posted July 05, 2012 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by redshift:
Well, for what it's worth, I'm married to a Leo sun, Gemini Moon, Asc Leo. If I were to have glanced at his chart before meeting him, I would have wrote him off in a second, but somehow, dude is the most sincere, expressive, affectionate, steadfast, understanding, devoted, emotionally open, intelligent person I've ever encountered. I am his queen and he will do anything for me with enthusiasm, patience and love. I trust him implicitly and I trust NO ONE else. It's crazy. I'm a Scorp sun, virgo moon, cap asc. I plan to post our synastry in another post, because I don't know how the heck we work, but there it is.

The only conflict we ever has, is when I make him feel bad for being wrong about something. That's the only time his ego gets in the way. Nuts right? Because I've had the bad Leo experiences, but hey, he exists.

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posted July 07, 2012 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ive never dated a Leo (go figure huh) Way to much ego with my Leo Stellium...

I do have a great friendship with a Leo Male..
He's like a brother to me.

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I see almost everywhere that a Sag woman and a Leo man is a great match, but I don't know! My experience is - we started out as friends, then we've gotten into a relationship, it was good for a while, but now the rose color glasses are off, because:

Independence is everything for me, and recently he became so sticky and possessive, so I started to feel uncomfortable! I reacted with pushing him away (my natural reaction if I want to rescue the feelings and the relationship), but then he reacted by squeezing me harder - evil circle!

Result/consequence: I lost my interest and I'm about to break up with him!

I don't like these steamy emotions we produced in the "process"! No melodrama - soap opera, please!

posted July 07, 2012 07:56 AM            

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Originally posted by beloved:
Well I'm glad he's good to you. This guy did message me last night and chatted with me online throughout the evening in game (not quite as warmly as usual but friendly enough) but today I got only one response from him when I said hi and then he ignored 2 other messages later in the day. Why I have no idea... He actually signed off a few minutes after I sent him the last one and didn't say anything at all. Nothing has happened in the interim so I'm at a loss. To my way of thinking, why did he bother to message me last night at all if I am to be ignored again later today. <sigh> I find him so very confusing of late.

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That really sucks.

In my personal experiences, if people are ignoring/avoiding you, it's best to do the same (not in a vicious way, but simply to back away). The more you push, the worse they (people who don't respond/people who ignore and avoid) get. Let them come to you. If they don't come to you, they they really aren't interested and are best forgotten because they aren't friend material, which goes for any sign, not just Leo.

posted July 08, 2012 02:55 AM            

BTW I feel the same, like we were siblings, because I still care about him, but not in love anymore![/QUOTE

Sorry to hear that hon... You should do whats best for you, and what feels right for u..

posted July 08, 2012 06:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Sorry to hear that hon... You should do whats best for you, and what feels right for u..

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Yeah, this whole steamy love thing exhausted me so much! But we have to experience in our lives what's good and what's not for us...
Maybe Leo men are not really for me... I remember I had so many in my life - I attract them, but they turned out to be just no good!

posted July 08, 2012 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Yeah, this whole steamy love thing exhausted me so much! But we have to experience in our lives what's good and what's not for us...
Maybe Leo men are not really for me... I remember I had so many in my life - I attract them, but they turned out to be just no good!

But they're really generous and loving! And gentlemen!!!

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Ahhhh.. Mr right will come along.. He's looking for you, he just doesnt know where to look..

posted July 08, 2012 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ahhhh.. Mr right will come along.. He's looking for you, he just doesnt know where to look..

What house does Leo rule in your natal?

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Currently I am "involved" with a Virgo man, b ut heard they have a bad rep... hmm...

I don't have any Leos, but my Moon is in Aquarius!

posted July 09, 2012 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
I was married to a Leo sun Leo rising for 16 years. He was an abusive narcissistic jerk. I avoid them like the plague.

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I'm very sorry to hear that.

posted July 09, 2012 11:34 PM            

For instance, my mom and aunt who I am super close to are leos. Now that I'm in my 20's we really get along and respect each other--they want to be queens and have tons of confidence which I respect as a capricorn sun.

Leo men however---I don't know. I've been attracted to a few fire signs. My most ridiculous experience was with a leo man with a pisces moon--wanted to know he was the best, thought he was the best, very demanding but very wishy washy and secretive about things as well(and all of this BEFORE we even talked about dating) Ick!

posted July 29, 2012 04:49 PM            

Sooooooo 3 weeks go by. Mr. Super Detacher (moon in Gemini and professed his tendency to detach from people before) still has all my characters on his friends list but is not speaking to me and I'm not contacting him either. I'm thinking it's pretty strange that he's kept me on his friends list since he no longer seems interested in speaking to me. <sigh> But something told me I'd hear from him again so I figured I'd leave him on just for the heck of it.

So the other day I hit max level in game (we met on a popular online game in case anyone doesn't remember that but we aren't teens by any means.) I had a feeling that I would hear from him that day and lo and behold he messaged me in game to congratulate me. The day before had been his 36th birthday but I hadn't messaged him since I didn't feel he wanted to hear from me, however I wished him a belated happy birthday and he seemed shocked and very appreciative ("Really? Wow! Really appreciated.") that I had remembered. I told him that I hadn't messaged him because I didn't want to bug him and his reply was "Missy (his pet name for me) you don't bug me, I'm just a very stupid man." (Hmmm) I asked him why he stopped talking to me then and he said it was because he feels like he hurts me every time he talks to me and that was the last thing he wanted to do. (He's blowing it out of proportion, he does get very moody and pissy at times and it does upset me but it wasn't constant.) He also (out of nowhere) told me that he always looks at his friends list and "tracks" me. (Which I think is interesting because the last time we ever played together he told me, "No one has a right to track you, not even me, you are a free woman." (and now he says he's been tracking me.)

He sent me some valuable in-game things in a mail as well that day and said "Things are what they are but that doesn't mean I've forgotten you. I appreciate every minute I spent with you by the way. Here's some goodies for you missy." That was 6 days ago and of course we haven't spoken since although we see each other online. I don't want to be the one to be messaging him so I've just let it slide and left the ball in his court...

posted July 30, 2012 01:06 PM            

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For the most part, its a mood swing.. If Im in a bad mood or had a bad day. I want to be alone, I dont want to talk or be around anyone...
Its best to just let me be.. If not Ill will probably snap...

Another reason my feelings got hurt... If someone hurts my feelings in some way.. I dont want anything to do with that person, until Im over it (so to speak) Its like I have to boost my own ego up..

Those would be the two main reasons..

The only other reason is If I want nothing at all to do with the other person, but if thats the case I will make it known..

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Yup. She's right. I definitely shut off. My boyfriend just brought it up today. If someone doesn't want to do what I want to do or hurts my feelings in some way without meaning to be vindictive. I just kind of shut off. It's like "wait what? I don't get it. That's not what I want". So I momentarily detach. In person or on the phone - I ll get really quiet. Not say much. Talk in a monotone voice. If it was text or email i would most likely just be very short with you or make you wait a long time sneering answering. Usually is just a mood swing but yes - I can be icy to people I want nothing to do with. But they'll know it

posted July 30, 2012 09:02 PM            

My impressions on Leos:
Funny, generous, and just plain fun to be around.

Also can be arrogant, self-righteous, and a conversation hog.

I'll never forget the time I was in 6th grade, I had a leo friend who was so arrogant I really couldn't believe it. He would make the most bombastic claims about himself which I would generally ignore, or just humor him and agree. One day we were sitting there comparing our leg hair(im a guy)and he said he had more then me, which was so blatantly un-true, that I incredulously erupted "what?!what are you talking about, just look!" pointing at our legs. For the first time I could remember he actually sat there a bit quiet, then in a rather bashful way, he agreed with me.