posted July 18, 2012 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I don't see how that could be peaceful or functional just on face value. Do you like him much? I'm a Leo and can't stand most Aries.

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I feel this way about Aries men. These signs are great signs but I do not feel they are compatible at allll. Aries men need more attention than Leo women do, and can be major Divos. Someone has got to give and take, not easy for these two.

posted July 18, 2012 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello Leoxaries! Welcome to LL

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I don't see how that could be peaceful or functional just on face value. Do you like him much? I'm a Leo and can't stand most Aries.

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posted July 18, 2012 11:29 PM            

Is he not showing it? I did talk to an Aries born around the same time as him, but he is an Aries moon and his sun is at a later degree. I felt like he he needed validation from many women to feel secure, would tell me things that ultimately meant nothing and was insensitive towards my feelings and needs even when I talked about them.

With Moon in Scorpio, he may be guarded about his feelings. Your moon in Libra may process a lot of what is said, but your heart feels a diff way, maybe. His Mars in Cancer may not be aggressive enough in showing you the kind of passion you might seek.

posted July 18, 2012 11:57 PM            

I should add:

posted July 20, 2012 10:05 AM            

But seriously, just looking at your positions;

In compatibility , I look at the 1st house(what you strongly identify with), the 2nd house(what you do to attract someone), the 4th house(your emotional security), 5th house(lover),the 7th (who you are attracted to) and the 8th house(who is attracted to you).

1st house ruler is in 4th

You strongly identify with your home and emotional security is of paramount importance to you. It affects your outlook on life tremendously and colors much in the way you see your world.

With Mercury and Venus conjunct there in the 4th, these planets together emphasize and ease of expression of these emotional needs. Indeed you feel strongly identified with someone whom is able to speak openly and expressively about their emotions. Mars there also makes one passionate about their security needs.

2nd house ruler is in 5th

You attract mates through your fun-loving attitude towards life. Your style of flirting is to engage your partner in fun and games. With moon in the 5th, you most probably attract others through your affectionate/playful and nurturing nature-which can be most attractive. You have a gentle , feminine nature which can draw people to you easily.

4th house ruler is in 4th

Your emotional needs are strongly emphasized by the ruler being in its own house.

You feel safer in a secure, familiar environment. Constant affection, reassurance and emotional connection are of absolute importance. You put a great deal into your feelings and may have distinctly emotional needs that overlap greatly with your security needs.

5th house ruler in 4th

Your lover needs to be someone with whom you have an emotional connection with. You may have a connection that lingers on for a long time, be connected in some way from the past or share similar cultures. Indeed, you lover has to be someone you feel emotionally secure with.

7th house ruler is in 3rd

You feel most supported and understood when you are in agreement with your partner. It is important that you be able to bounce off ideas with the person you are in partnership with and have agreements in the way of mutual ideas.

With Sun and Jupiter there (in 3rd house), it is important that they be confident (SUN) and open-minded (Jupiter). They must expand your capacity (Sun) and enlighten you to broader views (Jupiter). It would help, tremendously, with Sun and Jupiter in 3rd, if they have the gift of gab.lol

8h house ruler in 9th

You attract strongly idealistic/fanatically religious types. There may be a strongly conservative political/religious belief system (Saturn in 9th).

There is also likely to be an adventurous streak that is confined or difficult to express. Responsibilities regarding politics/religion/philosophy o are taken quite seriously. They may have ideas that try and blend existing structures of politics/religion with ideals.

With so much emphasis on 4th and 3rd house, its no wonder that you often look towards emotional connection. Your 3rd house influences make expression also paramount. It is important that whom you are involved with have both emotional depth and intellectual curiosity.

posted July 21, 2012 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Why are you not sure of his love for you?

Is he not showing it? I did talk to an Aries born around the same time as him, but he is an Aries moon and his sun is at a later degree. I felt like he he needed validation from many women to feel secure, would tell me things that ultimately meant nothing and was insensitive towards my feelings and needs even when I talked about them.

With Moon in Scorpio, he may be guarded about his feelings. Your moon in Libra may process a lot of what is said, but your heart feels a diff way, maybe. His Mars in Cancer may not be aggressive enough in showing you the kind of passion you might seek.

Actually on second thought...you have 3 Virgo placements. You might not put a lot of stock into passion, but maybe he makes you feel less secure and throws you off with mood swings?

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