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Topic: Do u prefer younger or older partners?
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1019 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 10, 2012 10:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: Huh?  I like both lol jk
He has an aquarian moon weirdo! :P IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1019 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 10, 2012 10:06 PM
i have capricorn rising sun and moon in leo.. i'm not attracted to younger usually .. i like them my age. Im 29 almost... so now i'm starting to find 23 year olds hot.. IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1180 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 10, 2012 10:23 PM
Where you been Ariesdragon? Missed you.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 10, 2012 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: I would think you would like someone your own age.
Y btw? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6900 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 10, 2012 10:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Exploded Canary: I prefer death pussy.
(Scratching head) WTH... If you type **** (shitz) it wont show, but this shows? really! Really??  IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 691 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted July 11, 2012 03:21 AM
If we choose someone without the assistance of Astrology, then liking someone older or younger is pretty much subjective and how available a person is to seeing him/her each day. I would imagine that there must be some sort of sex appeal for sexually charged individuals. In other cases, like at work, the stimulation may come from working with people where there is a slow mental attraction forming.If we are speaking about liking older or younger people base solely on Synastry Astrology, then the influence is different. We are looking at aspects as the determining factor. All Astrology aspects are formed in time cycles. Your Mars can not be conjucnt, sextile, square, trine and, opposition another person's Venus at the same time. It can only be one of those aspects at any given time. This is the result of timing. Therefore, Astrologically speaking, it is very possible to be very compatible to someone quite a bit younger or older than you. And this is more common than most Astrology buffs realize. There are rare times when some individual may have his/her natal aspects aligned well enough to be very compatible with people in the same age bracket. This individual is the person that almost everybody his/her own age likes. But, this could also be a false indicator. It could be that the current transiting planets are hitting this person really well. Where 10 years from now, that popularity is all gone. This becomes most evident when we are in high school and then we go to the 10 year reunion and see that person of the time in a not so admiring light. slowpoke
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 3158 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 03:31 AM
Definately older. When someone is my age or younger, a few points is deducted in the invisible scoreboard above his head.  i dun casual date. I need someone who is going to belong in my future longer. My experience is younger or sane age guys do not commit readily, not responsible enough, not emotionally matured enough... i m bad at babysitting, i prefer to b in a relationship thn hving to be a mother to a guy... well, at least that was my experiences.  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 06:04 AM
I don't date, but hypothetically, I could never see myself with someone younger. Even a few months/a year younger would feel odd. I wouldn't want to be with someone too much older, though. Nothing extreme. 10-15 years is probably the highest that I'd go, most likely. For me to go higher (and even then, I still wouldn't go much higher), the person would have to be exceptional and someone that I could see myself marrying, which would be highly unlikely. Older can often mean more security, stability, money, things planned out, people knowing who they are and being more comfortable with themselves, life experience, maturity, sensitivity, taste, cultured-ness, etc. Some older people might not want kids (which for me is a huge plus being childfree), as they've already lived their lives without them and are used to that. However, on the other hand, some might already have kids or else might still want them even if they're older. On that note, I would caution people against going out with someone older and assuming that the way that I described an older partner is the case in all instances; some older people are just as immature and the complete opposite of what I just posted. All in all, I'd say that it's best to go with someone that's a good match for you, and not to worry about age so much, unless it's like a really big extreme that causes problems in your relationship to the point that you no longer can be with the person (and, obviously, if you go for someone younger, you shouldn't take advantage of their youth or inexperience, and they should be of legal age). IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 07:01 AM
In my case, it is a big problem. I wanted man with almost the same age, as I was, but there was nobody.The same age was only one man, when I was 23 years old. All years later they were younger and younger and when I met them first time, they were (90%) 27 years old (maybe because my day of birth is 27th and my Venus at 27 degrees). My acupuncture doctor was 18 years younger. When I came first time for therapy he told me: it is Destiny that you came to me! I should read the book: "Celestine Prophecy" and I did. He was very friendly and we have talked and talked, like we knew each other for many years. He wasn't that, what is called love at first sight, otherwise I couldn't lie there almost naked (acupuncture for whole body). I had some feelings for him after my therapy was finished. I was reading from his Palm; we talked a lot about Astrology and the life on the East (China and India). In my Head was some "Click": how come this man doesn't see my age? There were many of my diagnoses in front of his eyes, but he didn't care about my papers. I did. To finish some friendship or relationship for me was very easy: nobody lived in the same city and almost all lived in other countries. To write on the paper (letter or mail) is much easier than to tell: direct is difficult (somebody could kill me). I had enough from one man who was screaming over phone, like a fool. Mercury conjunct my DESC and has trine with Mars, ruler of my 7th. Mercury rules my 9th: they are foreigners, almost all.
------------------ Taurus, Dog , Kankin, Osiris, Inu, Eagle, Horus, Aphrodite, Amun "Imin",12th, Willow "The Observer", Yin, Negative (-),Cow, Proserpine, Beaver, Fixed, Crown, Hagiel, Earth, High Priestess, Simon. (all that belongs to me) IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4542 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Where you been Ariesdragon? Missed you.
Libreo! Missed u 2! I was sick but better now 
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 09:56 AM
I have a hard time relating to anyone who is born within a year of my birth date. It must be because my chart is so funky, though.Your sun and venus opposite saturn can point to an attraction to an older partner, or maybe you will be the mature partner. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 10:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by bonadea33:
Mercury conjunct my DESC and has trine with Mars, ruler of my 7th. Mercury rules my 9th: they are foreigners, almost all.
What is the significance of the mars trine? I have merc conj dsc too. Merc trine Neptune. Merc rules my 8th and 11th. IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 10:58 AM
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 11:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: He has an aquarian moon weirdo! :P
I have an Aquarius moon, too... I prefer mine live lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12103 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I have an Aquarius moon, too... I prefer mine live lol
yes i suppose i would prefer mine alive as well lol. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 11, 2012 01:47 PM
I usually date people who are around the same age as me. The youngest I've dated was 2 1/2 years younger. Oldest I've dated was 1 year older. I'm not really attracted to "old" guys. The oldest person I'll date is ~30. I'm 24. I'm not into the idea of dating older guys. While I wouldn't necessarily date a guy who was like 19 (too emotionally immature), I like a guy who gives off an "air" of youth.I have DSC in Sag, Jupiter in Aries in the 11th with a mutual reception trine to Mars in Sag in the 6th. Saturn and Uranus conjunct DSC in Sag, square Venus in Pisces in the 10th. Also have Neptune in Cap in the 7th. IP: Logged |
David Bowie Eyes Knowflake Posts: 165 From: The center of your mind- muhuwuaaa Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 08:37 PM
ish. Steve
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sexyaqua30 Knowflake Posts: 281 From: USA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 08:53 PM
I'm turning into a pervery ever since I turned 30. The younger one are just so damn fun. Like the 22 year old pisces I corrupted since he was 20. Good piece of man cake there with a body cut to pure perfection.IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 08:55 PM
quote: (Scratching head) WTH... If you type **** (shitz) it wont show, but this shows? really! Really?? [/B]
I WAS JUST THINKING THAT LOOOL WHATA HELL quote: I was sick but better now 
Ogm sick with what? Sending u flowers right now! But enough fo all that! I preferrrr...I dunno, I guess older. Seems more exotic, lol, but I've been attracted to a few younger peepz as well...fresh...  IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 12, 2012 05:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: What is the significance of the mars trine? I have merc conj dsc too. Merc trine Neptune. Merc rules my 8th and 11th.
Here is explanation of Mercury trine or sextile Mars: www.astrology.astrozoom.com/index.php?...MER... In my case Mars is in 10th house and Mercury is still in 6th, but very close to DESC. Explanation for me: I attract younger men (Mercury) from higher position (Mars in 10th). Many people talk about men in uniform, but I don’t know any of them. As my Mercury is in Aries in 6th (health house) means also that Mercury is the ruler of my Mars. Mars in Leo is good solution for my health (hot and dry climate). Here are health and men in some kind of connection, what is very true. Without good health (my big problem), there are no men. I can't suffer anybody beside me, because of my (atypical) neuralgia's pains: in the face, neck muscle and occipital bone, as also atypical and long sinusitis pains. In my case is all "atypical": many chances, but no relationship. Mercury, ruler of my 9th trine Mars, ruler of 7th: I should live in abroad and then my life would be better. I know that, because I have lived in abroad, for almost seven years and there I had good health and also more relationships (serious and less serious). B
------------------ Taurus, Dog , Kankin, Osiris, Inu, Eagle, Horus, Aphrodite, Amun "Imin",12th, Willow "The Observer", Yin, Negative (-),Cow, Proserpine, Beaver, Fixed, Crown, Hagiel, Earth, High Priestess, Simon. (all that belongs to me) IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 12:09 PM
Just curious: does anyone else here who has a Capricorn Mars prefer someone older?As I said, I don't date, but if I did, I would go for older rather than younger. Not too old, but what I felt comfortable with. My Mars is in the 2nd along with Neptune. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2012 12:17 PM
I have consistently been with older women (me 23 my gf 32) up until just recently im craving younger women. I have venus in the 10th opposite Saturn in the 4th.IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2012 03:15 PM
I have mercury as ruler of my 7th house, so younger men flock to me. I am not complaining. :-)IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2012 03:25 PM
"Just curious: does anyone else here who has a Capricorn Mars prefer someone older?"Yep, me  I have Cap Mars, and the ruler of my DC is also in Cap, aaand saturn rules my 5th house, so it's not a surprise that i prefer older man. My bf is 12 years older and its absolutely fine. Although i must add, that i have Mercury in my 7th house and the guys i like always look younger then their actual age. so its great  IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 16, 2012 09:59 AM
I see, what is important to like older men: to have some planet in Capricorn (Moon or Venus), as also Capricorn on the top of 7th.I have only Pholus in Capricorn (4th) in trine with Venus (8th) and Fortuna in 12th. Beside that my Saturn (ruler of Capricorn) makes square to my ASC. Somebody has explained to me about Pholus trine Venus, but I have lost it, ------------------ Do not be born good or handsome, but be born lucky. IP: Logged | |