posted April 12, 2012 10:16 PM            

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"When it seems like there's no one left to run to in this empty world you can come to me, I'll be your shooting star. You can tell me your dreams I can't promise to make them come true, but I'll be there to pick up the pieces of your broken heart if your dreams happen to fall through." -Anonymous

posted April 13, 2012 07:00 AM            

For example, at my birth Saturn was moving with appr. 4 minutes a day, and the nodal axis was moving appr. 2 minutes a day.

posted April 27, 2013 04:35 AM            

annnnnnnnd my venus/dsc conjuncts his NN, NN trine my ASC, sun/moon midpoint conjuncts his NN

yea, i definately feel like i belong with him, ive been in other relationships before but nobody has given me these type of feelings like he has. usually my relationships start out very platonic and gradually grow on me, but i neverr feel in love...this guy gives me the rainbow and back, the dreaminess, the romance, happiness, completeness like i have found somebody who i could admire for the rest of my life (his pluto conjuncts my venus exactly) seriously though, he started asking me questions about how many kids i wanted and how my future was going to be like 4th time we even talked. we had an instant connection that ive never felt with anybody else in my life

its almost like at first i felt this brotherly/sisterly love for him instantly but then it quickly turned romantic and consuming

i think what this aspect does is that it makes the moon person very very sensitive like puts them in touch with their deeper emotions and at first is afraid to express feeling needy (everybody is lets face it) but once they start expressing how they feel, the saturn person reassures them or is always there for support so overtime the moon person becomes even more dependent on saturn. its like moon (mother) emotions are being taken care of and listened to by saturn (father). its actually a really loving aspect and anyone can see why moon person would get dependent on saturn. saturn is a very strong planet, you feel it in synastry no doubt so of course the moons emotions will be more intouch with their "neediness" goes to your core of who you really are.

but yea its different if you have a lot of gemini or sag or just playful signs, you might not like this...i think it definately kinda restricts the playfulness and more about your emotions and the seriousness of them..idk ive got sag placements so i feel like i can create a good balance but he might feel like he doesn't want to play can be too serious someitmes for sure like moon person needs to lighten up good lawd. you see how i did 180 there hahahaha i think moon person gets a heightened fear of rejection from saturn which blows, all i want is for him to feel comfortable around me

posted April 27, 2013 06:44 AM            

I have no romantic interest in him.

I used to like him as a person, before he became incredibly pushy. He does not understand the word "no" very well.. mainly when followed by "I do not want to have a relationship with you."
I couldn't have rejected him in any clearer way. I literally said those words and he still does not get it.

My Sun is in Aries - in a large (7 orb) square with this conjunction in Capricorn.
That may be why I have a strong desire to assert my independence and cut him loose.

posted April 27, 2013 08:56 AM            

As a matter of fact, my friend`s Moon is sextile my Moon and squaring my Saturn; while her Moon is squaring her ASC (my Saturn is in her 1st house), and is opposing her Venus-Mrs-Pluto (my Saturn is out of orb luckily, but sextiles her Sun).

Especially in the beginning I tried to be very detached from that friendship, and most likely hurt her a lot with that, though she simply accepted that this was how i was. As I had to learn to accept that she needed more attntion than I really felt comfortable with in the beginning.

Th glue was there from the start thogh (even if my Aqua Moon would believe otherwise); from meeting each other we felt like we would always be part of each other`s life (she more than me), that we took responsibility for each other and cared for each other and are probably more like family than friends.
However, there are certain areas that we cannot share. For her it is the family life she enjoys (I like to listen to her, but it is just not where I am at my life now). And on my behalf it is my love for musical theatre, astrology and all these things.
WE do profit from each other`s view of the world though,b ut it means we are not really moving in the same world, not completely, at least.

I have another very close friend whose Saturn (and Sun) conjuncts my Moon; my Saturn conjuncts her ASC and is in th same sign as her Moon.
Same glue family stick together feeling thre, even though we live thousands of miles apart. I mean, seriously what email friendship lasts for 10 years with exchanging emails nearly daily? LOL

I am actually closer to her than my best friend here, but even here, it is clear that as similiar we ware in some respects, we are quite different in others.

Her Sun-Saturn could be termed afflicted. It is conjunct her MC, oposes her Mars and squares her Neptune. So my Moon gets all of these aspects as well.
But Ihave never experienced this as negative, never felt let down or hurt. BUT she will always be completely honest and even blunt, and saying the things I do not want to hear, but definitely need to hear.

posted April 27, 2013 09:21 AM            

My moon is domicile , my saturn is exalt.....I'm natally depressive type Although they have a positive positions, I just don't want them to contact eachother again in next life.

Bf. has his saturn conj. my moon 6° , although it 's wide orb , I still feel a small hint of his criticize everytime he told me to do something eventhough that is just a normal suggesstion. Then later I consider about his words , many times he doesn't mean anything to hurt my feeling but my square moon-saturn said so

The positive site to have this is , my emotional is grounded by his saturn , like he provide my internal security which I always feel , my emotional will be securely served by his presence.

If any couple has this aspect , it should be very carefully not to hurt eachother feeling , one things can lead to 100 disaster easily. It 'd also necessary to have any positive synastry to helping this uncomfortable aspect. My relationship last till now 6 years together ( I just hope we could survive to the 7 year-itch ..lol) But anyhow ...the t-uranus has landed in my 7th yard 2 years ago , pass through my vertex till now , we still survive ?!? ...maybe it's a saturn effect ...just maybe

My chart has saturn conj. Ac /conj. sun/ squ. moon

posted February 11, 2014 04:01 AM            

Yeppers.

Tight double whammy, to boot.

Biggest heart break ever known to history (well, to my own history, hah).

The "problem" with Moon/Saturn (hard) aspects is that they touch you so deeply that you start acting irrationally, reacting to childhood wounds and past traumas.
Often you're like "why the hell did I just do that?" or "why am I this way with this person? That's not how I really am".
It's like there are tons of psychological, emotional and mental blockages that are triggered and make it difficult to "loosen up" and just be "yourself" around that person.

I'm sure it depends on the natal charts and other things in the synastry, as well as the overall level of health / maturity of both people, but Moon/Saturn aspects can sometimes point to a compulsive needy / co-dependent quality to the connection - feeling like you "need" that person for your own survival.
There's often a certain heaviness or even gloominess present, like "something" is oppressing the atmosphere when you're around each other...