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Topic: Moon square venus
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jgalarza
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posted June 30, 2012 10:34 PM
  
If someone moon is square their venus?
If a males moon squares his venus what would this indicate? Iv'e read it meant that the individual may be attracted to someone who could not fulfill their emotional needs. If his moon is in libra and venus in pisces would this make him fickle?
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freebrainstorms
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posted June 30, 2012 10:36 PM
amowls** - i think you can cover this one...IP: Logged |
sand
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posted July 01, 2012 07:46 AM
One of the few times cafe astro is spot on for me is in their moon square Venus reading."There can be a distinct tendency to become friends (and lovers) with people too readily, simply because there is a strong need for approval and a hunger for receiving affection. As such, these people may get involved with people who seem to really like them, and they don't consider whether they actually like them back! It's somewhat of a weakness, as these people are very charmed by the idea that someone seems to really like them and appreciate them. Generally, one of life's lessons for these people is to learn to discriminate more and to get in touch with what they truly want and need." I am moon in Leo square Venus in Taurus though. IP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted July 01, 2012 10:38 AM
For a guy, he's unable to reconcile his need for beauty and a more fulfilling connection with the women he dates. It's either physical attraction or a meeting of the minds, but rarely both. If he doesn't overcome this he could go for a trophy wife. A guy I knew with this aspect would only go for girls he found physically attractive and the few times they weren't, they were not his type at all aesthetically, but he got along great with them. When people asked why he dated them he said he didn't know and that they weren't his type at all. He also played the victim when his relationships ended and refused to see his part in the destruction. He has a horrible relationship with his mother, but I think that has more to do with his Moon-Pluto aspect. I have noticed in women, at least the ones I know, that female friendships are difficult. The women in their lives tend to be a little devious initially and later the fangs come out unmistakably. The women who I know with this aspect play the victim as well; are very good at manipulating people into believing that they have been done wrong; refuse to see they are the cause of a lot of their trouble with other women. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted July 01, 2012 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by Delilah:
For a guy, he's unable to reconcile his need for beauty and a more fulfilling connection with the women he dates. It's either physical attraction or a meeting of the minds, but rarely both. If he doesn't overcome this he could go for a trophy wife. A guy I knew with this aspect would only go for girls he found physically attractive and the few times they weren't, they were not his type at all aesthetically, but he got along great with them. When people asked why he dated them he said he didn't know and that they weren't his type at all.
Whoa! Spot on! My moon is also the midpoint of my Venus Pluto so I think that adds emphasis.. IP: Logged |
jgalarza
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posted July 11, 2012 01:53 PM
Iv'e read in an article that libra and Pisces have similar traits but were very different. Could these similarities between the moon and venus lessen some of the affects of moon square venus?IP: Logged |
jgalarza
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posted July 25, 2012 08:43 PM
anybody?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 25, 2012 09:36 PM
i have it.i've noticed i seem to find 2 types of women , women who are fun and i'm really attracted to but i cant trust them. or i find women who are total uptight prudes and not fun at all, but i feel secure. its really annoying because i feel like im a balanced person who can be fun and wild but also be commited. IP: Logged |
jgalarza
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posted July 28, 2012 03:12 AM
what would a middle way be without going to the extreme of wanting someone who is too prudish or flirty?IP: Logged |
Oracle
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posted August 07, 2012 11:50 PM
I have the aspect Moon square Venus. My Moon is in Aquarius in the 9th House ruled by Uranus/Aquarius and my Venus is in Scorpio in my 6th House ruled by Pluto/Scorpio. This is a very sexy, yet complicated aspect. I often emit strong sexuality when not even trying to. I have in the past attracted men who were either incapable or not available. But low and behold, times are changing for me in that I'm much more discriminating and I save my "all or nothing" love ability to only those who are worthy. That is a very small, small few who are deserving of my attention! Also voluptousness and eroticism go along with me! They are my sisters! "I use, therefore I am" --Capricorn legacy __________
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Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio
Adonis Scorpio
Nymphe Capricorn IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted August 07, 2012 11:59 PM
I had a Moon square Venus fast daily transit and it was on that day, that I jumped the gun and tried to subtly seduce this guy I'd been into, and it totally backfired on me.  This transit/aspect made me feel like I could read his heart but my emotional perception was waaaay off. I was overly sexual, not slutty, but just... it embarrassed me, how my advances fell flat. I felt naturally romantic around him but it didn't work at all. The '...don't consider whether they actually like them back, they don't care and just go for it' part? Yeah. I did that. And it hurt a lot. IP: Logged |
jgalarza
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posted August 13, 2012 06:05 PM
sounds like its hard for these people to make up their minds.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 13, 2012 06:09 PM
Hi SS, was that t.Moon or t.Venus (?) how interesting thanks for sharing.IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 14, 2012 12:24 AM
i think this is only for the ladies..
http://sasstrology.com/2012/08/moon-square-venus-in-a-womans-ch art-conflicts-at-the-heart-of-being-a-woman.html "any aspect between the Moon and Venus will amplify the energies of nurturing and attraction. The tension of the square creates sex appeal, no matter what signs they’re in. People (especially men) sense the conflict and want to know more. So no matter how unattractive or uneasy a woman with a Moon/Venus square feels, others are drawn to her." IP: Logged |
sand
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posted November 17, 2012 07:13 PM
Moon square Venus: This is especially true for men with this aspect. JFK has this aspect, and he was known for his affairs. The Moon and Venus are feminine planets, and often play a role in the kind of partner we desire. The Moon represents our emotions and what makes us feel secure, while Venus represents how we give and receive love. When these planets are in square aspect to one another, our emotional needs are at odds with our needs and capacity to love. This can cause many problems, as it is difficult for the Moon square Venus native to have both needs fulfilled by just one person. For example, say I have Moon in Aries square Venus in Capricorn: on one hand, I am emotionally fulfilled by aggressive, direct, and passionate people. However, aggression and passion to not “agree” with my Venus in Capricorn nature; it is unattractive to me, as Venus in Capricorn prefers shy, stable, drama-free mates. Also, we can think of this in terms of synastry: if my partner’s Mars is in Capricorn, and therefore is in conjunct aspect to my Venus, I feel a tremendous sexual attraction to my partner. However, it would also mean that my partner’s Mars squares my Moon, which leads to heated arguments and hurt feelings. As a result, the native finds it difficult to find a partner who fulfills both their Moon and Venus needs, and might choose to have two partners: one who makes him emotionally secure, and one that makes him feel loved and attracted. This can also indicate a Madonna-***** complex; the native may have the inability to see his or her partner as both a nurturing type (moon) and a sexual being (Venus). To solve this dilemma, the native may choose to take on two partners in order to have these needs fulfilled.^i get this aspect now. Not exactly how it is laid out but i can see it. Moon in Leo square Venus in Taurus. IP: Logged |
Sorcha
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posted November 17, 2012 09:08 PM
Sand, the above post ^^^ is very true. I have an ex with Venus square Moon and the whole Madonna/Wh*** concept was very prevalent. I think I gave him stability but he could only ever see me in one light. He actually told me this near the end of our relationship - that the more he loved me, the less attractive I became sexually. He couldn't seem to mix the two together.
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Astro keen
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posted November 17, 2012 09:45 PM
My Moon in Aquarius squares Venus in Scorpio (Sun in Scorpio too) whilst my boyfriend, also an Aquarius Moon, is quincunx Venus in Virgo. In synastry this has created a double whammy. But we both find each other physically and intellectually attractive. However, I find this comment (from one of the links posted) 'There is a core uncertainty about feeling attractive, and an amplified need to sooth this uncertainty.' very true for me. It may even be true for my BF who has a Leo sun. One thing though - I feel I am much more entranced by him, bordering on the obsessive in fact, but perhaps that's a Scorpio feature. I don't really know how else we might be affected by this combination as it is a strong one in our relationship. Could anyone cast any light on this - I'm kinda new to astrology! I'd hate to think that my BF may be struggling with a Madonna/Wh.. type conflict which may one day result in him finding me less attractive. No sign of that yet but it's early days.
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sand
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posted November 17, 2012 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
Sand, the above post ^^^ is very true. I have an ex with Venus square Moon and the whole Madonna/Wh*** concept was very prevalent. I think I gave him stability but he could only ever see me in one light. He actually told me this near the end of our relationship - that the more he loved me, the less attractive I became sexually. He couldn't seem to mix the two together.
I can still see partners sexually (coz i'm always horny lol sorry tmi) but it's the nature of the sex and the emotions that are different. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted November 17, 2012 10:03 PM
My last ex had this. Moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto in the 4th square Venus in Virgo conjunct Mercury in the 1st.He was emotionally fulfilled by intense, emotional submerging with a partner... by one possessing the other... with intense emotional exchanges. He felt most emotionally fulfilled by a woman who could take charge of him, dominate him, control him - the Pluto conjunction ties into this. He liked how I was always controlling of him, to be honest, in a way. I made him feel like he could reveal his deep-dark and 'taboo' secrets like having anxiety and depressive thoughts and intense, out of control dreams and feelings, all Scorpio related. I'm a very Plutonian person which makes sense - and my Pluto exactly conjuncted his Moon. But his square to Virgo Venus made him fickle, and unsure of anything in love... Scorpio Moon square Virgo Venus made him feel emotionally secure with a Scorpionic woman, but this intense emotional submersion, sharing and control turned off his Virgo Venus, which preferred total logic, control and not too much sexuality in fear of messing up or things getting too messy - and he had way too much mental anxiety to really let go most of the time in any setting. His Moon begged for him to let go, which he would now and then, but that really rubbed his Venus the wrong way. Yet when we kept it at the surface and I acted blunt and intellectual, he became a moody, unfulfilled man, which screamed of his neglected Scorpio Moon! SHEESH. I feel bad for those who have this aspect. I personally have the sextile and for this I feel blessed. Ironically enough, it was the EXACT INVERSE of my ex's - Scorp Venus sextile Virgo Moon. Palm-to-forehead! Haha IP: Logged |
Astro keen
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posted November 17, 2012 10:15 PM
Hi SS,Would you please comment on how you think a Moon in Aquarius squaring Venus in Scorpio (Sun in Scorpio too) whilst my boyfriend, also an Aquarius Moon, quincunx Venus in Virgo, might shape up. So many interpretations I do not know of yet. IP: Logged |
Sorcha
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posted November 17, 2012 10:19 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
I can still see partners sexually (coz i'm always horny lol sorry tmi) but it's the nature of the sex and the emotions that are different.
Haha! No it's fine  Well, it was sort of like that but we were together for just over 6 years so this took place in a sort of slow motion way. At first, it was like you mentioned - the nature of things seemed difficult for him. But eventually it turned in to something else. I'm not saying that would be true for everyone though. I do think it depends in the placements of Venus and Moon as well as the rest of the chart (and the synastry) but the above paragraph that you posted just resonated with my experience. Thanks for posting it! IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted November 17, 2012 10:58 PM
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RedScorp
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posted November 18, 2012 12:08 AM
I have Moon square Venus! Scorpio Venus and Aquarius Moon. I do want closeness and I can commit, but I have the urge to avoid and remove myself from it as well. One of the most fun relationships I've had was an open one. I liked it because we did have each other, and we kept that clear, but we had the freedom for other things too...  Aside from the square, I have Uranus in the Fifth too, and Neptune, plus a slightly Bohemian upbringing. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted November 18, 2012 12:21 AM
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Hi SS,Would you please comment on how you think a Moon in Aquarius squaring Venus in Scorpio (Sun in Scorpio too) whilst my boyfriend, also an Aquarius Moon, quincunx Venus in Virgo, might shape up. So many interpretations I do not know of yet.
Sure thing. Aqua Moon craves some sort of emotional independence. Aqua Moon + Moon-Uranus people really value their emotional freedoms and some eccentricities. They usually value Humanitarian causes and connecting to things across the world. They don't prefer feeling tied down emotionally or by the family or a loved one but not out of meanness, just because emotionally they become distant and frustrated if they are too 'comfy' in one place for too long. Ironically enough Uranian Moons go against all the Moons stands for usually which is, habituation and being comfortable. So these people are usually the ones who have a touch of radical in their femininities and/or emotional natures. Aqua Moon square Scorpio Venus would lead one to really crave sexual intensity, possessiveness and submersion with a partner, feeling owned/owning the partner, and stuff that can be deep and sensual sexually... but Aqua Moon feels insecure and emotionally unsupported by this, because they are baring it all when Scorp Venus is unfulfilled which freaks Aqua Moon out, since the person with it might accidentally grow too close/bonded/addicted to the other person... and Aqua Moon prefers distance to feel comfortable emotionally but Scorp Venus craves submersion for good sex+love. The two clash. I'm not sure about the second one. What does the quincunx look like in his natal? Which planet seems to be above the other? It's going to work out differently since the 2 aren't at odds as it is with the square. To have a quincunx is usually a master-slave relationship between the 2 planets with the one higher in the chart ruling over the other literally and figuratively. IP: Logged |
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posted November 18, 2012 04:18 AM
Wow! Thanks a lot. I'm not sure what you mean by which planet is above the other in the chart. Would that be Aquarius? Sorry, have posted his planetary positions below - and wondered if you be able to tell from these? He also has Sun Opp Moon and Venus sextile Asc, if that is any help. Sun Leo 17°39'17 in house 9
Moon Aquarius 18°03'03 in house 3
Mercury Virgo 14°51'18 in house 10
Venus Virgo 18°39'27 in house 10
Mars Virgo 1°29'25 in house 9
Jupiter Libra 0°37'56 in house 10
Saturn Sagittarius 7°41'01 in house 1
Uranus Leo 7°57'20 in house 9
Neptune Scorpio 0°03'43 end of house 11
Pluto Leo 29°43'10 in house 9
True Node Scorpio 14°50'37 in house 12 Thanks again.
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