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Topic: Uncomfortable Habit of Gemini Men
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto, Canada
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posted April 08, 2012 10:18 AM
  
I am currently reading a book wherein the author asks of her ex boyfriend, "Why did you feel you had to break up with me at the lowest point of my life?" I happen to have it on good authority that her ex is a Gem male.The thing is, when I read that it resonated with me because my Gem ex did the same thing to me, and Newt Gingrich, a Gemini, seems to always abandon his wives once they become cancer-stricken and not a moment sooner. Could this be what they mean by 'fickle'? IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted April 08, 2012 10:22 AM
Hmmm, yes you definately may be onto something here girl, I have to say that gemini moon or asc is Worse than gemini sun often though. Also libra can very much be like this too.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted April 08, 2012 10:35 AM
Not only that, but the ex boyfriend reduced their entire five-year relationship as being doomed from the start due to her having a fat ass. I'm not making this up. He wrote a book where he actually said that. It makes me shudder to think what was going through my ex's superficial mind right before the ill-timed dumping.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted April 08, 2012 10:46 AM
Omg that guy sounds like a total freaking dic*! And trust me I believe you as I have known and once Married(double gemini) many gemini men. They can not only be fickle and faithless like that, but very COLD and verbally cruel. What is wrong with these people? I also do know one gemini female who is a total cheat and wont commit to any man even though she is like 33 now. So this isnt entirely a male gemini phonominan. Truely Ive known this girl since juniour high school and I think her longest relationship has been like 4 months in all these years. She just seems too shallow to have any real feelings for anyone but herself.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 08, 2012 12:30 PM
^ At least her relationship ends =/. Some people lack a conscience and can be cheating behind their s/o's back 24/7 aye? And still have that long term partner.
How do people do things like that without feeling guilty?
I wouldn't be able to live with myself.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted April 08, 2012 09:18 PM
I agree, Geminis can be very dissapointing when it comes to social niceties. They probably meant that because this is such an active sign the moment their needs are not being met they search elsewhere. This is a mutuable sign and mercury is communications. Communication screams change. I'm a Gemini Ascendant, Libra sun and just a few years back I was incredibly flighty. But then of course like most Geminis do, (curious with puzzles and human behavior) I became fascinated by a predominantly Scorpio guy who changed me immensely. I believe that the negative virtues of this sign can be worked on and there are plenty of wonderful witty Geminis. Desiring Shadows
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 08, 2012 09:25 PM
i havent dated any gemini girls,but i have a wealth of experience with libra girls and in my opinion they rank pretty high up on the flakiness scale,and they are supposed to be the sign of relationships lmaoIP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 08, 2012 09:43 PM
^ You're *alittle* younger than me, I think it's an age thing, not a sign thing.
I know libra girls that have been with their bfs for years.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted April 08, 2012 09:49 PM
Really, Aquaguy? I thought you loved Libras.
I don't know about OTHER Libras, but once I've made a commitment, I'm a very loyal Libra.  --------------
"Be yourself. The world worships the original!"
Ingrid Bergman
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aquaguy91
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 08, 2012 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ You're *alittle* younger than me, I think it's an age thing, not a sign thing.
I know libra girls that have been with their bfs for years.
maybe so you might be right, but im not sure,they all operated the exact same way,they acted all crazy about me and wanting to hang out with or be in contact 24/7 and blew a whole lot of smoke up my a** and then all of a sudden they have dumped me and the next day they have a new guy they are "in love with" and start taking on his interests, one in particular when she found out i liked astrology she started acting all interested in it saying how us aquas and libras are a perfect couple,than when she dumped me and started dating another aqua guy who is all into cars and suddenly she has become a volkswagon enthusiast lmao. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 08, 2012 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Really, Aquaguy? I thought you loved Libras.
I don't know about OTHER Libras, but once I've made a commitment, I'm a very loyal Libra. --------------
"Be yourself. The world worships the original!"
Ingrid Bergman
i do lol dont get me wrong,but its often those you love the most that hurt you the worst IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 08, 2012 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
maybe so you might be right, but im not sure,they all operated the exact same way,they acted all crazy about me and wanting to hang out with or be in contact 24/7 and blew a whole lot of smoke up my a** and then all of a sudden they have dumped me and the next day they have a new guy they are "in love with" and start taking on his interests, one in particular when she found out i liked astrology she started acting all interested in it saying how us aquas and libras are a perfect couple,than when she dumped me and started dating another aqua guy who is all into cars and suddenly she has become a volkswagon enthusiast lmao.
You just attract the immature libra girls. Gotta be alittle more selective about who you let in =).
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Desiring Shadows
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posted April 08, 2012 10:03 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i do lol dont get me wrong,but its often those you love the most that hurt you the worst
Ugh, you're so right. Thats life and love. Everyone we care about gets to hurt us!
Hey--- sorry for not responding to your text,btw. I left my phone charger at my friends house. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 08, 2012 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
You just attract the immature libra girls. Gotta be alittle more selective about who you let in =).
i think me and you are an exception because arent you a virgo sun with a libra stellium? and i have the taurus moon plus i think saturn conjuncting my sun makes me take life a little more serious, but i think earth goes along way in stabilizing air placements. Because i have a crap ton of aqua in my chart and i dont relate to the dissapearing act that alot of women complain about with aqua men. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 08, 2012 10:12 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Ugh, you're so right. Thats life and love. Everyone we care about gets to hurt us!
Hey--- sorry for not responding to your text,btw. I left my phone charger at my friends house.
its cool haha IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2012 07:26 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
maybe so you might be right, but im not sure,they all operated the exact same way,they acted all crazy about me and wanting to hang out with or be in contact 24/7 and blew a whole lot of smoke up my a** and then all of a sudden they have dumped me and the next day they have a new guy they are "in love with" and start taking on his interests, one in particular when she found out i liked astrology she started acting all interested in it saying how us aquas and libras are a perfect couple,than when she dumped me and started dating another aqua guy who is all into cars and suddenly she has become a volkswagon enthusiast lmao.
From what I've seen, Libras are committed and loyal but this mirroring trait you describe they are famous for, lol.
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Faith
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posted April 09, 2012 08:00 AM
I don't mean to dump on Gemini suns. But Russell Brand (Gemini) blindsided Katy Perry, letting the media know before her that he was filing for divorce. That was so uncool. IP: Logged |
SpooL
Knowflake Posts: 362
From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2012 08:27 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I don't mean to dump on Gemini suns. But Russell Brand (Gemini) blindsided Katy Perry, letting the media know before her that he was filing for divorce. That was so uncool.
Yes, but Russel didn't take advantage of Katy Perry he cold have profit off the divorce and walk out a lot richer. You would have to admire him for that any other celebrity in the 20th century would try to profit off a divorce. My answer is it depends if there Venus and mars lands in a water or earth sign. I'm a Taurus Venus so I stick it through. Off the record I'm no fan of Newt Gingridge anyway, I don't think the same as him.
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 1262
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posted April 09, 2012 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by SpooL:
Yes, but Russel didn't take advantage of Katy Perry he cold have profit off the divorce and walk out a lot richer.You would have to admire him for that any other celebrity in the 20th century would try to profit off a divorce. My answer is it depends if there Venus and mars lands in a water or earth sign. I'm a Taurus Venus so I stick it through. Off the record I'm no fan of Newt Gingridge anyway, I don't think the same as him.
Heartbreak is fine, robbing her isn't? Well, as for me, I'd rather someone take my money than my heart. I don't hate Russell Brand, quite the contrary...but this was not his best moment. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted April 09, 2012 11:38 AM
O nooo I never ever felt any attraction to a gemini man but.....Ive a friend (Sun gemini) and he and I can talk to each other on phone in hours. We cant stop talking 
His sun conj my moon in gemnin and his moon conj my Sun in leo DW...I feel like we are soulfriends and I cant feel me unconfortable with his habits... His habits feels safe to me...I know what he mean and know what he know and really want. He cant lie.. I love his humor. I really love to talk to him. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto, Canada
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posted April 09, 2012 11:55 AM
For the record, I do love Geminis. I think they're hilarious, gorgeous and very smart. Would I feel safe dating one again? No.You never know when the **** is going to hit the fan in your life. From what I've seen, that is what they pick as the opportune moment to hit the road. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted April 09, 2012 11:56 AM
In the case of my Gemini ex he picked right when I lost my job, was living off of my credit card and felt most vulnerable to do it So this (Libra) author's question of her Gemini (also author) ex caused a lightbulb to go off, what can I say. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted April 09, 2012 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
In the case of my Gemini ex he picked right when I lost my job, was living off of my credit card and felt most vulnerable to do it
Im gemini moon, gemini venus and sometimes I like to give out money, drinks and everything what I like . After a while I often think...Hm are you really my friend or.. But...after a while I often think more.....it doesn't matter a damn. We live here and now. There are so much bad out on the world so I dont care. Its important to have fun. People who not are honest are not worth a thought irrespective what kind of sign they are born in.
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Aquacheeka
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posted April 09, 2012 12:30 PM
Oh that would have been lovely if he at least treated me to some dinners out and such before it happened, but no. lol. That stuff had stopped after the first four months. The relationship lasted 18 months in total. I'm not bitter but considering that I personally do not know any Geminis currently that are in monogamous LTRs I am definitely very wary. One of my best friends is a Gemini sun/Virgo moon and she has a new "boyfriend" every month. Love her to death, she's gorgeous so I can see why guys like her, but I do feel a bit sorry for them... lol.IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted April 09, 2012 12:36 PM
. I also think Im not the easiest person to be with ...I only stay long in an relationship with a man if he are stronger than me... and not are jeaolusy. IP: Logged |
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