posted August 20, 2012 02:05 PM            

I am talking to my first Aquarius man. I made a post about this before. I can't tell if they are jealous or even notice or not. Or if jealousy is something that comes after a longer bit of time/with more feelings?

He has a regular Monday-Friday job but bartends on the weekends. It's how I met him - after seeing him 4 or 5 times and getting to know him I got a crush. (It's really the only place to go in my town and my friends and I can walk there)

We talk thoughout the day everyday and he messages me every morning et cetera. He's very busy because he has two jobs and may or may not be divorced with KIDS.

OK I am trying to make this short - but the on Friday I went in there with my friends and it was incredibly busy. Like 4 bartenders running around like crazy people busy. So my friends and I sat down at a table a few feet away from the bar. Then some guys came up to us a minute later Aquarius screams across the bar, "HEY SARAH HOW ARE YOU?"

and I was like aw? was he being jealous?

And then last night I went to the city to stay with my best friend and he didn't seem to care at all. and then it wasn't until I said goodnight pretty early because my phone was dying he seemed to question me a little. Like you're going to bed already?

Maybe i'm reading into it - but i wasn't sure if those were signs his was a little jealous or not. unfortunately i can equate jealously with caring

PS he is also an Aqua Venus and Aqua Rising.

posted August 20, 2012 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Do aquarius men get jealous yes. Do I think this Aqua in particular was jealous nah.

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posted August 20, 2012 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by matt:
How do you know he's an Aqua rising?!

Did you just ask him or something?

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posted August 20, 2012 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by matt:
Lol, ok.

I'd love to find out people's rising, but it would be a bit creepy if a guy asked a girl!

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haha if i were you - i'd wait until around your birthday and ask as many people as you could around then. like yeeahh i was born at 3494am.. do you know what time of day you were born? OR wait until someone starts talking to you about their birthday and look for that as an opening.

i am SILLY about asking birthtimes. whenever I meet someone new, I ask them. I have no shame. And for some reason I can get away with it seem charming rather than weird. I'm smooth.. or something. i rack up birthtimes when i go out. instead of phone numbers.

Especially when I am interested in someone I can ultimately ask - "what time of the day were you born? i want to see if we're compatible."

posted August 20, 2012 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by matt:
Lol, ok.

I'd love to find out people's rising, but it would be a bit creepy if a guy asked a girl!

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posted August 20, 2012 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
why? I do it, they don't seem to get freaked out. lol

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aqua you and i are triple fixed though. it might be something with that. I know the description of my leo sun taurus moon combination says "i get things done and usually do it very well"

most people probably wouldn't demand people they meet to text message their mother. it could be a little weird for a guy to ask that and have to explain why he is wondering (if he doesn't lie to his mom) not knowing where things are even going to this girl.

aquaguy - what do you think about the question on hand

posted August 20, 2012 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
why? I do it, they don't seem to get freaked out. lol

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posted August 20, 2012 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
oh no i've known that - it just occured to me to add it. i got all his birth info before i agreed to hang out with him, please. like "text your mom now" haha i do that with all my suitors.

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Omg I've done that b4 too! Haha too funny glad I'm not the only one. I've done it a couple of guys actually. I like to c their chart when I'm interested in them. Regardless if it goes anywhere or now. Ur right, no shame

posted August 20, 2012 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
haha if i were you - i'd wait until around your birthday and ask as many people as you could around then. like yeeahh i was born at 3494am.. do you know what time of day you were born? OR wait until someone starts talking to you about their birthday and look for that as an opening.

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Well that sounds like a plan.

But in Regards to your post, I think you have piqued his curiosity most definitely, and possibly evoked some jealousy. One way or another, you have his attention.

posted August 20, 2012 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
interesting. i in general am very respectful and considerate when it comes to making a guy jealous - seeing as i hate feeling jealous and it would probably get make me leave.

some situations could arouse jealousy - even when it's not needed. so that kind of jealousy i don't mind. but i also want a certain about of trust in those spots because i am respectful. like i made it a point to not engage the guys who came to talk to us or look too interested as to not make aquarius worry it wasn't my friends keeping up the conversation.

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posted August 20, 2012 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
[b]interesting. i in general am very respectful and considerate when it comes to making a guy jealous - seeing as i hate feeling jealous and it would probably get make me leave.

some situations could arouse jealousy - even when it's not needed. so that kind of jealousy i don't mind. but i also want a certain about of trust in those spots because i am respectful. like i made it a point to not engage the guys who came to talk to us or look too interested as to not make aquarius worry it wasn't my friends keeping up the conversation.

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posted August 20, 2012 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by lovehate122:
aquarius placements don't like games we can see right through people and their bull if somebody is trying to make me jealous i jump to all sorts of conclucions "they mustbe insecure,stupid a lowlife loser" and i won't want to be seen with that person .

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I don't like when someone tries to make me jealous and that's why I'm really considerate in aiming not to. Somehow those situations happen though. Whether or not you want them too.

posted August 20, 2012 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
What would an example be of an Aquarius getting jealous from your opinion?

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Most of the Aquas I know only get mad once they become emotionally attached to that person usually this is super close friend phase or boyfriend/girlfriend phase. I have seen surprised outbursts and angry outbursts example.
Aqua sun /Sag moon friend= We're walking on campus about to catch up with our Sag guy friend and go eat dinner. Then this cute guy walks up says hi to her and I ask "Oh who is he?" we're still walking she says "Oh thats my friend Kyle from my Christian group" I say he's cute. Everything gets quiets then "BOOM WHAT?? ASDFGHJKL !!!! " You can't date him. I just said he was cute chill. Awkward tension for about 30 minutes.

Aquarius guy will openly flirt with another girl if the girl he's interested in or at least in him mind is his if he's jealous. Straight from the Aquas mouth I have heard this. If he's jealous he's repress it then it will be followed by a angry reaction in private not in public.

Then again some Aquas don't get jealous some see everyone as a possible friend it doesn't faze them. The bar situation doesn't seem like jealously maybe he was just trying to get your attention if it was busy.

posted August 20, 2012 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Most of the Aquas I know only get mad once they become emotionally attached to that person usually this is super close friend phase or boyfriend/girlfriend phase. I have seen surprised outbursts and angry outbursts example.
Aqua sun /Sag moon friend= We're walking on campus about to catch up with our Sag guy friend and go eat dinner. Then this cute guy walks up says hi to her and I ask "Oh who is he?" we're still walking she says "Oh thats my friend Kyle from my Christian group" I say he's cute. Everything gets quiets then "BOOM WHAT?? ASDFGHJKL !!!! " You can't date him. I just said he was cute chill. Awkward tension for about 30 minutes.

Aquarius guy will openly flirt with another girl if the girl he's interested in or at least in him mind is his if he's jealous. Straight from the Aquas mouth I have heard this. If he's jealous he's repress it then it will be followed by a angry reaction in private not in public.

Then again some Aquas don't get jealous some see everyone as a possible friend it doesn't faze them. The bar situation doesn't seem like jealously maybe he was just trying to get your attention if it was busy.

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Hahaha. One time I got served by another bartender when I was empty and he was busy. When he saw it he went "WHATTT?!" and then shook his fist at the other guy. It was just funny and cute.

I guess I just thought it might have been a little cute way of making sure those guys knew he was my interest by yelling over everyone. Maybe I'm wrong