posted April 14, 2012 11:13 PM            

"When the man's venus falls in the twelfth house of his female partner's horoscope, in which venus is naturally at home, he may have a special talent for helping her to adjust to difficult situations and
be able to suggest solutions to her when she is faced with complicated problems. He may have a special interest in easing
her path as much as possible and may not always say exactly what is in his mind
for fear of upsetting her. He can be a sympathetic companion to her and comfort her hwen she is distressed and may be
able to put her in touch with those who can minister to her bodily well-being and spiritual needs. He may be instrumental
in introducing her to a study of occult or mystical subjucts.
If venus is much afflicted at birth and
the cross-aspects are discordant his influence may have a seductive effect
upon her, causing her consciously or unconsciously to lose sight of her objectives and perhaps exploiting susceptibilities and playing on her sympathies for his own ends.
In a relationship between patient and
his doctor or nurse, this is a beneficial link when it is the patient's twelfth
house that is involved."

posted April 14, 2012 11:44 PM            

When the woman;s venus falls in the twelfth house of her male partner's horoscope, in which venus is naturally at home, she may have a special talent for helping him to adjust to difficult situations and
be able to suggest solutions to him when he is faced with complicated problems. She may have a special interest in easing
his path as much as possible and may not always say exactly what is in her mind
for fear of upsetting him. She can be a sympathetic companion to him and comfort him when he is distressed and may be
able to put him in touch with those who can minister to him bodily well-being and spiritual needs. She may be instrumental
in introducing him to a study of occult or mystical subjucts.
If venus is much afflicted at birth and
the cross-aspects are discordant her influence may have a seductive effect
upon him, causing him consciously or unconsciously to lose sight of him objectives and perhaps exploiting susceptibilities and playing on his sympathies for her own ends.
In a relationship between patient and
her doctor or nurse, this is a beneficial link when it is the patient's twelfth
house that is involved.

posted April 14, 2012 11:45 PM            

http://www.astroknowlogy.com/questions/her-venus-falls-in-my-12th-house

http://astrofix.net/2010/07/18/venus-synastry-12th-house/

http://www.nodeorama.com/thread-1659.html

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/venussynastryhouse.htm

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081

http://astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html

posted April 15, 2012 03:24 AM            

"When the man's venus falls in the twelfth house of his female partner's horoscope, in which venus is naturally at home, he may have a special talent for helping her to adjust to difficult situations and
be able to suggest solutions to her when she is faced with complicated problems. He may have a special interest in easing
her path as much as possible and may not always say exactly what is in his mind
for fear of upsetting her. He can be a sympathetic companion to her and comfort her hwen she is distressed and may be
able to put her in touch with those who can minister to her bodily well-being and spiritual needs. He may be instrumental
in introducing her to a study of occult or mystical subjucts.
If venus is much afflicted at birth and
the cross-aspects are discordant his influence may have a seductive effect
upon her, causing her consciously or unconsciously to lose sight of her objectives and perhaps exploiting susceptibilities and playing on her sympathies for his own ends.
In a relationship between patient and
his doctor or nurse, this is a beneficial link when it is the patient's twelfth
house that is involved."

I've never heard this interpretation of the healing aspects of this placement, good info desiringshadows! I have someone's Venus in my 12th house and it's an intense and spiritual connection, but also a complicated situation...

posted August 24, 2012 11:46 PM            

The only other time i can remember it happening was in the chart of someone i was very much into because of aesthetic principles, mostly.. Until, i found that they got together with someone that i had dumped during a mercury retrograde. I was appalled! Especially since they were open to a relationship but insisted on "seeing where things went" when i pursued them-- does not mean to sleep with my leftovers of a short-lived fling, though.

posted August 25, 2012 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
My venus fell in someone's 12th house, not long ago... All i could do was think of someone else and how i would've wanted to have been with them instead of the person that i was with.. We got intimate and everything but i was just not into it. I was almost raw down there from all of the oral action they insisted on giving and i even sat there and tried to think of someone else doing it... It was just not pleasant and thinking of wanting a specific person to be doing it instead, made matters worse and made me a little depressed, actually..

The only other time i can remember it happening was in the chart of someone i was very much into because of aesthetic principles, mostly.. Until, i found that they got together with someone that i had dumped during a mercury retrograde. I was appalled! Especially since they were open to a relationship but insisted on "seeing where things went" when i pursued them-- does not mean to sleep with my leftovers of a short-lived fling, though.

The only other time it happened was with a close friend i used to have... I set her up with a guy and they have now been together for 5 years, are married and have 2 kids. Love at first sight.

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posted August 25, 2012 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Maybe these will help you find what your looking for?:

http://www.astroknowlogy.com/questions/her-venus-falls-in-my-12th-house

http://astrofix.net/2010/07/18/venus-synastry-12th-house/

http://www.nodeorama.com/thread-1659.html

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/venussynastryhouse.htm

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081

http://astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html

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"I believe in cultivating opposite, but complementary views of life, and I believe in meeting life's challenges with contradictory strategies. I believe in reckoning with the ultimate meaninglessness of our existence, even as we fall in love with the miracle of being alive. I believe in working passionately to make our lives count while never losing sight of our insignificance. I believe in caring deeply and being beyond caring. It is by encompassing these opposites, by being involved and vulnerable, but simultaneously transcendent and detached, that our lives are graced by resilience and joy. "
- Fritz Williams

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Her Venus in your 12th house will give your love depth. She should be a frequent visitor in your dreams. Maybe you saw her even in your dreams before you guys met in real life. She will completely disarm you of your ego and chances are, she will know you better than you know yourself. She can an-swer your questions like no other person. You need to reach an outstanding level of trust and she can psychologically cleanse you and improve your overall progress. If you ever play games with this person, the consequences can be long-lasting. The gentler and more caring you are, the more both of you can benefit.

Depending on your natal Venus placement and aspects you may also not understand her. Make sure that you have the clarity in this relationship. If her natal Venus is afflicted, she may try to manipulate you, or seduce you into scarifying more than it would be healthy for the relationship.

Good luck and Let Love Rule!
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posted August 25, 2012 01:28 AM            

He already had his sun and mars there.

I don't know if I was that important to him in the end. I read another interpretation where the venus in someone's 12th means you are unappreciated. The house person doesn't even recognize the love you have for him. That's what I read. I think maybe it was like that.

posted August 25, 2012 08:23 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
This seems to go against every description I've ever read, where it's the house person who doesn't want to be with the Venus person. What sign was it in, by the way?

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Cancer.

Whenever it's been their Venus in my twelfth? One person was already involved with a professional friend of mine and i felt was blatantly trying to use me to get them jealous after having already acted very odd and ran to them for safety when i was introduced and was just being friendly. I had a sex dream about them and we had an interesting talk.. We liked each other as people but i just did not trust them. I ignored them and avoided em at all costs. Their sun also fell in my twelfth.

posted January 09, 2014 04:45 PM            

"When the man's venus falls in the twelfth house of his female partner's horoscope, in which venus is naturally at home, he may have a special talent for helping her to adjust to difficult situations and
be able to suggest solutions to her when she is faced with complicated problems. He may have a special interest in easing
her path as much as possible and may not always say exactly what is in his mind
for fear of upsetting her. He can be a sympathetic companion to her and comfort her hwen she is distressed and may be
able to put her in touch with those who can minister to her bodily well-being and spiritual needs. He may be instrumental
in introducing her to a study of occult or mystical subjucts.
If venus is much afflicted at birth and
the cross-aspects are discordant his influence may have a seductive effect
upon her, causing her consciously or unconsciously to lose sight of her objectives and perhaps exploiting susceptibilities and playing on her sympathies for his own ends.
In a relationship between patient and
his doctor or nurse, this is a beneficial link when it is the patient's twelfth
house that is involved."

Yes. This is a very true description. I have this with someone's Venus & Mars in my 12th. It makes for a close/empathethic connection and they have great insight into you. Apparently, from his eyes, it's platonic. Confusing though, because there is also mutual physical attraction and a great desire to spend a lot of time together??? Argghhh.