects of your relationship are difficult or frustrating, the intensity of your feelings for one another and your desire to be together will be very strong. In fact, it would be very difficult indeed for you to let go of one another.

posted September 14, 2012 05:12 PM            

The first guy, my whirlwind, we were healers for each other too. Which is why I think the Pluto Venus trine exists in our composite. But not knowing that for sure I can still tell you YES YES YES to the first part. Infuriating, all encompassing, want, need, desire for this person. Almost to the point that you don't feel comfortable in your own skin unless you're with them (obsession?) lol just thinking about it makes me blush a little

With the composite my fiance and I have though, no matter the impact the DW Pluto Venus had on me, that relationship can't hold a candle to what I have now. With my whirlwind it was raw emotions. With my fiance it's that and so much more. The healing thing absolutely went both ways. We were both doing the same thing (destroying ourselves) and our union ended that process because suddenly there was something so much more important than whatever it could have been that hurt us before: us.

Hm. Sometimes it's funny you don't realize how true something is until you say it.

Thank you for starting this thread RAS!!