posted August 21, 2022 04:24 AM            

@Eternal Energy

You mean my replied about his Venus and Mars, and he type of man that: "Don't I Dare to mention another man in his presence." And that he obsess with his spouse? And that I never once see him bother look at another girl in the 13 years together (11 years married)?

I don't see this in any way related to his self harm or suicide or fear. Different couples/marriage have different boundaries. Maybe to you it is okay to have friends of the opposite sex after marriage is fine, good for you.! But Not to him. He entitle to his views.

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As for his self harm, it just a way of him redirect his pain and coping. Do you have children Enteral Energy? Do you know the pain of loss your own child? Are you a father, a mother? If you don't have children AND your own child died, then you don't understand him.

His older sister died 2017. In 2019, his child died. Then his father died. These are 3 people blood related to him. You been through this? If not then you don't understand him.

And when you talking about someone who owns 8 guns like him (guns shooting at targets at outdoor shooting range is his hobbies). No, he won't suicide because I am still alive, I'm the reason why he still living. As long as I'm still here, I know he will live for me.

But when dealing with someone who has intense suicidal thoughts (and with guns at hoome), trying to prevent him cut himself is not a good idea. Cutting is a coping mechanism and it away of redirect the pain, and if you try to make someone stop, especially when they really need it, it could make it worse.

I rather have him cut his stomach than put a gun to his head, period. But I know he will live for me.

You right, all I can do is be there for him, and hope this will pass. Saturn will leave Aquarius (as transit Saturn in Aquarius has been Square his natal Scorpio Mars, Square his natal Scorpio Saturn, and Square his natal Scorpio Pluto).
Once Saturn go to Pisces, it will make a Trine.
So let hope he will get better, as transit Saturn Trine is certainly better than Square.

My replied on pg. 2 was to SilverFeather (as he/her is someone who also struggle with depression), so I understand him/her, as depression is NOT a joke, it the #1 cause of suicide cases.

I wrote a man with a strong Mars will make him fearless of "physical" pain and fearless of death (as he is fearless in these two areas, physical pain and death).
But he has other fears, he fear of loss me (just like he loss his own child, and loss his father). He fears of grief and emotional pain that is why he direct his pain by cutting himself. He not fearless of everything, nobody is.