posted September 28, 2016 06:53 AM            

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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
Like I said above, I believe that there is no "end" to the mind.

Intrigue is difficult to maintain in a relationship with a Gemini Venus, which is why it's very important for anyone who wants to get involved with us to understand the value of novelty.

I'm never looking for something "better" to come along. It's not my mentality. If your focus is not completely on your partner and you are still looking out for something "better" to come along, that in itself is being unfaithful. I believe in devotion and commitment. Of course, I am a Cancer Sun. Having a Libra Moon goes a long way as well.

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posted September 28, 2016 09:18 AM            

We lasted a few months without any real issues before we broke it off. It never really "took off" so to speak, where there was nothing that really pulled me into the relationship. It was smooth and easy-going, yes, but there was no real passion in the relationship and I think that's what caused me to easily lose interest. He is a great friend, yes, but as far as a relationship goes it was too detached. We also had a Sun-Moon conjunction in our synastry (he was Sun).

It could've been because of too much harmony. There's not many squares or oppositions in our synastry and so that may have made it too easy flowing. I need some stimulation to please me.

We once got into a "debate" over the idea of cannibalism being a method of eliminating world hunger. Realizing that it was going to go nowhere fast, I said that we should just agree to disagree and "not talk about it". He continued to bring it up as a "joke" as he claimed it through screenshots of reddit threads and such and I got ****** off. He stopped after that though, which showed some sort of diplomatic tendencies.

We talked about our relationship through text and he was understanding of how I felt, claiming he felt the same way and wouldn't be upset if I found someone else to head into a relationship with, since it was something I needed to talk with him about. One thing that was strange about him though is how detached he was for a Pisces Moon. Even when going through an emotional event, he is very detached in the telling of the event, so much as if he isn't emotionally affected by anything at all. He has an exact square between his Moon and Mercury though.

His Venus is in Gemini in the 6th. Mine is in Aquarius in the 4th. Our Venus squared each other (late Aqua Venus, early Gemini Venus) and we had no Venus-Mars aspects.

posted September 28, 2016 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol that's very Gemini. They get to know you by pushing your buttons. 😊

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That must also explain why I annoy my friends a lot lol. Sometimes they absolutely cannot stand me

posted September 28, 2016 09:35 AM            

I have never cheated and the longest relationship ive been in was 9 years.

posted September 28, 2016 11:22 AM              

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
That must also explain why I annoy my friends a lot lol. Sometimes they absolutely cannot stand me

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posted September 28, 2016 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What's the most common "complaint"? 😊

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There's not necessarily a common complaint, more so that I'm really good at finding what triggers people and poke at it continuously. I have a friend that hates puns and so often I will make up puns just to get a reaction from her.

posted September 28, 2016 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol that's very Gemini. They get to know you by pushing your buttons. 😊

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posted November 07, 2016 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by bonsai:
I once knew a guy with Venus in Gemini (Sun was in Gemini too) and no, no no no no no no and no.

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I had a bad falling out with a Venus in Gemini guy. We had a thing once, albeit online. Our interactions were mostly about sex and less about things that also matter (to me, at least). Eventually, I didn't like it. At that point, I think he started thinking about getting serious with me but it was too late.

posted November 08, 2016 09:14 PM            

It's at the apex of a very tight yod.
It's inconjunct Pluto (0°17)
and inconjunct Neptune (1°09)

Then of course Neptune and Pluto are sextile (1°26)

transitting Saturn just opposed his Venus (11°28)

I've always wondered how this Gemini Venus is supposed to be?

posted November 10, 2016 02:51 AM            

Like the other day, we were talking about the election, I was saying, "Yeah the only remotely good thing that can come out of this is if a woman becomes president.' He was like, 'No, no, it doesn't even matter!! They're both corrupt, being a woman is not changing anything!! Blah blah blah'

I'm like ok, that's not what I meant..

1 week later.. after Trump is elected..
Him: "Yeah the only good thing that could have come out of this election is if a woman were elected president.'
me: "I know right!"
10 minutes later..
Hey didn't I say that like a week ago? Goddammit no one listens *Aries moon rage*

He also seems to play the devil's advocate without informing me that he doesn't necessarily subscribe to what he's saying. Like for example one day we were talking (always talking about something!)

I believe it was about a roommate I had 2 years ago. She was overweight and he said something blatantly awful that I can't remember but I said to him:
"That's mean."
Immediately he goes: "Why is that mean?"
I was like, "What do you mean, why is that mean??"
He's like: "Why is it mean? What's mean about it?"
Me: *blank stare* Of course it's mean! How can you not know it's mean???
**This goes on for 5 minutes**
Me thinking: I'm dating another psychopath!!!! Run!!

*silence, me trying to digest the fact that the person I'm dating doesn't seem to know what being mean means, and what that means for me*

Then we have another 10 minute conversation about how he knows why it's mean, OF COURSE, he just wanted to see my answer for why it was mean.

I was like, oh because since you said 'why is it mean' I thought you Didn't Know Why It Was Mean which is usually how conversations work
and he's like, "just because I say something doesn't necessarily mean I agree with it."

I'm like ok dude.. I'm watching you...