posted August 23, 2012 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
And as a Capricorn, I'm surprised and flabbergasted that you have such patience. I would have extended 10 seconds to make a final decision, and when the 10 seconds are up, I would have moved on to the next productive matter. This equivocation is wasting time and doesn't make money. Just kidding. . I dropped indecisive girls like flies when I was in my dating years, regardless of how attracted I was to them. Equivocation was construed as non-interest. It was a major turn off. That's the truth. My wife grabbed me by the horns.

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I'm being patient because I am bored, and I want something out of this opportunity. I never said necessarily that I want him. I want what he has to offer, and its not materialistic junk either. If I cannot obtain that out of it, there really is no room for me in that picture anyway.

posted August 23, 2012 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I agree - huge fascination.
ALL Scorpio placements have a fascination for ALL Capricorn placements.

I have Cap Mars - and Scorpio Mars wants me. I also have Cap Moon and Scorpio Mooners are all over me.
& Currently a Scorp Sun is all over me lol

I would say it is very mutual.. but Capricorn is simply *caring* towards Scorpio.. They are not fascinated as such.. but they are affectionate.

They are very similar signs.. both feminine, both ruled by cold/stern planets.. both go through their fair share of problems in life and acquire emotional depth as a result.
They have so much understanding for each other.

Scorpio influenced people can sometimes live a lonely life.. They either choose to hide a side to themselves and remain quite social/pleasant... but always putting on an act. OR - they choose to be 100% real in which case everyone runs for the hills (except for Capricorn).
It definitely feels good from the Scorp's perspective to be able to just BE... and to be accepted as they are and loved for what they are.

It's also a nice change to have someone they can count on - like Capricorn. Usually they don't trust anyone and they feel as though they only have themselves. They are very strong and independent people - so it will seem as though they are 'fine'.. but deep down they DO need someone... They are extra emotional and they need something to hang on to in the midst of their dramas... Capricorn can be that proverbial 'rock' for them.

Capricorn does not give up easily nor do they get scared. They have that 'old soul' Saturnian wisdom about them... so there isn't much Scorpio can do that would shock Cappy. This feels very reassuring to Scorpio. I recently read that Scorpios fear abandonment - I think this SOOO true... but they also actively try to push people away - just to test and see.. who abandons them. Capricorn can read them like a BOOK... and Capricorn will not abandon them. The fact that Cap is still there - right behind them - no matter what - is so deeply touching to a Scorpio - that it could bring them to tears.

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Thank You for this description. This is what I have been looking for. It explains everything as it rightfully is. I wonder how long it takes a Scorpio to realize this and accept the Capricorn without trying to push them away?

posted August 23, 2012 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
In times of stress... Find peace...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSqSyvAZYXY&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Deep breathing will help & the video

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Thank You. I need it. I need to get him out of my ******* head. I wish he would just go away!

posted August 23, 2012 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
The scarier the better. You are probably entranced with me by now. lol

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..am i now?

posted August 23, 2012 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
..am i now?

anyways scorp influence would probably enjoy the effect he is having on you. that is if he knows..

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I'm sure he prolly doesn't know or care either. How can lil ol me be anything on this planet? I haven't been important to anyone yet, I see no room for improvement. lol I'm used to it, they always have something else with better offers. What a ****** up world we live in. I'm kinda crazy angry right now. I realize myself that the whole "delusional" speech is all that I am in, and I ******* HATE IT!!!!!!

Breathing isn't working, all I can think of is mutilation. I'm so warped...............

posted August 23, 2012 01:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
I'm sure he prolly doesn't know or care either. How can lil ol me be anything on this planet? I haven't been important to anyone yet, I see no room for improvement. lol I'm used to it, they always have something else with better offers. What a ****** up world we live in. I'm kinda crazy angry right now. I realize myself that the whole "delusional" speech is all that I am in, and I ******* HATE IT!!!!!!

Breathing isn't working, all I can think of is mutilation. I'm so warped...............

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posted August 23, 2012 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
I doubt anyone here will be happy about your latest news, but i'm sure many saw it coming. I would use this time to reflect, pamper yourself, and grow I'm sure you're a wonderful person, and if you give the time of day to those who are interested in you (like that Sag), you will see the world is a beautiful place You Venus and Rising around his Sun sound heavenly

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That Sag only wants a piece of ass. I tried calling him and he won't talk to me either, prolly cuz he has someone else in the sack atm. Neither one of these bozo's are worth my time. Saggy has nothing to offer me except a track record of criminal activity. All the Scorpion could offer me was a business ordeal. I don't even want it anymore. I wasted my time and money on a stupid piece of **** . I don't know how this even happened. He should have just told me off while I was there, god damn him! More then probable, I am just too good for his sleaze ass and he knows it. But here I am still alone. My Leo ran off with someone, this guy must've just gotten someone, everyone else I know has someone. I'm so beyond ****** off and hurt. Besides the other ordeals in my life, I'd call it quits but God wants me to suffer. F***er!

posted August 23, 2012 03:51 AM            

Just take some time for yourself, okay?

You need to focus on yourself and do something that'll distract you.

Try to calm down and think about it later.

Do something you enjoy doing and "detach".

posted August 23, 2012 05:22 AM            

But again, why would you want someone to be obsessed with you ? that just doesn't seem right or healthy.

posted August 23, 2012 05:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Complaints often heard on this forum: "Why is everyone obsessed with me?" and "Why is everyone so jealous of me?"

A: Because you're so awesome. Now, you can stop fishing for compliments and get back to your awesome life. You have suitors to fend off, no time to waste.

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posted August 24, 2012 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by lovehate122:
ugh i KNOW i've noticed this too . I also have noticed aries and cancers are obsessed with eachother and saggitarius and pisces.

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Those are both fire and water. Interesting. I don't know why fire and water would want the other one, as they don't mesh. I will have to pay attention to this.

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Dude, a fire and water relationship is the steamiest, most passionate thing there is. I've posted quite a few threads about it actually, haha. And others have commented on it too, both fire and water signs themselves. But yeah, just thought you should know ^_^

p.s. doesnt mean it works out that well though. passion doesnt make for rational thinking..

posted August 24, 2012 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

p.s. doesnt mean it works out that well though. passion doesnt make for rational thinking..

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lol it could just be romancy but nothing morey

posted August 24, 2012 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
lol it could just be romancy but nothing morey

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i certainly dont like to think of it that way

I like to think of it as being one of the most real loves there is..

posted August 24, 2012 04:02 AM            

Capricorn walks into the room. Scorpio's eyes automatically find Cap and gaze in amaze. Cap connects this energy from the target and gazes back and mesmerizes the Scorpion. Each other are curious why the other one is curious. The two signs feed off one another and the more fascination that is portrayed the more the soul is engaged into the other. The Scorpion eyes and Capricorn eyes lock into one another as finding themselves in the others soul. It sounds quite like a fairy tale, doesn't it?

This has happened. I don't know if it is the case with all Scorps & Caps, but it sure did happen to me. My energy always radiates off of me and most around feel it, whether or not I return it is the gift. It takes certain ones to acquire my attention. If I find something I like and one who is resonating with me on the same wave, I will return the gesture. It takes ALOT for me to turn my head to anyone at all. Most people are just people to me. I saw something in this Scorpions eyes that I needed to know. I finally figured it out today.

Mr. Scorpio has much of the same energy I have. I had been beating myself up trying to figure out this puzzle, plastering it all over here, asking everyone I know. I could've asked him but it was more fun figuring it out on my own. His energy drew mine in, and to his surprise mine answered. Remind you that many many I do not even respond too. I shut it off before it begins. I let his curiosity grow. I kept feeding him out lines and letting him pull on my chain. He'd take it and run with it. He'd only get so far and I'd stop it and make him come back for more. What I discovered in this mutable energy we had rolling inbetween us is nothing more simple then pure basic Soul Connection. He wears facades and I see right through him. Then he disappears so I can't read no more off of him, so he thinks. My facade is there as well and he can't seem to figure it out at all, so what does he do once again, gets frustrated and leaves AGAIN. lol So many times I just wanted to hate him. Every other night I tell myself this whole scenario is stupid! But I never end up hating him. I just can't do it.

There's no reason for that in life anyway. We only hate or want to hate because we think it makes it easier on ourselves to forget someone or any ties to do with them so we don't have to feel. I am great at blocking out emotions. I'm also the biggest loser at it too. There has been plenty of times I just wanted to hug him and I think I will go get it but as soon as he's in front of me, that notion disappears and I'm all solid and no sign of any emotion at all. I'm very good at hiding myself. I don't even realize I do it at times. He wears the same mask and I see right through it. And we both do the same thing, get so close then turn the other way.

If your Scorpion has been down alot on any thing in life, he is going to be bitter and sour to an extent. He has a hard time trusting as it is. Some girl that comes along he may find that connecting energy too, may just in fact freak him out even more depending on what she is feeding out. I am a very intense person there for I am very well of scaring off my victims. lol None of it is intentional. He may really want to know her but he retreats back into his old habits of what his life is with what he knows because he can control it. The Scorpion cannot control a new circumstance with a new person he doesn't know what to expect from. It doesn't mean he doesn't like her. It just means that he is unaware of his own capabilities and doesn't want that vulnerability to show to the new target. If he appears weak, she can take advantage of him. If he remains strong and proud, it can also push her away. But if she sees through it, like most Caps do, she's also patient and will allow him his room to get adjusted to how he needs to feel around her. If the Scorpion did not like the Capricorn, he would do what is necessary to remove her. Since he is not doing so, there is room for growth. The Scorpion is a hider, but the Cappy sees all that he's trying to hide. She'll catch him on the day that he's ready to come out of his shell and show his true colors. This is what makes this bond work.

The Capricorn is strong and steadfast. She is sure of all that is around her and she's learned every trick of the trade before she enters the arena. A burned Cap is one who is on the low-key, but she still observes her surroundings carefully. A glowing Cap is one who shines radiantly and nothing else will trip her in her path. Naturally she gets attention from just about every zodiac sign there is. She is choosey though and waits out her best options. She usually has no time for rambunctious rams, she finds them too pushy and bossy. She laughs with the Gemini's but finds them to be too fickle for comfort. She can relate with the Cancers on a friendly basis. She loves being showered and adored by the Lion, but she is too reserved to keep up to his demands. Her style of financial keepings only balances with libra's obsessed idea with money and accounting. The Saggy is always a burn in one aspect or another, but she spins sweetly with the fish, and can dance with the bull or the virgo. There isnt much connection with the Aquarius unless they have alot of brainiac ideas to offer. A Cap is sure to be creative and designable in any event. When Scorpio sees Capricorn, he is impressed. She is everything he wants, for it mirrors his soul. He doesn't have to know her, the pull is just there. The Capricorn in return adores the mystery and galore this sign is sending out. He is telling her to take control, something a Scorpio has a hard time doing is letting up control, but for the right Capricorn he will do so, submitting all he's ever known into her charming graces. When he finally understands her and trusts her, then it's all over. The combination is incredible.

I'm not saying this works in every relation. But this is how basic psychology goes. When you are attracted and compelled to another being it is the forces of nature that draw two together. There really isn't any purpose in fighting it. It's doing it's job. When you wonder what the purpose is for why you want to know more about a person that you believe suits you no purpose, think again. There is something there that is telling you to be there. Listen to it and go with it. This part of astrology does work. With the right tools of psychology, it can be something you are glad that has happened. Don't be afraid of being hurt, we all go through that. And our minds are our worst enemies. We imagine the most worst things possible. It may seem someone has no interest or time of day for you although they show it all the time they do! Use basic simple math, if you feel it's there, it is. If it's not working to your likings, there is more then likely a reason. Like I stated, it's either because they don't know what to expect yet, have demons of their own they are wrestling, are afraid of themselves or what they may to do you, or it is something so simple that if you could just smack it out of them, they'd see the light. Unfortunately we can't do that. Then we just have to let people take their time. Nothing happens over night. And if it seems someone else has moved in over night, don't count those chickens to be hatched just like that. There's a reason someone else is filling a void. Think maybe the reason they are using someone else is to temporarily forget their confusion and feelings they have towards you. It doesn't mean they dislike you at all, it probably more than likely means they like you that much more.

There's my astrology and psychology for the night. I'm glad I have inspirational that help inspire me to see the knowledge already set before me. And yes people use reverse methods to protect themselves. We all do. I may not be the best at telling you what the alignment of the planets are doing, but I sure as can tell you what the mind is doing.

Goodnight folks, and good luck to all the Capricorns and Scorpios out there!